| Subject: Thank you Dr. Tracy, you are a true gem in every way! I miss you all and maybe sometime I will be able to visit. Thank you AGAIN |
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Date Posted: 09:56:36 10/15/07 Mon
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Dr. Tracy
's message, "Hi Globette - this is not about love, this about addiction. You must see the difference. Listen to class #5 "The Definition of Co-Dependent:Me" You need to learn to step back far enough from him so that he will get well. I will an exerpt on detachment in another post. Why not come out for a week-end to CA? Seems like some good support will do you well..." on 20:50:52 10/13/07 Sat
>>I am at a very low point in my life right now, and am
>>very tired of fighting for a relationship that
>>continues to produce lies from my husband. Right
>>living and "The courage to say no more" have done alot
>>for me. I feel like I am a stronger person, but why
>>can't I stop the person I love from hurting me with
>>lies and doubt? My heart wants to be so much more
>>dedicated to the purpose WIN has brought into my life,
>>but I am now broken and dont have much more to give at
>>this point.
>>Here's my story, short version. I never paid much
>>attention to our finances because my husband makes
>>enough to support a family of five. My mistake. When I
>>did (after right living) I uncoverd a huge pill
>>addiction. It didnt stop there. After then is where
>>all the lies come in. The financial abuse has been so
>>severe now we have to file bankruptcy. Trying to go
>>with out things, to try and make ends meet, he has
>>not. We went to counseling for a while, but the cost
>>is high when you have no money.
>>Apparently the addiction is kicked, but that wasnt the
>>end of it. A few weeks ago I find out that he owed a
>>"loan shark" a few thousand dollars and that is why
>>the money manipulation has been there since the rest
>>had come out.
>>The problem with this all is, my love hasnt been the
>>issue, I have loved him almost since the first time i
>>met him. Yes there has been contamination to our
>>realtionship for a very long time, we all make
>>mistakes. When do the mistakes and childish lies come
>>to an end.
>>I have tried so hard to make this marriage a unity and
>>I feel like a failure, I've never been a quitter.
>>The last time I was happy was when I was with my globe
>>sisters. My heart is so heavy and my smile is replaced
>>with tears. Please I need some encouragement. Much
>>love.
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