| Subject: Thanks for the questions: #1: The statement ,"There is a right way & a wrong way, people just need to do the right thing". This is very judgmental. What is "right" for each person varies based on their life experience & the tools they have to meet needs. #2: There is a lot of push & pull in your relationship. People are not accepting people for who they really are, then punishment happens when one does not live up to their expectations. #3: Anger issues - Right Living Principle: "I don't have the right to share my bad mood with those around me". Why is your father in law or anyone for that matter, given permission to share his anger? #4: If a relationship can make it... well it is a ripple affect. Change creates change. People will either embrace healing, try to change you back, or reject it completely. You will never know until you try. #5: Your child: Get her in counseling. Alcoholism, co-dependence, broken trust are intense wounds (click here ) |
