| Subject: Hi CM - Two Tools: Education and Anger - yes, healthy anger, (click here) |
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Dr. Tracy Kemble
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Date Posted: 17:43:13 05/22/06 Mon
In reply to:
CM
's message, "Several layers of questions here...more>" on 11:00:36 05/19/06 Fri
Hi CM
Thanks for your email. I typically do not like to answer things regarding children publically, so the first thing I am going to say is get your kid in counseling. Make sure they specialize in abuse recovery.
With that said, let's talk about his 'anger'. Healthy anger is a warning sign that something is wrong, so use your words and ask your child, "Honey, you seem angry, tell me what is wrong." Then allow him to guide you to the area of his life that needs help.
As for the pattern, please understand that abuse is not a demon or a disease. It is a learned behavior and in life we learn to either give it or take it. Children are not stupid. They pick up on things. So get your child some help with someone who can help him discover what feels "wrong" so that he can begin feeling "right" again.
As for your healing, at WIN we say, "How do heal the children?" Our answer is, "We heal the mother." So in other words, for sure get back into counseling. If you cannot find a non-wierd environment, you can heal via our program on line. We are a bit wierd on occassion, but we are fully aware of it (;-) so it takes the creep factor out of it.
Hope this helps.
My Respect
Tracy
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