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Date Posted: 22:51:31 02/16/08 Sat

hello ,
it s me again.
i know , maybe, i ve posted enough, and maybe i should not do this at all , but , i have no one to talk to .
Talking about it at least here helped me to , understand what is happening.
I ve been manipulated here , for really long time, he has just founded me in a very easy situation to ,use against me for his onw ends.
I need help , unfortunatelly i do not know where to find it, .
He is just misusing me to cover up his lies, he is verbally and practically with money , misusing me , and right now , and always he is threating me to kick me out on the street, while he knows that right now i do not know where to go.He does not let me think, for he is threating me all the time, and he claims, that i do something to him that is causing him to be so , but i do not.
He invited me here in the first place, but he has been fooling me all along, pretending, that, he was going to be there for me , and that he cared for me, only that , only the oposite hapens and i had to give up .
All my time has been wasted because of his lies,and his misuse after in order to cover them.
He has just been misusing me to cover up his lies.
I do not want to be with him because he is , immoral , and he prefers, to ,pscychologically abuse me than to admit the truth.
I almost gone crazy because of it, cause i could not figger out what was that i was doing wrong, and why did i have to take this .
i should never trusted him.
He has just turned me into a looser , just exactly what he is, that s what he wanted , to destroy any hope i might had , for in any other case , he woudl suport me pchychologiacaly since i ve been in a foreigne place, .
he would care for i wanted, he would not just turn his back on me, and curse me on top of it.
He just has been humiliating me , and has been loughing at my expence , praising his ego over how much of a fool i have been , and how smart he is , and how easy it is to fool people.
He tells me everyday of how much of a looser i am and how much he is doing, in contrast.
while i have not contracts here, it s not my house officialy , he was not even registering me for months in the last period, so i could not get a job without an oficial address , i was like a homeless.
he had the money he could at least borrow me something so i could go, but , he is not doing that either,
he made fake promises, and then he calls me a fool and stupid , and he treats me disrespectfully because i believed it.
i think he is the one that needs to learn a lesson here ,
for ,he has been making fake promises , and not the other way around.
i do not know , if going to the police can help me right now , for i feel like going there , and tell all about it , and his ilegal past..............

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I am not seeing a question so it is difficult for me to answer. With that said, I want you to remember he may be able to control what happens outside you, but only you can control what happens inside of you. He cannot control your mind (even though I understand it feels like he does, he does not). You must remember this & try to find this power. I do not know where you are, but you need to start connecting with some people around you. You need to get a support system. Also, another good exercise that I like to teach people who are recipients of abuse is this: Take a journal and every time he says something mean (for example, "You are dumb") rather than take it to your heart, put it in the book. At the end of the week, tear the pages out of the book. When he is leaving for work, either walk up to him or put it in his carry case and gently say, "I think you accidently gave me something that is yours" and then hand him back his words. Hope this offers at least one tool of hope. Dr. Tracy Kemble 16:12:11 02/28/08 Thu

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>hello , >it s me again. >i know , maybe, i ve posted enough, and maybe i should >not do this at all , but , i have no one to talk to . >Talking about it at least here helped me to , >understand what is happening. >I ve been manipulated here , for really long time, he >has just founded me in a very easy situation to ,use >against me for his onw ends. >I need help , unfortunatelly i do not know where to >find it, . >He is just misusing me to cover up his lies, he is >verbally and practically with money , misusing me , >and right now , and always he is threating me to kick >me out on the street, while he knows that right now i >do not know where to go.He does not let me think, for >he is threating me all the time, and he claims, that i >do something to him that is causing him to be so , but >i do not. >He invited me here in the first place, but he has been >fooling me all along, pretending, that, he was going >to be there for me , and that he cared for me, only >that , only the oposite hapens and i had to give up . >All my time has been wasted because of his lies,and >his misuse after in order to cover them. >He has just been misusing me to cover up his lies. >I do not want to be with him because he is , immoral , >and he prefers, to ,pscychologically abuse me than to >admit the truth. >I almost gone crazy because of it, cause i could not >figger out what was that i was doing wrong, and why >did i have to take this . >i should never trusted him. >He has just turned me into a looser , just exactly >what he is, that s what he wanted , to destroy any >hope i might had , for in any other case , he woudl >suport me pchychologiacaly since i ve been in a >foreigne place, . >he would care for i wanted, he would not just turn his >back on me, and curse me on top of it. >He just has been humiliating me , and has been >loughing at my expence , praising his ego over how >much of a fool i have been , and how smart he is , and >how easy it is to fool people. >He tells me everyday of how much of a looser i am and >how much he is doing, in contrast. >while i have not contracts here, it s not my house >officialy , he was not even registering me for months >in the last period, so i could not get a job without >an oficial address , i was like a homeless. >he had the money he could at least borrow me something >so i could go, but , he is not doing that either, >he made fake promises, and then he calls me a fool and >stupid , and he treats me disrespectfully because i >believed it. >i think he is the one that needs to learn a lesson >here , > for ,he has been making fake promises , and not the >other way around. >i do not know , if going to the police can help me >right now , for i feel like going there , and tell >all about it , and his ilegal past..............
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