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Subject: Re: Very confused

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Mia
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Date Posted: 02:30:46 04/23/08 Wed
In reply to: Jen 's message, "Very confused" on 07:10:14 02/12/08 Tue

Dear Very Confused,

I have been there, done that. One day it was like a switch that turned on inside my head. I left my ex as soon as I had the opportunity. I altered the checkbook balance for 6 months, so I could get enough money up to leave. I'll just say I'd rather be alone than miserable any day. It was totally worth it. It's 8 years on and I haven't been that unhappy since I left and I've been fighting cancer the last 2 years! If that tells you anything! I've also met a wonderful non-abuser who I am married to now. Leaving is soooo worth it because they don't change, darling. They don't want to change. It's too much of an ego issue. My ex was emotionally, verbally, and sometimes physically abusive. It's ingrained in them. It's time to move on, girlfriend. Please take the opportunity your mom is giving you. It's not going to get any better, only worse as time goes by. Think about your kids before yourself. See if that helps you decide. Hugs and best of luck!

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Re: Very confused Teresa (going through it too) 23:53:45 05/10/08 Sat

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>Dear Very Confused, > >I have been there, done that. One day it was like a >switch that turned on inside my head. I left my ex as >soon as I had the opportunity. I altered the >checkbook balance for 6 months, so I could get enough >money up to leave. I'll just say I'd rather be alone >than miserable any day. It was totally worth it. >It's 8 years on and I haven't been that unhappy since >I left and I've been fighting cancer the last 2 years! > If that tells you anything! I've also met a >wonderful non-abuser who I am married to now. >Leaving is soooo worth it because they don't change, >darling. They don't want to change. It's too much of >an ego issue. My ex was emotionally, verbally, and >sometimes physically abusive. It's ingrained in them. > It's time to move on, girlfriend. Please take the >opportunity your mom is giving you. It's not going to >get any better, only worse as time goes by. Think >about your kids before yourself. See if that helps >you decide. Hugs and best of luck!
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