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>I have been married for 4 years together for 7 years >and I am getting really weary.I married out of my >culture(I am American and my husband is Latino)...I >feel like ever since we have been together that I lost >myself.I gained weight and Im fatigued and I am >stressed and angry.I used to be a very calm person. >I am a stay at home Mom and Im older(in my 40's)My >question is I guess if Im in an emtional abusive >situation. >My husband does not beat me physically...in the start >of our relationship though,he would drive in the car >errratically to scare me and he smacked me a few times. >He has an explosive temper...he doesn't get along with >anyone wherever he works.He has tried to calm his >temper over the years...however,little things set him >off. >Right now I became overdrawn at the bank(rarely >happens)& >he always tells me that everything I do is a mistake >etc... >I feel so depressed because he never gives me any >emotional support.He is very cold and without empathy. >I have three kids & one is from a previous >marriage...many times he verbally abuses my son and I >feel guilty for staying with him.I sometimes want a >way out of this relationship but don't know where to >start.I don't have my own car and Im stuck at home all >the time with the kids. >I feel sorry for my kids because they never have >anything to do in this house.It just gets me so >depressed. >One thing he does is he makes so much out of little >things...things that normal people wouldnt get upset >over...everything is a big deal with him.He also keeps >a tight rein on our money since Im a stay at home >Mom...Im expected to pay all the bills but Im lucky if >he gives me >a little bit out of the paycheck.He seems to always be >complaining about money. >Does any of this sound familiar? >Thanks for listening...
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