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>I am 29 have three children and am expected to deliver >again in 2 weeks.. My husband is quite controlling, >Just to make a long story short, I cant have a job, >friends, support from family, I cant buy anything for >myself, and if anything goes wrong its my fault. I >have been in this relationship for 8- almost 9 years, >and one minute hes fine, nice sweet "caring" then the >next hes a butt. Im so tired of dealing with this, and >i have done alot of reading online. If you were to >look up a narcissist, my husbands picture would be >there. He has every single symptom of a narcissist. He >is allowed to buy himself nice things, and have all >the kool stuff in life, but yet refers to me and his 4 >kids as debt for life... but yet our 3 and 4 th child >were basically forced upon me. I dont know what to do. >I dont want to move to a shelter, go on welfare, etc. >I have no high school diploma (cause he refused to >let me go back and get it), i havent worked for most >of our marriage because he always threatns divorce or >says "do i have to find everything for you".. knowing >i cant work because he refuses to pay for daycare, not >because i wont find a job myself or i want him to do >it for me. i am so tired of seeing everyone elses >normal life and asking myself why mine cant be the >same.. why cant i have friends, and actually go out >with them once in a while. or why cant i have a break >from the kids. or why cant i have a job? if i ask HIM >these things, the typical response is "I want, I want, >I want" >Im not allowed to have anything... please tell me what >my options are. im afraid that if i divorce him, i >wont be able to make it on my own....
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