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Adele Naklie Shamis

McComb, MS: Adele Naklie Shamis, 90, died peacefully, January 31, 2006 at 6:35 PM from a heart condition, at Southwest Regional Medical Center.

Adele was born May 10, 1915, in Douma, Lebanon, the daughter of Marie and Ellis Naklie. She came to America as a child with her mother and brother to join her father in Arkansas and later in Miami, FL. When Adele was twelve years old, her father was killed and it was then that the son of a family friend came to Arkansas to help her mother operate their dry goods store. Five years later, that friend became Adele’s late husband, George J. Shamis. They married in 1932, and honeymooned for two years in California. After her father-in-law’s death in Louisiana, while traveling back home, the young couple discovered the beautiful town of McComb, MS. They opened a ladies dress, apparel and shoe store, named The Hollywood Shop that flourished for over fifty years. After her husband’s death in 1972, she continued to work hand in hand with her son, George Ellis.

Adele believed in living life to the fullest. She had a heart-warming smile for everyone. She was said to have always looked at life with “rose colored glasses” because she only saw the beauty in everyone and in everything. She never complained or held grudges. Her beautiful spirit and positive attitude made her a legend at making people look and feel beautiful. Adele won many awards including “Woman of the Year” and numerous trophies in bridge and other card games. Adele entertained on a grand scale for people from all over the world. She was never afraid to tackle anything in her life. Her way was to forgive and move on. Adele always felt she had God behind her, and also her church, St. Alphonsus Catholic Church in McComb.

She will be deeply missed by her dedicated family and friends that loved and admired her. Adele was preceded in death by her husband George J. Shamis, to whom she was married to for over 40 years, her brother Amele Naklie of McComb in 2003, her grandson, Robert Malham, and, most recently, in December 2005, by her oldest daughter, Sada Marie Malham, of Brinkley, AR.

Survivors include her children George Ellis Shamis of McComb, MS; Carolyn Shamis of Dallas, TX; and Joyce Aboussie and husband, Dr. Mickey Aboussie of Dallas. And, her legacy continues with 20 grandchildren, great grandchildren, and great great grandchildren.

Adele wanted to say “Thank You” to all the people who loved and supported her during her life and her illness. She loved and lived for the special times shared with family and friends. She loved McComb and was very proud to be a part of this beautiful community of McComb.

Visitation is from 6:30 P.M. until 9:00 P.M., Friday, February 3, at St. Alphonsus Catholic Church, with a Rosary Service at 7:00 PM; visitation continues Saturday from 10:00 to 11:00 AM at the church. The Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11:00 AM. Burial will follow in Hollywood Cemetery. Father Bill Henry will officiate. Friends are invited to a Meal of Mercy at Ligouri Hall following the Graveside Service. Pallbearers will be Todd Shadid, Trace Shadid, Arnie Malham, Greg Shamis, Peter Vlerebome and Dr. Billy Haik.


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Subject: Shamis Children


Author:
Katie Broach (George Ellis)
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Date Posted: 18:39:24 10/08/07 Mon

I've only recently lost touch with George Ellis and am anxious and concered to hear from him. He promised melunch in Mobile, and I am headed to the Southland come the morrow morn!
Love and God's best to all,
Katie
850 288 0636

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Subject: Bless You


Author:
Clay Howry
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Date Posted: 10:50:34 11/16/06 Thu

Dear Miss Carolyn,
Am so sorry to read of your Mothers passing. I know she was a very special person to all who knew her! just know i am thinking of you now especially with the Holidays approaching.
Clay (Renees friend)

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Subject: sorry


Author:
Larisa
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Date Posted: 05:36:39 09/09/06 Sat

Caroyln,

I'm extremely sorry to hear about you loss and hope you are coping well. I never got to meet your mom, but I'm sure she was a wonderful person in order to have a wonderful daughter like you. I wish you the best of luck

-Larisa

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Subject: Condolences


Author:
Halaby Family
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Date Posted: 07:03:42 06/17/06 Sat

Carolyn and Family,

We wanted to send our condolences from one Lebanese family to another.

We knew you from Dallas but never had the opportunity to meet your mom. I am sure she was an exceptional woman and is missed by so many.

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Subject: Adele


Author:
Connie Davis
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Date Posted: 12:54:25 06/14/06 Wed

Carolyn,

I am so sorry to hear about your mother's death. I know how close you were to her. No doubt, you feel a tremendous loss. I hope you are doing well.

Connie

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Subject: My Sympathy


Author:
Jeannete E. Consor
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Date Posted: 11:52:44 05/08/06 Mon

Upon reviewing your website, I came across about your mother's demise. I didn't have the privilege of meeting your Mother, Adele, but you must reflect her qualities and values. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sincerely,

Jeannette E. Consor

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Subject: Your mom's passnig


Author:
Cheryl Rhodes
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Date Posted: 21:06:29 04/16/06 Sun

Carolyn,
I was so sorry to hear that your sweet mother had passed. It was always such a pleasure to see her when she visited you at The Plaza. She felt so proud of you and knew she was dearly loved. I hope she will spend some time with my dad up in heaven and brighten his day!
Love,
Cheryl

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Subject: ADELE SHAMIS


Author:
AUDREY CROSSLEY MCCRAY
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Date Posted: 17:32:31 03/19/06 Sun

DEAR CAROLYN MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND THE FAMILY.YOU ALL WILL FOREVER BE IN MY PRAYERS.

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Subject: ADELE


Author:
KATIE BROACH
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Date Posted: 13:39:05 02/06/06 Mon

Your sweet mother wrote me at Camp Kittiwake on the Gulf Coast 60 years ago, when I was just 8 years old. She was such a lovely lady and the grandest cook in McComb City, MS! I know she is off with your dad and Sada Marie on an adventure we can't imagine. She is the last parent from my childhood friends to leave us.

How you'll miss her! Like my daughter says, "You just don't get another mom." I think you'll find grief doesn't get better but it does get easier.

I remember each of you fondly and well from what Warner Alford calls "the Burke Street gang!" May God continue to bless each of you with His grace and love.
Katie Broach

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[> Subject: Re: ADELE


Author:
Joyce Adele Shamis Aboussie
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Date Posted: 10:28:59 03/19/06 Sun

>Your sweet mother wrote me at Camp Kittiwake on the
>Gulf Coast 60 years ago, when I was just 8 years old.
>She was such a lovely lady and the grandest cook in
>McComb City, MS! I know she is off with your dad and
>Sada Marie on an adventure we can't imagine. She is
>the last parent from my childhood friends to leave us.
>
>
>How you'll miss her! Like my daughter says, "You just
>don't get another mom." I think you'll find grief
>doesn't get better but it does get easier.
>
>I remember each of you fondly and well from what
>Warner Alford calls "the Burke Street gang!" May God
>continue to bless each of you with His grace and love.
>Katie Broach
Katie..thank you so much for your sharing those lovely meomories and sending the comforting words to all of us...and thank you also for rekindling the friendship with Goerge Ellis ...he has enjoyed your correspondence and did get to share many of the notes and calls with Moma..she is missed immensely, but the love for her will live forever..thank you for adding to that. Joyce Adele Aboussie

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Subject: Sympathies


Author:
chuck foster
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Date Posted: 10:34:49 03/13/06 Mon

Carolyn............Im sorry to hear of the passing of your Mother.........She looks as if she lived a great Life!!!.....I know she was proud of your accomplishments and You...........Please let me know if I can do anything for you..........Chuck

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Subject: going home


Author:
terri duncan
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Date Posted: 07:20:01 03/13/06 Mon

ms. carolyn I want to first express my sincere simpathy for the loss of your of dearest mother. I also, want you to know that God has again opened HIs doors & arms to another special guest(adele)& I do believe that if she was invited to come back to earth, she would stamp the invitation (return to sender). *smile* hang in there ms.carolyn, & continue to show the inner & outer beauty that your mom always adored about you. Many Blessings to you & your family, you are in my prayers.

prayers indeed,

Terri Duncan

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Subject: Stay Strong


Author:
Edward
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Date Posted: 21:04:44 02/27/06 Mon

Ms. Shamis Im sorry to hear about your loss, but I can tell you that the relationship you have with God is the relationship you have with others, especially your mother, family,and friends which is unconditional love, respect, faith and trusting that everyday is a day to remember how blessed we are to have mothers who love us and daughters who love their mothers...unconditionally. God bless you, your a beautiful woman with many great talents and qualities you probably recieved from your mother. Take care of yourself.

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Subject: There's nothing like the loss of your Mother


Author:
Jo Henrion
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Date Posted: 17:24:28 02/21/06 Tue

Carolyn,

Something made me think of you today. I logged onto your website and immediately learned your sweet Mom had passed away. I lost my Mom five months ago and I'm still just devastated by the loss.

From out of your past, an old friend is thinking of you and praying for your heart to mend.

Jo Henrion (formerly McGee Hadsell McGee Hadsell ... you know the one)

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Subject: Your Sweet Mother


Author:
Sheryl Al-Awadi
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Date Posted: 15:57:05 02/20/06 Mon

Dear Carolyn and Joyce,

I'm so very sorry to know that you are going through this sorrow. With just losing sweet sister Sada, (tell Lisa I think about her often and know the pain)- I know this is devastating to you. I remember when I first met your mom and immediately admired her. She had a strength about her that stood out. Of course, when I first started working for you Carolyn, I only owned blue jeans. Well, she would have none of that and was soon sending me all these beautiful dresses and suits - not to mention the fur coat she sent me but it didn't fit and I forgot to send it back. She never got mad at me. It wasn't until I started going shopping (you know it isn't my favorite thing to do) that I realized the brand names she sent me. She always made me feel special. Even when I hadn't seen her in years - I opened the door and there she was and it was like no time had passed. You are all like family to me. I will keep you in my prayers as I constantly do. She always told me how proud she was of both of you. Her greatest quality was that of forgiving - something I will always hold dear.

Dear God, I pray that you bless this family and keep them strong and uplifted. I pray for peace, love, joy and forgiveness in their homes, and that their needs are met. There is no problem, circumstance or situation greater than You, God.

May God Bless your family and know that your mother is near.

Love to you all, Sheryl.

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Subject: Sorry


Author:
Lynnette Cavazos
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Date Posted: 21:35:51 02/19/06 Sun

Hello Ms. Shamis,
I am sorry to hear about your mom. That must be so difficult to deal with. I do not know you personally, but my ex co worker always had good things to say about you.
He lived in the highrise building where you have your office.
His name is Robin Gibbs .

I will say a special prayer for you to have strength during this difficult time.

Remember : The sun shines after every storm.

Lynnette Cavazos
Texas Apartment Locators

Stay strong and keep smiling like always!

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Subject: dear aunt adele


Author:
linda dalal sawaya
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Date Posted: 14:08:06 02/15/06 Wed

dearest carolyn, joyce, george ellis, and beloved sada marie, and all the grandchildren and great grand children of aunt adele and uncle george,

our families were friends since before i was born. dear aunt adele, and my mother alice the sisters each of them never had. our fathers true old world buddies in the "new world" making way for their beautiful families...all of them from the picturesque village of douma in lebanon. my family ending up in the 1934 hollywood of the hollywood shop, which as the youngest child of 5, i never visited....but it's legend appears to live on.

my heart is heavy with the loss of dear aunt adele, who taught me so much by the way she lived her life. these beautiful qualities that she passed on to her children live in you and through you, and the next generations.

and my mother, alice, now 95, knowing dear aunt adele since she was born in the tiny village of douma, suffers the loss of her dearest friend, and card playing partner!

their lives and friendship a model to us all. in december when i was with mama, and she and aunt adele managed to speak to each other on the phone long distance, both of them hard of hearing at this point, were clearly communicating the essence of it all, when both of them kept repeating "I Love You!" back and forth to each other, with tears of joy.

our hearts join you in sorrow and the joy of being blessed and touched deeply by knowing ya'll!

with lots of love and a loving huge hug,
linda dalal sawaya, portland, oregon

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Subject: Your Inspiration


Author:
Kelly Talbot
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Date Posted: 12:20:25 02/11/06 Sat

Carolyn,
After reading about your mother, I see the same in you. The wonderful qualities that her friends expressed are the same in you. I can now see that she was an inspiration to you and how much you loved and admired her.
You will miss her deeply, but always remember what a blessing she was and how blessed you have been to have her as your mother.
Kelly

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Subject: Your angel mother


Author:
Martha and Harry Kellett
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Date Posted: 07:50:19 02/08/06 Wed

Dear Carolyn,
Harry and I have such warm and loving memories of your mother.
I will always be able to picture her beautiful face and smile as she gracefully took all my money playing poker. We will keep you both in our hearts and prayers.
Love, Martha and Harry

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Subject: Sympathies and Blessings


Author:
Pamela Hayes Busiek
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Date Posted: 19:22:06 02/07/06 Tue

Carolyn,
I was so very sad to hear of this news. Over the course of time our paths have passed several times. I am confident that your Mother's kindness, freshness and zeal for life are qualities she has passed on to you. You may recall our acquaintance from the Warrington. We owned a unit there following completion into the early '80's and Jamie was the first Warrington baby. Now a Jr. at TCU. I also am the sorority sister, SMU class of '78 of Brenda Ellis, McComb, Miss. Her dad had a car dealership in McComb and I believe a relative of yours. Nonetheless, a reminder of how small the world is and thankful for your memory posting of your mother and family. If I can be of any help, available and thankful to do so. Prayerful blessings to you and your family.
Fondly,
Pam Busiek

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Subject: CONDOLENCES


Author:
KEVIN LEADINGHAM
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Date Posted: 15:07:01 02/07/06 Tue

Carolyn:



I just wanted to let you know how sorry I was to hear about your mother passing away. Though I never did have the pleasure of meeting her I know how much she meant to you. I wish you and the rest of your family all the best in what must be a tough time.



Sincerely,



Kevin Leadingham

(of those Sheer Dallas days)

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Subject: Our loss and heaven't gain


Author:
Barbara Herring
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Date Posted: 15:03:45 02/07/06 Tue

Carolyn,
I will never forget driving by the old "Hollywood Shop" one day and spying a beautiful outfit in the window. I went in and your Mom waited on me. I had never been in the shop and she made me feel as though I had been a customer forever. From that day on I was a loyal shopper and she treated me royally each time I went in--stopping whatever she was doing to find just the right things for me. We had a blast at the "new" shop--so many happy memories. I remember meeting you one time and she was so proud that you were visiting. Ms Adele was the epitomy of what a lady should be. I am blessed by having known her. I am sorry that I didn't know about her death until today. God bless you and your family as you go through the times ahead.
Barbara Herring
Meadville, MS

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[> Subject: Re: Our loss and heavens gain


Author:
Barbara Herring
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Date Posted: 15:06:29 02/07/06 Tue

>Carolyn,
>I will never forget driving by the old "Hollywood
>Shop" one day and spying a beautiful outfit in the
>window. I went in and your Mom waited on me. I had
>never been in the shop and she made me feel as though
>I had been a customer forever. From that day on I was
>a loyal shopper and she treated me royally each time I
>went in--stopping whatever she was doing to find just
>the right things for me. We had a blast at the "new"
>shop--so many happy memories. I remember meeting you
>one time and she was so proud that you were visiting.
>Ms Adele was the epitomy of what a lady should be. I
>am blessed by having known her. I am sorry that I
>didn't know about her death until today. God bless you
>and your family as you go through the times ahead.
>Barbara Herring
>Meadville, MS

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Subject: YOUR MOTHER


Author:
CIARA BYRNE
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Date Posted: 15:04:46 02/07/06 Tue

Hello there Carolyln,

I am very sorry to hear that your Mam passed away. Kevin and Fred told me how close you were to her and how much she inspired you in your life so i know that you must be broken hearted. I also know that you were a very good daughter to her - you should take some comfort in that. I wish you the very best and hope to see you in the future.


Warm regards,

ciara byrne

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Subject: Dear Carolyn,


Author:
Marianne Morris
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Date Posted: 12:16:13 02/07/06 Tue

Dear Carolyn,

I was so sorry to hear about the death of your dear mother. I know that you all were very close.

I so enjoyed your article in the DMN about your mother, her values etc. I felt as if I really knew her.

Do take care of yourself Carolyn!!!

Love, Marianne

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Subject: Your Mom


Author:
Dennis Simmons
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Date Posted: 09:19:48 02/07/06 Tue

Carolyn,

I am so sorry to hear of you Mom's passing. I just
want you to know that you will be in my prayers.
I know you will miss her dearly. Please let me know
if there is anything I can do for you.

Your Friend,

Dennis

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Subject: Your precious Mother


Author:
Tina, Pat & Christina Brumfield
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Date Posted: 18:05:03 02/06/06 Mon

Carolyn: We have loved your family for many years, from the time our Mother, Ann Quintana Brumfield, babysat George Ellis and kept books at the store. "Miss" Adele was beautiful inside and out! I recall the first time I met her as an 18-year-old girl heading to college and walking in The Hollywood Shop to see this beautiful lady with jewels and perfect make-up treating me as if I was as important as she! She taught much in her manners to others.
I remember too, calling on she and George Ellis as their representative for advertising, that each week she had the most magnificent bouquet of exotic flowers at her desk sent from you! It was the talk of the town how stunning each arrangement was and for as many years as I called on them (5) that new creation was there to behold each week and you could see how thrilled she was to receive those flowers each week. What a special bond you two must have shared. She wore jewels, but she truly was the jewel of McComb.....I loved her.......

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Subject: CONDOLENCES


Author:
CURLY
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Date Posted: 13:41:26 02/06/06 Mon

Words fail. All I can say is that your Mother was one of the sweetest, kindest, and classiest individuals I had the privilege of knowing. She carried herself on every occasion that I saw her with an "elegance" and "grace" that royalty would envy and give up their kingdoms to possess. God Bless Her.

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Subject: YOUR MOTHER


Author:
JACKSON JONES
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Date Posted: 13:36:07 02/06/06 Mon

was one of Joyce's classmates (1-12) and was a guest in your parent's home many times through college. I just wish to take a moment to offer all of you my condolences and to let you know that you and yours are in my prayers.
Sincerely
Jackson Jones

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Subject: IN MEMORY


Author:
ANNETTE MAXEY
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Date Posted: 13:35:05 02/06/06 Mon

Is there a teenage girl from the sixties who doesn't remember preparing for all her special occassions by going to "The Hollywod Shop" and knowing that George and Adele would help them choose just the "right" item for their special do? Not if you lived in McComb....as I did. Jerry and I offer our sympathy on the death of your Mother. I bet heaven is just a "little bit" fancier.

Sincerely,

Jerry L. Maxey and Annette (ne' Strickland)
Arlington, Texas

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Subject: YOUR MOM


Author:
KAY CLARK
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Date Posted: 13:33:29 02/06/06 Mon

Hello Carolyn. It's been many years and you might not even remember me. I was Kay White from McComb. My mother and I shopped for many years at the Hollywood Shop and I remember your Mother well. I was saddened to read that she had passed away. She was always such a gracious lady who made everyone feel good about themselves and I will always remember her.

I enjoyed reading about you and your accomplishments on your web site. You have done well and I know your Mother was very proud of you.

Sincerely,

Kay (White) Clark

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Subject: MOTHER


Author:
MIKE WARE
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Date Posted: 13:32:22 02/06/06 Mon

Carolyn,

Just to let you know how sorry I was to hear about your mother. She was a great lady and always met you with a smile and sincere words. It was always so much fun to go in the Hollywood Shop on Main Street in McComb.

Judy Holmes Ware
Class of 1960 (wow!)

1106 Cherokee Trail
Martinsville, Virginia

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Subject: HI


Author:
JOHN LINDO
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Date Posted: 13:30:59 02/06/06 Mon

HI CAROLYN,



I AM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOST, MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. PLEASE DON’T HESITATE TO CALL ME IF YOU NEED ANYTHING….

JOHN

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Subject: REMEMBERING MS. ADELE SHAMIS


Author:
JR LAWSON
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Date Posted: 13:27:42 02/06/06 Mon

Many years ago my parents opened a Drive Inn Restaurant in McComb, Mississippi. For the first year of their new business, my mother worked every day and did not need or have a wardrobe to speak of except work clothes. When my mom's mother passed away in Seattle, the news arrived late one night and the flight to Seattle left New Orleans early the next morning. Mom called Ms Shamis at her home and explained the situation. Ms Adele opened the Hollywood shop late that evening and helped my mother select several nice dresses and other items. It was very late when everything was finished but Ms Adele made my mom feel so special and offered such comfort and did not once complain about having her night of rest at home disturbed. I shall always remember that act of kindness. To me, that kind of gesture appears to be a family gene that lives today in her wonderful children. My sympathy is offered to you during your loss. Your mom will be remembered by me and especially by my wife's family, the Kaiglers of Fernwood. May our gracious God comfort you.
James and Judy Lawson,
Houston, Texas

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Subject: You dear Mother


Author:
Brenda Anderson
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Date Posted: 13:16:52 02/06/06 Mon

Carolyn,

I didn't have the privilege of meeting your Mother, Adele. But I feel daughters are often reflections of their Mothers. You are a wonderful caring person and I am certain a reflection of your dear Mother's love. I want you to know that all of our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know this has been a difficult path to walk for you in recent weeks. But remember that there IS a plan and the path, though difficult, WILL lead us to where God wants us to be. I know your Mother must have been as proud of you as you were of her. May you find peace in all the wonderful memories of you Mother.


Your Friend,
Brenda Anderson

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Subject: Beautiful Soul


Author:
Steve and Sherrie Kreger
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Date Posted: 18:54:06 02/03/06 Fri

Adele was always a bright light and a fresh breath for the spirit. She will be missed. She will be remembered. Our thoughts are always with you.

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