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] Date Posted:15:11:24 11/03/08 Mon In reply to:
trill
's message, "Re: My husband is BI??" on 09:23:35 09/19/06 Tue
I too found my husband cheated though he said he had not been unfaithful. We have actually argued maybe twice over it. I cannot bring myself to face it and am paralyzed when I think of trying to move forward. I love my husband but don't know what to do with these emotions. I just really want to be alone. Sort things out in my head. Part of me wonders how long has the list of men been in our marriage. Have I completely screwed up my life. Where do I go..what do I do? When I think about it I can't breathe.I am hollow a functioning shell of who I once was trying to hold it together enough to not let our children or family know what is going on. My husband is a good man. I do love him but where in God's name do I go from here feeling all these emotions and paralyzed by them when I try to deal with them? Once in a while I take a little mental break..go off by myself for a few hours shopping,sitting at a bar (no not in the hopes of picking someone up for revenge), or just driving. I cannot express to another living soul what I am feeling or going through. When I get like this I can't even look at or be around my husband until I've created a little space between us and gone off for a few hours to bring myself back to a functioning wife and mother again. Does it get better???
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Date Posted:14:15:48 01/16/09 Fri
what your going through right now is pretty normal, i yell and agured/ and now wish i could take some of that back/' I knew it was going to hapen one day,but I did have my hopes
it been about six years now and wwe're still freinds
I find it hard sometime cause it seem like none of your freind do under stand. i decided to stay , but he got a job in a another city and it has given us a chance to think thing out
i miss all the thing we did that were not sexually.. we both do. this will be a journey
Re: My husband is BI??