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Date Posted: 01:46:05 08/21/12 Tue
In reply to:
's message, "Diaper Position" on 03:36:45 04/23/11 Sat
We spank our children in the diaper position (at any age & gender). I was often spanked in this position by my parents. We usually spank with a wooden bathbrush.
Our children are permitted to wear underwear that does not cover any of the spanking area. Boxer shorts are not permitted, but the bikini style underwear can be pulled into the 'crack', leaving the cheeks bare. G-string underwear/thongs is obviously suitable for this. Otherwise they are bare from the waist down.
Our children are permitted to wear a sports cup/groin protector/jockstrap, and required to if they are receiving a severe spanking. You can get groin protectors for both girls and boys that attach like a gstring, or that fit inside underwear. We don't use the type that covers part of the bottom.
This means that our children can always cover their genitals if they wish too, and during a severe spanking there is no risk of accidentally hitting your child's genitals.
When being spanked, our children lay on our bed with their bottom sticking over the edge of the corner, head towards the center. This gives us good access from both sides.
Three pillows are placed at the corner, raising their bottom high in the air.
Their legs are raise back, so their knees are out wide, either side of their shoulders; but their ankles interlock together just over their head. Their arms go through the gap between their legs, wrap around their ankles and their fingers interlock above their head.
Sorry for going into so much detail, but this is the important difference between this position and other diaper position. In this position, the child's arms and legs are fixed and can move. Even in great pain, most children are able to hold the position. If needed, a single hand holding the child's interlocked hands is easily able to hold all four limbs of even largest struggling child.
It has the other advantages of the diaper position:
1) You can maintain eye contact, observe their face and tears, and can more easy talk to your child.
2) The skin is stretched and hurts more when spanked.
3) The diaper position give the best possible access to the bottom and thighs. You can also spank from several different angles.
Some people like the diaper position to humiliate their children. I don't use it for this reason. I strongly disprove of humiliating children. There is a shame is doing the wrong thing, getting caught or confessing and being spanked for it. This shame is to be expected, and shouldn't be avoided. However I never do anything with the purpose of shaming my children. Many things may shame as an unintended byproduct. But don't uses shame as a means of punishment or discipline.
I am aware that some parents deliberately spank their child's genitals. I very strong disapprove of this practice. Even if you have no sexual motivations (and I am sure that some of these parents do), you are likely to provide a physical sexual stimulus to your children - during a spanking! I think that any sexual connotations of spanking for your children is most unhelpful and should be avoided.
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