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Subject: Re: Spanking bare bottom - way more effecive?

Lewy & Leslie (Paddled with lots of love!!!!)
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Date Posted: 04:52:16 09/27/12 Thu
In reply to: Spanking Mom 's message, "Spanking bare bottom - way more effecive?" on 16:06:17 09/22/12 Sat


We are never abused, never have & never will be either!! Both parents give us paddlings on all safe areas of our bottoms & upper thighs (just below our Owie Sit Spot). Both parents make sure they never give us our paddlings in anger, give us too many swats & make sure to swat only in all very safe areas! Times we are very naughty & need at least one paddling & sometimes Reminder Swats for continued naughty behavior, before we get our very last warning of getting a normal painful paddling or second normal & extra painful paddling is given sometimes, if already gotten a paddling already!! We push our limits often & choose to be naughty at times & need extra extra pain before we learn to behave at times!!

We used get our discipline with either non-spankings, which oth us kids & parents hated & didn't like. Like, we would have so many days or weeks of restrictions, or same thing w/ days/weeks w/ having to go to bed earlier than our normal bedtime on any night, or days/weeks w/ nothing fun is allowed for us to do & have added chores too than normal. Etc....

If we are really naughty, choosing to be naughty after our parents have talked to us about our behavior & why its wrong & why we need to behave & after we still choose to be naughty after 1-3 Warnings of our spanking & we still choose to be naughty, we are given spankings, now called paddlings. We used to make our spankings a game, as we got a bit older, yet we are still young & parents told us that spankings are not a game, but to teach us many important things in life! Parents very slowly came up with ways making our spankings so we would learn from them & not for them to be a game. As they very slowly made our spankings more strict & firm, we still made them a game. Slowly, parents finally got the best way to give us a spanking we no longer make a game of it & we learn from them.

Now, us kids & our parents agree, when we choose to be naughty, after parents tell us what we are doing wrong & why & how we need to change our behavior & behave, after given always our 1-3 Warnings & always told when we have used our last Warning to behave, or we will be given a paddling on our bare bottom & upper thighs (just below our Owie Sit Spot) with one of our Lexan paddles parents get off computer internet. Two paddles we named: Mrs. Red (no holes) & Mr. Red (with holes & only used when we choose to be extra extra naughty).

We tell our parents our paddlings hurt no matter if mom or dad gives us our needed & deserved paddlings, both make each & every swat hurt & we cry real tears of pain from the very first swat to very last swat & both parents make each paddling equally sore! Parents ask us if we understand why our paddlings are so painful & we always tell them we need & deserve each swat & paddling, for choosing to be naughty, even after they explain our naughty behavior & why & what we need to do to behave & after we still choose to be naughty after we get 1-3 Warnings & used our last warning & we still choose to still be naughty. Parents ask us do you hate us for giving us kids these painful paddlings? We tell them NO CAUSE WE KNOW WE ARE GIVEN PAINFUL PADDLINGS WITH LOVE & NOT ANGER N NEVER ABUSED N JUST BEING TAUGHT OUR CONSEQUENCES FOR OUR BEHAVIOR & CHOOSING TO CONTINUE TO BE NAUGHTY!! WE AGREE WITH OUR PARENTS WE NEED & DESERVE EACH & EVERY SWAT & PADDLING WE GET FOR CHOOSING TO BE NAUGHTY!! WE ALSO AFTER WE ARE STILL CHOOSING TO BE NAUGHTY WE NEED EXTRA PAINFUL SWATS N PADDLINGS THE MORE NAUGHTY WE ARE!! Extra PAINFUL PADDLINGS WHEN WE ARE STILL NAUGHTY TOO EVEN AFTER WE GET A NEEDED & deserved paddling ALREADY! WE ARE VERY LOVED!

Parents ask us kids, when you kids are choosing to be naughty, tell us what consequences you kids want. Like, our non-spankings now paddling discipline or our paddlings. We tell them once it's paddling time, we are mad at ourselves for being aughts & in need of a painful paddling for consequences, BUT WE ONLY WANT TO GET OUR PADDLINGS FROM NOW ON & NOT GO BACK TO OUR NON PADDLING WAYS AGAIN!!

Parents & us kids always hug & love each other & we always say I LOVE YOU TO OUR PARENTS & us kids to each other (we are very close to our parents & us kids as brother& sister) & show our love for each other daily!!

Before & After each & every paddling we get, our parents make sure we know & understand why we are or have gotten our needed & deserved paddling/s & they make sure we know we are very loved & cared for & special to them always, but a parents job is to teach us all important things in life, so we will be good people & parents like ours are to us. We always hug & say I Love You to mom & dad & parents tell us we love you both very much before & after each & every paddling! Parents make sure we know parents love us, but not our naughty behavior & naughty behavior has consequences! More naughty we are before during & after paddling time, more painful paddlings we get with extra number of swats & a tiny bit firmer swats too sometimes when we are extra extra naughty!

ALL paddlings are given on all safe areas on our bare or sometimes clothed bottoms, Sit Spot & upper thighs just below our Owie Sit Spot. Last half of every paddling, if not every swat, is given on our Sit Spot only. Sit Spot only paddlings are given when we choose to be extra extra naughty!!

Sometimes, when we are being naughty & really need a paddling, but we are not home & have limited privacy to give us our normal needed & deserved paddling, parents only if we have enough privacy, either give us a firm spanking with their hand or paddle with all our clothes on or sometimes they if enough privacy, give us a spanking with hand/paddle on our underwear.

Hand spankings don't hurt for very long, especially if we have any clothes on! Hand spankings hurt on bare bottom way more than on our underwear or any other clothes on. Paddlings hurt with clothes on, way more than just the hand, but paddlings hurt a lot more when we are butt naked!! Parents are careful not to give us too many swats clothed or butt naked, but especially with clothes on because they can't see how red our bottoms are & they don't want to swat too hard & give too many!! Parents give enough swats to make our bottoms hurt, but never abused!!

Times when we need a spanking or paddling & we didn't get our normal bare skin paddling, when we get home, our parents give us our needed & deserved paddling for choosing to continue to be naughty away from home & so naughty we needed a spanking or paddling while being away from home!! Sometimes, these paddlings are extra extra painful too!!

Once we know we are in need of our bare bottom paddling, our bottoms begin to hurt! We cry as our parents tell us okay, now we deserve & need a paddling. Once our parents tell us its time for our paddling, Parents undress us & we cry most times. Parents take our underwear off & we cry more each time. As we lay on our parents lap or on our bed on our paddling pillows & wait for parents to start paddling our bare bottoms, Sit Spot & upper thighs under our Sit Spot we cry. Parents wait for us to stop crying for a moment & ask us if we are ready for our paddling to begin. Parents wait until we say yes normally, before they start paddling us. Paddling begins & we really cry cause our bottoms feel like they are on FIRE!! Each & every swat during each & every paddling, especially on our bare bottoms & thighs, we cry & say Owie & sometimes we just cry!!

Paddlings or spankings on our clothes hurt, but on our bare bottoms & thighs, are very extra painful & we really cry real tears of pain, cause bare bottom & thigh paddlings makes you feel like we are on FIRE!!

Parents spankings or paddlings on clothed bottom hurts less & shorter time to wait before the pain goes away! Mrs. Red paddle makes our bottom hurt more than just parents hand. Mr. Red paddle will really make us feel pain & throbbing through our clothes & undies!

Parents paddlings on bare skin hurts A LOT MORE & TAKES A LOT LONGER BEFORE THE PAIN GOES AWAY!!!! Especially now they use our more painful Mrs. And or Mr. Red paddles!!

We behave better & longer after our normal Bare Paddlings & makes us think twice some times & choose to behave!! Longer our pain lasts reminds us to behave & not want another bare bottom paddling too soon!!

After a paddling on only clothed or underwear bottom only, we tend to choose to be naughty sooner, cause our pain went way sooner!

No matter what kind of spanking or paddling we get, parents tell use better choose to behave, unless we want another spanking or paddling!

If we are having a bad day & choosing to still be naughty & push our parents buttons again, parents remind us to behave unless we want another spanking/paddling again. On second warning, parents tell us to come over to them please. Parents undress us again & take our undies off. Parents tell us to go get Mr. Red paddle. We go get him & cry as we hand him to our mom or dad. Parentsvtell us, you two have already gotten a spanking/paddling & still choosing to be naughty & tells us why & what we need to do to behave. Parents then tell us to lay on our lap, Mr. Red paddle will give us 2-4 swats & remind us to behave & this is our very last warning to behave or we will get our normal paddling if we continue to be naughty. Parents give us our 2-4 swats with Mr. Red. Parents put our underwear & clothes back on & tell us we better behave, next time get real normal paddling. Sometimes this works & we behave for awhile. If not, we get our deserved paddling. We tell our parents, but we just got a spanking or paddling a little while ago, parents ask us, but after you have been warned by talking to you kids, & even gotten your Reminder Swats to behave & last warning, you kids are still being naughty. Parents undress us & take our undies down/off & we get our needed & deserved paddling. After this last paddling, we are very good for rest of day or night!!

When we are very extra naughty & rude or disrespectful or hurtful or intentionally do something naughty, hurtful or rude, like smart mouth or ever cuss our parents or between us kids or have a sibling fight, or naughty at school or care of others, we automatically get a Sit Spot Paddling with Mr. Red!! Our paddling we really feel like we are on fire & pain lasts way longer!!

Oops! We gotta get off computer or we will get cherry red bottoms!! Owie! Owie!!

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Bob to Spanking Mom
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Date Posted: 05:41:03 09/27/12 Thu

I have a few comments regarding your 9/22 post regarding the lying about the number of sweets your six yea-old pinched, and I also have a question, if I may.

My first comment addresses the time between the offending behavior and the second spanking. It's not clear when you offered the sweets to your son, but the lying was about a half-hour after that. (twenty minutes were spent on the phone, and maybe ten minutes were spent querying him about the number of sweets taken, for a total of thirty minutes.) I assume that you offered the sweets in the PM hours, perhaps after lunch. Assuming a bed-time of seven and a half hours, that might mean a six-hour plus lapse between the lying and the spanking. If you are spanking your son to extinguish the lying behavior, I might want to suggest that for a six year-old child, this is an eternity! And, numerous studies have shown that spanking is most effective when as closely linked to the offending behavior, particularly for a young child! Please bear this in mind in future for your son's benefit. Perhaps you could have administered half your spanking with his underpants on, and then slipped them down, and administered the rest of the spanking. (While of course telling him what was being spanked for each time.)

Secondly, you addressed "how mad you were that he had lied to you. Having fathered a few six year-older boys, I can assure you that this was not the first, and it won't be the last time that he will lie to you!

My third comment regards the effectiveness of the bare bottom spanking. On this particular day, you had administered a spanking earlier in the day, and then, administered the bare bottom spanking at bedtime, "hours later." You state that "his bottom wasn't at all red when I started, but it seemed to have a much greater effect. The slaps sounded crisper, he started trying to reach back sooner and by the end he was wiggling, kicking and crying more than usual." I can assure you that although his butt was not red, the nerves under the skin were still in an irritated state, and as such, it would not take much additional irritation to achieve a full-out response such as you observed with his behavior during the spanking. To be sure, smacks on bare skin will certainly produce a crisper sound, and the psychological effect itself is impressive.

So, my question to you now is, are you so impressed that you will ONLY smack a bare bottom in future?

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