Mark Athlete to Intrigued Dad
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Date Posted: 06:11:23 10/01/12 Mon
Hello Intrigued Dad,
Sir, thank you for answering my questions. I just wanted to compare to see how you spank to compare to how other dad's spank as well, including my dad spanking me when it has to be done.
It sounds like you and your son have a great father/son relationship, like my dad and I have, when a spanking has to be and how cooperation makes the event go smoother.
That's good the dozen of spanks your son gets is not per cheek, but a total to his butt. I didn't know as some parents posting here give a dozen per cheek and that really warms up a butt good for heat and soreness, and it brings up about how cooperations should go and try to have less kicking and squriming to get the spanking over with sooner!
Glad your son cooperates and doesn't kick and squirm alot. I try to do the same myself to get the spanking over with sooner, but sometimes the spanks from the paddle I get really can build up the heat from layer to layer, and it's a natural reaction to kick and squirm. At least I do lots better and hardly ever try to reach back with my hand or block spanking swats. Has your son learned to do this, too?
You tell your son if he's going to get a longer spanking then if he was going to get a dozen? Does he doo good and not protest and not want to say, "please dad, can I get less swats. I won't do it again, please don't spank me longer?" I've done that before, especially when I was your son's age or younger and it didn't do me any good. I still got a spanked, sore butt!
That's cool that you do all the spanking, and he doesn't have to worry about embarrassment if his Mom spanked him. I would like to think all families could do this for sons and daughters when they get older, more mature and the need to have not the opposite sex parent spank them to save them some modesty but, if you read some threads some times in this forum you can see there is disagreement to doing this.
My Mom stopped spanking me at age l0, and let me dad do all of the spanking, and I'm thankful she did this for me out of love. Sometimes I read in the forum both parents say they are both spanking out of love and if a son or daugther try to protest about this issue then they are being told they are being disrespectful, when all they are trying to do is wanting to cooperate for spanking IF they can be spanked by the same sex parent of same sex they are!
Sometimes too, I'm reading some parents are forcing the son or daughter to be bare butt and put into a spanking position that could be embarrassing for them, but the parents don't think so. Glad you, your wifee and son have a good relationship and understanding when it comes to your son being spanked!
That's cool your son's school doesn't spank. If they did allow spanking, would you sign papers to permit it? Would you spank him again at home as a rule if he gets a spanking at school? We have the rule at my house and it keeps me on my toes to being really good behaved at school but, sometimes I slip, and then dad and I have to have a "talk" when he gets home.
You spank your son at home for occasional school things happening? Like for what things? Besides going with a bare butt for your son, you still go with a dozen spanks or does a school misbehaving earn him more then a dozen spanks?
Thanks for allowing me to compare again, and hope I wasn't a bother asking questions?
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