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Date Posted: 10:08:26 05/10/09 Sun
Author: sameera (sad)
Subject: relationship

hi there,,i am 25/f.a dentist by profession.i was in a relationship since past 10 years,but eventually it went on and off very frequently n we broke up. now i am engaged and he too has a girlfriend..but we always remained in touch and always needed eachothers help and consult in every thing we did.i stay in india and he stays abroad,but wenever we talk it shows both of us how desperate we are for each other, both of us really want to get back but i cant break the engagement as i cant compromise with my families respect,nor can he dump his existing girlfriend now, all this is leading me into a very different state of mind,i cant think anything other than him..whatever i do i have him on my mind,it started affecting my health too very badly..i feel so messed up and so stuck,i dont understan,i feel helpless,i start imagining him and talkin to him when im alone..i feel he is with me..i know its not normal, but i dont know how to help it..i keep listening to songs which we kept dedicating all these years,i feel i can never forget him,n we feel even after getting married we wud always keep in touch,this again worries me about my married life.i dont understand what to do..i would loose myself if i get married to this other guy whom im engaged to,i cant take the thought of him gettin married to someone esle..all these thoughts jus keep making me more and more crazy,,i want my normal self back,,i dont know how,but i desparately want to be normal.i cant forget him nor cani stop talkin to him,i had tried it so many times but all in vain..i dont understand what to do..if this condition continues im sure very soon ill go mad.... please help...

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