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Date Posted: 09:22:53 06/30/16 Thu
Author: x
Subject: I actually think ignoring him is a rather unkind way to handle this. More-
In reply to: mom 's message, "How to reject someone" on 07:43:20 06/26/16 Sun

The young man has done nothing wrong except express his feelings toward her. Even if it's uncomfortable, he deserves a real response. I agree that she should say she's flattered, but she is only interested in a friendship.

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  • What's most disturbing about this is that that HE is not reading the cues. more>> -- ., 11:30:38 06/30/16 Thu
  • She isn't giving any cues, imo. If she hasn't told him she wants to be friends, what is he to think? How is he to know his romantic attentions unwelcome if she doesn't speak up? (NT) -- agree with your book choices, tho, 08:45:29 07/01/16 Fri
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