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Subject: I Turned Out Fine (Please Post)


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Coco
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Date Posted: 19:53:50 06/23/09 Tue

I'm a well adjusted 23 year old girl living with my boyfriend, happily, and working and supporting myself and all that good stuff. Basically, I'm well rounded and together. However, I was never spanked. The thought of it makes me feel uncomfortable and a little ill in the tummy.
Why do you think that its possible for me to grow up happy, healthy and smart without being spanked? And why can't you raise your own kids without getting physically violent?
In this world, isn't it more and more obvious that violence in any form solves nothing, including a child's behaviour?
I'm not here to put down anyones values or life choices... I'm just purely curious. How does spanking differ?
Also, in a modern world where fetish and BDSM are becoming more mainstream, how will spanking devotees be able to argue that their methods of disciplining their children are ethical?
I have 6 nieces and nephews who are the most well spoken, gorgeously behaved and polite kids I've ever known and all my sisters and brothers are strictly against spanking as well.
Please discuss. This is, after all, a discussion forum.
Thank you very much! Have a wonderful day!

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Re: I Turned Out Fine (Please Post)Jonathon07:37:21 06/27/09 Sat
Re: I Turned Out Fine (Please Post)Keisha17:57:54 06/27/09 Sat
Re: I Turned Out Fine (Please Post)Many Moons15:23:35 06/28/09 Sun
Re: I Turned Out Fine (Please Post)joe12:28:23 06/30/09 Tue
Re: I Turned Out Fine (Please Post)Keisha09:09:15 07/09/09 Thu
Re: I Turned Out Fine (Please Post)Donna07:19:55 10/20/09 Tue
Re: I Turned Out Fine (Please Post)Kelly01:26:27 03/29/10 Mon


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