| Subject: Fra interviews Miss Pageant Central 2009, Lily Wu |
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Date Posted: 21:04:42 02/07/10 Sun

Alright, Lily! First of all, thanks for taking the time to sit down for this interview with Pageant Central. Our posters will be beyond thrilled. Hope you're keeping yourself hydrated, because I have a truckload of questions!
OK. Let's travel back in time. Were you always interested in pageants? When did you finally decide you wanted to compete, and why?
I was born and raised in Guatemala, so it was the Latin culture I grew up around that got me interested in pageants. I remember watching Miss Universe while my brother played with his Legos next to me. He built a crown and scepter for me as I was crowned Miss Universe in the living room…tears and all! So, when I was a teenager, I started looking into fulfilling my dream.
What made you choose the USA format over the America one?
Being Miss Universe has always been my dream and the USA system is the only way to get there!
Were your parents supportive from the get-go? How did your relatives react to having a beauty queen in the family?
It took many years of convincing my parents that pageants were in fact an empowering and motivating hobby. My relatives in China have always loved receiving the photos of my pageant experiences.
Tell us about the very first pageant you entered. Were you as prepared as you wanted/needed to be? Was it fun, and how did you do?
The first pageant I ever entered...I went around to local businesses on my bike to ask for sponsorship. After I got the full amount, I told my parents of my intent to compete and that I had raised all the money but needed them to drive me to Kansas City for it. It was the Miss Kansas American Coed Junior Teen pageant (where I met Trinity Wright, my future Miss KS USA roommate, and Carissa Kelly, first-runner up at KS USA 2010). I was ill prepared and didn't know what I had gotten myself into...all the girls competing looked like mini-brides and Barbie dolls in their white ball gowns. I wore a very inexpensive Chinese dress and wore blue eye shadow (let's just leave it at that). I was 4th runner-up in a group of almost 60 girls who had previously competed so I felt pretty good about my first pageant!
How long did it take you to finally win a title? How did you react?
Oh my...it was my fifth pageant before I won a title. My first competition was when I was 14; I didn't win until I was 18. I competed twice at American Coed Junior Teen and twice at Miss KS Teen USA and then finally I competed at the inaugural Miss Kansas Teen International pageant. I felt so excited and felt appreciated by the judges who saw that I would be an exemplary representative of my home state with my platform of embracing diversity. I went on to the Miss Teen International pageant where I placed in the Top 10!!! It was a very competitive pageant…the winner had competed since she was a baby and several of the contestants went on to win USA and MAO titles (Leigh-Taylor Smith Top 5 at Miss America and Jennifer Sherrill Miss AR USA).
Competing in pageants takes a level of commitment and dedication that most people are not aware of. How did you reconcile that sort of effort with your everyday life? Was it hard?
Anyone that knows me will use words like "committed", "dedicated" and "hard working" to describe me, so pageants didn't reflect something different about the way I lived my life.
Skipping through the annals of pageantry, is there a former titleholder you particularly admire and find inspiring and if so, did she perhaps influence the way you prepared to compete?
Brook Lee! Since I was little, I have always dreamt of gracing the Miss Universe stage. When I immigrated to the US, I felt that dream could be a reality since I saw a woman who looked like me going on to win Miss Universe. Brook definitely influenced the way I competed because I portrayed the same poise she had in balancing Asian (humility, grace) and American (hard work, perseverance) values.
Do you think that your career prospects would be affected if affirmative action were dismantled? Just kidding! One thing that struck all of us throughout your reign is how eloquent, natural and unaffected you are. Is "pageant pattiness" just a myth? Ever bumped into any pageant patties while competing? If you want to name names, who am I to stop you?
I think it comes with age and experience…after all I'm an oldie when it comes to pageants, though I still don't fit the pageant patty mold! Pageant pattiness is not a myth. I have definitely seen my fair share of fakeness and ingenuity while competing (no names :-p) but I'll say that I've also seen some pageant patties be some of the most focused and competitive women I know. To me, there's nothing wrong with that especially if a woman is so determined to want something like the title. I just get disheartened when I see women who don't take earning a title as nothing more than just a pretty crown and sash.
Beauty queens are often called upon to defend beauty pageants against accusations of sexism and shallowness. What do you have to say about that? How has pageantry enriched your life and your individuality?
I've won a handful of leadership and scholarship awards and I give part of the credit to my experience with pageants. Being judged in a swimsuit isn't easy and coming back year after year for the same pageant isn't easy. I've gained confidence and learned about success and failure through pageantry.
Obviously, your experience with online forums and message boards has been largely positive. But as a rule of thumb, would you recommend that other contestants peruse them while competing?
If you remember, about two weeks before the pageant, I posted a message about my leave of absence from the board. Although I knew I had the PC support, I know that we sometimes get non-PC regulars who just make it their M.O. to bash contestants. I took the advice from friends to leave the board to stay focused. I don't think there's anything wrong with perusing boards leading up to the competition, after all, boards were created for those of us who love the world of pageantry.
Alright. This past year has obviously been incredibly eventful for you. Were you aware of the existence of the Miss Pageant Central contest? Did you decide you wanted to give it a try, or did someone sign you up behind your back?
I knew of this and several other boards but I never posted. When I saw the MPC contest, I saw an opportunity to finally not have to cut corners and truly be prepared for a pageant. Before MPC, I'd competed in the USA system but never fully prepared. This year was different. When I casually brought the contest up to my high school teacher and president of our Rotary district, they both were eager to write nominations. And then, my brother and mom wrote nominations. And to let you all know how dedicated of a person I am, I also wrote a self-nomination.
Your mother's essay was really heartfelt and very powerful in its simplicity. I was one of the judges and one year later, I will confess it was my #1 selection. Clearly, the other judges agreed. What was your reaction when you first read it?
My mom speaks Spanchinglish...yes, it's my own made up word (Spanish, Chinese, and English), so she wrote it in Chinese and then asked me to translate it. When she first read it to me in Chinese, I was bawling my eyes out. My mom is truly my best friend and biggest supporter. I love her so much!
So the votes are counted and Lily Wu comes out on top. How did you learn you had won? What went through your head?
You see, my parents and I went to China for Chinese New Year last year, right before the end of the MPC contest. While in China, since many sites are blocked, I couldn't see the feedback from the nominations. By the time we came back from vacation, the top 5 were announced and I was so happy to be in the running. I woke up early on Valentine’s Day and logged on to find out I had won! I was so excited and so ready to begin my training for Miss Kansas USA.
You made a number of appearances as Miss Pageant Central. How were you received? How did you explain the title to those who asked?
I did have several appearances throughout the year and people always asked about the title. I was happy to share with them that our board was like a family that loved anything and everything about pageants. I also let them know that MPC was created to give a young lady who had never won their MAO or USA title a fair chance at competing at their state competition with the tools she would need.

Tell us about some of the more entertaining moments and events of your reign as Miss Pageant Central. Did you bring maps to the children in Iraq and South Africa and such as?
My two favorite events as MPC would have to be 1) Being interviewed by pageant interview coach/podcast commentator, Valerie Hayes, at "Fashion Rocks" during the Miss USA pageant. And, I was so happy to finally meet face-to-face some of the PCers! 2) Having tapas in DC with my friends G, Marylander, and Miss Merlin!!! Unfortunately, no maps were distributed and no trips to places such as the Africa were visited during my reign :)
How helpful was the title and the prize package in preparing for your state pageant?
The prizes were so helpful in giving me the tools to compete at Miss KS USA. One of the things I've struggled with during USA state competitions is that my critics have called me "too thin". Well, I'm a naturally thin woman (just see my mom and dad and you'll understand) that eats a lot (ask G, Marylander, and Miss Merlin). Justin of Built2Win was the best trainer during the process because he understood my struggle of having a hard time putting on weight and muscle. Not only did he give me a work out plan but more importantly, he talked to me on the phone encouraging me the entire way. Every sponsor had direct contact with me (via email or text messages) throughout my preparation and I’m so thankful for all they gave!
Did the title come with an added sense of responsibility and pressure and if so, how did you handle that? Obviously, you must know that Pageant Central is beyond proud about the way you competed and represented us. It goes without saying that the crown couldn't have gone to a more deserving girl.
I've told this a million times to people but I carry my life as if I was Miss Kansas (don't mind the system), which means I take everything I do very seriously and with a lot of respect for it. Being Miss PC was no different than how I carried myself before being named that. I did put an extra ounce of pressure on myself because I felt I was competing "for" PC. I wanted each sponsor, each PCer to be proud of their Miss PC.
Did you learn something new about yourself since winning the title?
I learned that I am pretty athletic! Thanks Justin! :) You've gotta see my six-pack!
How was the Kansas USA experience? Did you have fun?
I truly felt the most prepared I've ever been since I started competing ten years ago. I had the top notch wardrobe, I spent countless hours at the gym even when I had a cold and on holiday, I took pride in how I felt and looked, and I honestly gave my 100% in preparation/competition. And I certainly did have fun!
Any backstage dirt you want to share? Was everybody nice? I promise I won't tell a soul.
No backstage dirt PC :)
Your swimsuit presentation was smoldering hot. What was your routine for getting in that sort of shape?
I went to the gym every other day since July; and then every day since October. I alternated between upper and lower body days with abs every single day! I didn't have to change my eating routing (sorry, Justin) but did take extra amounts of protein to build muscle (110 grams of protein daily...yea!! Drinking the protein shakes to get that!)
And your gown! That gown was stunning and you looked incredible. Tell us about the decision-making process that went on in the choice of your gown. We all know that the wrong gown can do even the most beautiful girl in.
I wanted to communicate the words "elegant," "regal," and "classy" in my evening gown presentation. I had been eyeing that Tony Bowls Collection gown since the day I was named Miss PC, then, I got to try it on in Kansas City at this boutique called Natalie M. I instantly fell in love! I like one shoulder looks and wanted to glide on stage with a big train, which is exactly what the dress did! Laine at The Royal We was gracious in helping me get this gown that I paid out of pocket but saw as an investment in my performance.
All your hard work obviously paid off. So you're standing on stage among the Top 5 moments before the final results are announced. What's going through your head? Did you think you had it? People following the live updates on the PC chat were losing their minds. One can only imagine how you felt.
Public speaking is my strength and in the four times prior that I'd competed for a USA miss or teen title, I'd never gotten a chance to showcase that. I was so ecstatic to finally be in a USA top 5 but I was calm because I was getting ready to wow them with speaking. I had three questions (1. How has the slumped economy affected you? 2. What has been your biggest obstacle? 3. How would you rate President Obama’s economic policies?) and I nailed them (no stuttering, straight from my heart, and clear/concise).

Were you happy with the final results? Do you agree with them or were you surprised? 4th RU in such a competitive year is something you should be incredibly proud of.
To be honest with you, I felt so proud of myself because I felt I had given the best presentation I'd ever given for a USA miss or teen title. Different night, different results. Different judges, different results. It's a pageant after all!
Tell us about the special award you won that night!
On Saturday, after the preliminary competition and the judges exit the stage, special awards are announced. What's interesting about this is that there were five awards given on Saturday and four out of the five made the Top 5!!!! Bethany won photogenic, Jaymie won best smile, Trinity won mentor, and I won spirit. The spirit award is given to one contestant by the Vanbros staff for being the most helpful, supportive, and enthusiastic contestant.
Tell us about the new Miss Kansas USA. Did you get a chance to meet and talk to her leading up to the pageant? It was her first time competing, so she's virtually unknown to the pageant world. What do you think about her chances at USA?
Bethany sat next to me in the dressing room and she helped me put on my evening gown! I think she's a beautiful girl and has taken the semester off to work hard and be ready for Miss USA.
The Miss USA 2010 delegate line-up is now complete. It's looking like a more competitive year than most people would have predicted a few months ago. Are you familiar with any of the state winners and if so, who are some of your favorites?
I've actually befriended several of them this year. I think that Mr. Trump will be happy with several of the favorites the board has mentioned. Maybe back-to-back blonde beauties...
What's next for Lily Wu? Will you give Kansas USA another go, or was this your last time?
I don't know, PC. But I can tell you that I was just named the Kids for the Cure Chair for the Susan G. Komen Mid Kansas Race for the Cure, and still active on several boards in Wichita. I continue to work at the non-profit Youth Entrepreneurs Kansas with at-risk high school students so I've got a full and fulfilling plate right now.
What advice do you have for the next Miss Pageant Central?
Be thankful for the support you get from PC and for the generous donations the sponsors have given you. Remember, that PC is a safe-haven for those of us who love pageants!
Let’s end this a la "Inside the Actors Studio," with the infamous Bernard Pivot questionnaire. Let me put my monocle on...alright. Ready? What's your favorite word? What's your least favorite word?
Favorite: CAN
Least Favorite: HATE
What turns you on? What turns you off?
On: dark chocolate
Off: bad breath
What sound or noise do you love? Which one do you hate?
Love: thunder/rain
Hate: Nails on a chalkboard (eek...I'm imaging it and it creeps me out).
What is your favorite curse word? (Yes, beauty queens curse. They're just people like you and me)
I say "Fudge" (just like that so as to avoid cursing. I know, I know you must think "yeah right!" but my job is around high school students so I can't slip so I just say "fudge")
What profession other than your own would you like to attempt?
Acting! I've always wanted to take over Lucy Liu's role in Charlie's Angels or be in an action movie.
What profession would you not like to do?
I wouldn't want to be a prison guard.
If Heaven exists, what would you like to hear God say when you arrive at the Pearly Gates?
You used the talents I gave you and you impacted so many people. Thank you, Lily!
Any last thoughts?
As I've said in a previous post...big thank you to all the sponsors of Miss Pageant Central 2009 (Barb, Megan, Alex, Kelley, Justin (built2win), Catherine Fiehn, Judie (JDI Couture), Laine (The Royal We), G, Sio, Kevin, Elizabeth (Miss Priss), Gail Schneider, Maureen, Aaron, Cydney, Jason, Angela, Regina, Meemaw, and all those who donated to this contest).
Thank you so much, Lily!
As we're getting closer and closer to selecting and crowning a new Miss Pageant Central, we would like to thank Lily for being such a wonderful titleholder and representative of the Pageant Central community and congratulate her on her success on and off the stage! All the best with your future endeavors, Miss Pageant Central 2009!

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- What a wonderful & PC Miss PC has been! It was GREAT to meet her in Vegas!! (NT) --
Tiki_Java, 22:31:50 02/07/10 Sun
- Wonderful interview, Fra and Lily! Congratulations on everything, Lily, and good luck with everything you've got going on, it sounds like you've got some incredible opportunities coming up! I'm working on my juding for the new Miss PC, and working out how much I can donate, and this interview is a great inspiration. Go PC! (NT) -- Spartan Girl, 23:26:33 02/07/10 Sun
- Great interview Fra! Lily, you have been an amazing Miss PC and very dedicated to the position! You will never be forgotten. I am so glad that we have become friends this year. ♥ (NT) --
gaj, 23:56:07 02/07/10 Sun
- Lily, you are an inspiration to us all! As someone who still competes, you have truly touched my heart and remind me why i continue to compete. you are a truly a beautiful person. i hope one day our paths cross because you are wonderful! best wishes to the future! (NT) --
Vertically_Challenged, 07:39:11 02/08/10 Mon
- Great interview and read! Its an interesting learn how the title and sponsors have enhanced Lily's pageant ambitions, it has really hit a homerun. Good for you Lily. (NT) -- Howard, 08:43:39 02/08/10 Mon
- Really enjoyed reading this interview! Beautiful pictures! (NT) -- ot mom, 10:22:24 02/08/10 Mon
- Mis PC Pageant Central -- Don B, 10:23:12 02/08/10 Mon
- Oh my gosh Lily is soooo darling! (NT) -- Sister, 10:37:20 02/08/10 Mon
- Fantastic interview!! Thank you Lily and Fra! Great pics too! (NT) -- Indy, 11:20:49 02/08/10 Mon
- Lily - I really will miss working with you as MPC! One thing I've found in working with young women in pageants is "after" the pageant their level of maturity- both mental and emotional - quickly shows itself. You my dear are AMAZING! Love you bushells!! (NT) -- Barb B, 13:15:25 02/08/10 Mon
- Lily, you are amazing. PC supporters, don't forget to donate to the Miss PC fund, so that we can give another young lady like Lily the chance to go after her dream! Go to www.paypal.com and send a donation to mpcsponsorship@gmail.com. Love all around! (NT) -- MPC Advisory Board, 13:27:15 02/08/10 Mon
- I realize I am biased, but my eyes go straight to Lily in the KS USA top 5 picture posted above. Lily, you look absolutely radiant! You have been a wonderful, gracious Miss Pageant Central. (NT) -- Kristin ♥, 15:22:05 02/08/10 Mon
- I've said it before, and I'll say it again: I adore this girl! Not only is she an exemplary representative of modern-day pageantry, she is a warm, caring, kind-hearted, and down-to-earth young woman. I was honored to share a reign with her as messageboard titleholders, and am exponentially more honored to call her a friend. HUGS! (NT) -- MoNkayMaN, 15:41:35 02/08/10 Mon
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