If you do ask him, be sure to ask when the last time he went to Scotland was. I'm sorry for your past troubles and can see why this organization holds attraction for you and your daughter. She is safe. He only likes boys. If you find no problem in acting like an ostrich and defending an organization that was started by a felon, then you live with your conscience - but don't try to defend him or your own choices, because there is no defence. PS: What if he liked teenage girls? Would you see a problem then?