| Subject: Re: Childhood spanking leading to Fetishes? |
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joh
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Date Posted: 07:58:47 09/29/11 Thu
>Fastolff refers to parents who "deliberately inflict
>physical pain and mental humiliation under the guise
>of acting in the child's best interest".
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>I do not criticise any of the views in this thread,
>but as a parent who uses the rod on his two boys, is
>it possible that I cane them for their own good? Yes
>it causes them pain and humiliation, but that is the
>method of punishment I choose to use to keep them
>within the rules.
>
>I could say that my reasons for using corporal
>punishment are to do with a dislike of the
>alternatives. I do not want to deprive them of their
>activities or confine them to their rooms. Those
>punishments seem harsh to me. I could withhold their
>spending money, but what they get they need.
>
>There is another factor though. Caning my boys arouses
>me. Does anyone have views on whether a spanking
>fetishist should punish his children the way I do?
>
>To come back to Reb's original question, I do not how
>I bcame a spanking fetishist. It started before I was
>caned at school. I was aroused when other boys were
>caned but only felt pain and shame when I was caned
>myself.
Oh man...I don't think you're a spanking fetishist at all....!! getting aroused during a spanking or when other boys were caned are just normal....happened to most of us....unfortunately 99% of men just won't admit it...!! You can contact me on johling@webmail.co.za if you wish...I don't think it's appropriate to discuss the "problem" here...
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