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>allowing someone to unload is one of the big >kindnesses, and i guess, right or wrong, your mother >has to unload sometimes. >Since my father died my mother has spoken as if it was >soem great marriage they had. The first time she spoke >that way was at a restaurant with my sister and I. >Neither of us said anything, but she could tell from >the way we were looking at each other that we were >stunned and got a bit annoyed. Relationships are a >minefield, especially your parents. I lived amongst >their warzone of a marriage and never understood, but >always felt a victim of their ongoing hostilities, >then he dies and history is re-written. Humans are >very strange. > >>Ah - that was an unfortunate thing to say! Oh well - I >>hope your mom gets over it soon. >> >> >> >> >>>>>I hope what I wrote makes sense. I am writing while >>>>>having to listen to my mom telling me about the "so >>>>>many" young men who proposed to her, while she >>>>>"unfortunately" chose my father over them >>>> >>>>LOL! >>>> >>>Although I was not in the mood to listen to these >>>stories but I do feel for her. As you know my dad has >>>been ill for some time now and she is tending to all >>>his needs and she is really really doing great >efforts >>>to make him feel comfortable, and then he said >>>something that really upset her. >>> >>>My brother told Mom on that day that he heard that >one >>>of mum's distant relatives has died, and all Dad had >>>to say when he heard the man's name was "Yeah... I >>>remember this man. He is the one that when I proposed >>>to your mum was all happy and went like: "I can't >>>believe that a man of this stature would want to >marry >>>someone of our family"!! >>> >>>Now, that was a very, very bad thing to say (even if >>>it had really happened) and that was what triggered >>>all these memories and made mum want to tell them to >>>me (although I have heard them from her like... two >>>dozens of times before)
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