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Date Posted: 15:57:14 10/04/07 Thu
Author: Carla
Subject: Chapt. 55 Q1 To be honest I think Jamie bears a great deal of the responsibility for what happens between Belinda and Pamela. He should have told Belinda that Phouka was a gift for Pamela, not an investment. It was that misinformation that caused the whole thing to blow up in public. Should Pamela have thrown the drink in Belinda's face? It probably wasn't the most mature thing to do, but given Belinda's snide comments about Casey's whereabouts and then calling Pamela a whore, I probably would have chucked the freaking glass and it's contents at the bitch. I do, however, understand, how Belinda must have wanted to strike out at the women she knew had Jamie's love. Q2) I think Cindy has done a better job of this than I could even begin to imagine.
In reply to: Lil 's message, "Part Four: When the Dark Night Seems Endless…." on 00:04:36 10/04/07 Thu


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  • Q3) I think they've both said things that need to be said, however I don't think it will take either one of them down the path to happiness, at least not for a long time to come. When Jamie chose to turn >>>Pamela away (for valid reasons), he set a chain of events in motion that has led to them having to work through their feelings on their own, rather than together. Pamela needs to figure out how to go from be in love with Jamie to loving him. I think a huge clue to her feelings for him is that deep down she really doesn't want him to be happy without her. Contrast this with Jamie who turned her down out of love. In many ways, I think Pamela's love for Jamie is still the love of a young girl for the first man who touched her heart and soul. The real dichotomy of it, to me, is that it's both immature and yet so deep and abiding. Jamie, having made the decision that he's not right for Pamela also needs to come to terms with his decision and (NT) -- Carla, 15:58:48 10/04/07 Thu
  • Okay, not sure where the rest of my long-winded comment went, but I was going to say that Jamie needs to figure out how to move on before he truly brings another woman into his life. One-night stands or at least relationships based solely on lust may be a way for the boyo to relieve those natural urges without breaking anybody else's heart. Right now I think it's rather unfair of him to bring a women into his home and life until he's worked out how to love Pamela without being in love with her. (NT) -- Carla, 16:05:35 10/04/07 Thu
  • Carla, I really like the way you said that Pamela has to go from being in love with Jamie to just loving him (as friends). Hit the nail on the head! They do love one another and it's more than a platonic love, but that's how it must remain for Pamela's marriage to stay intact. It can't go beyond that and they both must come to terms with the limitations their relationship must have. (NT) -- Denise, 16:45:08 10/04/07 Thu
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