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| Subject: Deepest sympathies | |
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Author: Lynne Connolly (Sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:28:44 08/28/07 Tue I chose Rob as my ideal cover model when I imagined my dream book. Although I've achieved publication since then, I'll never have the pleasure of a Rob Ashton cover now. My deepest sympathies to Rob's friends and family at this time. He'll be greatly missed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: You will be missed, Rob | |
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Author: Rhonda [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:30:38 08/28/07 Tue I really can't add anything here that Cat did not cover in her post below, and so eloquently. That is EXACTLY what I feel in my heart now. It brings me such peace to know that Rob knew Jesus, and is in a better place and completely healthy, a place where we will have the chance to see him again someday. God bless you, Cat, for sharing that. You were so blessed to know and share that beautiful side of him. Rest in peace, Rob, in your heavenly home, and may the Lord give strength & comfort to your friends and family at this difficult time. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: ROB THE ANGEL MAN | |
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Author: Brenda/Angel [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:42:16 08/28/07 Tue I was blessed to chat with ROB online for a short time and he was a complete gentleman. He had invited me to go to one of the conventions, but I wasn't able to do so at the time. Yet, that is okay because I know I WILL get to see him in Heaven where he is now. He is HAPPIER THAN HE HAS EVER BEEN IN HIS ENTIRE LIFE! And for some reason the novel... "STARDUST OF YESTERDAY" 'means' more to me now. To Rob's family - HE IS WHERE HE IS HAPPIEST. Please try your best to take comfort in that fact. He will always be with you in your hearts and someday you will be reunited with him. My prayers are with you all. BLESSINGS and PEACE ^i^Angel/Brenda^i^ [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Rob will be missed! | |
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Author: Geralyn Terleski (Sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:42:53 08/28/07 Tue I was shocked to read Kelli's bulletin posted through myspace. I met Rob at the RT convention of 95 where he was crowned Mr. Romance. So many of us first met him then! I am releived to hear from this message board, however, that Rob finally did come to know the Lord! We had had some discussion about Jesus way back when. I'm so glad to hear the Lord got a hold of him along Rob's life journey! We'll be praying for his mother and family! Thanks Cat for the post! In Him, Geralyn [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: I miss him and never even met him! | |
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Author: Firebrand aka Catherine [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:55:13 08/28/07 Tue I just wish to send along my condolences to Rob's family, friends and fans. He was a beautiful man as witnessed by the posts to him in here. Rob, may God hold and keep you in his loving arms! God Bless your family during this trying time and may they know that you are no longer suffering and happy to be home. Love always your faithful fan, Catherine [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: So sorry to hear.... | |
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Author: Talia [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:02:17 08/28/07 Tue For Rob's mother, Kathleen, Nothing can prepare you for the loss of a beloved son, nor shelter you from the grief. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your unimaginable loss. I can only hope that all the memories you have of him will support you in the coming days and that the remembrance of his laughter will one day lighten your heart once more. To Rob's friends, it is always a tragedy to lose a friend, a mentor, a beautiful spirit. The lives he touched and the quality of the people who loved him, speak louder than any elegy could. My sincere condolences to those whose lives will be bereft with his absence. Respectfully, Talia Gryphon [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Heartfelt sympathy | |
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Author: Yvonne [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:16:20 08/28/07 Tue At this time I would like to extend my deep and heartfelt sympathy to Rob's family and friends, wishing you comfort in your time of sorrow. Memories of Rob will keep him close to us as he will live in our memories and our hearts forever. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Rob in person, I was in contact with him through email from time to time. We will miss you Rob, but you will live in our hearts forever. Rest in Peace! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: I am so sorry | |
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Author: Linda Hutchinson [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:53:50 08/28/07 Tue I wish to extend my condolences to the family & friends of Rob. It was a shock to all his fans he will be missed God Bless you all Linda [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: A Great Man | |
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Author: Lyn (aka Lost in Twilight on MySpace) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 20:24:42 08/28/07 Tue I have never met Rob but I was shocked to hear the sad news. All I have ever read about him, no matter what the subject, or event, everyone spoke so highly of him. I have never seen any picture of him where he was not enjoying whatever he was doing, and he was an amazing model. A truly talented man that everyone whose lives he touched will sorely miss. To his family, and friends, and fans, I offer my condolences. Words can never take the pain away, and there are never any sufficient enough to convey the sadness felt at a time like this, but each person that tries, no matter how few they say, just add to the testimony of what a great man he was and to the support toward his family. God Bless his family, his friends, and his fans, you are all in my thoughts and prayers. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Heaven has a Bright New Star | |
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Author: Nancy C Fecca (So sad!) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 21:02:56 08/28/07 Tue My heart goes out to Rob's family and friends. Nancy C Fecca [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My heart goes out to you at this time | |
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Author: ZAZOO (Dumbfounded) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:04:28 08/28/07 Tue Shocked doesnt begin to describe what I am feeling now. To me he was a romance cover icon (move over Fabio...waaaay over) I never got a chance to meet him but felt as though, as silly as it sounds, I knew him. All the romance books I have read and the bookcovers created that illusion. He was the epitome of everybodies hero Good Bless you Rob And I want to send my prayers and well wishes to his family. HE WAS ONE OF A KIND! Love Zazoo [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: A Terrible Loss | |
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Author: Jennifer Whildin (Shocked, Sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:55:20 08/28/07 Tue I heard about Rob on MySpace. I'm shocked and sad, because he was one of my favorite cover models. I wish his family strength and comfort in their time of loss. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Our condolences | |
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Author: Melanie Grant (An Angel's Work Is Done) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 02:44:40 08/29/07 Wed Our hearts go out to Rob's family during this time of painful loss. All of you and Rob are in our thoughts and prayers. We know he's in a better place now. He helped so many people during his time here, in so many ways, and has been called home now that his work is done. He will be greatly missed by all, but we can rejoice in the fact that we will all be reunited again one day in the greater home provided to us by our wonderful Lord. May He continue to bless and smile upon us all! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: I'm so sorry to hear about Rob. He will be very missed . My prayers are for his family and friend. | |
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Author: Izzy [Edit] |
Date Posted: 03:13:01 08/29/07 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Saddened | |
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Author: CindyO [Edit] |
Date Posted: 03:52:55 08/29/07 Wed Though I never got to actually meet Rob I did get to chat with him through email and Chat rooms. I loved his sense of humor and his faith in God. My heart goes out to his family and he will be missed terribly. A Parable of Immortality by Henry Van Dyke I am standing upon the seashore. A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength, and I stand and watch until at last she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come down to mingle with each other. Then someone at my side says, "There she goes!" Gone where? Gone from my sight ... that is all. She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side and just as able to bear her load of living freight to the place of destination. Her diminished size is in me, not in her. And just at the moment when someone at my side says "There she goes!", there are other eyes watching her coming and other voices ready to take up the glad shout, "Here she comes!" [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: you finished the race and we are one day closer, bro=) <>< | |
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Author: Steffi <>< [Edit] |
Date Posted: 04:08:35 08/29/07 Wed Dear family of Rob! I am very sorry for your loss, and I pray for you all in this difficult time, but also beyond! I know how much Robert loved you all, and I have rarely met an adult who talked with so much love and joy about his family. You all were very important to him and Robert kept telling my kids to love God first, but then family right after God, then friends. You raised a very special person, with a heart of gold and a purity which is very rare in this world, and I truly admire you for that. He had so much compassion and pure love that I believe the lives of many he touched are changed forever! To me and my family Rob was a blessing, sent by the Lord. We had the tremendous joy and honor to be friends with him for the past 5 years, to meet in person and to spend vacation with him. When I first got to know him I was saved for 1 year and basically a baby christian. And in the first years the fellowship with Robert teached me probably as much about Jesus as my pastors did. He had an incredible knowledge about the bible, he loved the Lord with all his heart, and it was a joy to see his enthusiasm for Jesus. In every conversation the joy of the Lord was perceptible in him, no matter if he was doing fine, or if he was in pain. To pray or talk with him was such a blessing! The two things he said or wrote in nearly every talk and in every email were "What did you learn about the Word recently, please?" and "Smile sis...we are one day closer to seeing the Lord!". The Lord used him in many, many ways mightily in my life, and he was very instrumental in bringing me into a very close relationship with Jesus. When my husband and I had the honor and incredible joy to meet him in person and to spend time together it was amazing. We used to read the bible for hours and then his whole face lit up and his eyes were radiating with a joy about every verse he read, and he was so happy to discover Gods love, grace and mercy in every verse. I think we nearly covered the whole bible in our years of friendship. He was a wonderful brother who saw love letters from the Lord in every little detail, and it was such a blessing to know him. When I think about Robert I remember him smiling in church and singing worship songs with raised hands, or laying on the ground, holding our hands in prayers, or being excited about how wonderful God created a little sea shell, looking up to the stars and wondering what else God has in store for us when we meet Him in Eternity, and his whole face lit up with the joy of the Lord. He was a beautiful man, but his outward beauty was nothing compared to the inner beauty. He had his struggles, like everyone else, yet he was a shining example of an ambassador of Christ. He loved to read the Word of God, and loved to talk about Him, and then I have seen him the most happiest. When he was in church, or talking about the Lord or reading the Word he smiled and his eyes lit up with the purest joy and love. From the begin of our friendship we talked many times about Eternity and what we know from the Word about heaven. And many times he spoke about the joy and peace we will feel when our time here on earth is over and God calls us home to be with Him for all Eternity. To me, these memories give me me comfort and I know he is happy now in the presence of the Lord, singing and praising his maker, Lord and Father with all his soul. Many, many times he signed a letter with "In CHRIST'S LOVE,rob(His servant)<><". You were a true servant of the Lord Rob, and a tremendous blessing!!!!!!! My heart is heavy to know that our time of fellowship in this world is over, but I thank God that He allowed us to form so many beautiful memories of shared fellowship. My husband, my children and I will miss him tremendously, and love him until we meet again in Gods glory. And I pray that whoever was touched by Roberts life, in one way or the other, will be blessed and if not yet saved will find the same personal relationship with Jesus Christ which Robert had. We love you in Jesus for all Eternity bro and we are looking very much forward to meet you in heaven again!=) [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My deepest sympathies | |
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Author: Teresa H [Edit] |
Date Posted: 04:11:10 08/29/07 Wed Although I never had the honor of knowing Rob other than through interviews and his website/online persona, I could tell he had a gentle and loving soul. He was an inspiration to so many. He will be missed, but I'm comforted knowing he is at peace. The stars in heaven shine much brighter. My prayers go out to Rob's family and friends. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Condolences | |
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Author: Lili (Saddened) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 04:46:02 08/29/07 Wed I was very sorry to hear of Rob's passing. I had not known he was unwell. I had never had the honor to meet him, only to see the work he did. I was happy to read in previous posts that he was strong in the Lord and know that he is at peace now. My heart goes out to you all and I will pray for them in this difficult time. God Bless you all. When we meet on that distant shore, there will be sadness no more. Lil [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: We will miss you! | |
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Author: Jean (sad yet joyful) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 06:55:59 08/29/07 Wed While I never really got the chance to know Rob personally, I do know that he was a very caring man who had many talents. My heart goes out to his family and close friends in their time of loss but I am joyful in the fact that he is now home with the Lord and no longer in pain. Rob, we will see you again in the by and by. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: The early years | |
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Author: Jay Paustian [Edit] |
Date Posted: 06:57:57 08/29/07 Wed I knew Rob as Danny. Although it has been many years since I spoke to him, I have always kept up with his accomplishments. I knew Danny in elementary school and high school, and along with my brother and a few other friends, rode bicycles all over the streets of Gulf Shores. One of the things I will never forget was Danny, my brother, me, and another friend all packed in Danny's 280zx one night. Being the youngest, I "got" to ride in the hatchback. I laughed harder than I had ever laughed that night. This is just one small memory I have of Danny, but one that I will never forget. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Our Family Prayers Are With You! | |
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Author: Sly Bowden (Our Family Prayers) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 07:00:25 08/29/07 Wed My family prayers go out to your entire family! My Friend Rob Ashton will be deeply missed! Sly Bowden [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My Deepest Sympathies | |
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Author: Lynn Daniels (sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 07:31:54 08/29/07 Wed When I first heard the news of Rob's passing, My heart broke and I was shocked. How could somebody so young, so vibrant, be taken so soon? It saddens me to have never known the man behind the photos and interviews. He always seemed to be such a loving, giving person with great strength and faith. Those traits have been confirmed in messages posted by those who knew him. To his family and friends I can only offer my deepest sympathies and most heartfelt condolences. It seems that every person Rob encountered, whether he knew it or not, was profoundly touched. As shallow as it may sound, he was the Ideal Romance Hero to many of us, simply based on appearance. However, reading his articles and interviews served to cement that position more firmly and make that title much less shallow. He will be sorely missed. My heart still breaks over his loss, but there is comfort in the knowledge that he is at peace. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My Sincerest Condolences | |
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Author: Raquel Rodriguez (sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:21:47 08/29/07 Wed Dear Graham Family, I am shocked and saddened to hear of Rob's passing, and my sympathy goes out to his friends and to you, his family. I never had the pleasure of meeting this amazing man, yet I know from others of his friendliness and creative zest whether he was modeling or promoting fitness and health. He has been a true inspiration for the heros I write, and I had always hoped to see him on one of my novel covers. In every photo I've seen, Rob always had a smile and no matter where he was he enjoyed life. I wish I'd had the opportunity to meet him, and I will miss him. Memories of Rob will live forever in my heart, and my deepest condolences to you all. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings and Peace, Raquel Rodriguez [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: TO JUDY AND THE BOYS | |
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Author: We are here for you [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:54:44 08/29/07 Wed Many may know Rob from his life of gracing book covers, and modeling career. However for the past two and a half years there have been three very special people with whom Rob lived with and spent his life with. Our heartfelt condolences go out to the very special family which he left behind. There was a wonderful woman in Rob's life who was there with him till his last heart beat and there are two beautiful young boys who will miss him dearly. To Rob's fiance Judy, and her son's Trevor and Tucker, may you cherish all your memories and know your friends and family are here for you during this difficult time. We all love you so very much. Over the past two and a half years I have been blessed to know Rob and share times together with Judy and Rob and the boys. Judy, you have never left his side, even in his last moments of life. May the love you shared always be a special light in your heart. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: TO JUDY AND THE BOYS | |
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Author: We are here for you [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:56:23 08/29/07 Wed Many may know Rob from his life of gracing book covers, and modeling career. However for the past two and a half years there have been three very special people with whom Rob lived with and spent his life with. Our heartfelt condolences go out to the very special family which he left behind. There was a wonderful woman in Rob's life who was there with him till his last heart beat and there are two beautiful young boys who will miss him dearly. To Rob's fiance Judy, and her son's Trevor and Tucker, may you cherish all your memories and know your friends and family are here for you during this difficult time. We all love you so very much. Love Maryellen, Hanna and Parker Over the past two and a half years I have been blessed to know Rob and share times together with Judy and Rob and the boys. Judy, you have never left his side, even in his last moments of life. May the love you shared always be a special light in your heart. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Maryellen (Saddened by your passing) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:57:42 08/29/07 Wed >Many may know Rob from his life of gracing book >covers, and modeling career. However for the past two >and a half years there have been three very special >people with whom Rob lived with and spent his life >with. Our heartfelt condolences go out to the very >special family which he left behind. There was a >wonderful woman in Rob's life who was there with him >till his last heart beat and there are two beautiful >young boys who will miss him dearly. To Rob's fiance >Judy, and her son's Trevor and Tucker, may you cherish >all your memories and know your friends and family are >here for you during this difficult time. We all love >you so very much. Love Maryellen, Hanna and Parker > >Over the past two and a half years I have been blessed >to know Rob and share times together with Judy and Rob >and the boys. Judy, you have never left his side, >even in his last moments of life. May the love you >shared always be a special light in your heart. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My heartfelt condolences | |
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Author: Cindy Walker [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:03:05 08/29/07 Wed Having been in the position of facing the decision to remove a loved one from life support, my heart goes out to each and every member of Rob's family who had to make that call. No matter what, it is not an easy decision. My thoughts and prayers are with all those who are mourning, but my heart rejoices that Rob is with our Lord, enjoying a beauty we cannot even begin to imagine. Though Rob is gone in body, his spirit will remain in many, many ways. I was not fortunate enough to actually meet Rob, but I have seen him at RT conventions. I was there the year he won Mr. Romance and the year RT did the cruise. From everything I'm reading here, he was a gentle soul, full of love and life. Peace be with him as he begins a new journey. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Rob | |
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Author: Barbara Hart [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:46:23 08/29/07 Wed I had the opportunity to talk with Rob several times via phone and email and came to like and respect him a great deal. He was funny, sincere and sometimes “surprisingly honest and direct” when we spoke. I admired that in him. I have not spoken to Rob in several years, but remember him fondly. My deepest sympathy and condolences to Rob’s family and all who loved him. God’s blessings and love be with them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: To Rob's family, fiance, and friends... | |
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Author: Frances <>< (sad for you) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:55:48 08/29/07 Wed I am so very sorry for your loss. As so often happens among those who are one in the Spirit, for no apparent reason, about three weeks ago, I felt that I should pray for Rob and his family. Please know that there are many others that you know nothing of, who are continuing to hold you in their prayers. Rob was a blessing to many people. Like may others, I wish that I wish that I could have known him. It is good to know that although time and distance may separate us in this life, that in the next, we will see one another again, and have the delight of living together in God’s love forever. This is our promise. For many years, I have watched Rob’s career, and was thrilled for him and for you when he asked Jesus to be his Lord. After that, it was a joy to watch as he grew and boldly told others of God’s love. He did not just talk the talk, he walked the walk. In his living and in his dying, he served his Lord. You have the blessing of knowing that the first words that he heard were the most coveted words that any Christian can aspire to: “Well done, thou good and faithful servant.” [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: God Bless you Rob | |
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Author: Annie (very sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 11:28:49 08/29/07 Wed May God bless yiou Rob, you were one in a million. To his family: May you feel peace with Rob going home. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Our deepest sympathies | |
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Author: Lawrence & Wendy Ressler [Edit] |
Date Posted: 12:38:30 08/29/07 Wed For the time we had known Rob we are exceedingly grateful to have been in a small part of his life. He had been and will always be a tremendously positive influence in our lives. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Remembering Rob | |
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Author: Doug and Joyce [Edit] |
Date Posted: 15:03:12 08/29/07 Wed Words cannot express how saddened and shocked we are to hear of Robs passing...We have known Rob for the last few years and what struck us was his warmth and charm...A handsome devil but yet he was very humble...We will miss his smile and his laugh not to mention the good times we had hanging out together...God acts in mysterious ways and although we are hurting badly there had to have been a purpose why he was taken from us in this way and so young...God rest his soul and my sympathies to his family and friends...Love you bud... [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My deepest sympathies and Prayers. | |
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Author: Mark Johnson [Edit] |
Date Posted: 15:37:00 08/29/07 Wed I've known Rob for a long time and some words that come to mind when I think about him are kindness, soft spoken. 3 1/2 years ago Rob called me to tell me some news but he wanted to tell me in person. So I went and saw him. He told me that he accepted Christ Jesus as his savior and that no matter what happend to him, he was a child of God. I hugged him (and it was a good hug) and I told him congratulations my friend, we will spend eternity together. I'm looking forward to seeing him again. I'm praying for his family and all his friends that their faith too will be strengthened in Christ and that their hope is not on this earth but in heaven. May God richly bless you. Until we meet again Somewhere Down The Road...With Love Mark Johnson [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: I'm so sorry for your loss | |
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Author: Shannon [Edit] |
Date Posted: 16:04:33 08/29/07 Wed To Rob's family and friends: I know how desparately it hurts to lose someone you love. Remember the wonderful times you were blessed to share with him. Remember the love he had for you and you for him. The tears will still come and the pain will always be there. You will be sitting alone, doing nothing in particular, and remember a funny moment with him and your throat will tighten and your eyes will tear. But know that he remembers that time, too. One day, hopefully far into the future, you will be with Rob again and be able to remember it together. God Bless, Shannon [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Remembering Rob... | |
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Author: Steve Sandalis [Edit] |
Date Posted: 16:08:22 08/29/07 Wed It's been over ten years since I last saw Rob. Although I only met him a couple of times, what really impressed me about him was his down-to-earth charismatic personality. Rob had a way of making people feel special. Rob lived his life to the fullest and was passionate about pursuing his dreams. I'm sure Rob is looking down at us now wanting us to remember the good times we shared with him. God Bless. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My Sympathies | |
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Author: Gennita Low [Edit] |
Date Posted: 16:35:19 08/29/07 Wed I'm saddened to hear of Rob Ashton's passing. Although it has been a number of years since I met him, I remember his easy friendliness as he collected teddy bears for charity. I didn't even know who he was then, but I was very struck by his charm and sincerity. Needless to say, my friends laughed at my ignorance when I was telling them about meeting the guy with the teddy bears. Through the years, Rob Ashton has always remained one of my favorite models. My condolences to Rob's family and friends. He is much missed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: You will be missed | |
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Author: Tia [Edit] |
Date Posted: 17:27:03 08/29/07 Wed A world without Rob is almost unthinkable. I only met him once but I spoke with him a number of times and greatly appreciated his soft spoken gentlemanly ways. Rob was without a doubt the most beautiful man, both inside and out, that I have ever met. As so many others have said he was the epitome of everyones dream hero. My heart goes out to his family and loved ones. Tia [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Wonderful man...You will be missed | |
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Author: Diane [Edit] |
Date Posted: 17:49:45 08/29/07 Wed What a beautiful person Rob was inside and out. I'll always remember, at one of the conventions sitting next to him and he started whispering italian in my ear, giving me a thrill and a giggle. He always gave great hugs and always had a wonderful smile and laugh for everyone. It is with great sadness that I write this now about Rob. We always think that every one will live forever, and are so shocked when we hear about a loss of a wonderful, caring person, especially at such a young age. I know that Rob had so much more to give. God bless both Rob and his family. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Such a beautiful person | |
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Author: Carmel St. James (Sadden!!) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:50:16 08/29/07 Wed I never knew Mr Ashton personally, but lord I heard so much about him. It's no doubt that such a personal with a beautiful soul would be loved and respected by so many. As a cover artist, his face or better yet his image inspired me to create some of my best work and he still has that influence on me. When I first saw him, I'll be honest yall, I was like oh my..*smiles* I never knew a man could be so beautiful yet there he was. I remember saying to myself how such a man could reek havoc on a woman's peace of mind,*smiles* but you know what, I wouldn't mind in the least. I would like to offer my condolences to his family. The Lord has called him home. May the lord bless and keep you always. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Rest now, your journey is done. | |
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Author: Cora Zane (tears) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:59:32 08/29/07 Wed I am absolutely devastated to hear of Rob's passing. He has been an icon in the romance industry for so long, I can scarcely imagine it without him. Rob had the face of so many dreams, and such a wonderful, open personality... The industry has lost a great cover talent, and a champion soul. My condolences to Rob's friends and family. He will be sorely missed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My deepest sympathies | |
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Author: Joan (sadness) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 20:17:00 08/29/07 Wed I am an avid romance reader and I couldn't help but notice Rob on so many covers. When I heard that he had passed, I was shocked. Such a vibrant and healthy man, I just could not believe he was gone. Finding out he was a Christian was a comfort for I know he is with Jesus now and that one day his family will be reunited with him. My heart felt condolences go out to his family. My prayers are with you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: You will always have a special place in my heart Rob... | |
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Author: Shawna (HEARTBROKEN) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 21:57:26 08/29/07 Wed I met Rob in 1996 and we became extremely close...like brother and sister for a few summers. We lost contact and in the past year recently were reunited to discover we had both made some amazing changes in our lives. I am so proud of the man he turned out to be and admire him greatly. He had a wonderful heart and soul and I am grateful to have been able to tell him i loved him one last time recently and know he loved me too. He was a dear friend to me and I will never forget him. My prayers go out to his other friends and family. I love you Rob Graham! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: A True Hero At Heart | |
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Author: Tammy Russotto - The Romance Zone [Edit] |
Date Posted: 22:54:07 08/29/07 Wed Rob, You were an amazing person with a beautiful soul and loving heart. You were kind and thoughtful to everyone. Your beautiful smile and the twinkle in your eyes showed everyone what a beautiful person you were both inside and out. You were an Angel sent from heaven who touched the hearts of many. You will be missed by many people who loved you. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family and friends. God Bless! Tammy [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: KATHLEEN LABREE (WISHED ID MET HIM IN PERSON) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 00:03:02 08/30/07 Thu I;VE WRITTEN IN THIS BEFORE, I KEEP TRYING TO THINK OF THINGS TO SAY FOR THE FAMILY OF ROB, I AM SO VERY SORRY FOR THEIR LOSS, I CAN;T EVEN THINK OF HOW BAD IT MUST FEEL TO LOOSE A CHILD, I ONLY KNEW OF ROB JUST A FEW MONTH;S AGO AND WANTED TO KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM, GOD, IF ID ONLY KNOWN HE WAS SICK, I WOULD OF GOTTEN DOWN ON MY KNEES AND PRAYED EVERY DAY FOR HIM, I JUST DIDN;T KNOW, I;M SO GLAD THOUGH THAT HE FOUND GOD AND OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST, AS EMPTY AS OUR LIVES ARE WITHOUT ROB IN IT, I KNOW HE;S IN HEAVEN WHERE HE NO LONGER FEEL;S ANY PAIN OR SORROW, MY HEART HAS BEEN BROKEN EVERSINCE I READ OF HIS DEATH, ALTHOUGH I NEVER MET HIM, I LOVED HIM WHOLE HEARTEDLY, I JUST HOPE WE ALL WILL BE TOGETHERE AGAIN IN HEAVEN, WE ALL NEED TO BE READY. WE NEVER KNOW WHEN OUR NUMBER IS UP, I LOVE YOU ROB AND MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AT THIS HORRIBLE TIME OF SORROW, TEARFULLY YOUR;S, KATHLEEN LABREE, [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Natalie Sabia [Edit] |
Date Posted: 05:36:57 08/30/07 Thu To Rob's family, friends, Judy & boys - I am so sorry to hear about your loss. The few times I met him, he was truly a sincere and beautiful person. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kel [Edit] |
Date Posted: 05:59:51 08/30/07 Thu I just found this on a dear friend's blog and decided to share it here. I have a feeling that these words speak for a whole lot of us right now.. Kel When It Can’t Be Fixed... Current mood: sad I heard some terrible news today... The world has lost another bright light and it came as a shock. I suppose death is never welcome to those left behind, less so when it isn't even remotely expected. I am heartsick over the news, but a dear friend of mine is suffering more. It leaves me helpless. Like everything out of my mouth is a cliche and worthless in terms of taking away the pain. I am a person who when confronted with a problem, seeks solutions and resolutions. I throw myself into the process of making good come from bad, of turning things around. I do not often shrug my shoulders and acknowledge defeat. Feeling useless is in itself frustrating. I'm a control freak and I can't control what happened. All I can do is offer to be a shoulder if needed. It's a harsh world at times and things rarely make sense. One minute you are laughing and happy, and the next you are wallowing in despair. For RA, whose initials are that of the Egyptian god of the sun, his light will most certainly be missed and no one will ever fill that void. His smile, his charisma, was his alone and he cannot be replaced. He was a gift to those who knew him, if only from a distance. He was always generous with himself, his heart, his spirit and his time and though he is gone from here, the thousands of memories he gave to those who knew him will keep him alive forever. As he loved so he was loved in return. Be at peace. Robert Fulghum: I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge -- myth is more potent than history -- dreams are more powerful than facts -- hope always triumphs over experience -- laughter is the cure for grief -- love is stronger than death. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Will Corrington [Edit] |
Date Posted: 17:56:25 08/29/07 Wed I knew Rob as Danny when we were growing up in Foley. He was a classmate of mine and I have nice memories of going to his December birthday parties as a youngster (and the times when he would reciprocate by coming to mine)...lots of football in the backyard, almost all of it without serious injury :). He was always a lot of fun to be around. We went our separate ways as we got older and fell out of touch, yet this news really hit me hard. To Mrs. Graham (I know it's probably OK to call you by your first name, but it would feel strange), Gordy and other family members, I cannot imagine the hurt you're going through right now...you are all in my prayers. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kim (Smith) Webster [Edit] |
Date Posted: 21:06:38 08/29/07 Wed I was also a friend of Danny's growing up and just found out this morning about his death. What a shock. Danny was my 4th grade boyfriend and the first boy I ever couple-skated with at the roller skating rink. He was the cutest boy I had ever seen. Our parents were old high school friends, and we also remained friends throughout our school years. The last time I saw Danny was at our 5-year class reunion, and we talked for a good while that night. He had not yet achieved any of the fame that came later--he was just Danny, still with a smile that spread from ear to ear and lit up his whole face. I'm so sorry he's gone but so glad to know that he had given his life to Jesus. He was a precious, precious person. >I knew Rob as Danny when we were growing up in Foley. >He was a classmate of mine and I have nice memories of >going to his December birthday parties as a youngster >(and the times when he would reciprocate by coming to >mine)...lots of football in the backyard, almost all >of it without serious injury :). He was always a lot >of fun to be around. > >We went our separate ways as we got older and fell out >of touch, yet this news really hit me hard. > >To Mrs. Graham (I know it's probably OK to call you by >your first name, but it would feel strange), Gordy and >other family members, I cannot imagine the hurt you're >going through right now...you are all in my prayers. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Mary Ann Young [Edit] |
Date Posted: 06:45:48 08/30/07 Thu I had known Danny since kindergarten and am so sorry to hear of his death. I had not seen him since high school but as everyone else has said, I too will never forget his beauty and sweetness. I've come to realize just since yesterday how much he had done in his short life. Pretty impressive for a Foley boy! I'm most happy for he and his family that he had given his life to Christ. He's feasting with the saints now and one day we will all have a glorious reunion. I know it is hard now to not have him with you but hopefully the comfort will come in knowing of his sure salvation. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Cerri Ellis [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:23:45 08/30/07 Thu I met Rob at an author signing promotional event back in '96 or '97 I think it was, and the thing that struck me most was his genuine friendliness and his kind patience. I knew then he was just as beautiful on the inside as he was on the outside. It seems somehow so wrong that a man so seemingly fit and healthy, so vibrant and so very young, is gone. My sincerest sympathies to the family and close friends of Robert Danny Graham. Whatsoever you love in life lives forever. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Maggie Deese Quimby [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:56:02 08/30/07 Thu Iam so very sorry to hear about Rob's passing! I knew him as Danny Graham. We went to elementary school together at Foley. I always thought he was a kind person and Iam amazed at the man he turned out to be. To the family: Please KNOW that you are in my thoughts and prayers!!! God bless you all!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: We love you Robert and look forward to meet you in heaven! | |
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Author: Lars 19, Sarah 16, Jasmin 14 and Alina 11 y/o [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:02:02 08/30/07 Thu Dear Robert! For the last 5 years you were "adopted" into our family. You were the friend of our parents, but our friend also. Even tho you lived on a different continent you were a part of our daily life, because we prayed for you in every prayer that was said in our family, and we knew (as you always told us and we could feel it) you were praying for us, too. You had so much love and compassion, it did not matter to you if we shared our joy with you or whether we were sad about the behaviour of friends, about school or if we were concerned about the health of our bunny - you were happy with us or comforted us with your words and with bible verses. You prayed for us and it means so much to us. Thank you Rob! Because of you we loved to learn English in school - we wanted to be able to talk with you without our parents having to translate. We loved your sense of humor. Now we wish we had known that it was the last time we talked here on earth when you were joking with us and making all these funny faces for us on cam recently. But you have probably much more fun in heaven with Jesus now, and we cherish the memories. We love to watch the video of you playing with Bella and sending greetings to us - now more than ever. You once wrote on a card to us kids: "Enjoy the ride we call life, especially the real life that comes only from our Lord Jesus". We learned a lot from you about Jesus, and you are a shining example of a christian whom we never forget and never stop to love. Honestly, we are still crying here, because we love you and miss you, but we are happy for you that you are with the Lord now. We look very much forward to meet you in heaven! Dear Trevor, Tucker and Judy: Rob loved you dearly and he spoke with so much love and joy of you! May you keep him in your thoughts and always remember the happy moments you shared with him. You were very blessed to have him in your life! We are sad with you and with Roberts whole family and we miss him, too, but we are happy for him because he loved the Lord and is with Him now for all Eternity! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Sara [Edit] |
Date Posted: 11:33:26 08/30/07 Thu Even though I never got the chance to know Rob other than on the face of so many bookcovers my thoughts and prayers are with Rob's family and his friends. My the lord watch over you all in your time of grief. You'll be forever in my heart Rob and through the hearts and souls of others you'll live on. Rest in peace. You're in the arms of the angels now. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kendra Deese Hayes (sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:36:19 08/30/07 Thu Dear Family, I am deeply saddened by the loss of Danny-Rob. What a wonderful person he obviously was and was so well liked by so many people. I knew him when he was much younger. He was always so goodlooking and I can see that time only made him even more gorgeous. You must be so proud of him. I am so proud to know of the deep love he had for Jesus Christ. May God's love give each of you strength and courage during this extremely difficult time. Love, Kendra Deese Hayes [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: J.R. Andersen [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:17:58 08/30/07 Thu I was shocked when I received the call telling me about Danny. Although he and I took two different roads as we grew up he was a dear friend of mine back in the glory days. I remember going to his home as a kid for sleep over parties, riding on his dirt bike and being really impressed with his collection of Evel Knievel action figures. Even as a kid he was a star. I remember Danny’s drum set. And as I remember, it would have made Tommy Lee jealous. Danny always had a smile on his face and was the kind of kid that other kids gravitated to. I have had friends come and go over the years but the shock of this has helped me dig up some fond old memories of a really cool kid. It has also made me wish we would have found a way to stay in touch and not let life get in the way of a friendship. Finally I want to thank Danny’s entire family for picking me to be a pallbearer at his service. I don’t deal with death like most people and this gave me a chance to tell him good-bye. J.R. Andersen [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Linda Davis Moccio [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:59:09 08/30/07 Thu As I sat at the funeral today of our childhood friend, Danny, I was reflecting on so many memories that involve him.... sitting with him in his mom's 4th grade class, singing with him in children's choir at church, doing plays at church dressed up in animal costumes, waving as I passed him on the road in high school... him driving to PJC with his hand up trying to block the sun and me on my way to Foley. I was so overwhelmed with emotion. Emotion for this beautiful person who has left this life too early, emotion for our childhood friendships that are long gone, but not easily forgotten. As I watched some of our classmates carry him out, I was so thankful for the short time that we knew Danny as children and young teens, because that is a pure time in life that stays with us forever. The testimony that he leaves will no doubt affect others, knowing his love for the Lord. What a blessing to have a life that counted for eternity! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Meme Adams Ward [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:18:41 08/31/07 Fri I am so saddened to hear of the passing of Danny. What a beautiful man he was inside and out. We were friends in elementary and middle school, he was always sweet and fun to be with. I have been reading so much about him through the web sites and it is quite amazing all his accomplishments at such a young age. You must be so proud! Mrs. Graham, You will always be in my thoughts and prayers...I hope as eachday passes your sadness will be eased and all your wonderful, beautiful memories will be with you forever. With love, Meme Adams Ward [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lucy [Edit] |
Date Posted: 09:37:34 08/31/07 Fri My thoughts and prayers are with his family and loved ones. A mother should never live beyond her children but take comfort in knowing he was loved by many who never even met him. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Gayla (shocked and sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:31:11 08/31/07 Fri My Condolenses go out to Rob's Family, He was a very genuine person and a very sweet spirt. I only talked to him a few times on line he was always very nice and helpful, Im a personl trainer in Californa, He shared good things with me about working with others and we shared about God and Jesus, he will be greatly missed but theres no doubt in my mind Gods using him in other ways now. May God Bless him tremendously Sincerly Gayla [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Chuck [Edit] |
Date Posted: 17:25:28 08/30/07 Thu Can anyone tell me if Rob ever worked as a trainer out of LA Fitness in South Florida? If not I SWEAR there was a trainer there not too long ago that could have been his twin! Rob was a STUNNING man and will sorely be missed! God Bless him! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: yes that was rob (yes that was rob) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 14:21:13 08/31/07 Fri >Can anyone tell me if Rob ever worked as a trainer out >of LA Fitness in South Florida? If not I SWEAR there >was a trainer there not too long ago that could have >been his twin! > >Rob was a STUNNING man and will sorely be missed! God >Bless him! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Sean O'Brien [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:33:43 08/31/07 Fri We will all miss Rob in this life but as Mark Johnson said, " We will all be together again some day ". Save a spot for me Rob. Sean O'Brien [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Chuck [Edit] |
Date Posted: 07:51:49 09/01/07 Sat I only had the pleasure of knowing Rob casually via the local gym. I was first struck by his INCREDIBLE look .... that face, those eyes and his pulled back hair cut a striking figure that put everyone else to shame. But I came to be aware of a down to earth, compassionate, caring man .... who was an amazing trainer to many. He took the time to train people in the way it should be done .... with patience and a sincere interest in helping others live a better, healthier life! His genuine smile and sincere approach made you feel like at "that moment" you were the only person who mattered to him. I am totally STUNNED by his passing and think of him now every moment that I am in the gym where he once worked. My heart goes out to those who knew him and loved him best. I hope his website will go on as a tribute to a GREAT man who deserves so much more. Knowing he is in THE MOST loving hands now is our only peace. God Bless You Rob! ...... Chuck [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Mary Stevens [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:48:05 09/01/07 Sat I read enough about Rob to see that not only was he a very nice person, but sensed that he was searching and in need of prayer. I was so happy for him when I discovered his testimony and the beautiful picture of him with his little dog on his website. That big smile and glowing eyes said it all. It was such an inspiration to me, I have gone back several times to look at that picture and to reread his testimony. I hadn't realized Rob's place in my heart and life until his loss. I'll alway remember when and where I was when I got the news. Like many others, I was stunned and saddened, grieved at how he suffered, glad he was surrounded by loving family and a loving God. Rob is alive, rejoicing in God's presence. No more pain, no more heartache or confusion, only pure, perfect love, peace and joy. To Kathleen: My heart goes out to you. My son died at 36, three months after accepting Christ. I pray that God holds you close in His lap and wraps you in His love as He did me, now and in the difficult days and weeks to come. Rob is a part of your future. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: ally [Edit] |
Date Posted: 21:10:57 08/31/07 Fri uncle dan was and continues to be an amazing person we all loved him very much, and he will be greatly missed everyone knows he had a great relationship with God and we will see him again in heaven some day. i love you uncle dan [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Cat^..^ (Hopeful) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:26:01 09/01/07 Sat Dear Ally: I remember you well from Thanksgiving almost 4 years ago, and could see how much you loved your uncle Dan. Also, know that he loved you and your sister and brother sooooo much, and also had great love for your mommy, Kim. He would bring you all up in conversation all the time. My heart is with you and your family at this time and I am so glad that you are all together to help each other through this hardship. I will always remember our special time together, Ally. Be well, sweet girl!!!!!!!!!! Lots of LOVE ~ Cat^..^ [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Beth2 aka QB2 ((((((((HUGS)))))))) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 11:01:29 09/01/07 Sat Rob Ashton was truly a gorgeous man, and I’m not just referring to the obvious. He was equally as gorgeous on the inside. Loving, giving, caring, kind, considerate, thoughtful and spiritual. He made us smile, laugh, cry, and yes, even drool! He touched more lives I believe than even he knew. In these last few days as I have tried to come to terms with my own grief over the passing of Rob, I have traveled down memory lane and want to share with you, Rob’s family members, how I came to know him. I discovered Rob while searching the Internet for romance reading groups and authors. I had just recently begun reading romance and wanted to find others online that had a similar interest. My first Rob sighting was on RBL Romantica under the cover model section. I immediately began posting to the RBL book board, my first question being, “Who is Rob Ashton?” and immediately made lots of terrific friends. Then not long after joining them I had the wonderful opportunity to be one of those, as a member of this group, to interview Rob for RBL. That was most exciting for me and from that moment forward a friendship was formed between us. Not to long after I came into contact with Rob through RBL, he began setting up his own website and message board with the help of others and began communicating with his friends online. He even was kind enough to chat online with us many times over the past several years. Again, bringing me more terrific friends not only in this country but in Germany, the Netherlands, Venezuela and England as well. In collecting Rob’s book covers over the years, I also discovered some wonderful authors such as Suzanne Brockmann, Marsha Canham, and Karen Marie Moning, to mention a few. Thus, another way Rob touched my life with adding to my list of friends. I also began searching on the Romantic Times sight for how he got started in the romance industry. A few years after my search began on the RT site, I had the opportunity to attend an RT Convention in Reno, thanks to Kathryn Falk and the dearly departed Nan Doporto, and more friends were made all because of my search to learn more about Rob. To me, Rob was the most gorgeous cover model ever and the ultimate hero! However, he was so much more than that as a man and that is what we will remember the most about him. Yes, over the years there were times Rob and I had differences of opinions, as friends do, but we managed to work them out somehow and I am very glad we were friends. I am also very thankful for all the many friends he brought to me over the years and will cherish them always. Thank you Rob for being a part of our lives and graciously sharing yourself with us. Thank you for being my friend. It still deeply saddens my heart and doesn’t seem possible, and quite frankly I am still shocked, that such a vibrant young man living life to the fullest has passed from this earth. But one never knows when it is their time to move on to a better place, and I firmly believe Rob is in a better place. In remembrance of him and his daily quest to walk closer with God I leave you with a few songs and scriptures to seek out and read upon your own. “The Light House” – song “Amazing Grace” – familiar song to all “Beulah Land” - song Ecclesiastes 3:1-11 KJV (King James Version) Romans 8:38,39 KJV Matthew 5:3-12 KJV Psalm 23 KJV I, as well as many others, will most definitely miss you, Rob, but I have faith we will meet again! My prayers go out to Rob’s family. I hope each of you finds comfort in the fact time is the supreme healer of all emotional wounds and that your wonderful memories of Rob are all that is needed to always have him near. I know I will forever remember my truly gorgeous friend, Rob, who touched many lives. God Bless You All! Sending My Deepest Heartfelt Sympathy, Beth2 aka QB2 – Rob’s friend [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Michelle Kingi (very sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 14:40:10 09/01/07 Sat  I never had the priviledge to know Rob personally, but when Kelli posted the message about his death, I was completely shocked, devastated....the world has lost one of his most handsome men...inside and out. When someone as young and fit as Rob dies...it always comes as a shock, still don't fully comprehend WHY he had to leave this world, much too soon. It does not make any sense to me. Heaven has gained a special angel, the world has lost one. My heartfelt condolences to his family. He will have a place in my heart forever. I usually end letters with "wear the sun in your heart"...Rob HAD the sun in his heart. Michelle [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Halia [Edit] |
Date Posted: 21:14:21 09/01/07 Sat  Although, I never had the pleasure in meeting Rob, he has touched my life in many ways. A few years ago, my son & I followed my hubby to Saudi Arabia where he was contracted for Boeing. It was an adventurous life but I missed my family & friends in California. Being an avid romance book reader, I came upon Rob’s image (via Karen Marie Moning) and was led to the ladies & authors on his website messageboard and RBL Romantica. Throughout the years, I have forged a wonderful friendship with many of these ladies online and in person. They have supported me in good times and bad times, with inspiration and humor. They helped me find books, sent me “goodies” and also the occassional "drool" :). They were always there to comfort & laugh with me, or laugh AT me in some cases. I will never forget the tremendous support I received in 2003, when the compound where I was living was bombed by terrorists. This camaraderie filled my life with the companionship I truly needed it when I felt alone and isolated even with the love of my husband & son. Now that I’m back in California, I continue these friendships and have met even more of these ladies in person. I am eternally grateful to Rob for guiding me to these awesome women and the opportunity to get know in him beyond the handsome face...the kind, gentle and funny man. While I had few interactions with Rob on the boards, I watched him struggle with self forgiveness to spiritual enlightenment. He is a testimonial to all for love, hope & encouragement and will be forever missed. ~~*~~ I thought of you with love today but that is nothing new. I thought about you yesterday and days before that too. I think of you in silence I often speak your name All I have are memories and your picture in a frame. Your memory is my keepsake with which I'll never part God has you in His keeping I have you in my heart. ~~Halia~~ [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Tish (Sadden) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 01:56:17 09/02/07 Sun I would like to send Rob's family and friends my heartfelt condolences. When I heard of Rob's passing on the KMM and RBL messageboard, I was shocked and saddened to hear that such a vital, strong, beautiful man was gone from the world. Although death is nothing new to me, working as a nurse in a hospital, Rob's death has truly shocked me! Although I never got the chance to meet Rob, I've admired his honesty and candid responses in interviews and on his website. I also own many books where Rob's beauty graces the cover, he was the hero women dreamed about. To Rob's family, you're in my thoughts and prayers. May you find the strength and peace in God's love and know that Rob IS in a better place, free of pain. God Bless you and your Family! Take Care! All my love, Tish [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Ronlyn [Edit] |
Date Posted: 12:36:01 09/02/07 Sun I've been trying to think of what to say for a few days, but words simply don't express how sorry I am that Rob is gone. I had the pleasure of meeting him several years ago when I was terribly homesick. He brightened my day with his smile and warmed my heart with a hug. He's had a very special place my heart breaks for Mrs. Graham and the thought of her [your] loss. To Rob's family and friends I send my heartfelt condolences. Rob will never be gone as long as we all continue to remember him. God Bless [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Vicki Nappier [Edit] |
Date Posted: 15:23:17 09/02/07 Sun I was so upset to hear of Rob's passing. We lost not only a beautiful man but a beautiful soul on this earth as well. I wish him well on the otherside. We will miss him. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Annie (Sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 16:33:51 09/02/07 Sun I would like to take a moment to extend my heartfelt sadness and condolence to Rob's family and friend's. I never had the chance to meet Rob but I've heard so many good things about him from his friends that I'm sorry our paths never crossed in this life. I pray that the Lord will give strength and peach to Rob's loved one's and that he will live in our heart's. Annie [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: LisaK [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:53:37 09/03/07 Mon I hear your laugh you know the one that could so easily make us all laugh right with you! That contagious laugh like a car motor first starting up. Our times were care free times. Times of joy and friendship that we will always treasure and remember. I especially think about our fun boating adventures with Judy, D&J, Rich and me. Together we were our own piece of heaven. Rob was a stunning cover romance hero to many, but to us he was real. A man filled with tremendous sensitivity to and for others. He was a real life hero to Trevor and Tucker and a loving partner in everyday life to Judy, his fiancee. There will never be any rational answer to why his life was was so very short.It reminds us all how fragile life is. We love you Rob and will miss you tender, warm and humble soul. My deepest heartfelt condolences. LisaK [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kel (at peace) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:56:40 09/03/07 Mon I remember very clearly the day I first found Rob on the internet. It was the day my life completely changed, started off in a whole new direction, a wonderful adventure that is still going strong. If it wasn't for Rob, I would never have met a VERY long list of people whom I'm blessed to call my friends. It all began with him, those many years ago. As I read these posts and all the countless emails I've received this week, and all the phone calls I've received, I've heard over and over a common thread, of people wanting to know why he was taken so young, that somehow his life was wasted. All you have to do is absorb all the outpouring of love from so many different directions, going back so many years, to see he definitely had a purpose and his life was defnintely not wasted. Rob was a shining example of the famous qoute, "The candle that burns the brightest, burns the fastest." Rob's candle burned so very brightly. His light will alway shine in my heart. And whether you knew him as Rob, Robert, Robio, Roberto, Ashton, Graham, Ash, Danny, Ashtongunner, Mr. A. (and I'm sure many more)... he was so many different things to so many different people. But the common thing was his light. It pierced the hearts of everyone he met and left a forever lasting mark on all.... I would like to say a very special thank you to everyone who has sent me so many emails and phone calls and just a tremendous outpouring of love and concern. This has been a very tough week and your loving thoughts have been very much appreciated. This weekend I drove down to S. FL and was able to spend some time with some of Rob's family and loved ones and had a very special "goodbye" evening with a few of his and my dear old RT friends. It was a wonderful, bittersweet weekend, but it was good being able to say goodbye. Thank you all again. With Love, Kel [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Virginia T. (We will miss you!) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:47:07 09/04/07 Tue It was my pleasure to have known Rob, the many times spent with him were so enlighting and fun for me. His compassian and understanding of others was unbelivable He will be missed by so many whose lives were touched by him! He was so loving and kind to my daughter, Judy and her sons Trevor and Tucker. He used to tell me they were the family & children he didn't have.....and the love that he showed them was always present. He thought of the boys as his own and there was nothing he wouldn't have done for them. I always thought that someday he might be my son-in-law. We would have many long talks about life, the children & how well they were getting along! It has been very sad for Judy & the boys these past few weeks. Judy spent every day with him while he was so sick and never left him alone! It is very sad times for her & the children, & all of us who cared so much. Your love for my family was so strong and we all will miss you so much.......... MAY GOD BLESS YOU, ROB FOREVER! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Author Judy Leigh Peters aka Judith Leigh (In Loving Memory) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:33:41 09/05/07 Wed I was deeply sadden to learn of Rob's death. The world of book covers has lost one of the best. The first time I meant Rob was at the Mr.Romance Contest the year he won! I later saw him in Tampa and Jacksonville, Florida. I treasure the pictures I had taken with him. What impressed me so much with Rob was the way he respected everyone and always showed the southern gentlemen he was. I will never forget those beautiful eyes of his. They showed so much compassion and love. No one loved life better then he did and he lived it to the fullest. You will always be missed. My heart goes out to his family. Love, Judy [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: In the arms of the angels | |
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Author: Nina Davis [Edit] |
Date Posted: 12:06:21 09/05/07 Wed Sadden shock doesn't begin to describe hearing the news of his passing. The last time I saw Rob was RT 2001, a sweetheart with the warmest smile. My heart and prayers go out to his friends and family. We'll miss you, Rob. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Patty [Edit] |
Date Posted: 22:18:47 09/05/07 Wed My prayers and condolences to Rob's family and friends. Taken from us at such a young age. He will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathy. Patty Harrison [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: I just heard. | |
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Author: KJ (Sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:25:59 09/05/07 Wed May God be with his family and friends. My heart goes out to you all. God Bless Always! KJ WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME When tomorrow starts without me, and I'm not there to see; If the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me; I wish so much you wouldn't cry the way you did today, while thinking of the many things we didn't get to say. I know how much you love me, as much as I love you, and each time you think of me I know you'll miss me too; But when tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand, that an angel came and called my name and took me by the hand, and said my place was ready in heaven far above, and that I'd have to leave behind all those I dearly love. But as I turned to walk away, a tear fell from my eye, for all life, I'd always thought I didn't want to die. I had so much to live for and so much yet to do, it seemed almost impossible that I was leaving you. I thought of all the yesterdays, the good ones and the bad, I thought of all the love we shared and all the fun we had. If I could relive yesterday, I thought, just for awhile, I'd say goodbye and kiss you and maybe see you smile. But then I fully realized that this could never be, for emptiness and memories would take the place of me. And when I thought of worldly things that I'd miss come tomorrow, I thought of you, and when I did, my heart was filled with sorrow. But when I walked through heaven's gates, I felt so much at home. When God looked down and smiled at me, from His great golden throne, He said, "This is eternity and all I've promised you". Today for life on earth is past but here it starts anew. I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last, and since each day's the same day, there's no longing for the past. But you have been so faithful, so trusting, and so true. Though there were times you did some things you knew you shouldn't do. But you have been forgiven and now at last you?re free. So won't you take my hand and share my life with me? So when tomorrow starts without me, don't think we're far apart, for every time you think of me, I'm right here in your heart. by: David M. Romano Daddy4sons@aol.com Copyright ? David M Romano December 1993ox [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Wanting to say goodbye.... | |
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Author: angela (very sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 16:41:39 08/29/07 Wed I have seen his beautiful face on so many books, I can't count them...I never knew him personaly but most of my reading buddy's and me felt we did, he was a beautiful fantasy that came to life in books...I can not tell you enough that he will be missed amoung thousands. I want to send his family, fiance, friends and everyone out there who is grieving over his loss,You are all in my thoughts and prayers, may he rest in peace in the arms of an angel. Now he will never feel an ounce of pain or suffering again, God bless his precious soul.   [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kathleen Graham Roberts (Thank you for the picture) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 05:26:34 09/06/07 Thu Dear Angela, Thank you for the beautiful picture of angels streaming down from Heaven. This visual somehow helps. I pray he is resting in the arms of angels. Kathleen, Rob's mom [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Robert Daniel Graham | |
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Author: Trina Coss (Heartbroken) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 06:35:06 08/30/07 Thu I've started writing, erased, and written again. I can not seem to find the words to express how incredibly heartbreaking this is for me. I'm going to do my best to say what I want to say without sounding like a stumbling idiot. I met Rob in the summer of 1993 in Atlanta, Ga. I was a young, new mother who didn't know up from down. We were introduced by a mutual friend of ours, Delores, who was my manager and she had known Rob for quite some time before he and I met. We spent alot of time talking about life (present and past), our home life, the situation with my getting pregnant and we quickly became practically inseparable for close to four years. Unfortunately we then lost touch after he moved from Atlanta. My brother and I did a photo shoot with Rob in 1996 for a calendar he was to be in called "The Men of Romance". For whatever reason, the photo we chose for the calendar did not make it to print. I am the only person who holds these photos and I plan on sending Mrs. Roberts and the rest of the family an 8x10 of this beautiful depiction of Rob. I would also like to obtain her permission to print copies of that photo and other frames from that session to sell to fans and friends. Mrs. Roberts and Gordon, if you're reading this, please contact me at your convenience and let me know that I have your blessing to go forward with my plan. My goal is to donate all proceeds from the sales to the American Heart Association in Rob's name. Rob never met a stranger and was always kind to everyone. I miss his passion, compassion for others, and his beautiful smile. The world will not be the same without him and I know we will reunite when the time is right. I love you my dear friend! Trina Coss Atlanta, Ga. This is a candid photo taken by my son the day of the photo shoot. The poor little guy was so short at the time (around 3 and a half, he's now almost 15) that he cut the top of Rob's head off, even when sitting down lol. I do not want to post the actual shot I will be sending to Kathleen until she receives it.  [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kathleen Graham Roberts (The Photo Shoot) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 05:40:41 09/06/07 Thu Trina, I would love to have the 8 X 10 unpublished photo from the photo shoot. It is very generous of you to offer to share it with me. Any and all of the shots of Rob would be most appreciated. Feel free to publish other photos and contribute proceeds to the American Heart Association in Rob's name. This is a candid photo taken by my son the day of the >photo shoot. The poor little guy was so short at the >time (around 3 and a half, he's now almost 15) that he >cut the top of Rob's head off, even when sitting down >lol. I do not want to post the actual shot I will be >sending to Kathleen until she receives it. > > >href="http://photobucket.com" target="_blank"> >/Robincar.jpg" border="0" alt="Photo Sharing and Video >Hosting at Photobucket"> [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kathleen Graham Roberts (Picture from Shoot) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 05:41:56 09/06/07 Thu >Trina, I would love to have the 8 X 10 unpublished >photo from the photo shoot. It is very generous of >you to offer to share it with me. Any and all of the >shots of Rob would be most appreciated. Feel free to >publish other photos and contribute proceeds to the >American Heart Association in Rob's name. > > > > >This is a candid photo taken by my son the day of the >>photo shoot. The poor little guy was so short at the >>time (around 3 and a half, he's now almost 15) that he >>cut the top of Rob's head off, even when sitting down >>lol. I do not want to post the actual shot I will be >>sending to Kathleen until she receives it. >> >> >>href="http://photobucket.com" target="_blank"> >1">http://i119.photobucket.com/albums/o151/TrinaCoss1 >a> >>/Robincar.jpg" border="0" alt="Photo Sharing and Video >>Hosting at Photobucket"> [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: In The Arms Of The Angels | |
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Author: April Wilson [Edit] |
Date Posted: 05:28:03 08/29/07 Wed Dear Graham Family, I never had the opportunity to meet Rob in person but we did talk on the phone quite a lot. We shared a few of the same friends from when he lived here in Georgia. I am greatful for the moments that we got to share in Bible. Whenever we would talk that was what it was about. He would always send me a scripture through email and ask me to look it up and then we would discuss it when we would talk. One morning when he could not sleep from being in pain with his knee he called me and asked me if I had heard the song from City Of Angles (Angels)he said it had become one of his favorite songs. This is the video link. http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=7324089 My heart goes out to all of you for your lose. May God give you peace and strength during this difficult time. Love In Christ April [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kathleen Graham Roberts (Closing song at funeral) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 05:16:39 09/06/07 Thu >Dear April, Thank you for sharing the link to the song In The Arms Of The angels. Many times while Rob was in the hospital I prayed that angels would be with him especially during surgery. I prayed that God would guide the hands of the doctors and nurses. At Rob's funeral the last song sung was I Can Only Imagine. Just wanted to share with you. Rob's mom, Kathleen [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Elizabeth M.V.Roberts (Sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 03:58:55 09/09/07 Sun Hello Everyone...I and a visitor from the web site of the other romance Icon Fan based Fabio. Another of our members posted the news of the shock, sadness and loss of every one here at ROB ASHTON.com. I am here to say How sorry I am to His Family and to all of you who loved and admired him. Romance is Romance and we all have our personal HERO representing our fantasy. Rob...though I wasn`t part of this group to know him as you all do and did, handled his end in making the romance industry a HANDSOME place to be. He was a good guy...and will be greatly missed by all!!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: K.Chan (Stunned sadness.) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 06:51:56 09/09/07 Sun I just learned about Rob's passing and am stunned. He was such a warm,caring and honest person. I offer my deepest condolences to his family ..know that you do not walk alone during this difficult time. As many have said Rob is in a better place and we will all meet again. God bless. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Romance has lost a hero | |
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Author: ladypugs aka Nally [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:11:14 08/28/07 Tue How many times have I chosen a book because of Rob's beautiful face on the cover, too many to count! He was a hero to us ladies on so many levels. He was the image of our hero, be it historical or contemporary, he was our fantasy come true. Heaven has gained an Angel and he is in the arms of GOD. My prayers go out to his family. He will always be remembered and cherished. WE LOVE YOU ROB. Nally [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Reatha Castro (Very sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 15:16:28 09/09/07 Sun I was sorry to hear the news of his passing....I was mearly a fan that enjoyed his personality,and modeling. I've learned through these posts, that was much more to him. My prayers go out to his family and friends....to Rob, I'm sorry to see you go, but happy you are in no pain any more....May God know who you are....and welcome you.>How many times have I chosen a book because of Rob's >beautiful face on the cover, too many to count! He was >a hero to us ladies on so many levels. He was the >image of our hero, be it historical or contemporary, >he was our fantasy come true. > >Heaven has gained an Angel and he is in the arms of >GOD. My prayers go out to his family. > >He will always be remembered and cherished. WE LOVE >YOU ROB. >Nally [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Memories will always live on | |
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Author: SouthernBrit ( Jan ) (Sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 16:49:08 09/10/07 Mon I never knew Rob personally but seeing his Bookcovers his Photo,s and reading his Interviews i think if there was an ideal man it would be him . We all have this fantasy man but from reading about the real person Rob ( Daniel ) Ashton was ,i think the fantasy man came to life in many many women,s lives . He made our world a better place we all felt we knew him although many of us had never met him. If one man can do that it gives us all hope that there are special people out there and we will never forget him. Im glad he is at peace with the angels and suffers no more pain . My heart goes out to his family and people who were special in his lives he will always be remebered . We miss you Rob . [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Thank you, J.R. | |
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Author: Kathleen Graham Roberts [Edit] |
Date Posted: 06:20:41 09/13/07 Thu J.R. Thank you so much for being a pallbearer at Danny's funeral and thank you for the memories of childhood with Danny that you shared. I talked with Ryan Anderson the other day who shared similar stories; somehow those memories have help a little to lesses my grief, so I thank you. Mrs. Graham (Danny's mom) [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Video of Rob and Bella | |
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Author: Kathleen Graham Roberts [Edit] |
Date Posted: 06:12:35 09/13/07 Thu I would love to see the video of Rob and Bella. Thank you for your kind words about Rob and your sympathy for the family. Kathleen (Rob's mom) [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Steffi <>< [Edit] |
Date Posted: 11:15:31 09/13/07 Thu Dear Kathleen! You are very welcome. Our whole family misses Robert a lot, and we think of you very often and pray for you all! I made copies from the video on CD for you and your family, and I will send them, together with some pictures of Robert, as soon as I get them back from the photo laboratory. God bless you all and we pray He surrounds you with His peace and comfort. Steffi <>< [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: So sorry for the loss | |
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Author: Lisa Noel (Sorrow) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 14:35:36 09/13/07 Thu So sorry for his families, friends, and his fans. I am new to this site and was looking through all the models. He was incredibly handsome, but seems to be so much more as I looked through the postings. I believe in better places after this life, faith and love never die, just catch wings so they can fly. God Bless you all, my heart and prayers are with you. Lisa [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My condolences to Rob's family and loved ones... | |
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Author: Kady [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:33:13 09/14/07 Fri I am so sorry to hear of Rob's passing. He has always been one of my favorite cover models on the romance books I love, and I know he will be missed by many, many people. God Bless... [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Danny Graham | |
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Author: Geoff Lipscomb [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:02:37 09/16/07 Sun I first remember Danny when I went to a party at his house, which I think was his birthday party. We all stayed up all night playing pool, listening to records, watching TV, jumping on the trampoline. I actually stayed up to 4 AM. I think I was in the 4th grade. I played little league baseball with Danny. He was a good player and competitive. I still have the team picture.He was always a friend to me in elementary school. He introduced me to Mongoose bicycles, KISS albums, and Farah Fawcett. All of these are little things, but when I look back, I have great memories of him. I was sad to hear that he had died but really happy to hear that he had a personal relationship with our Lord. I know that we will all miss him. - Geoff [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Geoffrey Lipscomb [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:04:01 09/16/07 Sun >I first remember Danny when I went to a party at his >house, which I think was his birthday party. We all >stayed up all night playing pool, listening to >records, watching TV, jumping on the trampoline. I >actually stayed up to 4 AM. I think I was in the 4th >grade. I played little league baseball with Danny. >He was a good player and competitive. I still have >the team picture.He was always a friend to me in >elementary school. He introduced me to Mongoose >bicycles, KISS albums, and Farah Fawcett. All of >these are little things, but when I look back, I have >great memories of him. I was sad to hear that he had >died but really happy to hear that he had a personal >relationship with our Lord. I know that we will all >miss him. - Geoff [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Rebecca Hammel [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:37:20 09/17/07 Mon I'm completely shocked. I've been sending Rob Instant messages, wondering why he wasn't responding. I was his roomate for 4 years in Atlanta. My first funny memory of him was putting his first hair extensions in his hair when I met him. I dared him to do it and he was completely embarrassed for a day or two. AND then he had more attention then he knew what to do with. We discussed coming up with lots of characters for him to take pictures as.........he showed them around and the rest is history. The truth, it also spawned a downward slide that lasted way too long. His most public success was also his darkest days, and I'm so happy that his old goodness came to the surface again, once he moved back home and he found his calling and his mission. He was a great guy and he finally realized it and found his peace through religion and family. I'm so glad he became grounded again and at his most happiest and healthiest in every sense. I'm very sad I missed the chance to give him some crap, raz him about our roomie days, and reconnect with him. Very sad, but I know he's happy with where his journey has taken him. Rebecca [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Love You Rob | |
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Author: Katherina (sad, depressed) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 21:56:32 09/18/07 Tue I can't believe it. I loved you ssoo much Rob, I'll miss you alot! But now you are with the angels...I always thought you looked like one. (A very sexy angel) but an Angel none the less. Rest In Peace, Rob. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Julian Fantechi [Edit] |
Date Posted: 15:28:07 09/19/07 Wed I never met you Rob but my heart goes out to you and your family. May you rest in peace. Julian [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Gwendolyn (Sad, hopeful) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 21:20:07 09/20/07 Thu I hope to meet you in heaven someday, because that is definatly where you are. Rest in peace dear friend. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Silvya, Wohali Ageyv (Great sadness.) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:55:05 09/21/07 Fri I have have only just heard this sad news .. and I am deeply saddened. He was blessed with such a beautiful smile and the good looks .. but .. he also walked in much kindness. I extend my condolences to his family, as they deal with this great loss. With deep respect, Silvya, Wohali Ageyv [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Joe Pintinalli "Pierce" [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:39:26 09/24/07 Mon We shared many fun times working together in Atlanta. You will truly be missed. "Pierce" [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: blue [Edit] |
Date Posted: 15:50:52 09/26/07 Wed welcome home danny...*tears*...may you love eternal in immortal beauty. God bless you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Sorry | |
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Author: Rosie (Sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 05:04:14 10/06/07 Sat I write romance novels and only found Rob yesterday, 10/5. When I created the description of my main male character back in August who is also Cherokee and English/Irish, he was a perfect match, right down to eye color. When I saw Rob's website I couldn't believe my character actually existed. And now I just learned he is gone. I am crying while I'm typing. I understand the pain of your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you and I am so happy that he knew Jesus. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lisa (Shocked and sorrowful) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 15:55:58 10/06/07 Sat I am just a romance reader who found Rob's website on a whim. He, to me, was the perfect man to represent the fantasy of romance. I was more impressed that a man so beautiful on the outstide, seemed to be even more beautiful on the inside. What a blessing it is to me to see a man such as he. How rare and special! I know no one is perfect, but it gave me such hope and joy to know that he served Christ "out loud". He was not ashamed and I think God is using him still to be a testimony for Him. Reading all the posts just proves that. How proud the Graham family must be of their son/brother. I can't imagine a greater gift than to know such a handsome and vibrant man was still humble enough to proudly serve his Saviour. I am so sad to know he is not in the world with us. I didn't even know him, but I know his family and friends can feel comfort that he is safe in God's arms now. God bless you Rob and your family and friends. I know I have renewed my faith in God and want to be a better person and serve him like I should. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Robert Daniel Graham, aka Rob Ashton | |
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Author: Gordon Douglas Graham (Robs last days;told by his bro) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 20:30:15 08/28/07 Tue Rob had an infection in his Aeorta valve which required open heart surgery about 3 weeks ago. He had this valve replaced and was recovering very well. He was still in Boca Raton community hospital fighting this recurring infection, plus fluid buildup in his lungs and behind his heart, when he had a weakened blood vessel rupture in his sleep last Friday morning. He underwent emergency brain surgery but the blood clot was too massive and the damage too great. He never regained consciousenss. His family agreed to remove artificial life support on Sunday, and he passed away peacefully. Funeral services will be held this Thursday in his hometown of Foley, Alabama. He will be greatly missed, but he is finally at peace. May God rest his soul, The Graham Family [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Vera Jones [Edit] |
Date Posted: 06:08:21 10/07/07 Sun >I knew Rob very well, when he toured Britain and Europe as a member of the Chippendales dance group. He was a lovely young man, always smiling and happy and happy to chat and spend time with me. I drove him several times, if he needed to be somewhere and didn't want to take the bus. I always used to tell him what beautiful eyes he had, and once when he was on tour in Amsterdam he bought green contact lenses as he wanted to have eyes of a different colour! I am so sad to hear of his passing to the stage in heaven, but he will now be reunited with another great friend of mine,and his from his touring days, John Blaylock, who died 3 years ago. Two more beautiful stars together in heaven. Rest in peace boys, love you always, Vera (from England). [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Shawn (Sorrowful) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:27:20 10/11/07 Thu I just heard of Mr. Graham's passing. From reading all the postings, he must have been one special person to inspire so many tributes. He's another angel looking down from above. My heartfelt sympathies to his loved ones. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Cat^..^ (Lonely) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:03:04 10/20/07 Sat Almost two months have passed since Robert left us, and I miss him so much. I can't believe that we will not have a chance to hug him once more, to tell him how beautiful he is, inside and out. I remember his goodness when speaking with others and how kind and polite he was. I struggle with this loss daily. I also know that there are others out there who also feel the same. I have not visited this site for sometime and thought it was time that I did. I want so much to see him once again!!! Perhaps in Heaven. Cat^..^ [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Nancy [Edit] |
Date Posted: 02:25:32 10/23/07 Tue I wish to offer my condolences to Rob's family and friends. I know that there is nothing that can be said to make the pain ease when you lose someone; however, please know that many people care, and Rob will never be forgotten. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Grieving ........still | |
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Author: Aliage Dumont [Edit] |
Date Posted: 01:34:28 10/27/07 Sat It has been 2 months now. I am doing a little better but not much. I'm still hurting and I miss you and think of you everyday. Aliage [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Theresa (shocked) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 12:36:22 10/29/07 Mon My heartfelt condolences go out to Rob's family and friends. No amount of words can describe how shocked I was to hear of his death. Even though I never had the privilege of meeting this wonderful person, I still cried and grieve still over his death. Now the angels are watching over him, and one day we will all meet him in heaven. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: monica boomsma [Edit] |
Date Posted: 07:27:12 11/02/07 Fri I was looking for pictures today from Rob and so i read the said news my heart was still pumping verry quick because i could'n beleave it That man who was always looking good ..... I have seen him years ago as a chippendale and that was the moment that i said: thats the most beautyful man on earth I have follow him all the years on internet The shock was verry big and i will wish the family and all the friend the best May Rob rest in peace a big fan from Holland [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Rob's passing | |
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Author: Wade Yoder (Sad, but happy) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 16:18:05 11/06/07 Tue I just wanted to write in to show my appreciation for Rob and the keeper of this site/ memorial to Rob...Thanks. I met Rob quite a few years ago, probably 1998 in P.C.B. Florida. He met a friend of mine Tiffany Suddeth and they dated for about a year. He was a great guy, but it sounds like he had even more to offer later in life, with his new found peace. I think its absolutely awesome that he was also able to help others in their Christian walk. He had a dynamic personality, and i am really happy that he has left a legacy of his faith and an example behind for all of us. I recently almost lost my life along with my dad and brother in a small plane crash in Virginia on October the 10th, 2007. I found out how important it is to not put off the things that really hold value and are important to us, we may not have tomorrow. Life is a blessing and not a promise. My heart is with Rob's family and other friends that have grown close to Rob over the years, i am sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Wade Yoder [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kathleen Graham Roberts (With love, from Mom) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 22:17:44 11/19/07 Mon Rob, I think of you day and night. I miss your sweet spirit and your smiling face. I think that this must be a bad dream and surely I will wake-up and you will still be here on earth. Please know how much I love you and miss you. I am so proud you were my son and you touched so many lives. Your profession of faith gives me hope that we will meet again. I love and miss you, Kathleen (Mom) [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: hélène [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:13:07 11/23/07 Fri I'm french girl , i don't speak your language vey well. See my site http://www.nainain1967.piczo.com/ i create a pic with rob i don't join this in the message. rob tu nous manques [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Til we meet again... | |
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Author: Cat^..^ [Edit] |
Date Posted: 17:25:03 08/28/07 Tue I am feeling so many emotions right now as I am sure many of you are, and it's hard to keep focused, so I hope this will come out the way I intended. I was fortunate to get to know the real Rob 4 years ago, the simple man who loved the Lord with all his heart and soul. He was never completely happy on this earth, it's like there was something missing and the spirit man battled the flesh man constantly. The happiest I have ever seen him was when we would attend church service and he could sing worship songs and we would pray together. His beautiful face would light up with love for Jesus and he was always grateful that he was a child of the Most High One!!! That's when his eyes would light up and he would wear the sweetest smile. As sad as I am for the ones who are left behind, I am at rest knowing that he is where he will no longer feel any pain or suffering, where no tears are shed and where he will finally be at peace with himself. He will always hold a very special place in my heart and will never be forgotten. My prayers are now with his family, but especially his mother because I know how much she loves him and always will and how much she will miss him. He had a wonderful heart and a lot of that love was because of his mother. Kathleen, may you find the strength to get through this very difficult time. God bless everyone whose life he has touched in so many special ways!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your sister in Jesus, always!!! Cat^..^<>< [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kathleen Graham Roberts (A colorful butterfly) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 05:50:14 09/01/07 Sat >Cat,thanks for sharing. I take comfort in the fact that Danny did know the Lord. Remember the special butterfly that visited the flowers at his grave. He is truly free and in a heavenly rehab. Kathleen grateful that >he was a child of the Most High One!!! That's when >his eyes would light up and he would wear the sweetest >smile. > >As sad as I am for the ones who are left behind, I am >at rest knowing that he is where he will no longer >feel any pain or suffering, where no tears are shed >and where he will finally be at peace with himself. >He will always hold a very special place in my heart >and will never be forgotten. > >My prayers are now with his family, but especially his >mother because I know how much she loves him and >always will and how much she will miss him. He had a >wonderful heart and a lot of that love was because of >his mother. Kathleen, may you find the strength to get >through this very difficult time. > >God bless everyone whose life he has touched in so >many special ways!!!!!!!!!!!!!! > >Your sister in Jesus, always!!! >Cat^..^<>< [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: kathleen labree (so sad,) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 12:45:25 11/26/07 Mon >DEAR KATHLEEN GRAHAM ROBERTS. I;VE WRITTEN TO JUDY A FEW TIMES TELLING HER OF MY SADDNESS OF ROB;S PASSING AND LETTING HER KNOW THAT I;M HERE IF SHE EVER NEED;S SOMEONE JUST TO TALK TOO, THE SAME GOES FOR YOU AND ANY OF ROBS OTHER FAMILY. I DON;T KNOW HOW YOU FEEL HAVING NEVER LOST A CHILD BUT I CAN ONLY IMAGINE THE PAIN YOU MUST BE GOING THRU LOOSING SUCH A WONDERFUL SON AS ROB, HE SOUNDED LIKE SUCH A CAREING AND LOVING PERSON, I NEVER GOT TOO MEET ROB IN PERSON BUT JUST FROM THE NET AND ALL THE LETTER;S I;VE READ ABOUT HIM, I FEEL SO VERY CLOSE TO HIM, I;VE GRIEVED OVER A MAN I;VE NEVER MET AND MAYBE THAT ISN;T RIGHT BUT I;M THE KIND OF PERSON WHO WARES HER HEART ON HER SLEAVE, HE WAS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL MAN WITH EYE;S AND A SMILE THAT COULD MELT ANYONES HEART, I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, I LOST MY MOTHER THREE YEARS AGO RATHER SUDDENLY AND IT STILL HURT;S FOR THAT LOSS SO I CAN IMAGINE HOW YOU AND ALL YOUR FAILY MUST BE FEELING RIGHT NOW, IT;S BEEN THREE MONTH;S TODAY AND ROB AND ALL OF YOU ARE STILL IN MY THOUGHT;S AND PRAYERS, MAY GOD;S LOVE SHINE ON ALL OF YOU AT THIS TOUGH TIME IN YOUR LIFE AND COMFERT YOU IN KNOWING THAT ROB IS WITH GOD NOW, WHERE ALL ANGEL;S BELONG, I WISH WITH ALL OF MY HEART AND SOUL THAT I COULD CHANGE THINGS AND BRING YOUR DEAR ROB BACK TOO ALL OF YOU, THAT I'M AFRAID IS IN GOD;S HANDS, I WOULD LIKE SOME DAY TO VISIT AND PUT FLOWERS ON ROBS GRAVE, IT;S STILL SO HARD FOR ME TO LET GO AND SAY THAT HE IS DEAD SO I;VE DECIDED THAT HE IS NOT DEAD, HE;S JUST GONE HOME, MAY GOD BLESS YOU AT THIS HOLIDAY SEASON AND HELP YOU THRU IT WITH THE HOLIDAYS AND HIS BIRTHDAY SO NEAR, LOVE AND GOD BLESS EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU. KATHLEEN, (KAT) LABREE [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: madison (saddened and devastated) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 20:20:35 12/14/07 Fri Dear Graham family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I've been a casual reader of romance novel for several years and was aware of Robs' success. The last thing I expected to see was a notice of his death on a fan website. To say I'm shocked is an understatement. In his most famous photos, Rob is a very young man & that's how I always naturally think of him. He was still an extremely young man when he passed and I know it was God's will and it's all part of his master plan; but it will never fail to strike me that this is a MAJOR LOSS not only for you his family, but also for his friends, fans and just for the fact HE HAD SO MUCH LIFE TO LIVE. He was so young. Period. The world losing Rob will leave me a different person, souly for the senselessness of his loss. I've come to the realization that (at least from my opinion), the world in general see cover models as ageless because the pictures we see over and over never age whoever's shown and we never take the time to stop and think that they are human, they do age and they can become sick. So when we're confronted with the news that one like Rob is sad or sick or even dead we're floored and devastated. I'm sorry and sad. Just sad and I can't understand why he had to leave. God Bless Him, you his family, his loved ones and may He keep him safe. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Wirthmylove (Sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:04:45 12/17/07 Mon The person above me, Madison, expressed exactly everything I've been feeling...but I will add just a little more. Up until a few weeks ago I had never heard of Rob Ashton..even though I've been reading romance novels for over 15 years. I happened upon this website via a link on a romance novel book cover site and to my utter shock found that this gorgeous man had died 3 months earlier. To say that I was devastated was putting it lightly. I've thought so much of Rob these past 2 weeks..cried for him..worried about him. I've taken his death harder than any celebrity I've ever heard of. I can only imagine how his friends and family are going to make it through today...his 39th birthday and the upcoming Christmas holiday without his presence. I just wish I had known about Rob when he was alive...so I could look at his pictures without feeling such overwhelming sadness. One thing that stands out so much from his photos were his amazing eyes..not only for their beautiful color but for the kindness that radiated from them. I've never seen a celebrity with such kind eyes. His wonderful spirit and good heart were apparent..all you had to do was look at them. So in closing, Happy Birthday Rob. I love you and will miss you even though I've never met you. Rhonda  [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Aliage [Edit] |
Date Posted: 14:29:24 09/21/07 Fri I accidently found out yesrerday-9/20/2007 about Rob. It floored me. I am a nobody fan that loved a cover model named Rob Ashton. I can't seem to shake this hurt. I have that picture of Rob in the blue shirt on my desktop and everytime I turn on my computer since yesterday, I look at his pic and the hurt comes back. I have lots of pictures of Rob from different web sites. My fav is from Keli's site the one of her and him. I am not an obsessed fan, just someone who loved a beautyful human being with a beautyful soul. I could see and feel that through his pictures. I will really miss someone that I never knew. I am struggling to get through this hurt. Even though when I looked at that picture I knew that he was older and did not look that way anymore it did not matter because I knew that he was alive somewhere. Now .....I can't say that anymore and that is what is hurting me so. This writting probably won't go anywhere, because like I said I'm just a nothing fan. Good-bye Robert Daniel Graham aka Rob Ashton.....I will always remember you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Wirthmylove [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:11:11 12/17/07 Mon Honey, you are definitely not a "nobody fan"...you're a wonderful person that took the time to send good wishes to someone you've never known...that makes you more important than any celebrity out there. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Janet-Marie (.) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:58:30 12/25/07 Tue Dear Mrs. Graham and Family, I know it has been 4 months since Rob's passing but I just learned of the news last week. Please know I am very sorry for your loss and will keep Rob, you and your family in my prayers. I keep reading over and over how Rob found God and rejoiced in his life with the Lord. I also keep reading what a down to earth gentleman he was which is quite refreshing in today's "must be perfect" society. God truly blessed him not only with physical beauty but a spiritual beauty that can never fade. I know this is a cliche however my Mom always let me know "It is not the length of time you are given, but what you do with that time that matters." Rob touched so many lives with his time (whether he met them personally or not) and is an inspiration in faith that will live on... Once again, I will keep all those Rob loved in my prayers....JM [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: cindy mattison (I am so sorry for your loss) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 21:28:56 01/08/08 Tue I am so sorry that you have lost Rob I never met him I still think he was a great guy and I have been crying ever since I found out about his passing he was only 11 month's younger than me and I just found out last week and I have been grieving since then. He will be sadly missed, my prayers go out to his family and to judy and her boy's I hope you will be able to move on with your lives but alway's remember the good time's that you had with him.He really was a great guy and very handsome and will never be forgotten. I know what it is like to loose people you loved. I lost three very important people to me. I Have never had to do the hard thing's that you have had to do But I know he is in a better place with god and is not suffering anymore.I have a few picture's of him to remember him by my favorite one is of him in the blue shirt and white slack's he look's so good in that great shot.and that is the way I choose to remember him.from what I have read about him here he seemed like such a great person the world has truley lost a very special guy and he will never be forgotten everyone will truly miss him. he will make a perfect angel. every time I see a sunset I think of him and his smile and I see him in my heart he will be missed very much. And every time I see the first blue bird of spring I will think of him and you all to.He will be forever in my thought's and in my prayer's. to Judy and her boy's you had a very special relationship with him I just wish he was still here for you love in person but I know he will forever be in your heart and in your thought's please except my condolences your friend cindy mattison p.s please feel free to e-mail me if you need to talk about anything at any time and I will keep in touch with you through here if you wish to.Just remember that He will alway's be with you no matter what. he will alway's be in your heart's and mind's and dream's. it will take time but the pain will ease as time goes buy but he will never be gone as long as we all remember him . [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: ELAINE (knowing you are now ok Rob...) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 17:50:40 08/28/07 Tue YOU were the first real covermodel I knew from a few years ago Rob and you set a standard many still hope to achieve and I only got to talk to you online but I know you are ok where you are and now it is your family that is left behind to deal with it all. For your family I wish them well and know how hard it is I am still dealing with mom leaving and if I know her say hi up there to her maybe for me. She knew your pics too before she left us. Take care and be safe and watch over them all here if you can now you get to do that and know that you are truly loved by them. I wish you well and know you are not in any pain and are ok .. and are just on another plane but still around for your family. We will miss you.. Elaine [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Marlene Carter (shocked!) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:06:10 01/23/08 Wed Can anyone tell me what happened to Robert, we were truely good friends. We knew him from the coronet club and he spent a lot of time with us at our Marina in TN. Please someone let me know what happened. I just found out by looking on the web and searching for him! I am in shock!!! >YOU were the first real covermodel I knew from a few >years ago Rob and you set a standard many still hope >to achieve and I only got to talk to you online but I >know you are ok where you are and now it is your >family that is left behind to deal with it all. > >For your family I wish them well and know how hard it >is I am still dealing with mom leaving and if I know >her say hi up there to her maybe for me. She knew your >pics too before she left us. > >Take care and be safe and watch over them all here if >you can now you get to do that and know that you are >truly loved by them. I wish you well and know you are >not in any pain and are ok .. and are just on another >plane but still around for your family. > >We will miss you.. > >Elaine [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Marlene & Lee (heartbroken) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:35:44 01/25/08 Fri Our hearts are broken.... if only we had stayed in touch, but I guess it wasn't Gods plan. We loved you; your Mom has so much to be proud of! I pray God gives her more smiles than tears. I'm thankful we were friends and the memories will always be in our hearts. I know we'll meet again and until then rest in Gods loving arms. With love and respect, Lee & Marlene [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Michele Bowie (Deeply Saddened) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 07:43:29 01/26/08 Sat I did not know Rob as well as many here. In fact, he and I only talked on the phone a few times back in 2002/3 about a possible cover shoot, and we chatted online a bit. But our conversations, which started out as an interview of sorts, lasted for extended periods of time. He was an easy person to talk to, and with, because he was so down to earth. With Rob, what you saw on the surface was enhanced even more by an inner beauty. Maybe that's why so many saw a hero in him. If I'd had the opportunity to know Rob better, I believe we would have been great friends. He was a very genuine and likable soul; and in this business these traits are not always easy to find. He will be missed, and remembered fondly. To his family and friends, please accept my belated but deepest condolence. Sincerely, Michele Bowie [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Doug Graham -father of Rob (Danny) (Thanks to everyone) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:46:21 01/19/08 Sat I haven't been able to discuss Rob's (Danny as I usually call him) passing because I become so emotional & can't talk. Tears are flowing now as I type even after months since his death. I want to thank everyone that knew Danny for your love, concern & prayers. There are so many things I wish I had done differently during his life, but I am so proud of him, so proud to have been his father & most of all so proud he was a Christian. I visit his grave every Sunday & talk over old times. I pray I will see him again one day! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Cat^..^ (melancholic) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:21:33 02/04/08 Mon Dear Doug: You may remember me from 2003/04 when we came to visit you at your home on a couple of occasions. Rob had such high regard for you and I know he loved you very much. All he ever wanted was your (and his mom's) love. For example, he would watch a football game so he would be able to chat with you about it afterwards and always looked for things he had in common with you so that he could feel closer to you. His family was always so important to him. Thank you for having me in your home and being so kind to me. I sense your pain, and truly wish there was a way I could help ease your suffering; but I know that it is not possible. Nothing I can do or say can take away your sorrow. However, I know that Rob can hear you speaking to him and that he knows in his heart of hearts just how MUCH you love him. You will see him again one day -- I just know it! Next time you stop at his resting place, please tell him Cat said hello! God bless you, Sir, and please know that I am truly honored to have had the pleasure of meeting you (and the rest of the family), and especially Rob. I learned so much from my experiences with him!!! Respectfully, Cat^..^<>< [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: This is how I choose to remember Rob - April 2003 | |
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Author: Cat^..^ [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:13:57 11/14/07 Wed  What a special human being God blessed us with!!!!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: kathleen labree (SAD) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 09:39:48 11/27/07 Tue => WE DON;T KNOW EACH OTHER BUT I;VE BEEN SO VERY SAD OVER THE DEATH OF ROB, I KNOW HE IS IN HEAVEN WITH OUR LORD AND CREATORE, HE WAS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL MAN, THE PIC ABOVE IS JUST A BEAUTIFUL PICTURE OF HIM, JUST KNOWING OF HIM HAD MADE ME WANT TO GET CLOSER TO GOD SO WHEN IT;S OUR TIME. WE CAN ALL BE TOGETHER IN GOD;S HOUSE, MY PRAYER;S GO TO HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS AND FANS, I PRAY FOR THEM AND FOR ROB DAILY, KATHLEEN, (KAT) LABREE [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Cat^..^ [Edit] |
Date Posted: 22:17:30 02/04/08 Mon Just a little correction... this pic was taken March 2004. Love always!!!!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: delphia2000 [Edit] |
Date Posted: 11:41:43 02/06/08 Wed I was so sad to hear this news. My condolences to his family and friends. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: The pain lingers on | |
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Author: Gordy Graham (tears) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 11:29:32 02/24/08 Sun 6 months ago today that you had the "brain bleed" and died... The pain just doesn't go away. I still cannot look at your picture without tears and heartache. I miss you so much... I'm still here in California but I visited your grave a couple weeks ago and feel some kind of comfort in knowing that you there in Foley next to family. I read so much here about how important family was to you... I wish we could have spent more time together. You were a truely blessed individual... I never imagined you would die and be taken awy from us. You had found this wonderful lady in Florida, who loved you so much, and then this had to happen. And you were so happy and full of life after your surgery... I thought you were on your way to a better life, and then I got that horrible call... telling me that you had slipped into a coma. I knew you were gone, but they put you on those machines for a couple of days, hoping for a miracle. I know you are in a better place now because you are free of all the pains in your body and mind. Thanks for letting me live vicariously thru you and your accomplishments. It was one hell of a ride!!!!! I love you brother... and I miss you terribly. But you get to live on forever as the beautiful person that you were. Sweet dreams. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Cat^..^ (numb) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 20:35:49 03/04/08 Tue Dear Gordy: So glad you are able to get past through the hurt. That's what life is all about. I lost my father, right after Robbie died and it has been so hard for me to move on; but we must. Thank you for speaking with me tonight. It helps to talk about is. You've helped me a lot. Hang in there, bro, it will get better. Lots of love, Cat [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Aliage Dumont (Still there) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:10:29 03/29/08 Sat This still hurts so bad. I thought that I had gotten past this but I have'nt. I'm trying. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Vicki Hinze [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:10:54 08/28/07 Tue Rob was a wonderful person who inspired many. It's amazingly difficult to lose someone so young, and my thoughts and prayers are with his mother, Kathleen, and his family. Kathleen, know that your son was respected and admired by many, and we mourn his passing. May you find the strength to endure and know peace that surpasses understanding. Blessings, Vicki Hinze [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kathleen Graham Roberts (My wonderful son) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 04:18:22 09/05/07 Wed >Thank you so much for your kind words about my son. I agree Rob was a wonderful person who inspired many. It's >amazingly difficult to lose someone so young. Thank you for your thoughts and prayers and for sharing that my son was respected and admired >by many. I know that Rob knew Jesus as his personal savior and that is my greatest blessing. My second greatest blessing was getting to spend with Rob his last two days on earth. Kathleen > >Vicki Hinze [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Dawn Baker (Remembering) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 11:25:47 04/09/08 Wed I had the pleasure if spending a lot of time with Rob during his many trips to the UK whilst touring with Chippendales. We has many a laugh with his two main buddies, Tim Romano & Garrett Mecagni after the shows. I fondly remember Rob leaping on to my lap during a show when I was not paying attention. Needless to say I am quite at lit smaller than Rob and he fell through my needs and landed on the floor. He laughed so much he could not get up. He will be forever remembered for his smile & cheekly sense of humour. God bless my trusted friend. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kel [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:49:17 04/11/08 Fri Next week marks the 25th Anniversary of the Romantic Times Booklover's Convention, during which a group of us are hosting a Cover Model Reunion Dinner. Many of the past Mr. Romance winners will be there, and Rob had originally planned to attend as well. I remember he was very excited about the event, which was in the beginning planning stages at the time. Throughout the week we will all definitely be keeping him in our prayers and thoughts. I know he will be terribly missed by so many. Rob, this one's for you..... xxoo... Kel [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Amy Walker (Tears) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 06:47:45 05/23/08 Fri I did not know until now that this beautiful man had left us. I am devastated . I have his beautiful face on many of my very favorite novels. I will miss him with my whole heart, This Beautiful Man, this beautiful Angel. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Amy Walker (Devastated) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 06:48:45 05/23/08 Fri >I did not know until now that this beautiful man had >left us. I am devastated . I have his beautiful face >on many of my very favorite novels. I will miss him >with my whole heart, This Beautiful Man, this >beautiful Angel. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Amanda [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:29:47 05/25/08 Sun **I wish to express my regrets to his family in regards to the passing of this great man who will always be remembered as a face for millions of us romance novel addicts!! he helped us fans build our imagination & storyline of each novel he has been on the cover of.....!! May he be remembered alwayz!!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lee & Marlene Carter (Thinking) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 04:59:30 08/21/08 Thu Well my friend, it's been almost a year since we all lost a wonderful loving dear friend. We miss you and know you are in the loving arms of Jesus, in the home he has prepared for all of us who believe in Him. My thoughts and prayers are for those of us left, that we too can keep the faith during our walks thru valley's that we will know He is with us. God be with us, give us strength as you our friend Robert. With love and Faith in Jesus, Marlene [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Tracey Scott (nostalgic) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 14:18:50 08/24/08 Sun I don't know if you rememeber me. Its Tracey. I was Rob's girlfriend in Atlanta, back when we were so young. You were kind enough to take our cockatiel, that wouldn't stop whistling. Thank you so much for that. I just wanted you to know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, with the anniversary coming up. It looks like he really turned out to be a good man. I am so sorry for your tremndous loss. Its so unfair. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kimmie [Edit] |
Date Posted: 15:50:25 08/24/08 Sun Because of love for you I know of him and wish to say....he is loved, the man who is your hero. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Linnae [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:33:38 08/29/07 Wed I didn't have the opportunity to meet Rob in person but I've been a fan since I read a magazine interview he gave in late 2001. I was a frequent visitor to his website message board, where I met some wonderful women and enjoyed Rob’s posts. The message board closed down a few years ago but I have happy memories from that time. I am glad he was in a good place in his life and that he had found someone special. My thoughts and prayers are with the Graham family, his fiance, and close friends during this sad time. He has finished life’s journey and left earth for eternal joy in heaven but Robert Daniel Graham will never be forgotten by those who loved him or his fans. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Gordy Graham (tears are flowing) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:50:35 08/25/08 Mon Thank you! Well said :( >I didn't have the opportunity to meet Rob in person >but I've been a fan since I read a magazine interview >he gave in late 2001. I was a frequent visitor to his >website message board, where I met some wonderful >women and enjoyed Rob’s posts. The message board >closed down a few years ago but I have happy memories >from that time. I am glad he was in a good place in >his life and that he had found someone special. > >My thoughts and prayers are with the Graham family, >his fiance, and close friends during this sad time. >He has finished life’s journey and left earth for >eternal joy in heaven but Robert Daniel Graham will >never be forgotten by those who loved him or his fans. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lisa (Grief Stricken) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 05:44:50 08/31/07 Fri You always showed up at my door when the trouble and pain in your life were too much to handle on your own. I am humbled that you trusted me to help you through those times. I was thrilled when you finally listened and joined the men's group at your church. Having brothers in Christ to help you along is a great blessing. It was wonderful to hear the joy in your voice at each new discovery of God's love and forgiveness. When you called me your Angel on Earth it made me smile and thank God for allowing our time on this planet to be shared. When you couldn't drive due to your knee injury and we waited in the clinic for hours until the Doctor could get clearance to treat you and you bruised my hand from holding it so hard for so long, I really didn't mind... until you saw the bruises later and cried because you didn't mean to hurt me. Then when you kissed the bruises better... that's when I cried because your heart was so pure. For nine years my heart and home were your safe escape from the world. I am blessed to know that Kelli Salkin and Mark Johnson were also there for you when you were in too much pain to face your fans in Orlando and we could visit in your room and pray together. May God bless both of you. Now you are gazing on the face of God and finally at peace and free from pain. For your Mother: Kathleen, Your gift to this world was far greater than you may ever have dreamed. Your son possessed a heart of gold, a soul filled with compassion and love, eyes you could lose yourself in and a smile that would soften the hardest of hearts. That smile could also cause women to forget to breathe. There were times when his sense of humor was a bit risque... boys will be boys... but he was never spiteful. He was always a gentleman and respectful of his elders. He was a role model to untold numbers of people who wanted to improve their health and fitness. He was a true friend to all of us privileged to know him. God has gained a special Angel in Rob and the earth has lost a true Hero. Thank you for your love and guidance in Rob's life. May God's love lift you up and bless you in this time of sorrow. Please know that there are thousands of prayers being said for you and your family. Draw from this well of blessings and strength to weather the grief of your loss. Love and Hugs, Lisa [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Gordy Graham (Tears are flowing) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:26:03 08/25/08 Mon Thank you Lisa. I am really glad you were a part of his life. :( >You always showed up at my door when the trouble and >pain in your life were too much to handle on your own. >I am humbled that you trusted me to help you through >those times. I was thrilled when you finally listened >and joined the men's group at your church. Having >brothers in Christ to help you along is a great >blessing. It was wonderful to hear the joy in your >voice at each new discovery of God's love and >forgiveness. When you called me your Angel on Earth it >made me smile and thank God for allowing our time on >this planet to be shared. When you couldn't drive due >to your knee injury and we waited in the clinic for >hours until the Doctor could get clearance to treat >you and you bruised my hand from holding it so hard >for so long, I really didn't mind... until you saw the >bruises later and cried because you didn't mean to >hurt me. Then when you kissed the bruises better... >that's when I cried because your heart was so pure. >For nine years my heart and home were your safe escape >from the world. I am blessed to know that Kelli Salkin >and Mark Johnson were also there for you when you were >in too much pain to face your fans in Orlando and we >could visit in your room and pray together. May God >bless both of you. Now you are gazing on the face of >God and finally at peace and free from pain. > >For your Mother: Kathleen, Your gift to this world was >far greater than you may ever have dreamed. Your son >possessed a heart of gold, a soul filled with >compassion and love, eyes you could lose yourself in >and a smile that would soften the hardest of hearts. >That smile could also cause women to forget to >breathe. There were times when his sense of humor was >a bit risque... boys will be boys... but he was never >spiteful. He was always a gentleman and respectful of >his elders. He was a role model to untold numbers of >people who wanted to improve their health and fitness. >He was a true friend to all of us privileged to know >him. God has gained a special Angel in Rob and the >earth has lost a true Hero. > >Thank you for your love and guidance in Rob's life. >May God's love lift you up and bless you in this time >of sorrow. Please know that there are thousands of >prayers being said for you and your family. Draw from >this well of blessings and strength to weather the >grief of your loss. > >Love and Hugs, Lisa [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Aliage Dumont (Slàn leat) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 03:26:52 08/26/08 Tue To Kelli and all who made it possible for us to show Rob our love. Thank-you. It has been 1 year. We all have come to say good-bye. Some of us more than once. God bless the Graham family and his fiance with the strength to heal. It has taken some time for me to get over this hurt. Thank God that I finally am healing. And, I hope everyone else is too. This man Rob was a really special person. He was you know. To have touched so many people who never knew him or met him. You never ever ever forget a person like Rob. I will always think of him. I will NEVER forget him. Robert Daniel Graham, Slàn leibh Aliage Dumont [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Aimee [Edit] |
Date Posted: 17:39:19 08/28/07 Tue What a tragedy! But knowing that he knew our savior Jesus Christ gives me great peace in spite of it, because even though I never had the honor of meeting him in life, I will meet him in the sky. My thoughts and prayers for strength are with his family and loved ones left behind. God bless you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Terry Stuart (At Peace) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:13:34 05/27/08 Tue I never met Rob, but I have pictures of him on some of the books I have. I didn't know that he knew Jesus as his Savior. I was glad to read that. He must have been a very special person. As I looked at his website I wrote a poem and placed it on an e-card, so I will have to share it with all of you. It came out real good. He will be missed, but he still lives on in our memories. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Cat^..^ [Edit] |
Date Posted: 04:47:21 08/23/08 Sat Dear Terry, You must share that poem with us, please. With love, Cat [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Gordy Graham (tears are flowing) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 01:48:52 08/28/08 Thu Well share it with me... cause I am having a real hard time... thanks! >I never met Rob, but I have pictures of him on some of >the books I have. I didn't know that he knew Jesus as >his Savior. I was glad to read that. He must have been >a very special person. As I looked at his website I >wrote a poem and placed it on an e-card, so I will >have to share it with all of you. It came out real >good. He will be missed, but he still lives on in our >memories. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Doug & Joyce of Boca Raton [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:03:08 08/28/08 Thu Amazingly a year has gone by since Robs passing..Rob was a good, kind and gentle person and we think of him often. I am sure Rob is having a good time in heaven... Our best to all his family and friends [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Linnae [Edit] |
Date Posted: 01:02:51 09/02/08 Tue It's still difficult to comprehend that Rob is no longer somewhere in this world living his life. I've thought about his close friends and family many times this past year and pray that each day becomes a little easier. There is a poem that has always soothed my soul when I've faced grief or difficult times. The Plan of the Master Weaver Our lives are but fine weavings That God and we prepare, Each life becomes a fabric planned And fashioned in His care. We may not always see just how The weavings intertwine, But we must trust the Master's hand And follow His design, For He can view the pattern Upon the upper side, While we must look from underneath And trust in Him to guide... Sometimes a strand of sorrow Is added to His plan, And though it's difficult for us, We still must understand That it's He who fills the shuttle, It's He who knows what's best, So we must weave in patience And leave to Him the rest... Not till the loom is silent And the shuttles cease to fly Shall God unroll the canvas And explain the reason why --- The dark threads are as needed In the Weaver's skillful hand As the threads of gold and silver In the pattern He has planned. ---Author Unknown I'm sure that Rob's weaving was a beautiful finished tapestry and that he now understands all the reasons why and is at peace. God Bless You Rob for all the hearts you touched. Linnae [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Gayla (thankful) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 12:51:10 09/02/08 Tue I haven't been here in a long time. I only new Rob from the internet and he was such a nice person. I hope his famliy and fiance are healing, Time and prayers are the only thing that seem to heal some of the wounds. Im so thankful that Rob new the Lord and it makes such a difference to know he went to some where better, Its so hard for the loved ones that are left behind. I pray that his family and freinds are starting to have some peace. Thank you for letting us have a place to share and to read others sharing, Gayla [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Shawn (Hopeful) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 15:03:25 08/26/08 Tue It has been a year since Rob's passing. I hope his loved ones have found some bit of comfort in knowing that so many people loved and respected him. He will always be remembered by those whose lives he touched. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Gordy Graham (tears are flowing) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 02:29:48 08/28/08 Thu Shawn, thank you man. It is such a trip to know my baby bro touched so many peoples lives... it is surreal. He had a heart of gold... but was always so shy and unsure of himself. How he got into all he got into is another trip. I think it was with the right cocktail of drugs... he needed the help to go out on stage and do what he did. Or to go on to TV... I think he did it all with the necessary drug of the day. Trust me... I know the need. It's a family tradition. So I got a funny story for you... and a quote I will never forget... he goes into the hospital in Boca Raton for Kidney failure... they tell him he's got a staph infection and needs a heart valve replacement... which he had. The classic quote.. "I need open heart surgery??? Thats cool... I want a Dilaudid drip." Morphine. That was my bro... "and there goes my hero... " It has been a year since Rob's passing. I hope his >loved ones have found some bit of comfort in knowing >that so many people loved and respected him. He will >always be remembered by those whose lives he touched. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: angie moysak (offer of help) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 15:16:21 09/11/08 Thu Dear Gordon, I only discovered your sad news 2 days ago and wondered if I may use your email address listed in a message here to contact you? I didnt know Rob and am only yet another drooling female, lol, but I feel a need to chat with you having read of your grief. There are things I would like to share with you.My email address is angieb223@hotmail.com I will understand if you do not wish to enter into correspondance and hope that your best memories of Rob are now beginning to shine through your sorrow. Your sister in Christ, love angie xxx >Shawn, thank you man. It is such a trip to know my >baby bro touched so many peoples lives... it is >surreal. He had a heart of gold... but was always so >shy and unsure of himself. How he got into all he got >into is another trip. I think it was with the right >cocktail of drugs... he needed the help to go out on >stage and do what he did. Or to go on to TV... I >think he did it all with the necessary drug of the >day. Trust me... I know the need. It's a family >tradition. So I got a funny story for you... and a >quote I will never forget... >he goes into the hospital in Boca Raton for Kidney >failure... they tell him he's got a staph infection >and needs a heart valve replacement... which he had. >The classic quote.. "I need open heart surgery??? >Thats cool... I want a Dilaudid drip." Morphine. >That was my bro... "and there goes my hero... " > >It has been a year since Rob's passing. I hope his >>loved ones have found some bit of comfort in knowing >>that so many people loved and respected him. He will >>always be remembered by those whose lives he touched. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Holly Bridges (bittersweet) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 11:09:37 05/28/08 Wed My name is Holly and I met Rob about seven years ago by accident...after I had attended my first RT Convention with my best friend...and at the time I had never heard of him. But through some strange and devine intervention Rob and I met online by complete coincidence while I was researching some information on Michael Parkes...he is my favorite artist! We ended up becoming great friends and he even let me read his last RT Magazine interview before it was published...we started chatting online everyday for a few months and then suddenly he invited me to attend a Black Jack tournament he was entering at a Casino Majic near Gulf Shores Mississippi...I was a bit shocked but flattered that he asked me to go..so on the advice of my own mother...I went. We were to meet at the hotel but it was raining cats and dogs that night...and being from a small town in Louisiana...I hadn't traveled much alone..so I was really nervous and got lost about three times...so I called the hotel to ask directions and they said that he had called as well and was running late to go ahead and show me to our rooms. So...I got there...and it was so funny...I was soaked to the bone and freezing cold...and the women at the desk were looking at me like "I can't believe Mr. Graham is seeing HER!"...but they were nice and let me go on up and get cleaned up before he got there. He had just had surgery on his knee before that and so was still using a cane...so when we saw each other for the first time...it was so sweet...he kissed me rite on the lips and hugged me close! We had the best time that weekend and we even pretended we were engaged! I'll never forget our first dinner...as we sat down to order..some man behind me spilt his wine all over me and I had to go back to the room and change...it was all very dramatic..and so Rob and I had a late supper in the restaurant all alone and he had gotten me a half dozen roses for when i got back...he had ordered lobster and then we shared a peice of cheesecake while he told me about his family and is dad and about thier love of motorcycles and his babydog Bella! Rob was a very cuddly man and had a great sense o humor and I will never forget the most romantic weekend of my life! He will be missed greatly and my prayers go out to his family and friends! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Gordy Graham (call me) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 22:29:34 08/21/08 Thu email me at douginabug@yahoo.com or calll 707-789-9407 [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Holly Bridges [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:03:15 09/11/08 Thu It has been months since I logged on to write or read anything else from Rob's family and freinds...and I just moved to Ft. Worth...I had no idea you had written me...but I will call you as soon as I can...and most definately write you as soon as possible...I think maybe we spoke on the phone all those years ago...but only once...I look forward to hearing back from you...I really hope this finds you in good spirits...I too lost a brother when I was 18...we were very close...and in a few days..it will be 12 years he has been gone...but it still seems like yesterday...so please feel free to write me anytime. my email is lucy_green07@yahoo.com... >email me at douginabug@yahoo.com >or calll >707-789-9407 [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Denise Edmonds [Edit] |
Date Posted: 20:11:13 09/11/08 Thu My heartfelt blessings and prayers to the family and all the friends that Rob touched in his lifetime. He was a wonderful person inside and out. I'm still shocked to think that he has left us... When I first heard, I was shocked, sad, and speechless. I met him in Atlanta, became friends, and he visited with me for several days before heading to Florida when we lost touch and never spoke again. I'm happy to know that he found love and when he left us, he was fulfilled. I hope Bella is still around and sharing his spirit. He loved his Bella for sure. May God bless and keep him in our hearts always. God Bless you Rob... you were a part of many lives.... We loved you and will never forget you... [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Gordy Graham (smile) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:52:28 09/11/08 Thu >My heartfelt blessings and prayers to the family and >all the friends that Rob touched in his lifetime. He >was a wonderful person inside and out. I'm still >shocked to think that he has left us... When I first >heard, I was shocked, sad, and speechless. I met him >in Atlanta, became friends, and he visited with me for >several days before heading to Florida when we lost >touch and never spoke again. I'm happy to know that >he found love and when he left us, he was fulfilled. >I hope Bella is still around and sharing his spirit. >He loved his Bella for sure. May God bless and keep >him in our hearts always. God Bless you Rob... you >were a part of many lives.... >We loved you and will never forget you... [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Gordy Graham (numb) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 01:13:53 09/14/08 Sun >My heartfelt blessings and prayers to the family and >all the friends that Rob touched in his lifetime. He >was a wonderful person inside and out. I'm still >shocked to think that he has left us... When I first >heard, I was shocked, sad, and speechless. I met him >in Atlanta, became friends, and he visited with me for >several days before heading to Florida when we lost >touch and never spoke again. I'm happy to know that >he found love and when he left us, he was fulfilled. >I hope Bella is still around and sharing his spirit. >He loved his Bella for sure. May God bless and keep >him in our hearts always. God Bless you Rob... you >were a part of many lives.... >We loved you and will never forget you... hey Denise... we are doing OK... Its been one hell of a year. Bella is doing great.. queen bee on my dads farm... with about 7 bigger dogs sniffin after her... but I'm told she holds her own. I'm doing OK nere in San Fran... [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Gordy (sd) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 01:29:49 09/14/08 Sun I was just saying how happy Bella is these days... but I"m sure she misses Rob... just like the rest of us. "There goes my hero"... Foo Fightes" [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Angie (weepy) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 05:04:16 10/21/08 Tue Hello, As previously stated, Rob/Danny's outward beauty was rivaled only by his inner magnatism. With a smile bright enough to read by, he was a true hero, gone too soon. A spirit so full of love and admiration that our Good and Gracious Lord wanted him home by His side. While Rob battled his share of demons, as we all do, I believe his soul never allowed him to be apart from God and that is what kept him going through the rough spots. His unyeilding faith was what shone through in that captivating smile that warmed a person from the inside out. A genuine Christian spirit and wonderful example of God's divinity. My heart stills tears when I hear a song on the radio, or look at a picture of my beloved hero. Ron/Danny was a treasure amongst men. A gift from God, and an intstrument of His Word. God Bless you, Robert Daniel Graham. And THANK YOU for the spark in time! You truly lit up our lives. My uncle died Sept. 6, 2007 from a long battle with Renal Failure. He passed away while sleeping in his chair, his wife sitting beside him and reading some literature Hospice had just given her. Below is a poem I wrote, read by his granddaughter at his funeral. God's work is truly amazing, for I wrote this at 4am the morning following his death having awakened with the tickling urge to write down the words running through my head. It should be mentioned that I do not write poetry. This is what came out on the first and only draft. I thought I'd share it here as I think it can, does and and will eventually apply to all of us. To Rob's/Danny's family: God Bless and keep you. My heartfelt prayers go out to you. I believe Rob has finally found what he was searching for all his life. He was truly one of God's chosen...as well as ours. {{{BIG HUGS}}} I Love you, Rob...(I have sent a special request that your blazing smile is there to greet me at the pearly gates when my times comes around. lol) =0) Anyway,here's the poem; I think Rob would have liked it... HE Was Heard to Say “It is time, it is finished,” HE was heard to say And no one questioned HIS decision that day. For it fact it had been Fated, written down in HIS book Long before the first sunrise, Before the very Earth shook. The sky grew dark, murky with gloom As every spirit huddled to see in the room. “Who is it? Who’s coming, returning today?” “One of MY Chosen,” HE was heard to say. “Pull out the banjos, sound the trumpets, Prepare the ice cream, the crumpets! Tell Hazel, Jack, Pauline and Gus, Tell Martha and Robert Another son shall join US!” Heaven and Earth rumbled with great roars of thunder As HIS messenger heralded, “David is coming! Prepare the way for our beloved hunter!” Looking down from the Heavens, The Angels all stared. At a man tired and weary, Fast asleep in his chair. Looking down on his loved ones As his spirit was lifted, A tear burned David's cheek, “Thank God, I was gifted.” He arrived at the gate, A frown marring his forehead And asked of St. Peter, “I feel great, am I dead?” “You’ve left your earthly body, Your suffering has ended. Come in, rejoice, WELCOME HOME! HE’ll see your loved ones mended.” “But my family,” David started “I can’t leave them down there. I have to get back, Please, send me back to my chair!” “You’re a heavenly being, No restrictions on you. You can go where you like Whether the earth or the moon." He tested this theory And was happy to see His loyal wife and grandbabies, His daughters--all three! “They will fare well, They’re strong, you’ll see. They had great mentors, Both You and ME.” Back up to Heaven David rode on HIS robe, A celebration in progress, His own mansion and throne! “Uncle Dave?” a voice called, And he turned to see Johnny and Ernie, his young nephews Their faces shining with glee. David's spirit was glad Finally free of distress, He took comfort in the knowledge, He’d done his very best. HE’d been right when HE said His family was strong They’d fare well in his absence, Comfort each other, when the days seemed too long. One day they would unite Joyce, his girls and he, But until that day comes, He’d watch over their lives, Quiet as can be. “I’ll be there for you, of that you can be sure.” David smiled on his family, The dog sprawled on the floor. “Come David, There’s something I want you to see. A field full of rabbits and deer, Football on every T.V.” “Welcome Home MY good son, You’ve endured great trails. You have a pure heart, Lightened many loads with your smiles.” “Come, we’ve a feast Prepared this special day, To celebrate a life well lived,” HE was heard to say. Written in loving memory of Uncle Dave Lewis, Angie, 9/7/2007 God Bless one and all, In loving memory, Angie [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Angie (Faithful) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 07:24:57 10/21/08 Tue I decided to tweak this for Rob... farewell, for now, my friend. HE Was Heard to Say “It is time, it is finished,” HE was heard to say And no one questioned HIS decision that day. For it fact it had been Fated, written down in HIS book Long before the first sunrise, Before the very Earth shook. The sky grew dark, murky with gloom As every spirit huddled to see in the room. “Who is it? Who’s coming, returning today?” “One of my Chosen,” HE was heard to say. “Pull out the drums, sound the trumpets, Prepare the ice cream, the crumpets! Tell Elijah, David, Ruth and Gus, Tell John and Paul Another son shall join US!” Heaven and Earth rumbled with great roars of thunder As HIS messenger heralded, “Robert is coming! Prepare the way for our beloved brother!” Looking down from the Heavens, The Angels all stared. At a man tired and weary, Fast asleep in the bed. Looking down on his loved ones As his spirit was lifted, A tear burned Robert's cheek, “Thank God, I was gifted.” Robert arrived at the gate, A frown marring his forehead And asked of St. Peter, “I feel great, am I dead?” “You’ve left your earthly body, Your suffering has ended. Come in, rejoice, WELCOME HOME! HE’ll see your loved ones mended.” “But my family,” Robert started “I can’t leave them alone. I have to get back, Please, send me back to my home!” “You’re a heavenly being, No restrictions on you. You can go where you like Whether the earth or the moon!” He tested this theory And was happy to see His beloved mother and siblings, His father, and Judy “They will fare well, They’re strong, you’ll see. They had great mentors, Both You and ME.” Back up to Heaven Robert rode on HIS robe, A celebration in progress, His own mansion and throne! “Danny?” a voice called, And he turned to see His doting grandparents, Their faces shining with glee. His spirit was glad Finally free of distress, He took comfort in the knowledge, He’d done his very best. HE’d been right when HE said His family was strong They’d fare well in his absence, Comfort each other, when the days seemed too long. One day they would unite His family, friends and he, But until that day comes, He’d watch over their lives, Quiet as can be. “I’ll be there for you, of that you can be sure.” Robert smiled on his family, Sweet Bella, sprawled on the floor. “Come Robert, There’s something I want you to see. A field for your cycles, Football on every T.V.” “Welcome Home MY son, You’ve endured great trails. You have a pure heart, Lightened many loads with your smiles.” “Come, we’ve a feast Prepared this special day, To celebrate a life well lived,” HE was heard to say. Revised in loving memory of Robert Daniel Graham, Angie, 10/21/2008 [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Cat (Blessed) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:12:55 11/01/08 Sat Hi Angie, Thanks so much for sharing this lovely poem... it made me tear up in a good way. It's been over a year and I am still having difficulty with his passing. I truly loved him so very much and I can only imagine how much his family is missing him--much more then I. Robert was so happy when we prayed together and attended church service. That was his passion, and I personally feel that he is home now and will never suffer again. I can't wait to join him and our Father in Heaven. That is where I belong as well... I have never felt at home here on earth either. God bless... and big ((((HUGZ))))!!!!!!!!! Cat [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lori (dazed and confused) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:26:29 11/26/08 Wed Cat, I have been trying to get a hold of you! How are you doing? Email me ljones@pulaskitech.edu and let me know how you are doing. Lori [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Doug Graham- Rob's father (Thanks) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 07:07:35 12/04/08 Thu Once again Rob's birthday is almost here ( Dec 7th) It is a day I look forward to each year as it reminds me of so many wonderful memories; mainly the first time I saw him when he was born, Dec 7, 1968. I am so thankful to all of you & so many friends that loved him so much during his lifetime & hope you all will remember him every year on his birthday. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Shawn Ann (Hopeful) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 11:18:01 12/04/08 Thu Mr. Graham: You and the rest of Rob's family are in my thoughts and prayers, especially during this holiday season, when you gather loved ones close. I hope it gives you some comfort knowing that he will never be forgotten, especially on his birthday........ [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Angie (Grateful) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:02:49 12/06/08 Sat Thinking of you, Rob, on your birthday. I think of you often, but especially today. You're truly unforgetable. Thanks for being born in my lifetime. The memory of your sweet smile is salve to my soul. Much love, Angie [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Angie (confused) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:08:27 12/06/08 Sat This was posted Dec. 7th at 2 a.m.....strange it has the 6th as the date. God Bless and may Rob's memory live on through those that knew and loved him, always. Angie [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Aliage Dumont (:)) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 03:15:44 12/07/08 Sun Happy Birthday Rob. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lucinda Metcalfe [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:06:14 12/28/08 Sun I just found this site when I was looking for the models of my favorite books the Highlander by Karen Marie Moning I found he was on the cover of her book Beyond the Highland Mist it was not on his web site though. I am deeply sorry for his family's loss. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Janey (UK) (So glad he was my friend) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:34:16 01/17/09 Sat Shockingly, I have only just learned of this devasting news. Mainly, because I have been far too busy working long hours (to surf the internet) and during the last year my own father had heart surgery, has been poorly & now has recently passed away. Therefore I am truly sorry I am so late in posting this message and passing on my sincere condolences and deepest sympathy to Kathleen, Doug, Gordy, Judy & boys - my thoughts and prayers are with you. I really miss my Dad, but he was 88 - so much nearer the normal time to leave this earth than Rob at 38!!! God Bless them both, they have joined the numerous stars in heaven to watch over us, until we meet again one day.............. The first time I met Rob - I thought WOW - what charisma! His eyes were like magnets, so messmerising, his smile "heart melting" and his hair gorgeous! I have great memories of the time I spent with Rob and can say wholeheartedly he made me feel like so important & attractive! ( & from someone so stunning himself, that was such a compliment) My photo's will cheer me through dull days in life & my thoughts of Rob - will give me that extra sparkle in my eyes when I think of him - which is often, as he shares his birthday with another good friend of mine - 7th Dec. He was a truly, wonderful guy & may he rest in peace he touched my life & I will always remember him! I hope you - his family will be comforted by all the love and messages on this webpage - proving the gift he had to inspire and touch so many people in his short time here. May you have the strength and courage to get through the darkest days ahead, when you remember the sunshine radiated from Rob's smile. Janey (England) X O X [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: CLAUDIA JAYNE RICO WESTERKAMP (SHOCKED) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:03:21 01/23/09 Fri HI, I JUST FOUND OUT ABOUT ROB, I KNEW HIM FOR 3 YEAR ON HIS EUROPEAN TOUR IN HOLLAND. IT REALLY BREAKS MY HEART TO LOSE SOMEBODY THAT YOUNG. FOR ALL HIS FAMILY, YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND MY PRAYERS. MAY HE REST IN PEACE. LOVE, CLAUDIA JAYNE [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Heather Nichole (sad, but thankful) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:51:27 03/30/09 Mon Hi to Rob's family, I hope this message finds you with some peace about Rob leaving us. I sit here feeling proud by reading the messages people have written and knowing that I at least had some small part in planting a seed for Christ in Rob. Certainly not to take any credit, but as a testimony and encouragement to others to let your light shine at all times, because you never know when the fruit of it will pay off. I feel proud now, as I read the blogs that I, first of all had the opportunity to know Rob and secondly, that I shared what I knew about the love of Christ. I believe there are people who plant seeds, those who sew and those who reap the end result of bringing someone to Christ, all roles are vital to someone coming to know the Lord. I met Rob about 15 years ago, we became close friends, had some romantic involvement, but were much better friends. We shared many deep conversations about life and I loved sharing my faith and the love that God has shown me in my life to Rob. He was always like a sponge and so sweet about wanting to make himself a better person always. I had taken him to church, I think a couple times. It's been so long the details are fuzzy. I moved to LA for 7 years and lost touch. I have wondered many times where he was and was deeply saddened today to find out from someone who knew him of his death. I am, however proud of the decision he made and the obvious impact he made in so many people's lives. I am glad so many people got to know and be touched by the special person that I knew, Rob Graham/Ashton. I am glad to know where he lives now. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Doug Graham (Thanks) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:51:45 04/05/09 Sun Heather Isn't it ironic I would see your post today just after I returned home from visiting Rob & his grave site on Palm Sunday! Thanks for the kind words and especially for being a dear person to & for Rob! We miss him so much every day but believe in the truth that we know where he is for eternity & we will be with him again one fine day! Next Sunday morning ( Easter) when the Sun 1st starts up I will be there by his side thanking Jesus for giving him to us for so many fine years. I just wish others could be with us as Jesus will be there, I know! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Letter to Rob | |
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Author: Cat^..^ (melancholic) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 04:35:58 02/28/09 Sat Dear Robbie... I have missed you so much, especially during the past couple of weeks... don't know what it is, but I had a dream about you and your face was so lit up and so beautiful, and you kissed me with such love and tenderness. It is amazing how I can still hold on to so much love in my heart for you. No one can ever compare... not that I should compare, but it is what is is... and you have no idea how much you have impacted my life. You were truly a special human being, not just a gorgeous bod, but truly a beautiful soul. I love you my friend... You must be having sucha great time in Haven!!!!!!!!! I love you Kathleen, Douglas, Gordy, Kimberly and the rest of the family... I sometimes look at photos from our visit in 2003 from Thanksgiving and my heart melts. I love you all sooooooooo much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Here, once again, is my favorite photo of you, dearest...  God bless! Cat^..^ <>< [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Doug Graham (Thanks) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 14:50:28 04/07/09 Tue Cat Hey girl. Thanks again for the wonderful words of love & friendship from you with Rob's picture, which is one of my favorites, also! I know what a special friend you were to Rob & how lucky he was to have you as one. I often read back over the many messages on this site & thank God for so many friends of Rob's like you that really cared about him. I know we will be with him again one day and our love for him will never dim one bit before that day comes! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: For Rob | |
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Author: Gwen (Very sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:00:51 08/01/09 Sat I must apologize for being this late paying my respects to Rob, but I've only gotten a computer in the last few months. I was on the Internet Monday night, when Rob's name popped into my head. I typed his name in and brought up his website. When I first started to read the paragraph regarding him, my heart started to scream. No, no, no, no, no! Please no! I hadn't even read to the end of the line. I was devasted! Heartbroken beyond belief, I went to bed and woke up feeling even worse the next day. I've debated with myself the whole week whether to come to the message board and post my feelings. My heart is just so sad and full of pain, I just had to let you know how I felt. I remember when Rob won the Mr. Romance Contest in 1995. I was also in his fan club and have the first calender he put out. He was one of the most gorgeous men I'd ever seen in my life and became to me what I thought the hero of my heart should be. From reading the beautiful tributes left for him, the real man is exactly what my hero would have been like. Not perfect, but a little flawed, as we all are. There was no one better than Rob at his job. He could scorch up the bookcovers or a photograph with those beautiful eyes of his or melt your heart into a thousand pieces with that smile that was lit from within. I often thought he was a bit of an imp from looking at his eyes. There always seemed to be a little bit of devilment and humor behind them, which made him all the more endearing. Gordy (I hope you don't mind me addressing you by your given name), you said that Rob was shy and insecure. I can believe that. So am I. I can't believe I'm writing this about someone I didn't know, but my heart is so very heavy with tears and pain. In fact I'm crying as I write this. After reading all the beautiful words and flowers to Rob, I'm just so overcome. Sometimes insecurity arises when the inside and outside are at war with each other. Something tells me that that was the case with Rob, but finding God set everything right for him. He will do that for you. I'm glad he did it for him and he wasn't ashamed to own Him. My pastor once told me that if you're ashamed to own God on Earth, He'll be ashamed to own you in Heaven. I'm so glad Rob found his Saviour. I will continue praying for you, his family. Thank you for letting me share my feelings with you. Please know that God will ease your pain and lighten your hearts. He did for me. It has been 11 years now, since I lost my mother and then 4 more relatives after her. All were a year apart. I just didn't think I'd make it, but I did. God said He would take care of me and He did, just as He will you. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think of them. And now I can smile with fond remembrances of them in my heart. I hope it will be so for you as well. To Rob. I know you're in Heaven. I just feel it in my heart. I'm so very sorry that you were ill and that it took me so long to get here to say goodbye to you, but God must have wanted me to know, because I feel he led me here. My sister died young as well and just like you her life was turning around for the better when I lost her. I'm so glad you found someone to love in your life. There are those of us who never find the real thing. When I laid my sister to rest, I told her I'd see her again someday and I'll see you as well. I love you Rob and I will always keep you in my heart. I know someday the tears will lessen and I'll be able to have fond remembrances of you too. God Bless and Keep You in His Loving Care. Love always, Gwen [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Rob | |
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Author: Kelly C. (Missing you) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:10:08 08/06/09 Thu I loved you the first time I ever met you! So glad I was able to tell you later in life what you meant to me...you meant even more than what I was able to say at the time. I think about you and our time together all the time. You were very special to me. I have missed you for a long time and will continue to miss you until my last breath...just remembering you and missing you. I'm so sorry you were sick, if I had known I would have taken the next fight to see you. I'm sorry just wish I had known. Love, Kelly [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Remembering Rob | |
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Author: Doug & Joyce [Edit] |
Date Posted: 06:01:06 08/25/09 Tue Amazingly it's been 2 years since Robs passing. We haven't forgot about you pal and still think of you often, the good times we had and what might have been. Best wishes to Rob's friends and family. Doug & Joyce [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Thinking of Rob Today | |
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Author: Gwen (Blessed) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 12:22:18 08/26/09 Wed May loving memories of Rob wrap softly around your hearts until they are overflowing with love. I hope you're finding comfort in God's enduring grace and love. May he continue to Bless and watch over you all. I'm a fan of Rob's and a romance novel reader. I never met him, but I wish I had. I came to respect the person he truly was from the interviews that he gave. He seemed so honest and real. And I liked that a lot. He made me laugh so hard at some of his adventures. I have no doubt I'll meet him one day in Heaven. I'm looking forward to it. I like to write sometime. When I wrote this poem, I had only recently found out about Rob and I was just in pain. Here is what came from inside of my heart. It gave me some peace to let go of these words. I hope it also brings some to all that cared about him as well. I hope everyone likes it and that I didn't hurt anyone's feelings in any way with it. With a sincere belief in God and Jesus Christ, I hope these words will fly straight to Heaven and settle gently around his soul. His light is shining there just as brightly as it will always shine brightly in our hearts here on Earth. Love Gwen [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Aliage (Just to say) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 02:37:50 08/27/09 Thu Always thinking of you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: To Kathleen | |
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Author: Cat^..^ (loving) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 03:22:47 08/30/09 Sun Dear Kathleen, How are you these days? Can't help but think of you this time of year and pray for you that you are healing. God bless your heart, sweet lady!!! Much love, Cat^..^ [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Rob's Poem | |
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Author: Gwen (Blessed) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:02:53 08/26/09 Wed To Rob With Love (This is the title of the poem) My sweet Earth Angel your light shone so brilliantly bright You made my heart soar like whisper soft wings in flight With beauty and warmth in your kind handsome face You touched my heart in every secret hidden place So achingly and stunningly beautiful to behold You wrapped me in the tranquil nuances of your loving sweet soul You made me utterly breathless and unable to speak You made me tremble and made me weak You bewitched me with your silken splendorous spell Wrapping soft golden threads of love around my heart so well They are intricately woven and tightly wound And because of romance novels we're forever bound A Southern gentleman with the most gorgeous hazel green eyes And that sweet, soft, sexy smile that mesmerized I was captivated and captured and very much in awe of you For God's own hand fashioned you so wonderful and so true My knight in shining armor and every fantasy hero it seems You were the man in all of my dreams You were strong and gentle with a heart of gold Just like the many great heroes in days of old You were just as I had imagined you'd be And I liked the real person you turned out to be From the book covers, off of the calendar pages and right into my heart You forged a place within it that became your own special part A small storm gathering silently within this quiet place Gave release to these words that spilled over into every empty space They poured forth in beautiful hues like gently flowing rain And echoed in soft rivulets against my heart's warm domain These unheard expressions which have lain so deeply within me Have in their yearning whispered ever so softly to be set free As these words entwine themselves around your heart like fine spun gold May they tenderly lay exquisite velvety rose petal kisses upon your soul Simple words played by the strings of my heart I now send to you above In sincerity, friendship and the everlasting beauty and truth of love With the palest pink flower of love's rose to gently caress your cheek And soft prayers offered in every beautiful color of Heaven's spectrum to lay at your feet Your spirit is now in the sunshine of the sky and the flowers fresh with the morning dew And you're more beautiful than ever ... this I know is true That radiant smile lighting up Heaven now and forevermore I hope to see one day when I land on that same distant shore Rob ... my sweet hero, these words that were once mine I give to you for now and for all time For what I feel about you will transcend time and space And your light will forever shine within beauty and grace I will always miss you. I will always think of you I will always love you And I shall forever adore you Written by Gwen Christopher August 2009 [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Cat^..^ (Weepy) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 02:42:02 08/30/09 Sun Hi Gwen, This peom is truly beautiful! Thank you for sharing it with the us. God bless you sweetie. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Gwen (Thankful) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:55:11 08/30/09 Sun Dear Cat, Thank you so very much for your nice compliment! It was an honor for me to write it. Please don't cry! You're going to make me cry too! Again, I'm so very appreciative and glad you like it! Take Care and God Bless You! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: To my friend Judy | |
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Author: Dolores (Thoughtful) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 12:30:51 09/02/09 Wed Hey Judy Was thinking of you and just happened to look at Rob's site and realized it has been 2 years; I hope that you and the boys are well; hopefully Rob still sends his signs to you. Dolores [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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