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| Subject: I'll say this about Rob... | |
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Author: John DeSalvo [Edit] |
Date Posted: 15:51:49 08/28/07 Tue "I ran into Rob last September in South Florida , it was almost a decade since I saw him last. We shared some laughs and talked about old times. I'm glad we ran into each other... its good thing when you're able to relate to someone who understands you and everything you go through... and he did. It was really good to see him, he looked great! He was a man who lived his life to the fullest." "May God Bless Him" John DeSalvo
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| Subject: Prayers and Love | |
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Author: Sheila [Edit] |
Date Posted: 16:31:52 08/28/07 Tue Rob will be missed by so many. But the love for him will go on always. My prayers go to his loved ones and friends. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: I will miss you Rob! | |
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Author: Pamela Seres (Sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 17:21:27 08/28/07 Tue I had the pleasure of meeting Rob and few times and exchanging e-mails with him. He was not only handsome & talented but soo friendly and down to earth. He was everything I thought a romance novel hero should be. I will miss him a lot. My prayers and thoughts are with his family and friends at this time. God Bless! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: You will be missed | |
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Author: Savannah Chase [Edit] |
Date Posted: 17:27:32 08/28/07 Tue I never knew Rob but had heard so many good things about him from people that did know him. My deepest condolences to the family for their loss. We will all miss Rob. We have lost an angel and the heavens have gained one.... We will truly miss you...God Bless..... [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: You'll be missed | |
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Author: Kristi Ahlers [Edit] |
Date Posted: 17:53:58 08/28/07 Tue Sadly, I never had the pleasure of meeting Rob...but still, he was a wonderful presence in the industry. When I wrote my first historical I had him in my mind for my hero. My heart and prayers are with your family and friends during this hard time. We all now have a special angel looking over us. Kristi Ahlers [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: To those who are left behind... | |
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Author: Angela [Edit] |
Date Posted: 17:58:28 08/28/07 Tue Those who are left behind are the ones who suffer most. I do not know why someone so young is made to leave his life on earth. It always hits me hard when someone my age or younger loses the opportunity to live on to explore their full potential. What I do know is that memories can be cherished and that the people Rob touched during his lifetime will remember him forever. I personally did not know Rob, except vicariously through the glamorous and passionate images on romance book covers. I'm pretty sure that wasn't the real Rob - and I'm certain that Rob's spirit, feelings and dreams were what made him special, not his image. And his spirit lives on inside all who knew and loved him. My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time. Stay strong, may you make it through this difficult time. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Deepest sympathies | |
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Author: Lynne Connolly (Sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:28:44 08/28/07 Tue I chose Rob as my ideal cover model when I imagined my dream book. Although I've achieved publication since then, I'll never have the pleasure of a Rob Ashton cover now. My deepest sympathies to Rob's friends and family at this time. He'll be greatly missed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: You will be missed, Rob | |
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Author: Rhonda [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:30:38 08/28/07 Tue I really can't add anything here that Cat did not cover in her post below, and so eloquently. That is EXACTLY what I feel in my heart now. It brings me such peace to know that Rob knew Jesus, and is in a better place and completely healthy, a place where we will have the chance to see him again someday. God bless you, Cat, for sharing that. You were so blessed to know and share that beautiful side of him. Rest in peace, Rob, in your heavenly home, and may the Lord give strength & comfort to your friends and family at this difficult time. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: ROB THE ANGEL MAN | |
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Author: Brenda/Angel [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:42:16 08/28/07 Tue I was blessed to chat with ROB online for a short time and he was a complete gentleman. He had invited me to go to one of the conventions, but I wasn't able to do so at the time. Yet, that is okay because I know I WILL get to see him in Heaven where he is now. He is HAPPIER THAN HE HAS EVER BEEN IN HIS ENTIRE LIFE! And for some reason the novel... "STARDUST OF YESTERDAY" 'means' more to me now. To Rob's family - HE IS WHERE HE IS HAPPIEST. Please try your best to take comfort in that fact. He will always be with you in your hearts and someday you will be reunited with him. My prayers are with you all. BLESSINGS and PEACE ^i^Angel/Brenda^i^ [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Rob will be missed! | |
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Author: Geralyn Terleski (Sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:42:53 08/28/07 Tue I was shocked to read Kelli's bulletin posted through myspace. I met Rob at the RT convention of 95 where he was crowned Mr. Romance. So many of us first met him then! I am releived to hear from this message board, however, that Rob finally did come to know the Lord! We had had some discussion about Jesus way back when. I'm so glad to hear the Lord got a hold of him along Rob's life journey! We'll be praying for his mother and family! Thanks Cat for the post! In Him, Geralyn [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: I miss him and never even met him! | |
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Author: Firebrand aka Catherine [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:55:13 08/28/07 Tue I just wish to send along my condolences to Rob's family, friends and fans. He was a beautiful man as witnessed by the posts to him in here. Rob, may God hold and keep you in his loving arms! God Bless your family during this trying time and may they know that you are no longer suffering and happy to be home. Love always your faithful fan, Catherine [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: So sorry to hear.... | |
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Author: Talia [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:02:17 08/28/07 Tue For Rob's mother, Kathleen, Nothing can prepare you for the loss of a beloved son, nor shelter you from the grief. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your unimaginable loss. I can only hope that all the memories you have of him will support you in the coming days and that the remembrance of his laughter will one day lighten your heart once more. To Rob's friends, it is always a tragedy to lose a friend, a mentor, a beautiful spirit. The lives he touched and the quality of the people who loved him, speak louder than any elegy could. My sincere condolences to those whose lives will be bereft with his absence. Respectfully, Talia Gryphon [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Heartfelt sympathy | |
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Author: Yvonne [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:16:20 08/28/07 Tue At this time I would like to extend my deep and heartfelt sympathy to Rob's family and friends, wishing you comfort in your time of sorrow. Memories of Rob will keep him close to us as he will live in our memories and our hearts forever. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Rob in person, I was in contact with him through email from time to time. We will miss you Rob, but you will live in our hearts forever. Rest in Peace! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: I am so sorry | |
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Author: Linda Hutchinson [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:53:50 08/28/07 Tue I wish to extend my condolences to the family & friends of Rob. It was a shock to all his fans he will be missed God Bless you all Linda [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: A Great Man | |
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Author: Lyn (aka Lost in Twilight on MySpace) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 20:24:42 08/28/07 Tue I have never met Rob but I was shocked to hear the sad news. All I have ever read about him, no matter what the subject, or event, everyone spoke so highly of him. I have never seen any picture of him where he was not enjoying whatever he was doing, and he was an amazing model. A truly talented man that everyone whose lives he touched will sorely miss. To his family, and friends, and fans, I offer my condolences. Words can never take the pain away, and there are never any sufficient enough to convey the sadness felt at a time like this, but each person that tries, no matter how few they say, just add to the testimony of what a great man he was and to the support toward his family. God Bless his family, his friends, and his fans, you are all in my thoughts and prayers. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Heaven has a Bright New Star | |
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Author: Nancy C Fecca (So sad!) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 21:02:56 08/28/07 Tue My heart goes out to Rob's family and friends. Nancy C Fecca [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My heart goes out to you at this time | |
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Author: ZAZOO (Dumbfounded) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:04:28 08/28/07 Tue Shocked doesnt begin to describe what I am feeling now. To me he was a romance cover icon (move over Fabio...waaaay over) I never got a chance to meet him but felt as though, as silly as it sounds, I knew him. All the romance books I have read and the bookcovers created that illusion. He was the epitome of everybodies hero Good Bless you Rob And I want to send my prayers and well wishes to his family. HE WAS ONE OF A KIND! Love Zazoo [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: A Terrible Loss | |
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Author: Jennifer Whildin (Shocked, Sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:55:20 08/28/07 Tue I heard about Rob on MySpace. I'm shocked and sad, because he was one of my favorite cover models. I wish his family strength and comfort in their time of loss. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Our condolences | |
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Author: Melanie Grant (An Angel's Work Is Done) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 02:44:40 08/29/07 Wed Our hearts go out to Rob's family during this time of painful loss. All of you and Rob are in our thoughts and prayers. We know he's in a better place now. He helped so many people during his time here, in so many ways, and has been called home now that his work is done. He will be greatly missed by all, but we can rejoice in the fact that we will all be reunited again one day in the greater home provided to us by our wonderful Lord. May He continue to bless and smile upon us all! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: I'm so sorry to hear about Rob. He will be very missed . My prayers are for his family and friend. | |
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Author: Izzy [Edit] |
Date Posted: 03:13:01 08/29/07 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Saddened | |
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Author: CindyO [Edit] |
Date Posted: 03:52:55 08/29/07 Wed Though I never got to actually meet Rob I did get to chat with him through email and Chat rooms. I loved his sense of humor and his faith in God. My heart goes out to his family and he will be missed terribly. A Parable of Immortality by Henry Van Dyke I am standing upon the seashore. A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength, and I stand and watch until at last she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come down to mingle with each other. Then someone at my side says, "There she goes!" Gone where? Gone from my sight ... that is all. She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side and just as able to bear her load of living freight to the place of destination. Her diminished size is in me, not in her. And just at the moment when someone at my side says "There she goes!", there are other eyes watching her coming and other voices ready to take up the glad shout, "Here she comes!" [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: you finished the race and we are one day closer, bro=) <>< | |
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Author: Steffi <>< [Edit] |
Date Posted: 04:08:35 08/29/07 Wed Dear family of Rob! I am very sorry for your loss, and I pray for you all in this difficult time, but also beyond! I know how much Robert loved you all, and I have rarely met an adult who talked with so much love and joy about his family. You all were very important to him and Robert kept telling my kids to love God first, but then family right after God, then friends. You raised a very special person, with a heart of gold and a purity which is very rare in this world, and I truly admire you for that. He had so much compassion and pure love that I believe the lives of many he touched are changed forever! To me and my family Rob was a blessing, sent by the Lord. We had the tremendous joy and honor to be friends with him for the past 5 years, to meet in person and to spend vacation with him. When I first got to know him I was saved for 1 year and basically a baby christian. And in the first years the fellowship with Robert teached me probably as much about Jesus as my pastors did. He had an incredible knowledge about the bible, he loved the Lord with all his heart, and it was a joy to see his enthusiasm for Jesus. In every conversation the joy of the Lord was perceptible in him, no matter if he was doing fine, or if he was in pain. To pray or talk with him was such a blessing! The two things he said or wrote in nearly every talk and in every email were "What did you learn about the Word recently, please?" and "Smile sis...we are one day closer to seeing the Lord!". The Lord used him in many, many ways mightily in my life, and he was very instrumental in bringing me into a very close relationship with Jesus. When my husband and I had the honor and incredible joy to meet him in person and to spend time together it was amazing. We used to read the bible for hours and then his whole face lit up and his eyes were radiating with a joy about every verse he read, and he was so happy to discover Gods love, grace and mercy in every verse. I think we nearly covered the whole bible in our years of friendship. He was a wonderful brother who saw love letters from the Lord in every little detail, and it was such a blessing to know him. When I think about Robert I remember him smiling in church and singing worship songs with raised hands, or laying on the ground, holding our hands in prayers, or being excited about how wonderful God created a little sea shell, looking up to the stars and wondering what else God has in store for us when we meet Him in Eternity, and his whole face lit up with the joy of the Lord. He was a beautiful man, but his outward beauty was nothing compared to the inner beauty. He had his struggles, like everyone else, yet he was a shining example of an ambassador of Christ. He loved to read the Word of God, and loved to talk about Him, and then I have seen him the most happiest. When he was in church, or talking about the Lord or reading the Word he smiled and his eyes lit up with the purest joy and love. From the begin of our friendship we talked many times about Eternity and what we know from the Word about heaven. And many times he spoke about the joy and peace we will feel when our time here on earth is over and God calls us home to be with Him for all Eternity. To me, these memories give me me comfort and I know he is happy now in the presence of the Lord, singing and praising his maker, Lord and Father with all his soul. Many, many times he signed a letter with "In CHRIST'S LOVE,rob(His servant)<><". You were a true servant of the Lord Rob, and a tremendous blessing!!!!!!! My heart is heavy to know that our time of fellowship in this world is over, but I thank God that He allowed us to form so many beautiful memories of shared fellowship. My husband, my children and I will miss him tremendously, and love him until we meet again in Gods glory. And I pray that whoever was touched by Roberts life, in one way or the other, will be blessed and if not yet saved will find the same personal relationship with Jesus Christ which Robert had. We love you in Jesus for all Eternity bro and we are looking very much forward to meet you in heaven again!=) [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My deepest sympathies | |
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Author: Teresa H [Edit] |
Date Posted: 04:11:10 08/29/07 Wed Although I never had the honor of knowing Rob other than through interviews and his website/online persona, I could tell he had a gentle and loving soul. He was an inspiration to so many. He will be missed, but I'm comforted knowing he is at peace. The stars in heaven shine much brighter. My prayers go out to Rob's family and friends. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Condolences | |
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Author: Lili (Saddened) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 04:46:02 08/29/07 Wed I was very sorry to hear of Rob's passing. I had not known he was unwell. I had never had the honor to meet him, only to see the work he did. I was happy to read in previous posts that he was strong in the Lord and know that he is at peace now. My heart goes out to you all and I will pray for them in this difficult time. God Bless you all. When we meet on that distant shore, there will be sadness no more. Lil [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: We will miss you! | |
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Author: Jean (sad yet joyful) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 06:55:59 08/29/07 Wed While I never really got the chance to know Rob personally, I do know that he was a very caring man who had many talents. My heart goes out to his family and close friends in their time of loss but I am joyful in the fact that he is now home with the Lord and no longer in pain. Rob, we will see you again in the by and by. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: The early years | |
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Author: Jay Paustian [Edit] |
Date Posted: 06:57:57 08/29/07 Wed I knew Rob as Danny. Although it has been many years since I spoke to him, I have always kept up with his accomplishments. I knew Danny in elementary school and high school, and along with my brother and a few other friends, rode bicycles all over the streets of Gulf Shores. One of the things I will never forget was Danny, my brother, me, and another friend all packed in Danny's 280zx one night. Being the youngest, I "got" to ride in the hatchback. I laughed harder than I had ever laughed that night. This is just one small memory I have of Danny, but one that I will never forget. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Our Family Prayers Are With You! | |
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Author: Sly Bowden (Our Family Prayers) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 07:00:25 08/29/07 Wed My family prayers go out to your entire family! My Friend Rob Ashton will be deeply missed! Sly Bowden [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My Deepest Sympathies | |
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Author: Lynn Daniels (sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 07:31:54 08/29/07 Wed When I first heard the news of Rob's passing, My heart broke and I was shocked. How could somebody so young, so vibrant, be taken so soon? It saddens me to have never known the man behind the photos and interviews. He always seemed to be such a loving, giving person with great strength and faith. Those traits have been confirmed in messages posted by those who knew him. To his family and friends I can only offer my deepest sympathies and most heartfelt condolences. It seems that every person Rob encountered, whether he knew it or not, was profoundly touched. As shallow as it may sound, he was the Ideal Romance Hero to many of us, simply based on appearance. However, reading his articles and interviews served to cement that position more firmly and make that title much less shallow. He will be sorely missed. My heart still breaks over his loss, but there is comfort in the knowledge that he is at peace. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My Sincerest Condolences | |
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Author: Raquel Rodriguez (sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:21:47 08/29/07 Wed Dear Graham Family, I am shocked and saddened to hear of Rob's passing, and my sympathy goes out to his friends and to you, his family. I never had the pleasure of meeting this amazing man, yet I know from others of his friendliness and creative zest whether he was modeling or promoting fitness and health. He has been a true inspiration for the heros I write, and I had always hoped to see him on one of my novel covers. In every photo I've seen, Rob always had a smile and no matter where he was he enjoyed life. I wish I'd had the opportunity to meet him, and I will miss him. Memories of Rob will live forever in my heart, and my deepest condolences to you all. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings and Peace, Raquel Rodriguez [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: TO JUDY AND THE BOYS | |
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Author: We are here for you [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:54:44 08/29/07 Wed Many may know Rob from his life of gracing book covers, and modeling career. However for the past two and a half years there have been three very special people with whom Rob lived with and spent his life with. Our heartfelt condolences go out to the very special family which he left behind. There was a wonderful woman in Rob's life who was there with him till his last heart beat and there are two beautiful young boys who will miss him dearly. To Rob's fiance Judy, and her son's Trevor and Tucker, may you cherish all your memories and know your friends and family are here for you during this difficult time. We all love you so very much. Over the past two and a half years I have been blessed to know Rob and share times together with Judy and Rob and the boys. Judy, you have never left his side, even in his last moments of life. May the love you shared always be a special light in your heart. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: TO JUDY AND THE BOYS | |
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Author: We are here for you [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:56:23 08/29/07 Wed Many may know Rob from his life of gracing book covers, and modeling career. However for the past two and a half years there have been three very special people with whom Rob lived with and spent his life with. Our heartfelt condolences go out to the very special family which he left behind. There was a wonderful woman in Rob's life who was there with him till his last heart beat and there are two beautiful young boys who will miss him dearly. To Rob's fiance Judy, and her son's Trevor and Tucker, may you cherish all your memories and know your friends and family are here for you during this difficult time. We all love you so very much. Love Maryellen, Hanna and Parker Over the past two and a half years I have been blessed to know Rob and share times together with Judy and Rob and the boys. Judy, you have never left his side, even in his last moments of life. May the love you shared always be a special light in your heart. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Maryellen (Saddened by your passing) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:57:42 08/29/07 Wed >Many may know Rob from his life of gracing book >covers, and modeling career. However for the past two >and a half years there have been three very special >people with whom Rob lived with and spent his life >with. Our heartfelt condolences go out to the very >special family which he left behind. There was a >wonderful woman in Rob's life who was there with him >till his last heart beat and there are two beautiful >young boys who will miss him dearly. To Rob's fiance >Judy, and her son's Trevor and Tucker, may you cherish >all your memories and know your friends and family are >here for you during this difficult time. We all love >you so very much. Love Maryellen, Hanna and Parker > >Over the past two and a half years I have been blessed >to know Rob and share times together with Judy and Rob >and the boys. Judy, you have never left his side, >even in his last moments of life. May the love you >shared always be a special light in your heart. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My heartfelt condolences | |
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Author: Cindy Walker [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:03:05 08/29/07 Wed Having been in the position of facing the decision to remove a loved one from life support, my heart goes out to each and every member of Rob's family who had to make that call. No matter what, it is not an easy decision. My thoughts and prayers are with all those who are mourning, but my heart rejoices that Rob is with our Lord, enjoying a beauty we cannot even begin to imagine. Though Rob is gone in body, his spirit will remain in many, many ways. I was not fortunate enough to actually meet Rob, but I have seen him at RT conventions. I was there the year he won Mr. Romance and the year RT did the cruise. From everything I'm reading here, he was a gentle soul, full of love and life. Peace be with him as he begins a new journey. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Rob | |
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Author: Barbara Hart [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:46:23 08/29/07 Wed I had the opportunity to talk with Rob several times via phone and email and came to like and respect him a great deal. He was funny, sincere and sometimes “surprisingly honest and direct” when we spoke. I admired that in him. I have not spoken to Rob in several years, but remember him fondly. My deepest sympathy and condolences to Rob’s family and all who loved him. God’s blessings and love be with them. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: To Rob's family, fiance, and friends... | |
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Author: Frances <>< (sad for you) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:55:48 08/29/07 Wed I am so very sorry for your loss. As so often happens among those who are one in the Spirit, for no apparent reason, about three weeks ago, I felt that I should pray for Rob and his family. Please know that there are many others that you know nothing of, who are continuing to hold you in their prayers. Rob was a blessing to many people. Like may others, I wish that I wish that I could have known him. It is good to know that although time and distance may separate us in this life, that in the next, we will see one another again, and have the delight of living together in God’s love forever. This is our promise. For many years, I have watched Rob’s career, and was thrilled for him and for you when he asked Jesus to be his Lord. After that, it was a joy to watch as he grew and boldly told others of God’s love. He did not just talk the talk, he walked the walk. In his living and in his dying, he served his Lord. You have the blessing of knowing that the first words that he heard were the most coveted words that any Christian can aspire to: “Well done, thou good and faithful servant.” [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: God Bless you Rob | |
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Author: Annie (very sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 11:28:49 08/29/07 Wed May God bless yiou Rob, you were one in a million. To his family: May you feel peace with Rob going home. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Our deepest sympathies | |
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Author: Lawrence & Wendy Ressler [Edit] |
Date Posted: 12:38:30 08/29/07 Wed For the time we had known Rob we are exceedingly grateful to have been in a small part of his life. He had been and will always be a tremendously positive influence in our lives. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My deepest sympathies... | |
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Author: Linnae [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:33:38 08/29/07 Wed I didn't have the opportunity to meet Rob in person but I've been a fan since I read a magazine interview he gave in late 2001. I was a frequent visitor to his website message board, where I met some wonderful women and enjoyed Rob’s posts. The message board closed down a few years ago but I have happy memories from that time. I am glad he was in a good place in his life and that he had found someone special. My thoughts and prayers are with the Graham family, his fiance, and close friends during this sad time. He has finished life’s journey and left earth for eternal joy in heaven but Robert Daniel Graham will never be forgotten by those who loved him or his fans. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Remembering Rob | |
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Author: Doug and Joyce [Edit] |
Date Posted: 15:03:12 08/29/07 Wed Words cannot express how saddened and shocked we are to hear of Robs passing...We have known Rob for the last few years and what struck us was his warmth and charm...A handsome devil but yet he was very humble...We will miss his smile and his laugh not to mention the good times we had hanging out together...God acts in mysterious ways and although we are hurting badly there had to have been a purpose why he was taken from us in this way and so young...God rest his soul and my sympathies to his family and friends...Love you bud... [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My deepest sympathies and Prayers. | |
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Author: Mark Johnson [Edit] |
Date Posted: 15:37:00 08/29/07 Wed I've known Rob for a long time and some words that come to mind when I think about him are kindness, soft spoken. 3 1/2 years ago Rob called me to tell me some news but he wanted to tell me in person. So I went and saw him. He told me that he accepted Christ Jesus as his savior and that no matter what happend to him, he was a child of God. I hugged him (and it was a good hug) and I told him congratulations my friend, we will spend eternity together. I'm looking forward to seeing him again. I'm praying for his family and all his friends that their faith too will be strengthened in Christ and that their hope is not on this earth but in heaven. May God richly bless you. Until we meet again Somewhere Down The Road...With Love Mark Johnson [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: I'm so sorry for your loss | |
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Author: Shannon [Edit] |
Date Posted: 16:04:33 08/29/07 Wed To Rob's family and friends: I know how desparately it hurts to lose someone you love. Remember the wonderful times you were blessed to share with him. Remember the love he had for you and you for him. The tears will still come and the pain will always be there. You will be sitting alone, doing nothing in particular, and remember a funny moment with him and your throat will tighten and your eyes will tear. But know that he remembers that time, too. One day, hopefully far into the future, you will be with Rob again and be able to remember it together. God Bless, Shannon [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Remembering Rob... | |
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Author: Steve Sandalis [Edit] |
Date Posted: 16:08:22 08/29/07 Wed It's been over ten years since I last saw Rob. Although I only met him a couple of times, what really impressed me about him was his down-to-earth charismatic personality. Rob had a way of making people feel special. Rob lived his life to the fullest and was passionate about pursuing his dreams. I'm sure Rob is looking down at us now wanting us to remember the good times we shared with him. God Bless. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: My Sympathies | |
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Author: Gennita Low [Edit] |
Date Posted: 16:35:19 08/29/07 Wed I'm saddened to hear of Rob Ashton's passing. Although it has been a number of years since I met him, I remember his easy friendliness as he collected teddy bears for charity. I didn't even know who he was then, but I was very struck by his charm and sincerity. Needless to say, my friends laughed at my ignorance when I was telling them about meeting the guy with the teddy bears. Through the years, Rob Ashton has always remained one of my favorite models. My condolences to Rob's family and friends. He is much missed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: You will be missed | |
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Author: Tia [Edit] |
Date Posted: 17:27:03 08/29/07 Wed A world without Rob is almost unthinkable. I only met him once but I spoke with him a number of times and greatly appreciated his soft spoken gentlemanly ways. Rob was without a doubt the most beautiful man, both inside and out, that I have ever met. As so many others have said he was the epitome of everyones dream hero. My heart goes out to his family and loved ones. Tia [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Diane [Edit] |
Date Posted: 17:49:45 08/29/07 Wed What a beautiful person Rob was inside and out. I'll always remember, at one of the conventions sitting next to him and he started whispering italian in my ear, giving me a thrill and a giggle. He always gave great hugs and always had a wonderful smile and laugh for everyone. It is with great sadness that I write this now about Rob. We always think that every one will live forever, and are so shocked when we hear about a loss of a wonderful, caring person, especially at such a young age. I know that Rob had so much more to give. God bless both Rob and his family. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Carmel St. James (Sadden!!) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:50:16 08/29/07 Wed I never knew Mr Ashton personally, but lord I heard so much about him. It's no doubt that such a personal with a beautiful soul would be loved and respected by so many. As a cover artist, his face or better yet his image inspired me to create some of my best work and he still has that influence on me. When I first saw him, I'll be honest yall, I was like oh my..*smiles* I never knew a man could be so beautiful yet there he was. I remember saying to myself how such a man could reek havoc on a woman's peace of mind,*smiles* but you know what, I wouldn't mind in the least. I would like to offer my condolences to his family. The Lord has called him home. May the lord bless and keep you always. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Cora Zane (tears) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:59:32 08/29/07 Wed I am absolutely devastated to hear of Rob's passing. He has been an icon in the romance industry for so long, I can scarcely imagine it without him. Rob had the face of so many dreams, and such a wonderful, open personality... The industry has lost a great cover talent, and a champion soul. My condolences to Rob's friends and family. He will be sorely missed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Joan (sadness) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 20:17:00 08/29/07 Wed I am an avid romance reader and I couldn't help but notice Rob on so many covers. When I heard that he had passed, I was shocked. Such a vibrant and healthy man, I just could not believe he was gone. Finding out he was a Christian was a comfort for I know he is with Jesus now and that one day his family will be reunited with him. My heart felt condolences go out to his family. My prayers are with you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: You will always have a special place in my heart Rob... | |
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Author: Shawna (HEARTBROKEN) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 21:57:26 08/29/07 Wed I met Rob in 1996 and we became extremely close...like brother and sister for a few summers. We lost contact and in the past year recently were reunited to discover we had both made some amazing changes in our lives. I am so proud of the man he turned out to be and admire him greatly. He had a wonderful heart and soul and I am grateful to have been able to tell him i loved him one last time recently and know he loved me too. He was a dear friend to me and I will never forget him. My prayers go out to his other friends and family. I love you Rob Graham! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Tammy Russotto - The Romance Zone [Edit] |
Date Posted: 22:54:07 08/29/07 Wed Rob, You were an amazing person with a beautiful soul and loving heart. You were kind and thoughtful to everyone. Your beautiful smile and the twinkle in your eyes showed everyone what a beautiful person you were both inside and out. You were an Angel sent from heaven who touched the hearts of many. You will be missed by many people who loved you. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family and friends. God Bless! Tammy [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: SO SAD OF THE NEWS OF ROB;S DEATH | |
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Author: KATHLEEN LABREE (WISHED ID MET HIM IN PERSON) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 00:03:02 08/30/07 Thu I;VE WRITTEN IN THIS BEFORE, I KEEP TRYING TO THINK OF THINGS TO SAY FOR THE FAMILY OF ROB, I AM SO VERY SORRY FOR THEIR LOSS, I CAN;T EVEN THINK OF HOW BAD IT MUST FEEL TO LOOSE A CHILD, I ONLY KNEW OF ROB JUST A FEW MONTH;S AGO AND WANTED TO KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM, GOD, IF ID ONLY KNOWN HE WAS SICK, I WOULD OF GOTTEN DOWN ON MY KNEES AND PRAYED EVERY DAY FOR HIM, I JUST DIDN;T KNOW, I;M SO GLAD THOUGH THAT HE FOUND GOD AND OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST, AS EMPTY AS OUR LIVES ARE WITHOUT ROB IN IT, I KNOW HE;S IN HEAVEN WHERE HE NO LONGER FEEL;S ANY PAIN OR SORROW, MY HEART HAS BEEN BROKEN EVERSINCE I READ OF HIS DEATH, ALTHOUGH I NEVER MET HIM, I LOVED HIM WHOLE HEARTEDLY, I JUST HOPE WE ALL WILL BE TOGETHERE AGAIN IN HEAVEN, WE ALL NEED TO BE READY. WE NEVER KNOW WHEN OUR NUMBER IS UP, I LOVE YOU ROB AND MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AT THIS HORRIBLE TIME OF SORROW, TEARFULLY YOUR;S, KATHLEEN LABREE, [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Natalie Sabia [Edit] |
Date Posted: 05:36:57 08/30/07 Thu To Rob's family, friends, Judy & boys - I am so sorry to hear about your loss. The few times I met him, he was truly a sincere and beautiful person. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kel [Edit] |
Date Posted: 05:59:51 08/30/07 Thu I just found this on a dear friend's blog and decided to share it here. I have a feeling that these words speak for a whole lot of us right now.. Kel When It Can’t Be Fixed... Current mood: sad I heard some terrible news today... The world has lost another bright light and it came as a shock. I suppose death is never welcome to those left behind, less so when it isn't even remotely expected. I am heartsick over the news, but a dear friend of mine is suffering more. It leaves me helpless. Like everything out of my mouth is a cliche and worthless in terms of taking away the pain. I am a person who when confronted with a problem, seeks solutions and resolutions. I throw myself into the process of making good come from bad, of turning things around. I do not often shrug my shoulders and acknowledge defeat. Feeling useless is in itself frustrating. I'm a control freak and I can't control what happened. All I can do is offer to be a shoulder if needed. It's a harsh world at times and things rarely make sense. One minute you are laughing and happy, and the next you are wallowing in despair. For RA, whose initials are that of the Egyptian god of the sun, his light will most certainly be missed and no one will ever fill that void. His smile, his charisma, was his alone and he cannot be replaced. He was a gift to those who knew him, if only from a distance. He was always generous with himself, his heart, his spirit and his time and though he is gone from here, the thousands of memories he gave to those who knew him will keep him alive forever. As he loved so he was loved in return. Be at peace. Robert Fulghum: I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge -- myth is more potent than history -- dreams are more powerful than facts -- hope always triumphs over experience -- laughter is the cure for grief -- love is stronger than death. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: Very saddened to hear about this... | |
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Author: Will Corrington [Edit] |
Date Posted: 17:56:25 08/29/07 Wed I knew Rob as Danny when we were growing up in Foley. He was a classmate of mine and I have nice memories of going to his December birthday parties as a youngster (and the times when he would reciprocate by coming to mine)...lots of football in the backyard, almost all of it without serious injury :). He was always a lot of fun to be around. We went our separate ways as we got older and fell out of touch, yet this news really hit me hard. To Mrs. Graham (I know it's probably OK to call you by your first name, but it would feel strange), Gordy and other family members, I cannot imagine the hurt you're going through right now...you are all in my prayers. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kim (Smith) Webster [Edit] |
Date Posted: 21:06:38 08/29/07 Wed I was also a friend of Danny's growing up and just found out this morning about his death. What a shock. Danny was my 4th grade boyfriend and the first boy I ever couple-skated with at the roller skating rink. He was the cutest boy I had ever seen. Our parents were old high school friends, and we also remained friends throughout our school years. The last time I saw Danny was at our 5-year class reunion, and we talked for a good while that night. He had not yet achieved any of the fame that came later--he was just Danny, still with a smile that spread from ear to ear and lit up his whole face. I'm so sorry he's gone but so glad to know that he had given his life to Jesus. He was a precious, precious person. >I knew Rob as Danny when we were growing up in Foley. >He was a classmate of mine and I have nice memories of >going to his December birthday parties as a youngster >(and the times when he would reciprocate by coming to >mine)...lots of football in the backyard, almost all >of it without serious injury :). He was always a lot >of fun to be around. > >We went our separate ways as we got older and fell out >of touch, yet this news really hit me hard. > >To Mrs. Graham (I know it's probably OK to call you by >your first name, but it would feel strange), Gordy and >other family members, I cannot imagine the hurt you're >going through right now...you are all in my prayers. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Mary Ann Young [Edit] |
Date Posted: 06:45:48 08/30/07 Thu I had known Danny since kindergarten and am so sorry to hear of his death. I had not seen him since high school but as everyone else has said, I too will never forget his beauty and sweetness. I've come to realize just since yesterday how much he had done in his short life. Pretty impressive for a Foley boy! I'm most happy for he and his family that he had given his life to Christ. He's feasting with the saints now and one day we will all have a glorious reunion. I know it is hard now to not have him with you but hopefully the comfort will come in knowing of his sure salvation. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Cerri Ellis [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:23:45 08/30/07 Thu I met Rob at an author signing promotional event back in '96 or '97 I think it was, and the thing that struck me most was his genuine friendliness and his kind patience. I knew then he was just as beautiful on the inside as he was on the outside. It seems somehow so wrong that a man so seemingly fit and healthy, so vibrant and so very young, is gone. My sincerest sympathies to the family and close friends of Robert Danny Graham. Whatsoever you love in life lives forever. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Maggie Deese Quimby [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:56:02 08/30/07 Thu Iam so very sorry to hear about Rob's passing! I knew him as Danny Graham. We went to elementary school together at Foley. I always thought he was a kind person and Iam amazed at the man he turned out to be. To the family: Please KNOW that you are in my thoughts and prayers!!! God bless you all!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: We love you Robert and look forward to meet you in heaven! | |
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Author: Lars 19, Sarah 16, Jasmin 14 and Alina 11 y/o [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:02:02 08/30/07 Thu Dear Robert! For the last 5 years you were "adopted" into our family. You were the friend of our parents, but our friend also. Even tho you lived on a different continent you were a part of our daily life, because we prayed for you in every prayer that was said in our family, and we knew (as you always told us and we could feel it) you were praying for us, too. You had so much love and compassion, it did not matter to you if we shared our joy with you or whether we were sad about the behaviour of friends, about school or if we were concerned about the health of our bunny - you were happy with us or comforted us with your words and with bible verses. You prayed for us and it means so much to us. Thank you Rob! Because of you we loved to learn English in school - we wanted to be able to talk with you without our parents having to translate. We loved your sense of humor. Now we wish we had known that it was the last time we talked here on earth when you were joking with us and making all these funny faces for us on cam recently. But you have probably much more fun in heaven with Jesus now, and we cherish the memories. We love to watch the video of you playing with Bella and sending greetings to us - now more than ever. You once wrote on a card to us kids: "Enjoy the ride we call life, especially the real life that comes only from our Lord Jesus". We learned a lot from you about Jesus, and you are a shining example of a christian whom we never forget and never stop to love. Honestly, we are still crying here, because we love you and miss you, but we are happy for you that you are with the Lord now. We look very much forward to meet you in heaven! Dear Trevor, Tucker and Judy: Rob loved you dearly and he spoke with so much love and joy of you! May you keep him in your thoughts and always remember the happy moments you shared with him. You were very blessed to have him in your life! We are sad with you and with Roberts whole family and we miss him, too, but we are happy for him because he loved the Lord and is with Him now for all Eternity! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Sara [Edit] |
Date Posted: 11:33:26 08/30/07 Thu Even though I never got the chance to know Rob other than on the face of so many bookcovers my thoughts and prayers are with Rob's family and his friends. My the lord watch over you all in your time of grief. You'll be forever in my heart Rob and through the hearts and souls of others you'll live on. Rest in peace. You're in the arms of the angels now. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kendra Deese Hayes (sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:36:19 08/30/07 Thu Dear Family, I am deeply saddened by the loss of Danny-Rob. What a wonderful person he obviously was and was so well liked by so many people. I knew him when he was much younger. He was always so goodlooking and I can see that time only made him even more gorgeous. You must be so proud of him. I am so proud to know of the deep love he had for Jesus Christ. May God's love give each of you strength and courage during this extremely difficult time. Love, Kendra Deese Hayes [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: J.R. Andersen [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:17:58 08/30/07 Thu I was shocked when I received the call telling me about Danny. Although he and I took two different roads as we grew up he was a dear friend of mine back in the glory days. I remember going to his home as a kid for sleep over parties, riding on his dirt bike and being really impressed with his collection of Evel Knievel action figures. Even as a kid he was a star. I remember Danny’s drum set. And as I remember, it would have made Tommy Lee jealous. Danny always had a smile on his face and was the kind of kid that other kids gravitated to. I have had friends come and go over the years but the shock of this has helped me dig up some fond old memories of a really cool kid. It has also made me wish we would have found a way to stay in touch and not let life get in the way of a friendship. Finally I want to thank Danny’s entire family for picking me to be a pallbearer at his service. I don’t deal with death like most people and this gave me a chance to tell him good-bye. J.R. Andersen [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Linda Davis Moccio [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:59:09 08/30/07 Thu As I sat at the funeral today of our childhood friend, Danny, I was reflecting on so many memories that involve him.... sitting with him in his mom's 4th grade class, singing with him in children's choir at church, doing plays at church dressed up in animal costumes, waving as I passed him on the road in high school... him driving to PJC with his hand up trying to block the sun and me on my way to Foley. I was so overwhelmed with emotion. Emotion for this beautiful person who has left this life too early, emotion for our childhood friendships that are long gone, but not easily forgotten. As I watched some of our classmates carry him out, I was so thankful for the short time that we knew Danny as children and young teens, because that is a pure time in life that stays with us forever. The testimony that he leaves will no doubt affect others, knowing his love for the Lord. What a blessing to have a life that counted for eternity! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lisa (Grief Stricken) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 05:44:50 08/31/07 Fri You always showed up at my door when the trouble and pain in your life were too much to handle on your own. I am humbled that you trusted me to help you through those times. I was thrilled when you finally listened and joined the men's group at your church. Having brothers in Christ to help you along is a great blessing. It was wonderful to hear the joy in your voice at each new discovery of God's love and forgiveness. When you called me your Angel on Earth it made me smile and thank God for allowing our time on this planet to be shared. When you couldn't drive due to your knee injury and we waited in the clinic for hours until the Doctor could get clearance to treat you and you bruised my hand from holding it so hard for so long, I really didn't mind... until you saw the bruises later and cried because you didn't mean to hurt me. Then when you kissed the bruises better... that's when I cried because your heart was so pure. For nine years my heart and home were your safe escape from the world. I am blessed to know that Kelli Salkin and Mark Johnson were also there for you when you were in too much pain to face your fans in Orlando and we could visit in your room and pray together. May God bless both of you. Now you are gazing on the face of God and finally at peace and free from pain. For your Mother: Kathleen, Your gift to this world was far greater than you may ever have dreamed. Your son possessed a heart of gold, a soul filled with compassion and love, eyes you could lose yourself in and a smile that would soften the hardest of hearts. That smile could also cause women to forget to breathe. There were times when his sense of humor was a bit risque... boys will be boys... but he was never spiteful. He was always a gentleman and respectful of his elders. He was a role model to untold numbers of people who wanted to improve their health and fitness. He was a true friend to all of us privileged to know him. God has gained a special Angel in Rob and the earth has lost a true Hero. Thank you for your love and guidance in Rob's life. May God's love lift you up and bless you in this time of sorrow. Please know that there are thousands of prayers being said for you and your family. Draw from this well of blessings and strength to weather the grief of your loss. Love and Hugs, Lisa [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Meme Adams Ward [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:18:41 08/31/07 Fri I am so saddened to hear of the passing of Danny. What a beautiful man he was inside and out. We were friends in elementary and middle school, he was always sweet and fun to be with. I have been reading so much about him through the web sites and it is quite amazing all his accomplishments at such a young age. You must be so proud! Mrs. Graham, You will always be in my thoughts and prayers...I hope as eachday passes your sadness will be eased and all your wonderful, beautiful memories will be with you forever. With love, Meme Adams Ward [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lucy [Edit] |
Date Posted: 09:37:34 08/31/07 Fri My thoughts and prayers are with his family and loved ones. A mother should never live beyond her children but take comfort in knowing he was loved by many who never even met him. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Gayla (shocked and sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:31:11 08/31/07 Fri My Condolenses go out to Rob's Family, He was a very genuine person and a very sweet spirt. I only talked to him a few times on line he was always very nice and helpful, Im a personl trainer in Californa, He shared good things with me about working with others and we shared about God and Jesus, he will be greatly missed but theres no doubt in my mind Gods using him in other ways now. May God Bless him tremendously Sincerly Gayla [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Chuck [Edit] |
Date Posted: 17:25:28 08/30/07 Thu Can anyone tell me if Rob ever worked as a trainer out of LA Fitness in South Florida? If not I SWEAR there was a trainer there not too long ago that could have been his twin! Rob was a STUNNING man and will sorely be missed! God Bless him! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: yes that was rob (yes that was rob) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 14:21:13 08/31/07 Fri >Can anyone tell me if Rob ever worked as a trainer out >of LA Fitness in South Florida? If not I SWEAR there >was a trainer there not too long ago that could have >been his twin! > >Rob was a STUNNING man and will sorely be missed! God >Bless him! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Sean O'Brien [Edit] |
Date Posted: 18:33:43 08/31/07 Fri We will all miss Rob in this life but as Mark Johnson said, " We will all be together again some day ". Save a spot for me Rob. Sean O'Brien [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Chuck [Edit] |
Date Posted: 07:51:49 09/01/07 Sat I only had the pleasure of knowing Rob casually via the local gym. I was first struck by his INCREDIBLE look .... that face, those eyes and his pulled back hair cut a striking figure that put everyone else to shame. But I came to be aware of a down to earth, compassionate, caring man .... who was an amazing trainer to many. He took the time to train people in the way it should be done .... with patience and a sincere interest in helping others live a better, healthier life! His genuine smile and sincere approach made you feel like at "that moment" you were the only person who mattered to him. I am totally STUNNED by his passing and think of him now every moment that I am in the gym where he once worked. My heart goes out to those who knew him and loved him best. I hope his website will go on as a tribute to a GREAT man who deserves so much more. Knowing he is in THE MOST loving hands now is our only peace. God Bless You Rob! ...... Chuck [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Mary Stevens [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:48:05 09/01/07 Sat I read enough about Rob to see that not only was he a very nice person, but sensed that he was searching and in need of prayer. I was so happy for him when I discovered his testimony and the beautiful picture of him with his little dog on his website. That big smile and glowing eyes said it all. It was such an inspiration to me, I have gone back several times to look at that picture and to reread his testimony. I hadn't realized Rob's place in my heart and life until his loss. I'll alway remember when and where I was when I got the news. Like many others, I was stunned and saddened, grieved at how he suffered, glad he was surrounded by loving family and a loving God. Rob is alive, rejoicing in God's presence. No more pain, no more heartache or confusion, only pure, perfect love, peace and joy. To Kathleen: My heart goes out to you. My son died at 36, three months after accepting Christ. I pray that God holds you close in His lap and wraps you in His love as He did me, now and in the difficult days and weeks to come. Rob is a part of your future. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: ally [Edit] |
Date Posted: 21:10:57 08/31/07 Fri uncle dan was and continues to be an amazing person we all loved him very much, and he will be greatly missed everyone knows he had a great relationship with God and we will see him again in heaven some day. i love you uncle dan [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Cat^..^ (Hopeful) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 10:26:01 09/01/07 Sat Dear Ally: I remember you well from Thanksgiving almost 4 years ago, and could see how much you loved your uncle Dan. Also, know that he loved you and your sister and brother sooooo much, and also had great love for your mommy, Kim. He would bring you all up in conversation all the time. My heart is with you and your family at this time and I am so glad that you are all together to help each other through this hardship. I will always remember our special time together, Ally. Be well, sweet girl!!!!!!!!!! Lots of LOVE ~ Cat^..^ [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Beth2 aka QB2 ((((((((HUGS)))))))) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 11:01:29 09/01/07 Sat Rob Ashton was truly a gorgeous man, and I’m not just referring to the obvious. He was equally as gorgeous on the inside. Loving, giving, caring, kind, considerate, thoughtful and spiritual. He made us smile, laugh, cry, and yes, even drool! He touched more lives I believe than even he knew. In these last few days as I have tried to come to terms with my own grief over the passing of Rob, I have traveled down memory lane and want to share with you, Rob’s family members, how I came to know him. I discovered Rob while searching the Internet for romance reading groups and authors. I had just recently begun reading romance and wanted to find others online that had a similar interest. My first Rob sighting was on RBL Romantica under the cover model section. I immediately began posting to the RBL book board, my first question being, “Who is Rob Ashton?” and immediately made lots of terrific friends. Then not long after joining them I had the wonderful opportunity to be one of those, as a member of this group, to interview Rob for RBL. That was most exciting for me and from that moment forward a friendship was formed between us. Not to long after I came into contact with Rob through RBL, he began setting up his own website and message board with the help of others and began communicating with his friends online. He even was kind enough to chat online with us many times over the past several years. Again, bringing me more terrific friends not only in this country but in Germany, the Netherlands, Venezuela and England as well. In collecting Rob’s book covers over the years, I also discovered some wonderful authors such as Suzanne Brockmann, Marsha Canham, and Karen Marie Moning, to mention a few. Thus, another way Rob touched my life with adding to my list of friends. I also began searching on the Romantic Times sight for how he got started in the romance industry. A few years after my search began on the RT site, I had the opportunity to attend an RT Convention in Reno, thanks to Kathryn Falk and the dearly departed Nan Doporto, and more friends were made all because of my search to learn more about Rob. To me, Rob was the most gorgeous cover model ever and the ultimate hero! However, he was so much more than that as a man and that is what we will remember the most about him. Yes, over the years there were times Rob and I had differences of opinions, as friends do, but we managed to work them out somehow and I am very glad we were friends. I am also very thankful for all the many friends he brought to me over the years and will cherish them always. Thank you Rob for being a part of our lives and graciously sharing yourself with us. Thank you for being my friend. It still deeply saddens my heart and doesn’t seem possible, and quite frankly I am still shocked, that such a vibrant young man living life to the fullest has passed from this earth. But one never knows when it is their time to move on to a better place, and I firmly believe Rob is in a better place. In remembrance of him and his daily quest to walk closer with God I leave you with a few songs and scriptures to seek out and read upon your own. “The Light House” – song “Amazing Grace” – familiar song to all “Beulah Land” - song Ecclesiastes 3:1-11 KJV (King James Version) Romans 8:38,39 KJV Matthew 5:3-12 KJV Psalm 23 KJV I, as well as many others, will most definitely miss you, Rob, but I have faith we will meet again! My prayers go out to Rob’s family. I hope each of you finds comfort in the fact time is the supreme healer of all emotional wounds and that your wonderful memories of Rob are all that is needed to always have him near. I know I will forever remember my truly gorgeous friend, Rob, who touched many lives. God Bless You All! Sending My Deepest Heartfelt Sympathy, Beth2 aka QB2 – Rob’s friend [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Michelle Kingi (very sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 14:40:10 09/01/07 Sat  I never had the priviledge to know Rob personally, but when Kelli posted the message about his death, I was completely shocked, devastated....the world has lost one of his most handsome men...inside and out. When someone as young and fit as Rob dies...it always comes as a shock, still don't fully comprehend WHY he had to leave this world, much too soon. It does not make any sense to me. Heaven has gained a special angel, the world has lost one. My heartfelt condolences to his family. He will have a place in my heart forever. I usually end letters with "wear the sun in your heart"...Rob HAD the sun in his heart. Michelle [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Halia [Edit] |
Date Posted: 21:14:21 09/01/07 Sat  Although, I never had the pleasure in meeting Rob, he has touched my life in many ways. A few years ago, my son & I followed my hubby to Saudi Arabia where he was contracted for Boeing. It was an adventurous life but I missed my family & friends in California. Being an avid romance book reader, I came upon Rob’s image (via Karen Marie Moning) and was led to the ladies & authors on his website messageboard and RBL Romantica. Throughout the years, I have forged a wonderful friendship with many of these ladies online and in person. They have supported me in good times and bad times, with inspiration and humor. They helped me find books, sent me “goodies” and also the occassional "drool" :). They were always there to comfort & laugh with me, or laugh AT me in some cases. I will never forget the tremendous support I received in 2003, when the compound where I was living was bombed by terrorists. This camaraderie filled my life with the companionship I truly needed it when I felt alone and isolated even with the love of my husband & son. Now that I’m back in California, I continue these friendships and have met even more of these ladies in person. I am eternally grateful to Rob for guiding me to these awesome women and the opportunity to get know in him beyond the handsome face...the kind, gentle and funny man. While I had few interactions with Rob on the boards, I watched him struggle with self forgiveness to spiritual enlightenment. He is a testimonial to all for love, hope & encouragement and will be forever missed. ~~*~~ I thought of you with love today but that is nothing new. I thought about you yesterday and days before that too. I think of you in silence I often speak your name All I have are memories and your picture in a frame. Your memory is my keepsake with which I'll never part God has you in His keeping I have you in my heart. ~~Halia~~ [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Tish (Sadden) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 01:56:17 09/02/07 Sun I would like to send Rob's family and friends my heartfelt condolences. When I heard of Rob's passing on the KMM and RBL messageboard, I was shocked and saddened to hear that such a vital, strong, beautiful man was gone from the world. Although death is nothing new to me, working as a nurse in a hospital, Rob's death has truly shocked me! Although I never got the chance to meet Rob, I've admired his honesty and candid responses in interviews and on his website. I also own many books where Rob's beauty graces the cover, he was the hero women dreamed about. To Rob's family, you're in my thoughts and prayers. May you find the strength and peace in God's love and know that Rob IS in a better place, free of pain. God Bless you and your Family! Take Care! All my love, Tish [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Ronlyn [Edit] |
Date Posted: 12:36:01 09/02/07 Sun I've been trying to think of what to say for a few days, but words simply don't express how sorry I am that Rob is gone. I had the pleasure of meeting him several years ago when I was terribly homesick. He brightened my day with his smile and warmed my heart with a hug. He's had a very special place my heart breaks for Mrs. Graham and the thought of her [your] loss. To Rob's family and friends I send my heartfelt condolences. Rob will never be gone as long as we all continue to remember him. God Bless [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Vicki Nappier [Edit] |
Date Posted: 15:23:17 09/02/07 Sun I was so upset to hear of Rob's passing. We lost not only a beautiful man but a beautiful soul on this earth as well. I wish him well on the otherside. We will miss him. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Annie (Sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 16:33:51 09/02/07 Sun I would like to take a moment to extend my heartfelt sadness and condolence to Rob's family and friend's. I never had the chance to meet Rob but I've heard so many good things about him from his friends that I'm sorry our paths never crossed in this life. I pray that the Lord will give strength and peach to Rob's loved one's and that he will live in our heart's. Annie [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
| Subject: A tender, warm and humble soul | |
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Author: LisaK [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:53:37 09/03/07 Mon I hear your laugh you know the one that could so easily make us all laugh right with you! That contagious laugh like a car motor first starting up. Our times were care free times. Times of joy and friendship that we will always treasure and remember. I especially think about our fun boating adventures with Judy, D&J, Rich and me. Together we were our own piece of heaven. Rob was a stunning cover romance hero to many, but to us he was real. A man filled with tremendous sensitivity to and for others. He was a real life hero to Trevor and Tucker and a loving partner in everyday life to Judy, his fiancee. There will never be any rational answer to why his life was was so very short.It reminds us all how fragile life is. We love you Rob and will miss you tender, warm and humble soul. My deepest heartfelt condolences. LisaK [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Kel (at peace) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 19:56:40 09/03/07 Mon I remember very clearly the day I first found Rob on the internet. It was the day my life completely changed, started off in a whole new direction, a wonderful adventure that is still going strong. If it wasn't for Rob, I would never have met a VERY long list of people whom I'm blessed to call my friends. It all began with him, those many years ago. As I read these posts and all the countless emails I've received this week, and all the phone calls I've received, I've heard over and over a common thread, of people wanting to know why he was taken so young, that somehow his life was wasted. All you have to do is absorb all the outpouring of love from so many different directions, going back so many years, to see he definitely had a purpose and his life was defnintely not wasted. Rob was a shining example of the famous qoute, "The candle that burns the brightest, burns the fastest." Rob's candle burned so very brightly. His light will alway shine in my heart. And whether you knew him as Rob, Robert, Robio, Roberto, Ashton, Graham, Ash, Danny, Ashtongunner, Mr. A. (and I'm sure many more)... he was so many different things to so many different people. But the common thing was his light. It pierced the hearts of everyone he met and left a forever lasting mark on all.... I would like to say a very special thank you to everyone who has sent me so many emails and phone calls and just a tremendous outpouring of love and concern. This has been a very tough week and your loving thoughts have been very much appreciated. This weekend I drove down to S. FL and was able to spend some time with some of Rob's family and loved ones and had a very special "goodbye" evening with a few of his and my dear old RT friends. It was a wonderful, bittersweet weekend, but it was good being able to say goodbye. Thank you all again. With Love, Kel [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Virginia T. (We will miss you!) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 13:47:07 09/04/07 Tue It was my pleasure to have known Rob, the many times spent with him were so enlighting and fun for me. His compassian and understanding of others was unbelivable He will be missed by so many whose lives were touched by him! He was so loving and kind to my daughter, Judy and her sons Trevor and Tucker. He used to tell me they were the family & children he didn't have.....and the love that he showed them was always present. He thought of the boys as his own and there was nothing he wouldn't have done for them. I always thought that someday he might be my son-in-law. We would have many long talks about life, the children & how well they were getting along! It has been very sad for Judy & the boys these past few weeks. Judy spent every day with him while he was so sick and never left him alone! It is very sad times for her & the children, & all of us who cared so much. Your love for my family was so strong and we all will miss you so much.......... MAY GOD BLESS YOU, ROB FOREVER! [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Author Judy Leigh Peters aka Judith Leigh (In Loving Memory) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 08:33:41 09/05/07 Wed I was deeply sadden to learn of Rob's death. The world of book covers has lost one of the best. The first time I meant Rob was at the Mr.Romance Contest the year he won! I later saw him in Tampa and Jacksonville, Florida. I treasure the pictures I had taken with him. What impressed me so much with Rob was the way he respected everyone and always showed the southern gentlemen he was. I will never forget those beautiful eyes of his. They showed so much compassion and love. No one loved life better then he did and he lived it to the fullest. You will always be missed. My heart goes out to his family. Love, Judy [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Nina Davis [Edit] |
Date Posted: 12:06:21 09/05/07 Wed Sadden shock doesn't begin to describe hearing the news of his passing. The last time I saw Rob was RT 2001, a sweetheart with the warmest smile. My heart and prayers go out to his friends and family. We'll miss you, Rob. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Patty [Edit] |
Date Posted: 22:18:47 09/05/07 Wed My prayers and condolences to Rob's family and friends. Taken from us at such a young age. He will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathy. Patty Harrison [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: KJ (Sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 23:25:59 09/05/07 Wed May God be with his family and friends. My heart goes out to you all. God Bless Always! KJ WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME When tomorrow starts without me, and I'm not there to see; If the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me; I wish so much you wouldn't cry the way you did today, while thinking of the many things we didn't get to say. I know how much you love me, as much as I love you, and each time you think of me I know you'll miss me too; But when tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand, that an angel came and called my name and took me by the hand, and said my place was ready in heaven far above, and that I'd have to leave behind all those I dearly love. But as I turned to walk away, a tear fell from my eye, for all life, I'd always thought I didn't want to die. I had so much to live for and so much yet to do, it seemed almost impossible that I was leaving you. I thought of all the yesterdays, the good ones and the bad, I thought of all the love we shared and all the fun we had. If I could relive yesterday, I thought, just for awhile, I'd say goodbye and kiss you and maybe see you smile. But then I fully realized that this could never be, for emptiness and memories would take the place of me. And when I thought of worldly things that I'd miss come tomorrow, I thought of you, and when I did, my heart was filled with sorrow. But when I walked through heaven's gates, I felt so much at home. When God looked down and smiled at me, from His great golden throne, He said, "This is eternity and all I've promised you". Today for life on earth is past but here it starts anew. I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last, and since each day's the same day, there's no longing for the past. But you have been so faithful, so trusting, and so true. Though there were times you did some things you knew you shouldn't do. But you have been forgiven and now at last you?re free. So won't you take my hand and share my life with me? So when tomorrow starts without me, don't think we're far apart, for every time you think of me, I'm right here in your heart. by: David M. Romano Daddy4sons@aol.com Copyright ? David M Romano December 1993ox [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: angela (very sad) [Edit] |
Date Posted: 16:41:39 08/29/07 Wed I have seen his beautiful face on so many books, I can't count them...I never knew him personaly but most of my reading buddy's and me felt we did, he was a beautiful fantasy that came to life in books...I can not tell you enough that he will be missed amoung thousands. I want to send his family, fiance, friends and everyone out there who is grieving over his loss,You are all in my thoughts and prayers, may he rest in peace in the arms of an angel. Now he will never feel an ounce of pain or suffering again, God bless his precious soul. |
