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Date Posted: 04:08:37 02/25/13 Mon
In reply to:
Confused
's message, "Re: Spanking adult girls" on 17:35:16 02/24/13 Sun
Confused. I'm so pleased for you and Bambi that things have turned out so well. Yes, it was a gamble, but a calculated one. But to try and analyse why you did it, what your feelings or motives were, is next to impossible. The only clear thing to come out of your story is that what happened was mutually satisfying, you wanted to spank Bambi and she wanted to be spanked.
Spankophiles like us are probably born not developed. I am sure none of us are into pain per se, be it giving or receiving. But there is something about a well spanked bottom that can't be replicated in any other way. Let me quote (not for the first time on this forum) what the first lady I ever spanked told me. I asked her if she thought we were odd doing what we were doing. She replied "don't be silly, it's the others that are odd, they don't know what they are missing." I then asked her if she thought me at all sadistic for spanking her like I had just done. "No, definitely not, what you've got, what we've all got, is a bottom fetish and if that bottom is bright red, so much the better!" I have never forgotten those words and they make me believe that perhaps I am not insane after all. You lot may differ of course!
However, Cofused, please have no doubts that there is a sexual element to a spanking. The ritualistic nature alone cofirms this. If you had just wanted to punish Bambi, then half a dozen slaps across her jeans would have done the trick. The fact that she was scolded, sent to fetch the brush, told to bend over your knees, got spanked for a number of sessions, then had her panties removed and took at least 30 with the brush, and was then cuddled for a long time, all have a sexual connotation, for both of you. What happened later with hubby only goes to prove my point. But there is nothing to be ashamed of. I am sure it was a mutually enjoyable afternoon and one that will be repeated soon. Probably the second time it may not be so severe, but more sensual in its application.
One final thing. You had this exhilerating feeling of being in control. My experience of spanking has taught me that in fact the submissive is almost always in control, or should be. Nothing should ever happen that he/she does not willingly accept. if these episodes continue, you will learn each others' needs, desires and limits much better, making them more fulfilling each time. I'm sure we are all terribly jealous!
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