Re: Question -- SOMETIMES A GIRL NEEDS A SPANKING

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Subject: Re: Question

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Keri

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Date Posted: 20:12:45 03/12/14 Wed
In reply to: Alfred 's message, "Re: Question" on 08:48:56 03/12/14 Wed

This brings up something I have never spoke of here because I didn't know how to speak of it without the possibility of hurting some feelings which I never want to do!

Part of the spanking that is essential for me is the psychology and submissive sides of it.

I need a big strong man to spank me. I want him to be a 'Top', in charge, in control. I have played here and let women give me virtual spankings but it's because they seemed very in control. Like a mentor that would make me submit.

I can't seem to wrap my head around the idea of a male who allows himself to be spanked turning around and taking back the control.

I never spoke of it before because I knew it was my hang up and not anyone elses. However, with what Alfred has said I feel very conflicted about it.

What's even weirder is that if a girl wanted to spank and then be spanked that makes sense to me. I guess because girls can be teachers and mentors but there is always a male somewhere that can put the girl who spanked a girl in her charge over his knee.

I'm probably not making any sense and I certainly don't want to step on any toes but this is how I feel.

Maybe you all can enlighten me. How about you Alfred? How do you see it?

Keri

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: Question	Alfred (in reply to Keri)	07:48:42 03/13/14 Thu

Re: Question	SJ	11:17:06 03/13/14 Thu
Re: Question -- Emma, 04:57:16 03/16/14 Sun Re: Question -- Marzi, 15:11:06 03/18/14 Tue Re: Question -- Emma, 17:14:19 03/19/14 Wed