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Date Posted: 13:50:07 06/08/11 Wed
Dear Mrs. JR, WOW! You bring a lot of dimensions into your post and questions.
On another thread, you’ve ask for my thoughts and I’m going to be bold in what I have to say and suggest and it will be rather lengthy.
You mention that: “I use an enema can with a "standard" size nozzle.” And: ‘I administer to her in the knee-chest position.” Followed by: “With the exception of about the last half of the soapy water (there is just a bit of quiet moaning during that portion of her enemas) you could say that she takes her enemas just beautifully. Maybe she takes them TOO beautifully, and that is my concern. I can remember my own teen years. I took the enemas my mother gave to me pretty well, but not as well as my daughter takes the enemas that I give to her.”
You also commented that: “With the exception of about the last half of the soapy water, --- you could say that she takes her enemas just beautifully.” Is that when she does the moaning or is it during the first half? If the moaning is only during the first half, you didn’t mention what happens as you give the remainder of the enema. Would you please share that so the whole picture is provided?
Then: “I think that my daughter is having sexual arousal during her enemas. Her little bottom kind of tightens and relaxes while I am giving, and also she sort of rubs her legs together a little.” I would agree that she is experiencing some degree of pleasure. Since she is in the knee chest position her hips are spread wide and by using a standard nozzle, you have to hold the nozzle in her. The Anus has numerous very sensitive nerve endings; nature has done that so that having a BM is a pleasurable experience if the stool is not hard from constipation. By holding the nozzle in her the slightest hand movement of the nozzle will stimulate those nerves more than just the stimulation provided by an unmoving nozzle alone. So I believe she is experiencing pleasure first from the nozzle penetration and also from the unavoidable hand movements, along with that is the sensation from the warmth of the nozzle as the enema flows through it as well as the initial feelings that go along with the filling. She is also feeling loved, cared for and nurtured which is what she wants as evidenced by what you said in another other email; “As for self - administration, Pru, she doesn't even want to talk about it. When I mention it to her, she simply says, "I don't want to. You’re my mom. You do it."
As far as her having sexual pleasure, from your description that she is quietly moaning and that you can see her little bottom, and I must assume with her in the knee chest position her hips are spread wide and, you mean you can see her anal sphincter as it tightens and relaxes and that she also rubs her legs together. Even if her sphincter pulses and leg rubbing coincides with her soft moans, it is hard to determine if she is experiencing sexual arousal from those reactions alone.
At age 16 she is probably well into puberty and with the birds eye view you have while giving her an enema, you should be able to see other reactions that will be similar to your signs when you’re aroused, the wetness any swelling and possible nipple erection.
Puberty effects all of us but in different ways. For me enemas were a pleasant way of relieving period constipation, discomfort and stress. When my mother gave them to me I acted like I hated them but secretly I could hardly wait for that nozzle to penetrate me and the slow flow of warm water to fill m. My older sister truly hated every enema she received and would only take one today if she was in dire distress. By age 15, with my mother’s permission I was taking my own enemas and enjoying them thoroughly. As I grew older after a steamy “petting only” date my filled bag and nozzle helped to fulfill my deepest need and relieve the stress of holding off.
You say that; “I feel kind of guilty in a way, like I am helping her masturbate or something.” Don’t, it’s your daughters personal make-up that is her driving factor. You’re giving the enemas to her for health purposes; if she had never had an enema it would be something else that would fill her need, its human nature.
Later you say: “For my enemas, I use a douche nozzle.” And then: “I use the douche nozzle for my enemas because it stays in better and quite frankly because the greater size of the douche nozzle just feels kind of sexy.. “ From your statement about your nozzle use, it’s obvious that you are receiving sexual pleasure from your enemas. Would you be willing to share when you started to experience it?
As far as using the douche nozzle for your daughter’s enemas, I can understand you reluctance in light of your feelings about your contributing to her sexual awakening, but we both know that there is no reason that the nozzle would be too large for her. And you said: “I know my daughter. Once she gets a thought in her mind she doesn't let it go. I am certain that the douche nozzle question will come up again.” Since she has ask I think her request for it’s use presents an opportune time for you to lead her into self administration. Should you decide to use the douche nozzle, when she brings it up again I suggest that you tell her that using a douche nozzle will make her enemas easier to take and that it is a big step into adulthood and that if she really wants it to be used that you’re willing to use it providing that she agrees to doing two things, first that she takes all the enema and second that it’s time she begins taking on the responsibility for her own enemas with your help. If she agrees, fill the can and give the enema but have her clean up the equipment, especially stressing the importance in thoroughly cleaning the douche nozzle so it’s ready for your next enema or hers. Give her at least two more enemas as needed, then for the next enema have her help you prepare it and if she says that it’s too much tell her that, she’s been taking that amount the last three times. Then have her give the enema to herself in your presence.
What ever happens, please let me know how things go, I care.
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