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Subject: Erection Enemas


Author:
Lori
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Date Posted: 10:06:27 02/28/10 Sun

I am a 45 yo RN working in a local hospital. I sometimes have to administer enemas to men of all ages. I would say that about 50% have an erection during the process. I also occasionally administer them to my son and he has an erection every time( he is 12). Have any of you who are in the nursing profession or mothers noticed thi? I never comment, even to my son.

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[> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Terry (M)
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Date Posted: 10:40:56 02/28/10 Sun

Throughout my entire life I became uncontrollably erect the instant I knew I was going to receive an enema, and remained erect until I relieved myself afterward. While in my 40's and early 50's I had many visiting nurses give me an enema in my home, and I always hid it from them. I don't know if any of them knew what was going on, but nothing was ever said.
[> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Frank (Moderator)
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Date Posted: 10:43:12 02/28/10 Sun

Hi Lori... Let me please say that even infants have erections. They are very small, so that when one changes a diaper, one may or may not see it. Erections in males are totally normal, and you have done the right thing in not saying anything about it. As he is 12, it would be a good time, assuming that you are married, to let your husband start giving him the enemas. At that age, I think that it is a good time for your son and husband to get totally naked and give each other weekly enemas. I believe that all family members should have at least a couple of enemas at a minimum of once per week. Having Dad give them makes for a fabulous bonding time, and your son will realize that having an erection is normal, that even Dad will have one with an enema.

The posters here to this forum might think that I am out of my mind; however, most parents do very little, if anything at all about sex education. The more that children learn, the better it is for society in general. Don't forget moms, that the same thing should be done with your daughters. Doing enemas together, and letting your same sex child give his parent an enema is a wonderful learning and bonding experience.

I am most willing to listen and converse with the other side on this point as long as it is civil and accurate. Please let's here what others think.

[> [> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Terry (M)
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Date Posted: 12:05:05 02/28/10 Sun

I disagree with Frank. The father-son routine he recommends is unthinkable to me.

My suggestion would be that at twelve the boy is probably old enough to do it himself after a little instruction, and that is what the mother should do. He is approaching the age where parental involvement by either parent might well be playing with fire.
[> [> [> Subject: Erections with enemas


Author:
phil (An enema is a gift you give)
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Date Posted: 12:21:00 02/28/10 Sun

I, personally feel that Moms should give the enemas until the boy is about 14.

At that age, he's most likely to be in high school, and is developing enough that frequent erections, with or without physical stimulation, are occurring.

Gentle enemas are good for overall good health, and with the addition of probable emissions, the boy should soon realize just how much benefit he is getting from each enema.

A lifetime of good-health practice can be achieved with/for the son, by leading the way, and encouraging free and easy access to enema therapy.

Just my 2 cents' worth.

Write me if you care to correspond.
[> [> [> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Frank (Moderator)
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Date Posted: 13:23:51 02/28/10 Sun

Hello Terry...
I thank you for your post. I would appreciate a little more information from you in that you say that you disagree with me. You did mention that you thought that doing this is like playing with fire. I am thinking that a dad giving his son an enema is a lot more palatable for the son. Many boys are totally embarrassed with being nude in front of their moms. I can certainly understand that.

In no way am I suggesting that father and son should engage in any sexual activity. I just believe that a.) the son can learn from his dad where and what his prostate is, and that it certainly would be a learning lesson in how to give/receive enemas. I believe that most boys having had enemas for any length of time from their mothers have by age 12 or puberty become fascinated with them. I also know that not all boys learn to like enemas. By being coached by his dad, a boy can learn that enemas are healthy and normal, and that receiving erections from them is also perfectly normal. This is something that is difficult for a mom to explain to a 12 to 14 yr old boy. A dad is in a much better position, in my opinion, to explain these truths to his son.

I would certainly appreciate more discussion and opposition to my point. I know that this subject is a very good one for discussion.

Lastly Terry, you never did remark about the opposite role of a mom/daughter enema lesson. Is that part agreeable to you?

Thanks
[> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Dave
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Date Posted: 13:21:17 02/28/10 Sun

My dad gave me and my brothers enemas. I think my parents thought it would be less embarrassing for us to get erections with him looking on. Actually there is nothing less embarrassing. Even being given an enema is embarrassing. Forget about getting an erection. I certainly can't imagine my father having been nude. Since we played golf often and he belonged to a country club we did shower in an open shower. But I went like a steam engine to getout of there and dressed. If I have kids I would expect my wife to give them enemas. One of my brothers though has a four year old that he give Pedia-Lax enemas to.
[> [> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Bunny
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Date Posted: 10:31:42 03/01/10 Mon

Due to mom's serious illness which proved fatal my older brother by 4 yrs tarted giving her, me and our baby sister when he was 12. When I turned 12 and he was 16 he showed me how to give enemas and I started with my little sister, than mom and finally Johnny. Even though I had a complete education in sex and knew what an erection was I had never seen one. The firs time i gave Johnny an enema he got an erection which was a thrill for me. This happend every time I gave him one and finally at 14 i asked him if I could touch him. I did with just my finger tips and was than forced to have to wait till i was 17 to get a firm grasp on one. But watching his penis go from flacid to full attention thrilled me and I was always asking him if he wanted an enema. Lucky for me the same thing happens with my husband. I really don't believe I when it happens with my son it will thrill me, but rather be pleased that he is having a very normal reaction to his enemas.
[> [> [> Subject: Erection with an enema


Author:
Dr. Dan (An enema is a gift you give)
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Date Posted: 13:49:02 03/01/10 Mon

Bunny,

You were indeed a lucky girl -- to have had an older brother sedate enough, and mature enough, to give you the enemas you needed.

The fact that you speak so confidently about your enema experience, and with your attitude toward your husband's enemas, as sane and even-handed as you sound, I strongly suspect you will handle your own child's needs as any rational mother would do.

Keep up the good work, and keep us posted here.

Please write to me directly for additional help and reassurance.

enemaguy@gmail.com
[> [> [> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Terry (M)
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Date Posted: 18:47:54 03/01/10 Mon

Don't lose sight of the fact that an erection, while perfectly normal for a young man receiving an enema, is still caused by sexual arousal. And it strikes me that any time an adolescent associates sexual arousal with an activity undertaken by a parent, the potential harm is very great.
[> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Glen
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Date Posted: 07:44:09 03/03/10 Wed

Gets less frequent as you get older. But it can still happen!!
[> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Original Jeff
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Date Posted: 15:44:32 03/09/10 Tue

I gave enemas to my oldest beginning when he was about six. I don't think my wife ever gave him one.

He was in foster care from birth until age six, when I married his mother and we got custody of him. He had plenty of enemas in foster care; according to our pediatrician he had probably been trained with enemas (common in those days).

He ranged between "sluggish" and "impacted" through his teens, and was usually treated with a weekly cleansing procedure which consisted of several to many enemas, depending on how bad off he was.

This was a long time ago; he's in his mid 40s now.

Jeff
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Author:
Original Jeff
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Date Posted: 15:48:24 03/09/10 Tue

Sorry, but I forgot to comment on the main topic of the thread... erections.

I don't remember him having erections when he was very young, and I don't remember having erections myself when I was very young... perhaps neither he nor I had them; perhaps it's selective memory loss :).

Jeff
[> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Glen
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Date Posted: 07:29:31 03/10/10 Wed

You never know when it will happen. It's just blood circulation, not actual arousal. It can happen any time. It usually doesn't last and is no big deal.

A teenager can get an erection flossing his teeth, as you mature, erections DO become more closely connected with arousal. It's never an absolute "hard" link, however.

Before the age of 30, not all erections correspond to arousal, and after the age of 50, not all arousal results in erection, so the link is not "Fixed"
[> [> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Terry (M)
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Date Posted: 10:24:18 03/10/10 Wed

I disagree about enemas not always being associated with arousal. It is certainly true that they are not always associated with overtly sexual behavior, but when they occur, whatever the cause, the boy or man is sexually excited. As a boy, the excitement can be somewhat bewildering, but it would be a serious mistake to assume that there is no arousal.
[> [> [> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Richard
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Date Posted: 11:25:08 03/10/10 Wed

I would estimate that 85% of young males getting an enema get an erection. As a male orderely, in a large hospital, this has been my experience with boys, especially teenagers. It usually happens about one minute after I release the clamp and the boy stays erect for the entire enema procedure. I never say anything about the erection and neither do they.
[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Frank (Moderator)
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Date Posted: 12:04:06 03/10/10 Wed

Hi Richard...
Would it be appropriate for you to describe some of the experiences that you have had concerning the giving of enemas to your patients? Information such as what the enema was, how old the patients were and some of the reactions that you have seen in your job concerning enemas. I know that I would like to hear about them, and I'm certain that most of our readers would like to read about them as well.

Thanks,
Frank
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Author:
Richard
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Date Posted: 19:42:31 03/10/10 Wed

Actually, In some respects, I have already violated the ethical code of the hospital where I work. I would prefer not to go into details of the individual boys whom I gave enemas too other than to say that many of them were to die for. Only cerain members of this forum will understand the meaning of the last sentence, and be rather jealous of me, including the Moderator!?!
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Author:
Bobby
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Date Posted: 08:14:53 03/11/10 Thu

Although I'm a little homophobic I would still prefer a gay male nurse to a female.
[> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Jeanne
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Date Posted: 20:01:38 03/10/10 Wed

I honestly think this is the kind of subject this board should stay away from, unless it wants the same fate the other board suffered from.
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Author:
"Fate" Check
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Date Posted: 20:35:25 03/10/10 Wed

The other boards did not become disasters because of the subject matter, but because of the idiots (trolls) who wrote responding messages. The E & S forum was never moderated and it failed. It will never regain its former premier status of all enema forums. VoyForums follows these forums pretty close and won't let anything really out of line get posted for very long. I have an idea that particular E & S forum will probably go to forum heaven soon. It is amazing that one person could destroy all the forums in that group. You cannot compare that forum to this one inasmuch as Frank is doing an outstanding job of moderating it. "Moderator" is the magic word on public forums.
[> [> [> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Richard to "Bobby"
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Date Posted: 10:35:58 03/11/10 Thu

"Bobby" how would you define "a little homophobic?" To me, that is like saying I'm a little pregnant.
[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Bobby
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Date Posted: 16:43:34 03/11/10 Thu

I mean I don't hurt or insult homosexuals and I'm a little uncomfortable around them. I don't like to see other men naked and I don't feel comfortable being seen naked by other men. I also don't like to receive mesages by other men. But being seen naked by a man is better than being seen naked by a woman that isn't my wife. I feel horrible and humiliated being seen or touched while naked by a male doctor or nurse, but being naked for a female isn't even an option as far as I'm concerned.

If it's absolutely necessary to be seen naked for my health or life I can reluctantly accept being seen by "one of the guys" because I'm used to men's locker rooms and there's absolutely no sexual overtone. I consider getting naked for any other woman as being unfaithful to my wife, and she believes the same. I'm sure she wouldn't divorce me if I was taken injured into the ER, but any other time we both find it necessary to find a same-gender caregiver for intimate procedures or exams.
[> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Switchablesusie
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Date Posted: 20:31:38 03/25/10 Thu

A twelve year old is completely capable of giving him or herself enemas unless they are very sick and incapacitated.
[> Subject: Re: Erection Enemas


Author:
Sharon
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Date Posted: 10:37:30 03/26/10 Fri

I'm thinking that the comment by one of the earlier posters suggesting that this topic belongs to one of those boards that we all just abandoned. I don't want to see this one suffer such a fate.


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