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Date Posted: 02:10:53 02/21/09 Sat
Author: Bill
Subject: spanking works

I'm a father of 3 children, ages 1, 3 and 6.
Good hard spankings are what every child needs in order to learn responsibility.

After my 6 yr old ran into the street, I told her she was going to get spanked 10 times with the belt. She started crying right away and I told her that crying wasn't going to do her any good. I told her to get in her room and lie face down on the edge of her bed. I lifted her dress and slipped her panties down. I use an old heavy leather strap to ensure the spanking leaves a lasting impression. I always double the belt over and hold it with both hands. I draw it back and whack it against her butt as hard as I can. If each stroke doesn't leave a welt, then you're not doing it right. You shouldn't be alarmed if a spanking results in bruising or welting. That will go away within a week, but the lesson will stay with them.


When my 1 yr old threw a temper tantrum in the store, I knew what I needed to do. You need to teach them young that bad behavior will not be tolerated. I immediately took her out to our family van. I unfastened the sticky tabs on her pamper and pulled it back so I could spank her on the bare bottom. I took her over my lap and spanked her with a thick wooden paddle I keep in the glove box. When her little butt turned bright red I knew she was getting the message. I usually give her anywhere from 5 to 10 good hard whacks. Little ones like to kick and squirm when they're being spanked, and I'm trying to break her of that habit. The more she squirms the more I spank. I tell her she better hold still or she'll get it even worse.


With my 3 yr old son I also use a heavy leather strap on his bare bottom. When I caught him throwing blocks at his sister I asked him if he was ready for a good spanking. I had both of his sisters come in the room to watch and my wife is usually there also. I like my wife to be present during the children's spankings so the kids know we are united when it comes to punishment.
I made my son take off all his clothes. Then I told him to lie face down on the living room floor so he could receive his punishment. My wife brought me the belt and I stood over him and gave him 10 good hard whacks of the strap. Then I had him apologize to his sister. He never did that again.

Children need to know that you are in charge! They need to learn to have respect for their parents. My kids know that their butt belongs to ME and NOT to THEM. They know every time they do something wrong their pants WILL be taken down and they WILL be spanked. No exceptions!

With small children it isn't unusual if they wet themselves while being spanked. My two younger kids gets very upset and nervous when I'm in the process of spanking them. On occasion they will lose control of their bladder and wet themselves. You can always clean the child later, but the spanking must continue. Children also like to cry and plead with you when they know they're about to be spanked. They need to learn that pleading will no effect the outcome. Once a child is told they will be spanked, you need to follow through with it. If my children try to protest the spanking they know they will get it even worse. This teaches them to cooperate with the process.

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