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Date Posted: 06:26:02 04/01/09 Wed
Author: lynnew
Subject: others spanking your child.

How would you feel about others (neighbour, pastor , teachers) spanking your children? Does age matter?

I was brought up in a no spank family in Scotland. Strangely, whilst , for reasons I never figured out, and were never discussed, my parents, both practicing Christians, did not spank, but they approved of me being spanked at school ( in my school this was with the feared Scottish belt ot 'tawse' on you hands).

Also I frequently played, and as I got older 'hung out with' two kids who were one of our neighbour's children. They were spanked at home,normally by their mother with a belt. She had checked with my parents, and told me if we misbehaved she had permission to wallop me as well as them! Indeed, on one occasion I remember well, we were in out mid teens, and I and the neighbour's daughter went to town and drank some alcohol, which was 'forbidden' . However our state on return was soon discovered by my neighbour, and I got the best bare butt spanking of my life. My butt was left cherry red with some really clear welts, and me, rightly bawling like a baby. Thinking my mom would be mad, I told her and she looked and just commented' That's a real good job. ~now I know when your misbehaving where to send you!

I am bringing my family up traditionally and use spanking as my main disiplinary tool. I have two mid teen daughters,(14 and 16) and both know that misbehaviour leads to a good caning or belting whichever I deem most appropriate. Either is administered soundly so that it normally leads to tears.

I have no worries about disciplining them, but would feel less sanguine about others 'dealing' with them. Am I right or wrong, or, given my background, just hypocritical ?

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