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Date Posted: 04:42:18 04/07/09 Tue
Author: Lynnew
Subject: Re: others spanking your child.
In reply to: Stuart 's message, "Re: others spanking your child." on 14:59:01 04/06/09 Mon

Stuart, My method of punishment is to talk to the girl/s about the offense. when they have admitted their wrongdoing, I tell them a spanking is to be the penalty and then askher/ them politely to follow me into the kitchen. I ask her/them to stand on the back wall facing me hands by her/their sides. I then announce the form of punishment ( cane or strap). I have a high kitchen stool which I use for cooking. I put this in the middle of the room and take out as appropriate the cane or the tawse. I then ask the first girl to step forward and remove her skirt/trousers completely , folding them and putting them to one side. Then she must stretch over the stool and grab the 'low' bar. Then I apply the penalty. If it is the cane its a little more formal as I do test it for 'spring' and thus there are a couple of warning 'swishes'. with the tawse ( mine is a three tail 'heavy' from John J, Dick) it is simply applied in the time honoured method, holding the tails straight until I release the stoke. I NEVER tell the girls in advance the number of strokes to expect....that is for me to know and them to find out! But I am never unreasonable, and I do ask them to count.Miscount and I take it again. I don't give extra for yells, tears or any sort of performance, except if a girl were to rise from the stool completely , we would have to start over again.

Should the offense require a handstrapping (where 'hands' have been involved in the act - stealing, hands caught rumaging in my handbag, smoking etc) etc) before bending the girl over the stool I apply 'six' ( three on each hand , with the hands held 'Scottish style') and the tawse drawn over the shoulder.This, as those of you who had the experience of Scottish schooling in the days of the belt will endorse, is a most 'memorable' experience.


My girls are normally very co-operative, recognising the good the punishment does, and knowing I only correct them for their own benefit.Normally, my punishment does give rise to tears of shame as much as pain, although there is no point in punishment without sting. After the punishment is over we always hug so there is no ill feeling.

As to knickers - it isn't an issue . Both attend independent schools where uniform inspection is carried out on occasion. What suits the school is ok by me.Were they to wear very modern attire in any case it would be worse for them, unlike shool wear, thongs etc etc give absolutely no protection- indeed in my case would render the wearer subject to 'extra'!

I wondered from your interest Stuart, do you have kids to disicpline or were you disciplined yourself ?



>lynnew so u have your girls take their
>skirts/trousers off? I am guessing you have ruleson
>the type of knickers they may wear?
>
>>No, at the moment I'm not in Scotland, although I have
>>returned on occasion. I am widowed so that answers the
>>last part. I allow them the modesty of knickers, in
>>reality it makes very little difference to the effect
>>of the spanking in my mind. Actually my daughters and
>>I discussed this only the other week when I had to
>>tawse both of them for rowing, using bad language and
>>swearing. That's very very unususal and was brought
>>about by a serious problem between friends at school,
>>but a few strokes brought them to order.
>>
>>Indeed my younger daughter , who was standing 'in
>>line' whilst I strapped her Sister, said to me when
>>replacing her sister over the kitchen stool ' Mum,
>>seeing the tawse has done the trick , you really can
>>let me off the real thing.....I didn't of course..
>>
>>They told me then they believe spanking is really
>>effective,'tough love' it's quick , hurts but is
>>given with love, and causes no resentment . Its all
>>over and forgiven quickly.
>>
>>As to others knowing it isn't anything the girls are
>>proud of , although I know at least one of their
>>friends confided in me she wished her parents would do
>>the same to her. She gets grounded and the
>>reciminations , and punishment hangs around for weeks.
>> I know of a couple of other mothers at my Church who
>>spank their teens, so its not unknown.
>>
>>
>>
>>>lynnew are you still in Scotland then? Do your
>>>dasughters get it bare bum? Is dad ever involved in
>>>the discipline?
>>>Do others know how you discipline?
>>>
>>>>How would you feel about others (neighbour, pastor ,
>>>>teachers) spanking your children? Does age matter?
>>>>
>>>>I was brought up in a no spank family in Scotland.
>>>>Strangely, whilst , for reasons I never figured out,
>>>>and were never discussed, my parents, both
>practicing
>>>>Christians, did not spank, but they approved of me
>>>>being spanked at school ( in my school this was with
>>>>the feared Scottish belt ot 'tawse' on you hands).
>>>>
>>>>Also I frequently played, and as I got older 'hung
>>out
>>>>with' two kids who were one of our neighbour's
>>>>children. They were spanked at home,normally by
>their
>>>>mother with a belt. She had checked with my parents,
>>>>and told me if we misbehaved she had permission to
>>>>wallop me as well as them! Indeed, on one occasion I
>>>>remember well, we were in out mid teens, and I and
>>the
>>>>neighbour's daughter went to town and drank some
>>>>alcohol, which was 'forbidden' . However our state
>on
>>>>return was soon discovered by my neighbour, and I
>got
>>>>the best bare butt spanking of my life. My butt was
>>>>left cherry red with some really clear welts, and
>me,
>>>>rightly bawling like a baby. Thinking my mom would
>be
>>>>mad, I told her and she looked and just commented'
>>>>That's a real good job. ~now I know when your
>>>>misbehaving where to send you!
>>>>
>>>>I am bringing my family up traditionally and use
>>>>spanking as my main disiplinary tool. I have two mid
>>>>teen daughters,(14 and 16) and both know that
>>>>misbehaviour leads to a good caning or belting
>>>>whichever I deem most appropriate. Either is
>>>>administered soundly so that it normally leads to
>>>>tears.
>>>>
>>>>I have no worries about disciplining them, but
>would
>>>>feel less sanguine about others 'dealing' with them.
>>>>Am I right or wrong, or, given my background, just
>>>>hypocritical ?

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