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Subject: Re: Husbands


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Angela to Uwe
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Date Posted: 05:21:14 02/10/18 Sat
In reply to: Uwe 's message, "Re: Husbands" on 09:16:38 02/07/18 Wed

Yes agree - thus this is why I control the tone of voice during scolding, from a stern semi loud tone asking my son question's before his baring as husb watches. I know husband is developing an erection watching it's necessary part of good parenting. Then low almost whisper tone with eye contact during the opening up of his pants slowly and occasional glance at husb as I'm lowering undies....its all part of proper "spanking". As I bare I explain this is part of "your punishment".

I have explained to my husb during sex while he's finishing up that spanking bare is important and that I have and will take down our sons pants in front of people if need be. This mostly triggers him to release which is important.

>I think for all pro-spanking parents it is important
>to know that sexual arousment effected by spanking
>your child or watching it is nothing unusual or even
>pervert but an absolutely normal biological effect.
>Sure it depends on the situation: If you hear your
>child crying and see that he/she is beaten by a
>stranger, you will not be aroused (hopefully) but feel
>the impulse to help her/him and attac the offender. Or
>if you are very angry with your child and spank
>her/him out of this anger, you will also not feel any
>sexual arousement. But when you and your husband have
>an elaborated concept of strict upbringing and using
>pain as an important parenting tool, so if you are
>concentrated, calm and professional, sexuality will
>often come into play. And yes, it is more probable
>that the watching part is getting aroused than the
>executing part. The execution of a hard and
>sustainable spanking takes a lot of concentration and
>power so that there is not so much room for sexual
>feelings. That is different for the watching part. And
>it normally will be different for the executing part,
>when the execution is over. So it is normal for a
>couple to have sex after they executed a comprehensive
>spanking on their children. Not all parents are aware
>of their subconscious sexual feelings and motives, but
>they are there, only the intensity is varying. It
>would go too far to explain why this biological effect
>is natural and a result of our evolutional heritage
>and our balance of hormones. But nobody should be
>scrupulous because of this natural effect, there is
>nor reason for it. Take it as a motivation for good
>and strict parenting, that is what is was meant for by
>nature.
>
>>Do any ladies have husbands or other males that love
>>to watch you spank at home? Do they tent up in their
>>underwear when they do? If so when? They like
>>discussing it after they seen you spank?

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