Subject: Re: Boys vs Girls (Comparing Methods) |
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Uwe
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Date Posted: 06:18:58 04/19/18 Thu
In reply to:
Pam
's message, "Boys vs Girls (Comparing Methods)" on 06:13:12 01/04/18 Thu
At the first sight it often seems that boys need to be spanked much more and much harder. They seem tougher and their social behaviour is worse, they are often wild and cross the line more often than girls who seem to be tender and considerate. But that is only on the surface. Girls have their own strategies to enforce their will and a sweet smile often corrupts their dad, though he has a very strict attitude actually. In fact the majority of little girls need more frequent and more severe spankings than boys. Boys who received severe beltings and canings over many years often came out as aggressive teens and not seldom as criminals. So many dads think they have to beat them more and more and harder and harder to bring them back in line. But that does not help, it makes it even worse. The reason for that is the fact, that very hard and fequent spankings break the identity of boys in their archaic nature as hunters and fighters. With the majority of girls it is just the opposite. Suffering and to be dominated strengthens their identity as girls, they accept punishments and suffering and love their parents though, in particular their dads when they are very strict, no matter how painfull and humilating that may be. But every child is different and parents always should recognize the individual character of any of their children.
>Hello, I wanted to get your opinions on this:
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>My son and daughter are roughly the same age (both
>preteen). In my family, the boys are spanked more
>severely and more often. My son (being a boy) is no
>exception. When spanked, he is always bared in front
>of his sister or female cousins if they are around.
>This is done to add to his embarrassment and to help
>deter his "boyish impulses" as my father would say.
>However, when it comes time for the girls to be
>spanked, our family believes that due to their more
>fragile nature and right to modesty, they should be
>spanked in private and less harshly. A general rule of
>thumb in our house is: "At the end of a spanking, a
>boy's bottom should be a dark red, a girl's should be
>dark pink." A well behaved boy in our family might be
>spanked about once ever three weeks or so, whereas a
>well behaved girl might be spanked about once every
>three months. But with that said, a typical family
>gathering has at least 2 - 3 boys (aged 7-18) being
>bared in front of the family and put over their father
>or mother's knee.
>
>I was wondering if there are any households here with
>similar practices and beliefs. Could you please share
>your experiences spanking boys and girls in this way?
>
>Pam
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