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Subject: Re: child discipline and sexuality


Author:
Milan
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Date Posted: 12:59:37 04/22/18 Sun
In reply to: Uwe 's message, "child discipline and sexuality" on 07:55:34 02/14/18 Wed

>When I began to study and to write articles about
>child discipline and spanking in general and about the
>inner correlation of spanking and sexuality (both on
>the side of parents such as on the side of children)
>in 1995 it was just the time, when spanking children
>became more and more stigmatised as abuse. For a
>projected book about the subject I could not find a
>publisher though there was very few serious literature
>about it until then. On the other hand BDSM as a
>sexual practice among adults became more and more
>popular and lost its character as a taboo. For parents
>who still spanked their children and who felt that
>there was a sexual effect and motivation in it, this
>was a problem. I received a couple of letters in
>particular from moms, who were alienated because of
>the situation. In a way I feel that this has not
>changed a lot until now. The internet provides
>uncountable opportunities to chat or read and post
>about the subject, but the great majority to me seems
>to be pure fantasy. This is a pity, because I am
>convinced that correct spanking of children, in
>particular of little girls, is very important for
>their development of character and sensibility, not
>only but also in terms of sexuality. And moms are a
>crucial factor in the process of strict parenting of
>preteens. I really hope that there are still a lot of
>moms who are self-confident enough to spank their
>children as harsh and strictly as it should be and do
>not shy away from there sexual feelings (or the sexual
>feelings of the husband who is watching) because they
>fear to be stigmatised as an abuser. If you doubt if
>it is really correct and good what you do, try to get
>advice and help from serious experts. And be open,
>honest and credible. Over the years I got much more
>than 100 emails of moms seeking advice, but it was not
>seldom that at a certain point I was not sure if
>everything described was really true and honest. And
>without mutual confidence it is not possible to work
>seriously. So I started to offer video coachings on
>skype because according to my experience clients are
>more honest when we look at each other's eyes and hear
>the voice. But with one exception nobody took that
>offer. Nevertheless I hope that young moms will make
>it to become both: A very strict but loving mom who
>does not fear but enjoy also the awkward aspects of
>spanking.

I spank my adult daughter.
I like to spank her and she likes to be spanked.
I see something not so usual.
Even before and during spanking, her nipples are erected!
There are also some other sights of arousement.
She also insist to the privilege to be spanked when she asks for it.
She also insists to be spanked without panties, on bare bottom.
Any parent who would like to comment?

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