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Date Posted: 02:01:35 05/03/18 Thu
In reply to:
Uwe
's message, "Re: Boys vs Girls (Comparing Methods)" on 06:18:58 04/19/18 Thu
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I have a girl 14 and boy 13 both get 18 swats of the str a if they misbehave I explain to my daughter that my generation did a lot for equal rights for females and I think this generation should enjoy the benefits of it any other thoughts along these lines.😃
At the first sight it often seems that boys need to be
>spanked much more and much harder. They seem tougher
>and their social behaviour is worse, they are often
>wild and cross the line more often than girls who seem
>to be tender and considerate. But that is only on the
>surface. Girls have their own strategies to enforce
>their will and a sweet smile often corrupts their dad,
>though he has a very strict attitude actually. In fact
>the majority of little girls need more frequent and
>more severe spankings than boys. Boys who received
>severe beltings and canings over many years often came
>out as aggressive teens and not seldom as criminals.
>So many dads think they have to beat them more and
>more and harder and harder to bring them back in line.
>But that does not help, it makes it even worse. The
>reason for that is the fact, that very hard and
>fequent spankings break the identity of boys in their
>archaic nature as hunters and fighters. With the
>majority of girls it is just the opposite. Suffering
>and to be dominated strengthens their identity as
>girls, they accept punishments and suffering and love
>their parents though, in particular their dads when
>they are very strict, no matter how painfull and
>humilating that may be. But every child is different
>and parents always should recognize the individual
>character of any of their children.
>
>>Hello, I wanted to get your opinions on this:
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>>My son and daughter are roughly the same age (both
>>preteen). In my family, the boys are spanked more
>>severely and more often. My son (being a boy) is no
>>exception. When spanked, he is always bared in front
>>of his sister or female cousins if they are around.
>>This is done to add to his embarrassment and to help
>>deter his "boyish impulses" as my father would say.
>>However, when it comes time for the girls to be
>>spanked, our family believes that due to their more
>>fragile nature and right to modesty, they should be
>>spanked in private and less harshly. A general rule of
>>thumb in our house is: "At the end of a spanking, a
>>boy's bottom should be a dark red, a girl's should be
>>dark pink." A well behaved boy in our family might be
>>spanked about once ever three weeks or so, whereas a
>>well behaved girl might be spanked about once every
>>three months. But with that said, a typical family
>>gathering has at least 2 - 3 boys (aged 7-18) being
>>bared in front of the family and put over their father
>>or mother's knee.
>>
>>I was wondering if there are any households here with
>>similar practices and beliefs. Could you please share
>>your experiences spanking boys and girls in this way?
>>
>>Pam
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