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Date Posted: 20:52:39 08/05/15 Wed
Author: Richard
Subject: Re: Thoughts for the parents (Richard)
In reply to: April_Case 's message, "Re: Thoughts for the parents (Richard)" on 16:26:54 08/05/15 Wed

April, I'm glad to hear Liz is happy. I understand having kids with the monthly visitor coming--my oldest daughter is now 23, she started at 14, youngest daughter is 11 1/2 and just started last week.

My mother was in the medical field, so she taught us a lot about our bodies and human sexuality before that sort of thing hit my sister or stepsisters. She understood the psychology of girls my age and that it would raise suspicion among my girl friends if I didn't have little things like hygiene items at least a few days each month. At the same time, she understood I was curious about it and so she bought me things, letting me know I would want to keep some in my purse sometimes, but also understanding that I might 'experiment' with them. Her reaction was simply, "Let me know if you need more".

There's a lot I learned over the few years that I dressed up regularly. When I moved out and went to college, I decided it wasn't what I wanted to be, but my wife and I both agree that I am a better husband and father (especially to my girls) with having experienced both sides of the gender equation. Even today, one of the best friends my wife and I have is post-op MTF transsexual, our son has come out as bi, and we're very open to variations in sexuality and gender.

If you have questions about my experiences, I'm free to post here or e-mail back and forth, just let me know.

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