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Date Posted: 07:24:27 04/16/15 Thu
Author: Nancy
Subject: Re: My childs situation
In reply to: Linda B. 's message, "My childs situation" on 18:48:37 04/15/15 Wed

Hi Linda, Thanks for your message and for telling us about your situation with your son. I think that your approach with this depends very much upon whether your child wants to remain a boy, but be able to express his feminine feelings via part-time dressing as a girl, OR whether he really wants to be a she. If you think it is the latter, you will need to seek counseling soon from a qualified gender specialist. (and make sure you find a specialist who is sympathetic and understanding AND who really does have expertise in dealing with transgender kids and teens.) Since your child is already 14, time is of the essence if full transition is a possibility. The ultimate outcome of physical transformation from M to F is usually much better if started prior to, or at the onset, of puberty. Again, it you think that your child wants/needs to make the full transition, the first priority would be to get started on blockers to prevent any further masculine development.

Hope this is helpful.

Nancy (Moderator)

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