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Date Posted: 20:15:57 05/21/15 Thu
Author: Linda
Subject: Re: My childs situation
In reply to: Nancy 's message, "Re: My childs situation" on 07:24:27 04/16/15 Thu

Hi again. it's been over a month now since I made my post. I've now had some time to think about this and I thank Nancy also for her good advice as well as Corey. I've been working hard to help my child not to see me as an enemy on this and being very open to listening more than answering.I'm doing my best to try and encourage him to really explore this side of who he is and I'm also beginning to get into some independent study about this issue. I'm finding a lot on line through google mostly but there's so much and some of it is actually porno which I find very troubling. a couple weeks ago I sort of pulled a fast one on him and had all his jeans in the laundry so he had to wear a pair of mine to school instead. well, Big woop! They look like any common jeans and he found that it got passed everybody. since there was no problem with that, I've encouraged him to include some t shirts of mine and a couple of sweatshirts all rather unremarkable as to style. Now since i have him cured of anxieties and he now doesn't need to hide anything from me anymore, I think I'll take Becca's advice and show him how cute he can look with a really pretty girls short hair do. I saw some really neat ones in a hair do mag I bought for that purpose. Once school is out I think this just might be the start of a fun summer, I hope.

Thanks everyone.

Linda

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