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Subject: Spanking and Discipline at the Beach


Author:
Kara (Mom of 2 boys)
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Date Posted: 01:07:29 06/24/16 Fri

Its finally started to warm up around here again, we live near the beach so i take my 2 boys (11 and 13 almost 14 year olds) to the beach often. Does anyone else find it necessary to spank their kids at the beach if they act up too much and cant behave? Ovciously its better not to ruin the day by having to drag one of the kids all the way to the locker room to give them a spanking and waiting until we get home isnt an option but i also dont think its appropriate to bare them in a public environment like that so i usually just give them a few hard swats over there bare thighs or to the back of their speedo briefs. (yes i still have both my boys in speedo briefs for this very reason and because it encourages good behavior) and it usually keeps them behaved for the rest of the day so no extra punishment is needed when they get home but still, theres always going to be the next time. Posted a similar conversation before but im wondering how other people deal with it?

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Subject: glycerin suppository for stepson


Author:
Jessica
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Date Posted: 23:34:29 05/11/16 Wed

I want to know if I can use glycerin suppository to punish my stepson.
my stepson 9 old.

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Subject: Mom dragging son by wrist


Author:
Ken
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Date Posted: 14:45:06 07/23/16 Sat

Was at Walmart today. I saw a woman leading a boy about 10 or 11 years old by his wrist. I could tell he was in trouble by the looks on thier faces... and how he was dragging behind her. I wish I could have followed them outside, but I was paying for my stuff at the time.
I love seeing moms leading naughty boys by the hand or wrist.

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Subject: erections before spanking


Author:
Norman
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Date Posted: 09:52:40 07/04/16 Mon

Have you ever send your boy to go masturbating because of an erection before you spank him?

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Subject: Re: What turns you on the most about punishing a boy?


Author:
Kathy
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Date Posted: 14:37:42 05/25/16 Wed

I'm a mother and stepmother. I enjoy punishing both boys and girls.

With a boy, I think my favorite is involuntary erections. When he can't help getting hard, and I tease him that he must enjoy what I'm doing to him.

Favorite age to punish is probably 5 to 10.

>As a mother ,stepmother,,aunt,teacher,,any older lady
>,what sexually arouses you the most about punishing a
>boy?
>
>Share your story .If you don't have one do you have
>such a fantasy ?
>
>Please give you your age

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Subject: QUESTION...?


Author:
Jack
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Date Posted: 11:21:12 07/17/16 Sun

can my step-mom give me enema to clean my colon ?
(I'm 16 old).

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Subject: Re: Hot Pepper Punishment


Author:
Jim
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Date Posted: 19:01:05 07/04/16 Mon

You are not alone. Back in 1961(5th grade)my mama caught me masturbating just after I had went to bed. She jerked me out of bed by my left arm & rudely escorted me down the hall to the bathroom where she told me to drop my drawers. She then produced a hairbrush while telling me to cup my hands behind my back & to keep them there. She took my penis in one hand & with the other hand proceeded to beat the top & tip of my glans vigorously with the back of the hairbrush while bawling me out for "abusing" myself.

I could not keep my hands behind my back as I desperately tried to cover my penis with my hands all the while pleading with her to stop the punishment. This just started the process over again with her threatening to tell my stepdad about my "dirty little habit". My pleading & tears must have been genuine enough to convince her that I would not do it again(I didn't either for a good year & a half).

Other kids had told me about the hot pepper punishment for the masturbators but I really didn't believe them... until after my mama paddled my penis. A couple months or so later my friend Charlie got caught masturbating. He got an eyedropper filled with vinegar introduced up his urethra by his dad & the contents were forced into his urethra when his dad squeezed the eyedroppers bulb.

On the way home from Hector Campbell elementary school we'd walk down Railroad ave towards our homes. One could hear Charlie "sing" a mile away when he stepped into the brush to urinate... he called it 'pissing fire'. This agony must have lasted for 5/6 weeks for Charlie.

I hear ya about learning ones lesson!!! Us young bucks back "in the day"(nightmare days) had a tough go. I heard "rumors" of girls getting punished for abusing themselves but never met one, or they just did not volunteer the info about it if they did get punished.

The gender based punishments seem to haunt us no matter how old we live to be. I'll take my memories of it to my grave & most likely Charlie will to... & all the others who received these harsh & humiliating punishments.

Jim.

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Subject: looking back with fondness


Author:
theresa
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Date Posted: 12:58:25 07/07/16 Thu

hello everyone my names Theresa I'm now 60 and my son has long flown the nest but I miss dearly spanking him.i just wish I could turn the clock back.

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Subject: my aunt spanking me (orphan boy).


Author:
Kevin
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Date Posted: 00:46:47 07/02/16 Sat

I'm Kevin 14 old. my parents was died. I live with my aunt called Madeline.
my aunt Madeline 31 old. she is strict woman. when my aunt want to punish me she asking me to pulled my pants down and bend over then sofa then she spanking me with her a belt on my bare buttocks.
why she do this ?
she is not my mother.

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Subject: Boys and Guns


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 10:11:28 07/01/16 Fri

Boys and guns: Here is an article I wrote 20 years ago and it is still relevant:

Recent months have seen a series of incidents in which children have opened fire on other children, killing or wounding them. Although academic specialists who study youth violence have noted this, the press in this country generally has paid little attention to the fact that all these violent children have been boys. None has been a girl

Historically, boys have always had an interest in soldiering, guns, bombs, fires, says Delbert Elliott, who teaches at the University of Colorado. That fascination, along with a tendency toward more aggressive behavior, often results in violence. According to Elliott, the only new element is the severity of injury inflicted.

The end used to come after fists caused bloody noses and bruises -- now it's not the end until someone is shot dead, he says. Boys' fascination with weapons and violence is part of their genetic inheritance from their prehistoric ancestors. During the Upper Paleolithic, man was the hunter and warrior, and it is this genetic endowment boys have today. Males are well adapted to the demands of life in a technologically primitive tribe, but they are not so well adapted to the complexities of modern society. This is why violence is mainly a guy thing. Psychologist David T. Lykken, in his 1995 book The Antisocial Personalities, writes that the most effective way to reduce crime would be to put all able-bodied males between the ages of 12 and 28 into cryogenic sleep.

All societies have to deal, one way or another, with male violence. This is what anthropologist Margaret Mead, in her book Male and Female, called "the recurrent problem of civilization." And now it is young boys who are picking up guns. "We need ongoing prevention strategies" observes Larry Cohen of The Prevention Institute in Berkeley, California, "but people only get worked up after a crisis."

That crisis is now. Everyone should now realize male violence has gone too far. But what to do? Myriam Miedzian, author of Boys Will Be Boys, concludes: "If there is a biological predisposition that boys are drawn to guns and aggressive behavior -- and there is evidence that there is -- then we need to deal with the fact that boys are at risk already and design a society that discourages boys from becoming violent. It's like keeping sugar away from a diabetic." What is the sugar of violence that must be kept away from the male diabetic? It is masculinity. The masculine virtues are the military virtues. They are the virtues of the prehistoric warrior who fought for his tribe. Today, however, when we no longer live in small tribes and when our weaponry is such that it can destroy our civilization, there is no longer any place for the warrior.

Males grow up alienated from their genetic essence: They are programmed to be warriors, but our society tells them that they cannot find fulfillment that way because it is too dangerous. The problem is that our society fails to give males an alternative model, an alternative to the old masculine ideal.

There is an alternative model for males. It is one that already exists and needs no social philosopher to invent it. It's femininity. On one hand, our male supremacist society tells boys they must not be feminine, but on the other, it condemns them for following the old masculine ideal. This condemnation is unavoidable; masculinity is too dangerous to be tolerated any longer. But the male supremacists who control our society have nothing to put in its place.

There is an interesting essay on the Internet that touches on this dilemma. It is "My Son the Cross-Dresser" by Lisen Stromberg. Stromberg's son is only three-and-a-half-years old, and he likes to dress in girls' lacy panties and frilly dresses and play with dolls. She has gotten a lot of criticism from other adults for letting him dress as he likes, but she has a relevant point: "It's not just in my house that the days of 'boys will be boys' are over. A few months ago, the Wall Street Journal ran an article that claimed prescriptions for Ritalin are at an all-time high, and increasingly, boys are expected to be less rambunctious and more docile (that is, more girl-like). A guest commentator on an NPR program about youth violence expressed concern that the rise in the births of boys would result in a coming 'deluge of testosterone-laden young men' creating havoc in our society. "My mind reels: Is the conclusion that a three-and-a-half-year-old should be more like a boy but a 12-year-old should be more like a girl?"

Stromberg has put her finger on the dilemma of the male supremacist: Male supremacists do not want boys to be feminized, but it is too dangerous for them not to be. Dr. Lykken's admittedly humorous proposal to put all young males from 12 to 28 in cryogenic sleep was not meant to be a practical proposal. But the feminization of young males is eminently practical. Put them in panties, ladies before it is too late!

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Subject: Spanking Boys


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 09:26:27 06/29/16 Wed

Of course I enjoy spanking the children. There is nothing wrong with that. It is better to impose a punishment I enjoy than one I don't. I think I've earned it.

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Subject: new stepmother


Author:
Brenda
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Date Posted: 06:30:05 06/27/16 Mon

As a new stepmother myself, I have found this discussion really helpful. my challenge is that I am not that much older than the oldest of my stepsons (he's 16 and I'm 27). I am in my opinion much more mature, but he is much stronger, being a football player with strong legs. his father told him and the others that they must accept my authority and submit to my discipline. he will deal only with the most serious matters, which include disrespect or disobedience to me. I have seen his father give him the cane and belt and I admit it was amazing to see his strong muscular legs kick as he howled in pain and his bottom turned redder than his face, which I not thought possible. of course, I want to have the same kind of authority and control but for a petite young woman like me it seems a daunting task. I'd welcome advice here.

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Subject: The Secret of Effective Spanking


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 14:10:30 04/24/16 Sun


By itself spanking can ensure compliance, but mere compliance does not mean acceptance. Spanking will also foster resentment. It is necessary to undercut this resentment through humiliation.

The most effective way to punish a boy is to humiliate him. And this is also true for spanking. The trick is to make the spanking a humiliating experience for him.

It is more humiliating if there is an audience for his spanking. Preferably this should be women or girls. It is good for his sisters to observe the boy's spanking since they will most likely be mothers themselves some day.

Of course a boy should be spanked on his bare bottom, but it is even better to strip him completely naked. This raises the question about erections. Most boys seem to have them when they are being spanked. Don't ignore them, as they are intensely embarrassing to the spankee. Criticize him for having an erection in front of women. You can ask him if he has been masturbating as that would explain why he is thinking dirty thoughts.

The best thing to do with an erection is to swat it a few times with a 12-inch wooden ruler until it deflates. This might be necessary several times during the spanking. Be sure to criticize him each time.

There is also the possibility of an ejaculation, although this is less likely than the erections. At a minimum you should pull your dress up around your waist to prevent it from being soiled. I prefer to remove everything except my bra and panties and sit down in the spanking chair. Then I have him stand in front of me totally naked while I explain to him why he is being punished.

If you find that he has trouble with ejaculations despite all the swatting, then put a condom on him before you commence the spanking. Don't neglect to criticize him for his lack of self-control.

When the lecture is completed cup his testicles in your hand and drag him over your lap. This will make him feel totally helpless and in your control. Proceed to spank him as you see fit. Then when his helpless bottom has taken on the desired color, give him an enema. Be sure to tell him what you are doing.

This too will prove humiliating for him. One tip: the instructions will probably say to lubricate the nozzle but it is more humiliating to lubricate his anus instead. Take your time with this. When he has taken the enema escort him to the bathroom, where he will discover how much it hurts to sit on a toilet seat after a spanking.

Once he has passed his enema, get him cleaned up and take him back in the living room. At this point it is traditional to make him stand naked in the corner showing everyone his bottom. But it would be more humiliating, I believe, to put him in a diaper and plastic baby panties for the rest of the day.

Then when his punishment is finally over he can don a pair of girlish panties. Every boy who is spanked by his mother should wear pretty, feminine panties every day to remind him that he is under her control.

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Subject: Spanking and Discipline at the Beach


Author:
Kara (Mom of 2 boys)
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Date Posted: 01:04:28 06/24/16 Fri

Its finally started to warm up around here again, we live near the beach so i take my 2 boys (11 and 13 almost 14 year olds) to the beach often. Does anyone else find it necessary to spank their kids at the beach if they act up too much and cant behave? Ovciously its better not to ruin the day by having to drag one of the kids all the way to the locker room to give them a spanking and waiting until we get home isnt an option but i also dont think its appropriate to bare them in a public environment like that so i usually just give them a few hard swats over there bare thighs or to the back of their speedo briefs. (yes i still have both my boys in speedo briefs for this very reason and because it encourages good behavior) and it usually keeps them behaved for the rest of the day so no extra punishment is needed when they get im wondering how other people deal with it?

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Subject: Punishing a boy


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 18:31:26 06/22/16 Wed

If you want to humiliate a boy who is to be spanked by getting him to have an erection let me suggest wearing sheer nylon stockings, the kind that are secured by garters, and then drape him with his pants down over your nylonned lap. i promise he will have the stiffest erection you ever saw him have.

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Subject: Nudity?


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 10:19:35 04/17/16 Sun

"I don't tend to be fully nude, but i have started removing all but my bra and panties for dealing out punishment.
I feel this keeps the subject's attention better, and it does keep my clothes clean when sticky "messes" occur."

My experience in spanking my son while wearing a bra and panties is that it gets him distracted and makes him easier to handle.

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Subject: Spanks


Author:
Debbie (nervous)
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Date Posted: 02:50:51 05/29/16 Sun

In the interest of fairness, we are going to allow my 8yo daughter to spank me. I spank in the diaper position, and this is how I will be spanked as well. She will be spanking what my underwear covers.

I am looking for someone that can instruct and answer any questions she has.

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Subject: Punisment


Author:
Yoanna
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Date Posted: 13:36:02 05/26/16 Thu

To Kathy:

"I'm a mother and stepmother. I enjoy punishing both boys and girls.
With a boy, I think my favorite is involuntary erections. When he can't help getting hard, and I tease him that he must enjoy what I'm doing to him.
Favorite age to punish is probably 5 to 10."

How old is the boy? Is he your son or stepson? Do you think that this would matter about your feelings when you execute the punishment? According your post your favorite age to punish is between 5 - 10 and you enjoy the unvoluntary erection and the embarrasement that is provoked by the punisment.
Don't you think that if the boy is a little older about 12 - 14 yo and has already begun puberty, then shame will be stronger and therefore your satisfaction with the punishment more tangible?

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Subject: Re: Tickling


Author:
Kathy
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Date Posted: 10:14:39 05/26/16 Thu

I've also used tickling as punishment.

>I like to tickle my younger son and daughter. My
>oldest daughter has helped hold them for tickling.
>It's very cute when they squirm and wiggle!

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Subject: Spanking uniforms


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 11:09:57 04/09/16 Sat

I started stripping down to bra and panties for spanking my son when he was about 13. I found it distracted him and made him easier to control.

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Subject: Re: I'm from egypt


Author:
jenny
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Date Posted: 08:27:24 04/30/16 Sat

after falaka, you can make them stand in the corner on top of lego bricks, spikes up

>I live with my stepson ahmed 12 old and ali 9 old .my
>stepsons naughty boys so I punish them . we have
>punishment in egypt called falaka it is caning bare
>foot by a cane . but my stepsons still naughty . I
>want new punishment for my stepsons.

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Subject: Re: Short trousers and discipline


Author:
Tom
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Date Posted: 11:11:27 04/30/16 Sat

Maintaining adolescent boys barelegged is the proven best way to tame them, as it builds character by ideally instilling docility and humility while at the same time fostering hardiness. To ensure these lessons are properly learned and rightly appreciated, it is essential the legs be maintained fully exposed.


>>>I can remember that I was the first boy in about
>forty
>>>years to stay in grey shorts right through my school
>>>years. Indeed though in the school rules that boys
>>>could wear trousers long or short my mother always
>>>opted for very short.
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>I did consider it a very humiliating practice making
>boys wear short trousers, particularly for the older
>boy.
>My mother had a penchant for keeping me in shorts for
>what seemed like perpetuity and they were definitely
>short.
>I had to wear ultra short shorts every day and they
>had to fit snugly with a minimum inside length.
>My mother was often complimented on my appearance as I
>was frequently ridiculed. Of course, there were
>advantages, my bare legs were readily accessible for
>summary punishment which could be administered in
>public if necessary.
>At school I was often given names like 'shortey or
>shortey pants' and frequently told I had forgotten my
>trousers.
>I'm sure what my mother appreciated most was that
>shorts keep boys looking so young and give that' young
>boy look'.
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>>>When I got home from school I had to put on very tiny
>>>bib shorts or stretchy shorts bought from Woolworth.
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>>>Any misbehavior on my part and I was spanked. If my
>>>bottom felt my mother's hand in public I was often
>>>strapped or even on a few occassions caned at home.
>>>People including my friends often saw me at home
>doing
>>>corner time and bare bottomed.
>>>
>>>Once or twice I was seen when my spanking was taking
>>>place.
>>If i got smacked or spanked at school then I got
>>another spanking at home from mother. Wearing shorts
>>meant i often had red hand marks on my bare legs. So
>>as soon as I got home I quickly found myself with
>>shorts and pants off and over her knee getting a good
>>"leathering"

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