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Subject: The Secret of Effective Spanking


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 15:10:30 04/24/16 Sun


By itself spanking can ensure compliance, but mere compliance does not mean acceptance. Spanking will also foster resentment. It is necessary to undercut this resentment through humiliation.

The most effective way to punish a boy is to humiliate him. And this is also true for spanking. The trick is to make the spanking a humiliating experience for him.

It is more humiliating if there is an audience for his spanking. Preferably this should be women or girls. It is good for his sisters to observe the boy's spanking since they will most likely be mothers themselves some day.

Of course a boy should be spanked on his bare bottom, but it is even better to strip him completely naked. This raises the question about erections. Most boys seem to have them when they are being spanked. Don't ignore them, as they are intensely embarrassing to the spankee. Criticize him for having an erection in front of women. You can ask him if he has been masturbating as that would explain why he is thinking dirty thoughts.

The best thing to do with an erection is to swat it a few times with a 12-inch wooden ruler until it deflates. This might be necessary several times during the spanking. Be sure to criticize him each time.

There is also the possibility of an ejaculation, although this is less likely than the erections. At a minimum you should pull your dress up around your waist to prevent it from being soiled. I prefer to remove everything except my bra and panties and sit down in the spanking chair. Then I have him stand in front of me totally naked while I explain to him why he is being punished.

If you find that he has trouble with ejaculations despite all the swatting, then put a condom on him before you commence the spanking. Don't neglect to criticize him for his lack of self-control.

When the lecture is completed cup his testicles in your hand and drag him over your lap. This will make him feel totally helpless and in your control. Proceed to spank him as you see fit. Then when his helpless bottom has taken on the desired color, give him an enema. Be sure to tell him what you are doing.

This too will prove humiliating for him. One tip: the instructions will probably say to lubricate the nozzle but it is more humiliating to lubricate his anus instead. Take your time with this. When he has taken the enema escort him to the bathroom, where he will discover how much it hurts to sit on a toilet seat after a spanking.

Once he has passed his enema, get him cleaned up and take him back in the living room. At this point it is traditional to make him stand naked in the corner showing everyone his bottom. But it would be more humiliating, I believe, to put him in a diaper and plastic baby panties for the rest of the day.

Then when his punishment is finally over he can don a pair of girlish panties. Every boy who is spanked by his mother should wear pretty, feminine panties every day to remind him that he is under her control.

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Subject: Nudity?


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Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 11:19:35 04/17/16 Sun

"I don't tend to be fully nude, but i have started removing all but my bra and panties for dealing out punishment.
I feel this keeps the subject's attention better, and it does keep my clothes clean when sticky "messes" occur."

My experience in spanking my son while wearing a bra and panties is that it gets him distracted and makes him easier to handle.

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Subject: my stepson


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Rachel
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Date Posted: 02:31:41 04/25/16 Mon

I want to know how can I punish my stepson ?
my stepson 7 old.

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Subject: held by genitals while getting whipped on butt


Author:
rdh333 (I hate the switch!)
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Date Posted: 21:34:24 04/16/16 Sat

When I was little, my mom was very strict, and punishment was very severe. I was made to stand and face my mother, witch or belt in hand, swinging it back and forth to terrorize me....and I was told, one piece of clothing at a time, to remove my shirt, remove my pants, etc. When I had nothing left but underwear, I was told, very sternly, to remove them. I would hesitate, and be warned that I'd better do as I wss told.
So, crying, miserable, terrified, and embarrassed....I'd pull down my underwear. My mom reacted very forcefully, acting almost surprised and disgusted to see me naked. She immediately began to whip me with the switch, whie she screamed at me.
It was like I was getting whipped for being naked, but she made me get naked! I was never told to bent over, or assume any position. I just stood there, helpless, while I was screamed at, soundly whipped, and terrorized. "I'll whip you until the blood runs down your legs!" (never happened, but very scary to hear as you are getting whipped! "I'll take you out in the yard, naked, and let the other kids watch you get whipped!", or, "I'm going to come see your teeacher, and strip you naked and whip you, right in front of your entire class!"
Always terrifying, and even though it hadn't happened, i couldn't say for sure that it never would. The whipping hurt horribly, so I'd try to turn away, and pull away, etc. At first, my mom would grab me with her left hand, while she swung the switch with her right. But, I'd keep turning and pulling left, and we basically went around in circles.
So, mom decided to start 'grabbing that little handle', to make me hold still. She firmly grasped my penis and balls and held me in place so she could whip me without me trying to get away. She didn't hurt 'my little handle', and she thought I was way too young to have any sexual effects.
God it was terrible, but....it worked. I couldn't get away, and every lash of that switch hit target. Being held by the balls made me submit--I had no choice.
Unfortunately, whle the switching was horrible, there was a strange attraction to being held. I wasn't too young to know that someone touching my privates was strangely pleasurable. It even made the whipping less terrible--at least I kind of enjoyed that part.
It took a long time to realize that, trying to pull away and jump, and run, while being held by my balls and dick...it was basically like being masterbated and whipped at the same time. When mom would threaten to whip me, sometimes i almost wanted to get whipped...because of her 'little handle' method of holding me.
I resented my dad for not telling her to stop. She honestly didn't think I'd feel aroused....I was too young, she thought, and she didn't intend to abuse me. But, as I got older, I often fantasized about getting whipped. If i felt guilty about something, i though about getting whipped. That turned me on, (at least just thinking about it), and I almost wished I would get whipped. My mom would often scream at me and threaten to whip me, and I wouldn't know if it was really going to happen or not. I almost wanted to get whipped.
The first time my mother saw me erect, she flipped out. I had no idea this was a normal thing for little boys or teen boys. i though it was just me--and ifelt so ashamed at being erect in front of my mom. I remember wishing someone would just take me away and whip me half to death--I was so ashamed, and thought it was all my fault. So, guilt, shame, terror....I would fantasize about getting whipped, and enjoy the fantasy. It was kind of a vicious circle, and really screwed upany normal sexual maturing. I liked to see pretty girls, but I was much more overwhelmed thinking about being stripped naked and whipped.
This was a real problem, for a long time, until i finally figured out--I was molested and severely whipped, and totally terrified. Being held, or stroked or touched on the dick or balls is always exciting...and add in the guilt and fear and shame....I was convinced I deserved it, and enjoyed at least part of it. My mom just didn't understand, really. I remember she would brag to relatives about how she held me and whipped me. Nobody told he that was wrong, or that could cause a problem. Just like my mom making me take off my underwear, but then whip me soundly as soon as I was naked. It was like i was getting whipped for being naked, but she made me get naked!
One thing that has helped is talking about this with girlfriends. Getting heled by 'my no longer little handle', by a girlfirend, even if she whipped me too...was a very pleasant way to transition from my screwed up child hood. I got a lot of sympathy from several girls...knowing that I had an issue, playing out scenes or fantasies...sometimes being 'held' while I talked about childhood whippings. Sometimes getting spanked or whipped, and being told how I deserve so much more. Often, a girl holding me and lashing me, and threatening to call my mom, to have her come watch, or help....
I found a way to move from a serious problem, to a fetish to play with. Getting a few lashes once in a while, giving a few spankings or whippings, taking turns being the aggressor or being the victim. Two things in particular that really helped me get over this--sometimes my girlfried would ask me if I wanted a blow job, or if I needed a whipping instead. She would make me strip naked, hold me by the balls,and ask me which I deserved, or both. Sometimes, she would pull out a quarter, and, holding a swittch or belt in the other hand, casually toss it in the air. "Heads it's head, tails I'm whipping your ass", all the while being 'held'. Pretty exciting--the punishment hurt, but no where nearly as bad as when I was a kid, and the being held and lectured part was a lot more fun! Once, we did this, and I won, and got my reward, only to hvae my girlfriend insist we toss the coin again. Three times in a row I won, and she dropped to her knees. But every time, she insisted we flip again. Finally, the fourth time, I came up tails....and she got her revenge on me for winning 3 in a row.
One last issue--sometimes when we's argue, we'd incorporate the fact we spanked or whipped each other, into resolving the arguement. After one nastly argument,we both got brave. We went and picked a good switch, both stripped naked, and agreed to flip a coin. The loser got the switch, and was expected to do anything the winner wanted. it was a real trip....knowing what an obedient and very sorry little girl my girlfried was about to be....or, that I'd get seriously punished and humiliated.... Neither of us knew whether we were about to be in total control, and get pleasantly 'served' by the one who got whipped....or if we were about to be helpless and scared and soundly whipped!
It helped outgrow somee issues....all going back to being 'held by my little handle' while I was severely punished. I like the new way a lot better!

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Subject: A Good Old-Fashioned, Over-The-Knee, Bare Bottom Spanking


Author:
Hilda
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Date Posted: 19:09:00 03/13/16 Sun

If more children of all ages, but particularly the older, more defiant ones, were punished with good, sound spankings on their bare bottoms, we wouldn't see nearly so much crime in the streets. A well-spanked child is a respectful child - respectful of both property and authority.

Too many teenage boys and girls today act as though no one can tell them anything. All they need is for Mother or Dad to take down their pants and give their naughty bare bottoms a good over-the-knee spanking, and they'd soon be singing a much different, apologetic tune.

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Subject: Humiliation


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Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 11:32:16 04/14/16 Thu

Contempt for women: Here is an article I wrote back in 1993 for my little magazine Christian Home. It explains why boys can feel humiliated when they are dressed as girls:

We at Christian Home often point out that women sometimes wear men's clothes, but men almost never wear women's clothes. This discrepancy results from the contempt for females boys learn at an early age. Since most boys look down on girls, they abhor articles of feminine clothing. Girls, however, do not acquire the same low opinion of boys, and therefore are quite comfortable wearing boys' clothing from time to time.

I occasionally get a letter from someone who insists that we are wrong about this. These writers say most women never wear male clothing. Most of these letters come from men, although I did get one from a woman who lives on a farm in Texas. So for all of you who have written me to say that women never wear men's clothes, I will present you with evidence.

The phenomenon of women wearing male clothing is so pervasive that it's often featured in women's magazines. In preparing this article, I bought a few such magazines, and then went through them, looking for pictures of women wearing men's clothes. Here is what I found.

On page 80 of the July (1993) issue of Cosmopolitan is a picture of a woman wearing her boyfriend's shirt. The picture is meant to illustrate an article about the problems unmarried couples have when they decide to live together. The photographer shoots them moving things in the front door, and in order to portray their having been a couple for some time, she/he has the woman wear a man's shirt—which the reader will then assume must be the boyfriend's shirt.

Borrowing a shirt from one's boyfriend or husband is a common practice for women. But men never borrow blouses from their girlfriends or wives. They won't wear them around the house, much less out in the street. This is because they view women as inferior to themselves and their male buddies, and so they see wearing a frilly blouse as degrading.

Let's move on. On page 143 of the August Glamour is an advertisement for Sassaby that portrays a woman wearing her husband's pajama top -- and presumably nothing else. The husband is wearing the matching bottoms, and she is rather playfully getting in his way while he is shaving. The point of her sharing his pajamas is to show them as a close, romantic couple.

But it is difficult to imagine a man wearing his wife's pajamas. Can you see him in her lace-trimmed nylon baby doll with matching panties? Of course not! Men have too low an opinion of women to do that. Their contempt for women is so deep that they won't wear feminine clothes even for a moment, and even if only their wives would see them.

This Sassaby ad is aimed at women in order to get them to buy Sassaby products. Try to imagine an advertiser targeting men with an ad showing a man in his wife's baby doll pajamas. Not only wouldn't it help sales, their sales would probably plummet, as men run the other way to escape any recollection of the disgusting image in the ad.

There is more. Men's clothes are even modeled by women in fashion spreads. The August issue of Seventeen features back-to-school fashion coverage, where they say the new trend is "athletic gear mixed with anything you want, guaranteeing that your style will be unstudied this fall (unlike your books)." Then we see modeled not only a number of female items (along with tips on how to mix them with non-athletic clothes), but also some male ones from B.U.M. Equipment. On page 187 one young woman models a boys' hooded sweatshirt and a boys' navy sweatshirt. On page 190 another models a tony boys' sweatshirt in a maroon stripe. Then on page 191 yet another model sports a boys' plaid top. This fashion spread is meant for teenage girls, but it would be hard to imagine a magazine advocating teenage boys wear girls' pink sweatshirts. In any case, the boys wouldn't wear them because they think it's degrading to wear girls' clothes. Degrading, because they think they are superior to girls.

The August Mademoiselle also features models wearing articles of male clothing. In fact there is one right on the cover: a men's melton pea coat available from Schott Bros. But that's not all. White shirts for women are a big thing, right now, and Mademoiselle gives us several pages of them. And on page 154 there is a model wearing a men's tuxedo shirt available from Alfred Dunhill.

I mentioned earlier that a man would not want to wear his girlfriend's blouse because men think women are inferior to them. Women will wear men's shirts, but men will not wear women's blouses. Nor will men wear women's coats, although women wear men's coats, even on the covers of fashion magazines. The reason for this discrepancy is the contempt men have for women, either consciously or unconsciously. Now do you guys get the point? Contempt.

Julie Wilson

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Subject: my stepmom


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 02:52:36 04/21/16 Thu

I'm 14 old. my step mom spanking me with a ruler on my bare buttocks.

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Subject: Re: The punishment of not allowing boys to ejaculate


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Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 11:11:02 04/17/16 Sun

What I did with my son was whenever he got an erection I would suspend the spanking and swat it a few times with a 12-inch wooden ruler, all the time telling him how it offensive it was for him to do that in front of his mother. I told him he lacked self-control. It was very humiliating for him.

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Subject: How To Spank A Naughty Boy


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Mary Margaret
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Date Posted: 09:49:36 03/18/16 Fri

I think it's best if a boy over the lap of maternal authority is bare from his waist to his knees. This leaves every quivering inch of his soft and saucy backside completely accessible for spanking. And oh my goodness, how spankable some boys' bottoms truly are! My Brucie is 14, and I'm forever having to take down his trousers and his underpants for some quality time across my knee. His enchanting bottom just can't seem to go without being regularly warmed and reddened, and my, doesn't he cry and complain as first my palm and then my hairbrush paint a stinging blush over his spellbinding seat cushions.

On occasion, Brucie's younger sister and one or two of her friends provide a very appreciative audience for his spankings. They really are an enormous help in shaming a boy who's plainly old enough to know better, giving their undivided attention to the sight of his delightfully rounded bare bottom turning rosy red on my lap.

Brucie's spankings are always followed by half an hour of pants-down corner time, during which he mustn't ever so much as touch his lovely, spank-reddened bum, or it's right back over my knee for another good, sound spanking. Boys like Brucie are so easily tempted to imagine themselves as Kings of the Castle, accountable to no one. I have to admit, I do take the most satisfying pleasure in turning His Majesty's naughty bare bottom over my knee. He's a king all right - the King of Spanking! LOL

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Subject: Spanking uniforms


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Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 12:09:57 04/09/16 Sat

I started stripping down to bra and panties for spanking my son when he was about 13. I found it distracted him and made him easier to control.

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Subject: Spanking: Kinks vs. Kids


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Becca
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Date Posted: 16:29:12 04/10/16 Sun

I'd like to give a shout out to Mary Margaret for bringing what is probably a dirty little secret and insanely controversial for many to light.

Here is my take. Spankophobia or spankophilia or whatever you want to call it is inborn, not cultivated. I was looking up spanking over and over in the dictionary even though I darn well knew what it meant as soon as I learned how to read -- and very likely before any kind of meaningful parental spanking. It chose me. Best analogy is homosexuality. Ask a gay person if they grew up wanting to be gay and learn for yourself.

So you spend your whole life as a spanko, believe in spanking and have kids.

I'm going to quote an author:

"Now, dear reader, please, don't be put off by the fact that I admit I was enjoying myself. I know, I know, discipline is serious business, to be engaged in only for the good of the child, and never for the purpose of entertaining the adult. I appreciate that, but what's so bad about being so comfortable, so sure I am doing the right thing for my child, that I allow myself to appreciate the moment. I sure paid my dues on the receiving end -- of the very same hairbrush, by the way. More times than I care to recall, I was similarly positioned, awaiting what I knew would be a thorough and stinging chastisement. And, much as I hated it at the time, I do remember Mother seemed to find an endless array of opportunities to laugh and make light of what seemed so desperately humiliating and serious an occasion to me. We've even shared a few laughs about my spankings in her later years.

"It's all a matter of perspective. I knew what I was about to do to Peter was absolutely correct. He would be much the better for it. I also firmly believed that, were it possible to get into his heart at that very moment, he would agree. If not, I would have had quite a tussle getting him over my knee. In fact, I might never have been able to do so -- at least until his father got home. Anyway, there he was, his bottom uppermost and bare, familiar in its amazing roundness, though a wee bit fuller and broader -- than I recalled. It still was one of the most outrageously spankable behinds you can imagine, and I intended to minister to it appropriately and with good humor. So much for my lecture."

This is what Mary Margaret was talking about. Juggling fetish and parental responsibility. It's not difficult. I spank without an afterthought. Do my kids have "outrageously spankable behinds" as the author says? Yes. Do I make up reasons to spank because of that? Certainly not.

The fact of the matter is if you are posting to a Voy spanking site you have more than a vague interest in the subject. Time for everyone to grow up and face the truth.

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Subject: Spanking The Naughtiness Out Of A Child


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Radcliff
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Date Posted: 13:47:38 04/03/16 Sun

Children of all ages are prone to naughtiness - to lying, stealing, even to acts of vandalism. Shame on them! They need their pants taken down and their bare bottoms soundly spanked. Spanked until their jiggly backsides are a warm, stinging, rosy red, and the sore and sorry girls and boys are crying their eyes out.

Nothing eradicates the naughtiness in a child like a good, sound spanking on the bare bottom. Very possibly, a number of spankings may be required before the bottom's owner bids a permanent farewell to disobedience. There's nothing to say that even a girl or boy in their early teens can't be taken over the maternal lap for as many bare bottom spankings as needed to set them squarely on the path to a proper and productive life.

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