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Subject: Spanks


Author:
Debbie (nervous)
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Date Posted: 03:50:51 05/29/16 Sun

In the interest of fairness, we are going to allow my 8yo daughter to spank me. I spank in the diaper position, and this is how I will be spanked as well. She will be spanking what my underwear covers.

I am looking for someone that can instruct and answer any questions she has.

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Subject: Re: What turns you on the most about punishing a boy?


Author:
Kathy
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Date Posted: 15:37:42 05/25/16 Wed

I'm a mother and stepmother. I enjoy punishing both boys and girls.

With a boy, I think my favorite is involuntary erections. When he can't help getting hard, and I tease him that he must enjoy what I'm doing to him.

Favorite age to punish is probably 5 to 10.

>As a mother ,stepmother,,aunt,teacher,,any older lady
>,what sexually arouses you the most about punishing a
>boy?
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>Share your story .If you don't have one do you have
>such a fantasy ?
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>Please give you your age

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Subject: Punisment


Author:
Yoanna
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Date Posted: 14:36:02 05/26/16 Thu

To Kathy:

"I'm a mother and stepmother. I enjoy punishing both boys and girls.
With a boy, I think my favorite is involuntary erections. When he can't help getting hard, and I tease him that he must enjoy what I'm doing to him.
Favorite age to punish is probably 5 to 10."

How old is the boy? Is he your son or stepson? Do you think that this would matter about your feelings when you execute the punishment? According your post your favorite age to punish is between 5 - 10 and you enjoy the unvoluntary erection and the embarrasement that is provoked by the punisment.
Don't you think that if the boy is a little older about 12 - 14 yo and has already begun puberty, then shame will be stronger and therefore your satisfaction with the punishment more tangible?

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Subject: Re: Tickling


Author:
Kathy
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Date Posted: 11:14:39 05/26/16 Thu

I've also used tickling as punishment.

>I like to tickle my younger son and daughter. My
>oldest daughter has helped hold them for tickling.
>It's very cute when they squirm and wiggle!

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Subject: Nudity?


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 11:19:35 04/17/16 Sun

"I don't tend to be fully nude, but i have started removing all but my bra and panties for dealing out punishment.
I feel this keeps the subject's attention better, and it does keep my clothes clean when sticky "messes" occur."

My experience in spanking my son while wearing a bra and panties is that it gets him distracted and makes him easier to handle.

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Subject: The Secret of Effective Spanking


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 15:10:30 04/24/16 Sun


By itself spanking can ensure compliance, but mere compliance does not mean acceptance. Spanking will also foster resentment. It is necessary to undercut this resentment through humiliation.

The most effective way to punish a boy is to humiliate him. And this is also true for spanking. The trick is to make the spanking a humiliating experience for him.

It is more humiliating if there is an audience for his spanking. Preferably this should be women or girls. It is good for his sisters to observe the boy's spanking since they will most likely be mothers themselves some day.

Of course a boy should be spanked on his bare bottom, but it is even better to strip him completely naked. This raises the question about erections. Most boys seem to have them when they are being spanked. Don't ignore them, as they are intensely embarrassing to the spankee. Criticize him for having an erection in front of women. You can ask him if he has been masturbating as that would explain why he is thinking dirty thoughts.

The best thing to do with an erection is to swat it a few times with a 12-inch wooden ruler until it deflates. This might be necessary several times during the spanking. Be sure to criticize him each time.

There is also the possibility of an ejaculation, although this is less likely than the erections. At a minimum you should pull your dress up around your waist to prevent it from being soiled. I prefer to remove everything except my bra and panties and sit down in the spanking chair. Then I have him stand in front of me totally naked while I explain to him why he is being punished.

If you find that he has trouble with ejaculations despite all the swatting, then put a condom on him before you commence the spanking. Don't neglect to criticize him for his lack of self-control.

When the lecture is completed cup his testicles in your hand and drag him over your lap. This will make him feel totally helpless and in your control. Proceed to spank him as you see fit. Then when his helpless bottom has taken on the desired color, give him an enema. Be sure to tell him what you are doing.

This too will prove humiliating for him. One tip: the instructions will probably say to lubricate the nozzle but it is more humiliating to lubricate his anus instead. Take your time with this. When he has taken the enema escort him to the bathroom, where he will discover how much it hurts to sit on a toilet seat after a spanking.

Once he has passed his enema, get him cleaned up and take him back in the living room. At this point it is traditional to make him stand naked in the corner showing everyone his bottom. But it would be more humiliating, I believe, to put him in a diaper and plastic baby panties for the rest of the day.

Then when his punishment is finally over he can don a pair of girlish panties. Every boy who is spanked by his mother should wear pretty, feminine panties every day to remind him that he is under her control.

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Subject: Spanking uniforms


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 12:09:57 04/09/16 Sat

I started stripping down to bra and panties for spanking my son when he was about 13. I found it distracted him and made him easier to control.

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Subject: glycerin suppository for stepson


Author:
Jessica
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Date Posted: 00:34:29 05/12/16 Thu

I want to know if I can use glycerin suppository to punish my stepson.
my stepson 9 old.

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Subject: Re: I'm from egypt


Author:
jenny
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Date Posted: 09:27:24 04/30/16 Sat

after falaka, you can make them stand in the corner on top of lego bricks, spikes up

>I live with my stepson ahmed 12 old and ali 9 old .my
>stepsons naughty boys so I punish them . we have
>punishment in egypt called falaka it is caning bare
>foot by a cane . but my stepsons still naughty . I
>want new punishment for my stepsons.

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Subject: Re: Short trousers and discipline


Author:
Tom
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Date Posted: 12:11:27 04/30/16 Sat

Maintaining adolescent boys barelegged is the proven best way to tame them, as it builds character by ideally instilling docility and humility while at the same time fostering hardiness. To ensure these lessons are properly learned and rightly appreciated, it is essential the legs be maintained fully exposed.


>>>I can remember that I was the first boy in about
>forty
>>>years to stay in grey shorts right through my school
>>>years. Indeed though in the school rules that boys
>>>could wear trousers long or short my mother always
>>>opted for very short.
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>I did consider it a very humiliating practice making
>boys wear short trousers, particularly for the older
>boy.
>My mother had a penchant for keeping me in shorts for
>what seemed like perpetuity and they were definitely
>short.
>I had to wear ultra short shorts every day and they
>had to fit snugly with a minimum inside length.
>My mother was often complimented on my appearance as I
>was frequently ridiculed. Of course, there were
>advantages, my bare legs were readily accessible for
>summary punishment which could be administered in
>public if necessary.
>At school I was often given names like 'shortey or
>shortey pants' and frequently told I had forgotten my
>trousers.
>I'm sure what my mother appreciated most was that
>shorts keep boys looking so young and give that' young
>boy look'.
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>>>When I got home from school I had to put on very tiny
>>>bib shorts or stretchy shorts bought from Woolworth.
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>>>Any misbehavior on my part and I was spanked. If my
>>>bottom felt my mother's hand in public I was often
>>>strapped or even on a few occassions caned at home.
>>>People including my friends often saw me at home
>doing
>>>corner time and bare bottomed.
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>>>Once or twice I was seen when my spanking was taking
>>>place.
>>If i got smacked or spanked at school then I got
>>another spanking at home from mother. Wearing shorts
>>meant i often had red hand marks on my bare legs. So
>>as soon as I got home I quickly found myself with
>>shorts and pants off and over her knee getting a good
>>"leathering"

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Subject: my aunt spanking me


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 00:27:20 05/01/16 Sun

I'M mark 14 old. my parents was died and I live with my aunt called Nicole.
aunt Nicole 29 old. she is strict with me. when my want to punish me she asking me to pulled my pant down,bend over the sofa then she spanking me with her a belt on my bare buttocks.
why my aunt do this with me ?

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Subject: held by genitals while getting whipped on butt


Author:
rdh333 (I hate the switch!)
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Date Posted: 21:34:24 04/16/16 Sat

When I was little, my mom was very strict, and punishment was very severe. I was made to stand and face my mother, witch or belt in hand, swinging it back and forth to terrorize me....and I was told, one piece of clothing at a time, to remove my shirt, remove my pants, etc. When I had nothing left but underwear, I was told, very sternly, to remove them. I would hesitate, and be warned that I'd better do as I wss told.
So, crying, miserable, terrified, and embarrassed....I'd pull down my underwear. My mom reacted very forcefully, acting almost surprised and disgusted to see me naked. She immediately began to whip me with the switch, whie she screamed at me.
It was like I was getting whipped for being naked, but she made me get naked! I was never told to bent over, or assume any position. I just stood there, helpless, while I was screamed at, soundly whipped, and terrorized. "I'll whip you until the blood runs down your legs!" (never happened, but very scary to hear as you are getting whipped! "I'll take you out in the yard, naked, and let the other kids watch you get whipped!", or, "I'm going to come see your teeacher, and strip you naked and whip you, right in front of your entire class!"
Always terrifying, and even though it hadn't happened, i couldn't say for sure that it never would. The whipping hurt horribly, so I'd try to turn away, and pull away, etc. At first, my mom would grab me with her left hand, while she swung the switch with her right. But, I'd keep turning and pulling left, and we basically went around in circles.
So, mom decided to start 'grabbing that little handle', to make me hold still. She firmly grasped my penis and balls and held me in place so she could whip me without me trying to get away. She didn't hurt 'my little handle', and she thought I was way too young to have any sexual effects.
God it was terrible, but....it worked. I couldn't get away, and every lash of that switch hit target. Being held by the balls made me submit--I had no choice.
Unfortunately, whle the switching was horrible, there was a strange attraction to being held. I wasn't too young to know that someone touching my privates was strangely pleasurable. It even made the whipping less terrible--at least I kind of enjoyed that part.
It took a long time to realize that, trying to pull away and jump, and run, while being held by my balls and dick...it was basically like being masterbated and whipped at the same time. When mom would threaten to whip me, sometimes i almost wanted to get whipped...because of her 'little handle' method of holding me.
I resented my dad for not telling her to stop. She honestly didn't think I'd feel aroused....I was too young, she thought, and she didn't intend to abuse me. But, as I got older, I often fantasized about getting whipped. If i felt guilty about something, i though about getting whipped. That turned me on, (at least just thinking about it), and I almost wished I would get whipped. My mom would often scream at me and threaten to whip me, and I wouldn't know if it was really going to happen or not. I almost wanted to get whipped.
The first time my mother saw me erect, she flipped out. I had no idea this was a normal thing for little boys or teen boys. i though it was just me--and ifelt so ashamed at being erect in front of my mom. I remember wishing someone would just take me away and whip me half to death--I was so ashamed, and thought it was all my fault. So, guilt, shame, terror....I would fantasize about getting whipped, and enjoy the fantasy. It was kind of a vicious circle, and really screwed upany normal sexual maturing. I liked to see pretty girls, but I was much more overwhelmed thinking about being stripped naked and whipped.
This was a real problem, for a long time, until i finally figured out--I was molested and severely whipped, and totally terrified. Being held, or stroked or touched on the dick or balls is always exciting...and add in the guilt and fear and shame....I was convinced I deserved it, and enjoyed at least part of it. My mom just didn't understand, really. I remember she would brag to relatives about how she held me and whipped me. Nobody told he that was wrong, or that could cause a problem. Just like my mom making me take off my underwear, but then whip me soundly as soon as I was naked. It was like i was getting whipped for being naked, but she made me get naked!
One thing that has helped is talking about this with girlfriends. Getting heled by 'my no longer little handle', by a girlfirend, even if she whipped me too...was a very pleasant way to transition from my screwed up child hood. I got a lot of sympathy from several girls...knowing that I had an issue, playing out scenes or fantasies...sometimes being 'held' while I talked about childhood whippings. Sometimes getting spanked or whipped, and being told how I deserve so much more. Often, a girl holding me and lashing me, and threatening to call my mom, to have her come watch, or help....
I found a way to move from a serious problem, to a fetish to play with. Getting a few lashes once in a while, giving a few spankings or whippings, taking turns being the aggressor or being the victim. Two things in particular that really helped me get over this--sometimes my girlfried would ask me if I wanted a blow job, or if I needed a whipping instead. She would make me strip naked, hold me by the balls,and ask me which I deserved, or both. Sometimes, she would pull out a quarter, and, holding a swittch or belt in the other hand, casually toss it in the air. "Heads it's head, tails I'm whipping your ass", all the while being 'held'. Pretty exciting--the punishment hurt, but no where nearly as bad as when I was a kid, and the being held and lectured part was a lot more fun! Once, we did this, and I won, and got my reward, only to hvae my girlfriend insist we toss the coin again. Three times in a row I won, and she dropped to her knees. But every time, she insisted we flip again. Finally, the fourth time, I came up tails....and she got her revenge on me for winning 3 in a row.
One last issue--sometimes when we's argue, we'd incorporate the fact we spanked or whipped each other, into resolving the arguement. After one nastly argument,we both got brave. We went and picked a good switch, both stripped naked, and agreed to flip a coin. The loser got the switch, and was expected to do anything the winner wanted. it was a real trip....knowing what an obedient and very sorry little girl my girlfried was about to be....or, that I'd get seriously punished and humiliated.... Neither of us knew whether we were about to be in total control, and get pleasantly 'served' by the one who got whipped....or if we were about to be helpless and scared and soundly whipped!
It helped outgrow somee issues....all going back to being 'held by my little handle' while I was severely punished. I like the new way a lot better!

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Subject: my stepson


Author:
Rachel
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Date Posted: 02:31:41 04/25/16 Mon

I want to know how can I punish my stepson ?
my stepson 7 old.

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Subject: A Good Old-Fashioned, Over-The-Knee, Bare Bottom Spanking


Author:
Hilda
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Date Posted: 19:09:00 03/13/16 Sun

If more children of all ages, but particularly the older, more defiant ones, were punished with good, sound spankings on their bare bottoms, we wouldn't see nearly so much crime in the streets. A well-spanked child is a respectful child - respectful of both property and authority.

Too many teenage boys and girls today act as though no one can tell them anything. All they need is for Mother or Dad to take down their pants and give their naughty bare bottoms a good over-the-knee spanking, and they'd soon be singing a much different, apologetic tune.

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Subject: Humiliation


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 11:32:16 04/14/16 Thu

Contempt for women: Here is an article I wrote back in 1993 for my little magazine Christian Home. It explains why boys can feel humiliated when they are dressed as girls:

We at Christian Home often point out that women sometimes wear men's clothes, but men almost never wear women's clothes. This discrepancy results from the contempt for females boys learn at an early age. Since most boys look down on girls, they abhor articles of feminine clothing. Girls, however, do not acquire the same low opinion of boys, and therefore are quite comfortable wearing boys' clothing from time to time.

I occasionally get a letter from someone who insists that we are wrong about this. These writers say most women never wear male clothing. Most of these letters come from men, although I did get one from a woman who lives on a farm in Texas. So for all of you who have written me to say that women never wear men's clothes, I will present you with evidence.

The phenomenon of women wearing male clothing is so pervasive that it's often featured in women's magazines. In preparing this article, I bought a few such magazines, and then went through them, looking for pictures of women wearing men's clothes. Here is what I found.

On page 80 of the July (1993) issue of Cosmopolitan is a picture of a woman wearing her boyfriend's shirt. The picture is meant to illustrate an article about the problems unmarried couples have when they decide to live together. The photographer shoots them moving things in the front door, and in order to portray their having been a couple for some time, she/he has the woman wear a man's shirt—which the reader will then assume must be the boyfriend's shirt.

Borrowing a shirt from one's boyfriend or husband is a common practice for women. But men never borrow blouses from their girlfriends or wives. They won't wear them around the house, much less out in the street. This is because they view women as inferior to themselves and their male buddies, and so they see wearing a frilly blouse as degrading.

Let's move on. On page 143 of the August Glamour is an advertisement for Sassaby that portrays a woman wearing her husband's pajama top -- and presumably nothing else. The husband is wearing the matching bottoms, and she is rather playfully getting in his way while he is shaving. The point of her sharing his pajamas is to show them as a close, romantic couple.

But it is difficult to imagine a man wearing his wife's pajamas. Can you see him in her lace-trimmed nylon baby doll with matching panties? Of course not! Men have too low an opinion of women to do that. Their contempt for women is so deep that they won't wear feminine clothes even for a moment, and even if only their wives would see them.

This Sassaby ad is aimed at women in order to get them to buy Sassaby products. Try to imagine an advertiser targeting men with an ad showing a man in his wife's baby doll pajamas. Not only wouldn't it help sales, their sales would probably plummet, as men run the other way to escape any recollection of the disgusting image in the ad.

There is more. Men's clothes are even modeled by women in fashion spreads. The August issue of Seventeen features back-to-school fashion coverage, where they say the new trend is "athletic gear mixed with anything you want, guaranteeing that your style will be unstudied this fall (unlike your books)." Then we see modeled not only a number of female items (along with tips on how to mix them with non-athletic clothes), but also some male ones from B.U.M. Equipment. On page 187 one young woman models a boys' hooded sweatshirt and a boys' navy sweatshirt. On page 190 another models a tony boys' sweatshirt in a maroon stripe. Then on page 191 yet another model sports a boys' plaid top. This fashion spread is meant for teenage girls, but it would be hard to imagine a magazine advocating teenage boys wear girls' pink sweatshirts. In any case, the boys wouldn't wear them because they think it's degrading to wear girls' clothes. Degrading, because they think they are superior to girls.

The August Mademoiselle also features models wearing articles of male clothing. In fact there is one right on the cover: a men's melton pea coat available from Schott Bros. But that's not all. White shirts for women are a big thing, right now, and Mademoiselle gives us several pages of them. And on page 154 there is a model wearing a men's tuxedo shirt available from Alfred Dunhill.

I mentioned earlier that a man would not want to wear his girlfriend's blouse because men think women are inferior to them. Women will wear men's shirts, but men will not wear women's blouses. Nor will men wear women's coats, although women wear men's coats, even on the covers of fashion magazines. The reason for this discrepancy is the contempt men have for women, either consciously or unconsciously. Now do you guys get the point? Contempt.

Julie Wilson

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Subject: my stepmom


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 02:52:36 04/21/16 Thu

I'm 14 old. my step mom spanking me with a ruler on my bare buttocks.

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