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Subject: Re: What turns you on the most about punishing a boy?


Author:
Kathy
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Date Posted: 14:37:42 05/25/16 Wed

I'm a mother and stepmother. I enjoy punishing both boys and girls.

With a boy, I think my favorite is involuntary erections. When he can't help getting hard, and I tease him that he must enjoy what I'm doing to him.

Favorite age to punish is probably 5 to 10.

>As a mother ,stepmother,,aunt,teacher,,any older lady
>,what sexually arouses you the most about punishing a
>boy?
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>Share your story .If you don't have one do you have
>such a fantasy ?
>
>Please give you your age
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Subject: Presence of mother in exam room during her son's physical exam


Author:
yoanna
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Date Posted: 15:35:13 08/06/16 Sat

Parents are the best people to monitor their child’s growth and development. They are the people who know their children best. However, this becomes increasingly difficult for a single mother after her son entered puberty and begin to seek more privacy. Presence in the exam room during the regular physical exams and observing the examination is a great opportunity for me to be informed about the level of physical development and maturity of my son.
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Subject: Key phrase?


Author:
Grumpy
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Date Posted: 20:33:23 08/07/16 Sun

In some of the recent topics it's not just spanking that's noted, but "over the knee" spanking. How important is that classic position to the effectiveness of the spanking, especially for moms, to the spanking experience? As I mentioned on another forum, I can imagine a kid telling friends, even bragging as my buddy's did once that he got a "licking" with a strap from his dad the night before, but really reluctant to say his mom put him over her lap and brought him to tears with her hand.

I wonder how much misbehavior moms prevented by whispering to their sons "would you look like me to put you over my knee right here, in front of
all these people?" Is an over the knee spanking as bad for girls as well?
Subject: spanked for fighting


Author:
Heather
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Date Posted: 13:39:30 08/07/16 Sun

So today I had to spank Jason my 11 year old for fighting with his sister Stephie (short for Stephanie). we had gone to one of the city parks for a picnic with my gf Michelle and her kids. but he just wouldn't stop picking on her and teasing her. the other 2 boys were kind of rowdy too but they at least stopped finally. Stephie can usually hold her own with the boys but Jason just wouldn't let up. He was being really mean to her and Michelle's 9 year old Bella. I gave him a couple of warnings then i just got tired of it and took Jason by the hand and led him to the car. i didn't spank him there but i chewed him out good and told him that he was getting a spanking when we got home. i was really upset with him. he got real quiet and behaved the rest of the afternoon but as soon as we got home i took him to the living room and made him get undressed for his spanking. he was already crying but i had to do it. i told him again why he was being spanked then i spanked him pretty hard with my hairbrush until his cute little bottom was bright red. he is in his room still but i'll go check on him in a while. have any of you ever had to do this with your kids, for fighting with other i mean? it doesn't happen to much in my house but it's usually between 2 of the boys. they normaly get along pretty good. i hope he's got it out his systme because school is back in a couple of weeks and i still need to do some school shopping with them.
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Subject: Nudity?


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 10:19:35 04/17/16 Sun

"I don't tend to be fully nude, but i have started removing all but my bra and panties for dealing out punishment.
I feel this keeps the subject's attention better, and it does keep my clothes clean when sticky "messes" occur."

My experience in spanking my son while wearing a bra and panties is that it gets him distracted and makes him easier to handle.
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Subject: QUESTION...?


Author:
Jack
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Date Posted: 11:21:12 07/17/16 Sun

can my step-mom give me enema to clean my colon ?
(I'm 16 old).
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Subject: looking back with fondness


Author:
theresa
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Date Posted: 12:58:25 07/07/16 Thu

hello everyone my names Theresa I'm now 60 and my son has long flown the nest but I miss dearly spanking him.i just wish I could turn the clock back.
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Subject: my aunt spanking me (orphan boy).


Author:
Kevin
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Date Posted: 00:46:47 07/02/16 Sat

I'm Kevin 14 old. my parents was died. I live with my aunt called Madeline.
my aunt Madeline 31 old. she is strict woman. when my aunt want to punish me she asking me to pulled my pants down and bend over then sofa then she spanking me with her a belt on my bare buttocks.
why she do this ?
she is not my mother.
Subject: Boys and Guns


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 10:11:28 07/01/16 Fri

Boys and guns: Here is an article I wrote 20 years ago and it is still relevant:

Recent months have seen a series of incidents in which children have opened fire on other children, killing or wounding them. Although academic specialists who study youth violence have noted this, the press in this country generally has paid little attention to the fact that all these violent children have been boys. None has been a girl

Historically, boys have always had an interest in soldiering, guns, bombs, fires, says Delbert Elliott, who teaches at the University of Colorado. That fascination, along with a tendency toward more aggressive behavior, often results in violence. According to Elliott, the only new element is the severity of injury inflicted.

The end used to come after fists caused bloody noses and bruises -- now it's not the end until someone is shot dead, he says. Boys' fascination with weapons and violence is part of their genetic inheritance from their prehistoric ancestors. During the Upper Paleolithic, man was the hunter and warrior, and it is this genetic endowment boys have today. Males are well adapted to the demands of life in a technologically primitive tribe, but they are not so well adapted to the complexities of modern society. This is why violence is mainly a guy thing. Psychologist David T. Lykken, in his 1995 book The Antisocial Personalities, writes that the most effective way to reduce crime would be to put all able-bodied males between the ages of 12 and 28 into cryogenic sleep.

All societies have to deal, one way or another, with male violence. This is what anthropologist Margaret Mead, in her book Male and Female, called "the recurrent problem of civilization." And now it is young boys who are picking up guns. "We need ongoing prevention strategies" observes Larry Cohen of The Prevention Institute in Berkeley, California, "but people only get worked up after a crisis."

That crisis is now. Everyone should now realize male violence has gone too far. But what to do? Myriam Miedzian, author of Boys Will Be Boys, concludes: "If there is a biological predisposition that boys are drawn to guns and aggressive behavior -- and there is evidence that there is -- then we need to deal with the fact that boys are at risk already and design a society that discourages boys from becoming violent. It's like keeping sugar away from a diabetic." What is the sugar of violence that must be kept away from the male diabetic? It is masculinity. The masculine virtues are the military virtues. They are the virtues of the prehistoric warrior who fought for his tribe. Today, however, when we no longer live in small tribes and when our weaponry is such that it can destroy our civilization, there is no longer any place for the warrior.

Males grow up alienated from their genetic essence: They are programmed to be warriors, but our society tells them that they cannot find fulfillment that way because it is too dangerous. The problem is that our society fails to give males an alternative model, an alternative to the old masculine ideal.

There is an alternative model for males. It is one that already exists and needs no social philosopher to invent it. It's femininity. On one hand, our male supremacist society tells boys they must not be feminine, but on the other, it condemns them for following the old masculine ideal. This condemnation is unavoidable; masculinity is too dangerous to be tolerated any longer. But the male supremacists who control our society have nothing to put in its place.

There is an interesting essay on the Internet that touches on this dilemma. It is "My Son the Cross-Dresser" by Lisen Stromberg. Stromberg's son is only three-and-a-half-years old, and he likes to dress in girls' lacy panties and frilly dresses and play with dolls. She has gotten a lot of criticism from other adults for letting him dress as he likes, but she has a relevant point: "It's not just in my house that the days of 'boys will be boys' are over. A few months ago, the Wall Street Journal ran an article that claimed prescriptions for Ritalin are at an all-time high, and increasingly, boys are expected to be less rambunctious and more docile (that is, more girl-like). A guest commentator on an NPR program about youth violence expressed concern that the rise in the births of boys would result in a coming 'deluge of testosterone-laden young men' creating havoc in our society. "My mind reels: Is the conclusion that a three-and-a-half-year-old should be more like a boy but a 12-year-old should be more like a girl?"

Stromberg has put her finger on the dilemma of the male supremacist: Male supremacists do not want boys to be feminized, but it is too dangerous for them not to be. Dr. Lykken's admittedly humorous proposal to put all young males from 12 to 28 in cryogenic sleep was not meant to be a practical proposal. But the feminization of young males is eminently practical. Put them in panties, ladies before it is too late!
Subject: Spanking Boys


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 09:26:27 06/29/16 Wed

Of course I enjoy spanking the children. There is nothing wrong with that. It is better to impose a punishment I enjoy than one I don't. I think I've earned it.
Subject: new stepmother


Author:
Brenda
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Date Posted: 06:30:05 06/27/16 Mon

As a new stepmother myself, I have found this discussion really helpful. my challenge is that I am not that much older than the oldest of my stepsons (he's 16 and I'm 27). I am in my opinion much more mature, but he is much stronger, being a football player with strong legs. his father told him and the others that they must accept my authority and submit to my discipline. he will deal only with the most serious matters, which include disrespect or disobedience to me. I have seen his father give him the cane and belt and I admit it was amazing to see his strong muscular legs kick as he howled in pain and his bottom turned redder than his face, which I not thought possible. of course, I want to have the same kind of authority and control but for a petite young woman like me it seems a daunting task. I'd welcome advice here.
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Subject: The Secret of Effective Spanking


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 14:10:30 04/24/16 Sun


By itself spanking can ensure compliance, but mere compliance does not mean acceptance. Spanking will also foster resentment. It is necessary to undercut this resentment through humiliation.

The most effective way to punish a boy is to humiliate him. And this is also true for spanking. The trick is to make the spanking a humiliating experience for him.

It is more humiliating if there is an audience for his spanking. Preferably this should be women or girls. It is good for his sisters to observe the boy's spanking since they will most likely be mothers themselves some day.

Of course a boy should be spanked on his bare bottom, but it is even better to strip him completely naked. This raises the question about erections. Most boys seem to have them when they are being spanked. Don't ignore them, as they are intensely embarrassing to the spankee. Criticize him for having an erection in front of women. You can ask him if he has been masturbating as that would explain why he is thinking dirty thoughts.

The best thing to do with an erection is to swat it a few times with a 12-inch wooden ruler until it deflates. This might be necessary several times during the spanking. Be sure to criticize him each time.

There is also the possibility of an ejaculation, although this is less likely than the erections. At a minimum you should pull your dress up around your waist to prevent it from being soiled. I prefer to remove everything except my bra and panties and sit down in the spanking chair. Then I have him stand in front of me totally naked while I explain to him why he is being punished.

If you find that he has trouble with ejaculations despite all the swatting, then put a condom on him before you commence the spanking. Don't neglect to criticize him for his lack of self-control.

When the lecture is completed cup his testicles in your hand and drag him over your lap. This will make him feel totally helpless and in your control. Proceed to spank him as you see fit. Then when his helpless bottom has taken on the desired color, give him an enema. Be sure to tell him what you are doing.

This too will prove humiliating for him. One tip: the instructions will probably say to lubricate the nozzle but it is more humiliating to lubricate his anus instead. Take your time with this. When he has taken the enema escort him to the bathroom, where he will discover how much it hurts to sit on a toilet seat after a spanking.

Once he has passed his enema, get him cleaned up and take him back in the living room. At this point it is traditional to make him stand naked in the corner showing everyone his bottom. But it would be more humiliating, I believe, to put him in a diaper and plastic baby panties for the rest of the day.

Then when his punishment is finally over he can don a pair of girlish panties. Every boy who is spanked by his mother should wear pretty, feminine panties every day to remind him that he is under her control.
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Subject: Spanking and Discipline at the Beach


Author:
Kara (Mom of 2 boys)
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Date Posted: 01:04:28 06/24/16 Fri

Its finally started to warm up around here again, we live near the beach so i take my 2 boys (11 and 13 almost 14 year olds) to the beach often. Does anyone else find it necessary to spank their kids at the beach if they act up too much and cant behave? Ovciously its better not to ruin the day by having to drag one of the kids all the way to the locker room to give them a spanking and waiting until we get home isnt an option but i also dont think its appropriate to bare them in a public environment like that so i usually just give them a few hard swats over there bare thighs or to the back of their speedo briefs. (yes i still have both my boys in speedo briefs for this very reason and because it encourages good behavior) and it usually keeps them behaved for the rest of the day so no extra punishment is needed when they get im wondering how other people deal with it?
Subject: Punishing a boy


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 18:31:26 06/22/16 Wed

If you want to humiliate a boy who is to be spanked by getting him to have an erection let me suggest wearing sheer nylon stockings, the kind that are secured by garters, and then drape him with his pants down over your nylonned lap. i promise he will have the stiffest erection you ever saw him have.
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Subject: Spanks


Author:
Debbie (nervous)
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Date Posted: 02:50:51 05/29/16 Sun

In the interest of fairness, we are going to allow my 8yo daughter to spank me. I spank in the diaper position, and this is how I will be spanked as well. She will be spanking what my underwear covers.

I am looking for someone that can instruct and answer any questions she has.
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Subject: Punisment


Author:
Yoanna
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Date Posted: 13:36:02 05/26/16 Thu

To Kathy:

"I'm a mother and stepmother. I enjoy punishing both boys and girls.
With a boy, I think my favorite is involuntary erections. When he can't help getting hard, and I tease him that he must enjoy what I'm doing to him.
Favorite age to punish is probably 5 to 10."

How old is the boy? Is he your son or stepson? Do you think that this would matter about your feelings when you execute the punishment? According your post your favorite age to punish is between 5 - 10 and you enjoy the unvoluntary erection and the embarrasement that is provoked by the punisment.
Don't you think that if the boy is a little older about 12 - 14 yo and has already begun puberty, then shame will be stronger and therefore your satisfaction with the punishment more tangible?
Subject: Re: Tickling


Author:
Kathy
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Date Posted: 10:14:39 05/26/16 Thu

I've also used tickling as punishment.

>I like to tickle my younger son and daughter. My
>oldest daughter has helped hold them for tickling.
>It's very cute when they squirm and wiggle!
Subject: Spanking uniforms


Author:
Julie Wilson
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Date Posted: 11:09:57 04/09/16 Sat

I started stripping down to bra and panties for spanking my son when he was about 13. I found it distracted him and made him easier to control.
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Subject: Re: I'm from egypt


Author:
jenny
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Date Posted: 08:27:24 04/30/16 Sat

after falaka, you can make them stand in the corner on top of lego bricks, spikes up

>I live with my stepson ahmed 12 old and ali 9 old .my
>stepsons naughty boys so I punish them . we have
>punishment in egypt called falaka it is caning bare
>foot by a cane . but my stepsons still naughty . I
>want new punishment for my stepsons.
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Subject: Re: Short trousers and discipline


Author:
Tom
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Date Posted: 11:11:27 04/30/16 Sat

Maintaining adolescent boys barelegged is the proven best way to tame them, as it builds character by ideally instilling docility and humility while at the same time fostering hardiness. To ensure these lessons are properly learned and rightly appreciated, it is essential the legs be maintained fully exposed.


>>>I can remember that I was the first boy in about
>forty
>>>years to stay in grey shorts right through my school
>>>years. Indeed though in the school rules that boys
>>>could wear trousers long or short my mother always
>>>opted for very short.
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>I did consider it a very humiliating practice making
>boys wear short trousers, particularly for the older
>boy.
>My mother had a penchant for keeping me in shorts for
>what seemed like perpetuity and they were definitely
>short.
>I had to wear ultra short shorts every day and they
>had to fit snugly with a minimum inside length.
>My mother was often complimented on my appearance as I
>was frequently ridiculed. Of course, there were
>advantages, my bare legs were readily accessible for
>summary punishment which could be administered in
>public if necessary.
>At school I was often given names like 'shortey or
>shortey pants' and frequently told I had forgotten my
>trousers.
>I'm sure what my mother appreciated most was that
>shorts keep boys looking so young and give that' young
>boy look'.
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>>>When I got home from school I had to put on very tiny
>>>bib shorts or stretchy shorts bought from Woolworth.
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>>>Any misbehavior on my part and I was spanked. If my
>>>bottom felt my mother's hand in public I was often
>>>strapped or even on a few occassions caned at home.
>>>People including my friends often saw me at home
>doing
>>>corner time and bare bottomed.
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>>>Once or twice I was seen when my spanking was taking
>>>place.
>>If i got smacked or spanked at school then I got
>>another spanking at home from mother. Wearing shorts
>>meant i often had red hand marks on my bare legs. So
>>as soon as I got home I quickly found myself with
>>shorts and pants off and over her knee getting a good
>>"leathering"
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Subject: my aunt spanking me


Author:
Mark
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Date Posted: 23:27:20 04/30/16 Sat

I'M mark 14 old. my parents was died and I live with my aunt called Nicole.
aunt Nicole 29 old. she is strict with me. when my want to punish me she asking me to pulled my pant down,bend over the sofa then she spanking me with her a belt on my bare buttocks.
why my aunt do this with me ?
Subject: held by genitals while getting whipped on butt


Author:
rdh333 (I hate the switch!)
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Date Posted: 20:34:24 04/16/16 Sat

When I was little, my mom was very strict, and punishment was very severe. I was made to stand and face my mother, witch or belt in hand, swinging it back and forth to terrorize me....and I was told, one piece of clothing at a time, to remove my shirt, remove my pants, etc. When I had nothing left but underwear, I was told, very sternly, to remove them. I would hesitate, and be warned that I'd better do as I wss told.
So, crying, miserable, terrified, and embarrassed....I'd pull down my underwear. My mom reacted very forcefully, acting almost surprised and disgusted to see me naked. She immediately began to whip me with the switch, whie she screamed at me.
It was like I was getting whipped for being naked, but she made me get naked! I was never told to bent over, or assume any position. I just stood there, helpless, while I was screamed at, soundly whipped, and terrorized. "I'll whip you until the blood runs down your legs!" (never happened, but very scary to hear as you are getting whipped! "I'll take you out in the yard, naked, and let the other kids watch you get whipped!", or, "I'm going to come see your teeacher, and strip you naked and whip you, right in front of your entire class!"
Always terrifying, and even though it hadn't happened, i couldn't say for sure that it never would. The whipping hurt horribly, so I'd try to turn away, and pull away, etc. At first, my mom would grab me with her left hand, while she swung the switch with her right. But, I'd keep turning and pulling left, and we basically went around in circles.
So, mom decided to start 'grabbing that little handle', to make me hold still. She firmly grasped my penis and balls and held me in place so she could whip me without me trying to get away. She didn't hurt 'my little handle', and she thought I was way too young to have any sexual effects.
God it was terrible, but....it worked. I couldn't get away, and every lash of that switch hit target. Being held by the balls made me submit--I had no choice.
Unfortunately, whle the switching was horrible, there was a strange attraction to being held. I wasn't too young to know that someone touching my privates was strangely pleasurable. It even made the whipping less terrible--at least I kind of enjoyed that part.
It took a long time to realize that, trying to pull away and jump, and run, while being held by my balls and dick...it was basically like being masterbated and whipped at the same time. When mom would threaten to whip me, sometimes i almost wanted to get whipped...because of her 'little handle' method of holding me.
I resented my dad for not telling her to stop. She honestly didn't think I'd feel aroused....I was too young, she thought, and she didn't intend to abuse me. But, as I got older, I often fantasized about getting whipped. If i felt guilty about something, i though about getting whipped. That turned me on, (at least just thinking about it), and I almost wished I would get whipped. My mom would often scream at me and threaten to whip me, and I wouldn't know if it was really going to happen or not. I almost wanted to get whipped.
The first time my mother saw me erect, she flipped out. I had no idea this was a normal thing for little boys or teen boys. i though it was just me--and ifelt so ashamed at being erect in front of my mom. I remember wishing someone would just take me away and whip me half to death--I was so ashamed, and thought it was all my fault. So, guilt, shame, terror....I would fantasize about getting whipped, and enjoy the fantasy. It was kind of a vicious circle, and really screwed upany normal sexual maturing. I liked to see pretty girls, but I was much more overwhelmed thinking about being stripped naked and whipped.
This was a real problem, for a long time, until i finally figured out--I was molested and severely whipped, and totally terrified. Being held, or stroked or touched on the dick or balls is always exciting...and add in the guilt and fear and shame....I was convinced I deserved it, and enjoyed at least part of it. My mom just didn't understand, really. I remember she would brag to relatives about how she held me and whipped me. Nobody told he that was wrong, or that could cause a problem. Just like my mom making me take off my underwear, but then whip me soundly as soon as I was naked. It was like i was getting whipped for being naked, but she made me get naked!
One thing that has helped is talking about this with girlfriends. Getting heled by 'my no longer little handle', by a girlfirend, even if she whipped me too...was a very pleasant way to transition from my screwed up child hood. I got a lot of sympathy from several girls...knowing that I had an issue, playing out scenes or fantasies...sometimes being 'held' while I talked about childhood whippings. Sometimes getting spanked or whipped, and being told how I deserve so much more. Often, a girl holding me and lashing me, and threatening to call my mom, to have her come watch, or help....
I found a way to move from a serious problem, to a fetish to play with. Getting a few lashes once in a while, giving a few spankings or whippings, taking turns being the aggressor or being the victim. Two things in particular that really helped me get over this--sometimes my girlfried would ask me if I wanted a blow job, or if I needed a whipping instead. She would make me strip naked, hold me by the balls,and ask me which I deserved, or both. Sometimes, she would pull out a quarter, and, holding a swittch or belt in the other hand, casually toss it in the air. "Heads it's head, tails I'm whipping your ass", all the while being 'held'. Pretty exciting--the punishment hurt, but no where nearly as bad as when I was a kid, and the being held and lectured part was a lot more fun! Once, we did this, and I won, and got my reward, only to hvae my girlfriend insist we toss the coin again. Three times in a row I won, and she dropped to her knees. But every time, she insisted we flip again. Finally, the fourth time, I came up tails....and she got her revenge on me for winning 3 in a row.
One last issue--sometimes when we's argue, we'd incorporate the fact we spanked or whipped each other, into resolving the arguement. After one nastly argument,we both got brave. We went and picked a good switch, both stripped naked, and agreed to flip a coin. The loser got the switch, and was expected to do anything the winner wanted. it was a real trip....knowing what an obedient and very sorry little girl my girlfried was about to be....or, that I'd get seriously punished and humiliated.... Neither of us knew whether we were about to be in total control, and get pleasantly 'served' by the one who got whipped....or if we were about to be helpless and scared and soundly whipped!
It helped outgrow somee issues....all going back to being 'held by my little handle' while I was severely punished. I like the new way a lot better!
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Subject: my stepson


Author:
Rachel
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Date Posted: 01:31:41 04/25/16 Mon

I want to know how can I punish my stepson ?
my stepson 7 old.
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