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Date Posted: 23:56:58 04/28/15 Tue
Author: CanadAunt
Subject: Basic Feminization to Normalize Girlish Boys

I have come to believe that rendering any young boy (up to age 11 or so) a non-violent, gentle, girlish little child is a simple matter of a very slow escalation of feminine surroundings, attitudes, feelings, and clothing.

I helped my sister out with her son, starting when he was 8, turning 9. He was growing much too fast (he was the tallest in his class), and his normal family physician said being in the top 5% meant it was recommended that he start a short course of medication to slow his growth.

This was a perfect time to start. He literally stopped growing for two years, and failed the 4th grade (we had just started his feminization by making him wear much thinner, girls socks by just getting him used to them and also using clear nail-polish on him for "medical reasons"), allowing us to let people think he was a year younger.

This immediately made him feel less 'grown up' than his actual peers, who were now a year above him in school; Jason was already feeling smaller, less aggressive.

So, we had an advantage, but only to a point; he would rebel simply because of frustration.

However, by having excellent, gentle-minded teachers at a popular private Montessori here in Canada, Jason found that life was a whole lot easier; true, there was no more rough sports, but his grades shot up to straight A's and he got loads of encouragement and (this is important!) rewards for being well behaved and a high grade-earner.

I just helped his mother very slowly change the décor in his room, one thing at a time, to an androgynous look. The boyish stuff just slowly changed to slightly girlish, along with his clothes.

Honestly, other boys are living like this more and more, enough that there is a percentage in most schools nowadays, and at Jason's, about a quarter or a fifth of the boys dress rather femininely. I made him wear tights when he visited that winter, and when I noticed he liked them, there was a fast shift to getting him in them daily.

Just find the things he likes, and use it as leverage for the rest.

No, he doesn't wear skirts unless it's for fun (about once a week at home, once a month at school), but he is now an 11 year old girlish boy who is taking three classes of ballet per week, gymnastics at school, and plays on a mixed team (mostly girls) at soccer. Pink is his highlight color for clothes.

It's just about normal now... but only just about! Wish I saw more of this.

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