Re: Joel's Dad Give Him His First Paddling at Age 17 -- Man-to-Man Spanking

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Date Posted: 05:35:42 12/12/09 Sat
Author: Joel to Steve
Subject: Re: Joel's Dad Give Him His First Paddling at Age 17
In reply to: Steve----to Joel 's message, "Re: Joel's Dad Give Him His First Paddling at Age 17" on 16:19:40 12/11/09 Fri

Hey buddy how you doing? Good to hear from you Steve, and hope you had a good trip and can get back into a daily routine not on the go, go, go.

Thanks Buddy, for congrats. me on achieving my first padling from my dad in my life. I believe he enjoyed giving it to me and in a way was sorry he hadn't before. There's some dad/son stuff I let out on my post, but I messaged the best of the talk we had.

Steve, if you look at the text of my Post you will see a couple reason my dad admitted that he and my mom decided to try to NOT spank me while growing up was because of a Dr. Spock they read up on books before I was born and other childraising books. They decided they would try to go as long as they could without spanking me, came close to blister my little butt when I was younger dad told me, and almost one time pre-teen, so when I cornered dad and got in my room and kept my courage up for taking NO to an answer that he would not leave the room until I got a bare butt paddling for the first I knew I was goin to achieve my goal.
Kyle sure helped seal the deal, especially making the homemade paddle as it gave dad something to use on me, and I thought for sure my butt could handle a paddle better then getting a belt on it.
Also, with the back up to keep my courage up of Kyle, Luke and Sean it sure worked for me.

Steve, I didn't meanto leave the impression that my dad didn't love IF he didn't spank me in my life. My dad has always loved me for the boy and now young man I've grown to be. I just wanted to be like my other buddies to say I at least got one paddling from my dad and brag that he sure could tan a bare butt...and dad sure didn't disapoint me and he knew that was what I was looking for in dad/son bond relationship for more.

Now that the door is open, if something happens and I deserve to further get my butt paddled my dad has said he would keep an open mind on that and progress along. I would like that and if I deserve a paddling I will agree.

Steve, I think you had a great mom, and will agree that she love you very much and chose the NO SPANKING route I believe byusing the same ideas my parents did with this Dr. Spock guy, whoever he is and other "child raising experts" so you and I didn't have any choices growing up.
It's kind of funny now, that I know the truth from my dad, in all reality then I was an experiment with respect to see if two parents could raise a child without spanking for punishment. I think they did a pretty good job, so far, but like I say I wanted to be accepted as "one of the boys" and really wanted to get a spanking from them, even though I knew before that they loved me just the same.

I hope I'm making sense?

As for alot of parents nowadays NOT using CP on their kids as spanking, etc., it shows in some of the kids in our school out of what we call our "circle of friends/buddies" and these kids are definently going to end up in trouble of sorts, maybe not in school, but for sure because of their actions outside of school.

Steve as for the experience of getting paddled for the First time, it was awesome and couldn't have been done more if it was scripted. My dad even told me, he wished he too could have at least one time at my butt, didn't say if he might have been pressured by other dads saying to him, "why don't you let Joel have it, if he deserves it!" So when dad was doing his dad role I knew he was taking it all in and wanted at least one time with my bare butt to paddle it too. After all, he was the one to say after a half hour of talk, and maybe I finally wore him down and I told him he wasn't leaving the room until I got paddled, my dad finally said..."enough talk, I think young man young you need to get those jeans and underwear down so we can get your butt fired up!"

Steve, Kyle sure did a good job on that paddle. He always was an A+ student in shop class, and adding the drilled holes sure add to the "bite" from each of the swats dad delievered to me. I wasn't to surprised he agreed to give me l7 for my age. Curious, if you would have been my dad, how many swats would you have given my butt? Tell the truth, and I won't be mad at you!

As for future paddlings, I'll leave that up to my dad. I sure would like to take'em and get punishment over with, IF I have to be punished.

Speaking of that, maybe I'll be bargaining soon then I thought on this matter.
We didn't have a basketball game last night, Friday, Dec. ll, but will tonight. The schedule next week calls for us to play Friday games and play Saturday still a Saturday game, while rest of the schedule pretty much calls for Friday games.
With no Friday game last nighi I asked my dad if I could go watch Holly cheer at her school. He said I couldn't go alone because of the community where grandpa and grandma live might catch on about the mess, even though authorities are trying to keep it quiet as much as possible because of me and my age and other things involved. So if Kyle would go with me he could grant permission. Kyle's girlfriend Julie went along, and dad told us not to be too late getting back as I can't stay overnite at grandma's anymore, I'm not her grandson, etc. so dad told us not to be too late after the game.
The game went into overtime, and Holly wanted to go for pizza which which we did, and afterwards all four of us had some time to ourselves, if you know what I mean.

It got late, and when Kyle and I go tback it was later yet. There was no set time to be back, but I think we got back later then my dad would like, so I haven't seen him yet this morning for him to ask me. I'm not going to lie to him, and if something happens that he feels I failed getting home sooner then I'll take my medicine, whatever that might be, even a paddled butt,even if I do have a basketball game to play tonight.

I got that whipping from granpa and played basketball game a few days later with still a sore butt and scored points, led the team and stayed focused.

What do you think Steve, is "my ass, grass" like we have a saying nowadays?
If so, I still have a great time to think back on with Holly last night.
Also, she's coming to watch me play at our school tonight, which is really cool. If something happens and I do get punished by my dad I hope Holly doesn't ask if my dad was mad, if we got back to late. After all, how does a guy explain to swell girl, "yeah, Kyle and I go tback late and I got my butt paddled!" That would be embarrassing to own up to.
Ever get in a situation like that growing up, like say with a girl and you got "grounded or some other puishment" and couldn't tell the girl what really the punishment was without getting embarrassed?
I know I got lot to learn a bout girls more, late bloomer I guess, but I thought I would ask your advice? I can talk to dad later on, if it happens-the paddling, but wanted your opinion to.

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Replies:

Re: Joel's Dad Give Him His First Paddling at Age 17 -- Spencer to Joel, 04:28:42 12/14/09 Mon
- Re: Joel's Dad Give Him His First Paddling at Age 17 -- Zack to Joel, 04:41:42 12/14/09 Mon
  - Re: Joel's Dad Give Him His First Paddling at Age 17 -- Joel to Zack, 06:50:42 12/19/09 Sat
- Re: Joel's Dad Give Him His First Paddling at Age 17 -- Joel to Spencer, 07:25:20 12/19/09 Sat