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Date Posted: 16:58:53 12/01/09 Tue
Author: Rick to Joel
Subject: Re: Joel's "Say No to Drugs!" Whipping From Grandpa
In reply to: Joel to Rick 's message, "Re: Joel's "Say No to Drugs!" Whipping From Grandpa" on 07:01:03 11/29/09 Sun

> Hey Rick, how you doing big brother? It sure was cool
>to see your message and support!

The question at the moment is how are you doing Joel??

> First, before I get this conversation going...NO! to
>you asking David to cancel our bet! PLEASE, don't! I
>want the bet to stay on like nothing happened. I'm
>going to get a paddling from my dad in collecting the
>bet and David is going to get a paddling from you,
>like he agreed to.

You got my word dude.

> Of course Kyle is a teen who has given my butt
>punishment many times, and paybacks in bets, and
>really is an l8yr. old adult, so I know how hard his
>hand or arm can hit my butt. But grandpa is an adult,
>a real experienced adult who knows how to tan a butt
>good, he did my dad and that 5 licks time to me to
>feel what a strap felt like, but this time he meant
>business with my butt...and he did!

Joel, what you & Kyle have done or the after game jock paddlings was buds horsing around & a game. What grandpa did was damn outright abuse & nothing funny in that. He might have thought it justified & have good intentions but he went not to the line but way over the line. I'd stay my distance from him & especially never be alone again with him. You're no little kid so you are capable to get out of or avoid such situations. Like I told Kyle who said he was mad enough to get violent with your grandpa, that two wrongs don't make a right, and violence toward grandpa by either you or Kyle is just as wrong. Just say no & mean it & never think you have to drop your drawers & take a whipping for something you know you are 100% innocent. You owe yourself respect as much as you owed grandpa respect. If I were you, he would have lost my respect forever that afternoon in the barn.

>
> I bet I tried talking to him for 5 mins., but I
>wasn't getting anywhere's so I thought I might as well
>get my butt tanned to satisfy him.

Talking might be a good first line of defense but walking is the best & ultimate choice. God gave you two good legs that got you touchdowns in the end zone last season. Use them legs for your own self-respect too. It's crap to say "get my butt tanned to satisfy him".

> WHAT WAS HIS POINT, AND WHY DID HE HAVE ME BEND MY
>BARE BUTT OVER A SAWHORSE TO GET THE RAZOR STRAP
>WHIPPING? You got any thoughts on that Rick?

The whole episode Joel is weird. If he thought your ass needed a whipping, why did he tell you to strip off your t-shirt this time too. Open your eyes dude, he stripped you more than butt naked for 'satisfaction' & dude that rings as abuse in my book & should be in yours.

> My mom, dad, and grandma were at the house watching
>football and clearing the dinner table. They didn't
>know what grandpa had planned, and neither did my butt!
> When he said, "let's take a walk, Joel to work our
>dinner off," I thought it was going to be a golden
>opportunity to get grandpa to relive the days he
>punished my dad with the razor strap and find out
>more, and maybe again why grandpa thought why my dad
>didn't never spank me and if he would help get my dad
>to, give me ideas, etc.

Dave says he mentioned to you that maybe grandpa had a history of abusing your dad too. That's a thought dude to consider. Maybe dad won't whip your ass, recalling whippings he endured as a boy. I know it would be hard & you are probably still a bit confused in thinking, but this
is a matter that you need to sit down right now & tall over with your mom/dad. Grandpa needs help & maybe at 17 you don't want to admit you need help & protection so it never happens again. Sounds like you got good parents & that is what good parents do, is love, care & protect.

> Again, NO CALLING OFF THE BET between Dave and Me!
>It's on, on, on!!!!! I won't take NO for answer to him
>to back out and I'm NOT backing out!

OK dude, whatever you say. Just do me the favor & talk to your mom & dad & get this mess cleared up first..ok??

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