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Date Posted: 17:54:44 12/10/09 Thu
Author: David to Joel
Subject: Re: The Challenge...ARE YOU SURE?
In reply to: Joel to David 's message, "Re: The Challenge...ARE YOU SURE?" on 06:43:32 12/10/09 Thu

> David, what was you reaction when you saw my left
>message that I got my first paddling?

Joel, it was AWESOME---WOW!! Your first was planned & worked out; mine was wide-eyed & scared seeing dad come into my room with paddle in hand to tan my bare butt.

> I bet Rick went nuts, didn't he?

We both were busting a gut reveling that you pulled it off. Bunking at the folks a few days in our old room & then home for the Friday night event brings back old memories. Stopped at the apt this evening to check on progress with Rick & still noticable paint smell so back to folk's tonight & tomorrow night is still on at the apt.

> So David, Rick kinda mentioned your in the same boat
>as me I guess, that he's looking forward to paddling
>your little butt. So I guess we each have to be
>satisfied with what we got?

In my case dude, it's more a catch phrase for Rick. I wear a 36x30 pair of Levis & just bought a 3 pack of 34-36 FOL briefs. I'd say normal for 23 y/o.

> That's good then you think you can take l7 swats. I
>almost thought about suggesting 20, but then dad would
>wonder where I came up with that number, so went with
>my age. You could take 20, couldn't you? You took l9
>for a birthday without difficult you said, only gotta
>ya a sore butt for awhile!

Yep, it's 17 bare butt across Rick's leg tomorrow night & I'll post---probably Saturday. Now for a news flash & maybe you'll say Dave is crazy!!

Rick had a client after work hours last night & then planned to meet up with Jeanne. Mom's woman's club had their Christmas party last night too, so it was dad & I at home for dinner & that opportunity for the talk I mentioned. Like you, this one was to be 1-to-1. The subject of the cigarettes at age 11 surfaced again plus an event the summer I turned 17 before my senior year that no one knew til last night. My cousin, Tommy (a year younger), & I were home alone while our parents were out for the evening. It was to be 2 teen dudes dining on pizza & hanging out. Tom is still a cool dude. Tom got this wild hair daring us to spike a 2-liter of Coke with some of dad's vodka since vodka leaves little to no alcohol breathe. Nothing big to get stoned or anything but just to pull it off. We could replace the vodka volume with water & no one would know. We did & no one ever discovered & neither of us caught. Well that came up in last night's talk. Dad was good natured & willing to dismiss as past. Hope you are not disappointed in me now Joel?

Like your dad/son talk, I led dad into the conversation that these 2 events & possibly others growing up needed closure. I ask dad if he had known back then, would he have whipped my ass & he confirmed I would have certainly deserved. Joel, it took some talking & convincing cause dad was really hesitant & think at first I was joking, but I told dad for closure & free conscience I wanted the way overdue whipping I had coming. Joel, did not seem as if dad put his effort into it like I recall 8-10 years ago as a teen, but went to Rick's & my room & dad agreed to 10 licks with my old braided belt that's a favorite with jeans. I had on a new pair of the briefs under my jeans & pulled both down & went over the same old chair that had memories for Rick & I. There was a sting but nothing like I recall growing up with the belt so dad made it more symbolic for closure. Rick has found out now & that takes nothing away from our event Friday which remains 17-bare-paddle but just something between dad & me & now closed. Joel, you wanted a closure & motivated me that it was a good idea for me too.

> David, I was real close to my dad before the
>paddling, the paddling just really BONDED us dudes
>together more yet, if you know what I mean?

I know little brother exactly what you mean. My bond with dad is a cherished relationship & that's obvious since we've made it a father/sons business & bond well both at the office & outside.

> Reason, this week has been stressful for me. I told
>dad about what grandpa did. He didn't believe me at
>first, had to really talk to him and Kyle was there to
>back me up, told about seeing my blistered red butt at
>school in P.E. Class changing/showers.

Joel, you did what you had to do. I'm sure it was not easy & hope some day you & grandparents reconcile. Now maybe he will get the help he needs.

> Grandpa was calling me a spoiled brat to the police,
>said I needed to be taught a lesson, so that's why he
>took the razor strap to me to teach me NOT to abuse
>drugs.

Joel, if there was any thread of truth in the drugs, I think we both would agree your ass would have deserved a strap whipping. Maybe in grandpa's eyes, as an only child & never spanked growing up, you qualify as spoiled. What did happen was unjustified & he needs help.

> So David, if you and Rick could remember me in your
>prayers I sure would apprecitate it until this mess is
>cleared up, if ever!

You got it little dude. You pray too because your grandparents need it also to work through this & get him the help he needs & hopefully reconcile family.

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