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Tommy
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Date Posted: 01:33:57 12/14/09 Mon

When I was a young boy, growing up in what I thought was a very normal farm family in Kansas in the 1950's almost every child, sooner or later was spanked at church. Our rural church was an important center of our family life both for our nuclear family and our extended family. When my sister, one of my cousins, one of our friends, or when I misbehaved at church we weren't warned and taken home. A parent simply took us outside; most often around to a bench in the churchyard, bared our bottom and spanked as necessary. This was not seen as an event to be remarked upon but simply a common occurance of everyday family life in the greater church family. The misbehaving child was quietly, or not so quietly escorted or carried from the church building or event. The spanking was administered as the parent saw fit. When the child was quiet and ready to behave, albeit frequently rubbing an assaulted bottom, the parent and the child quietly came back into the event. The same was true for older children and young teens, and occasionally for older teen girls who particularly angered their mothers with their flirting or gossiping. That did happen once to my younger sister when she was sixteen, I was told, even though I was away at university and did not witness the event. Mother said she made my sister kick and cry with her hairbrush just as when my sister had been five.

The spanking at church that I particularly remember happened the spring that I had turned thirteen and my cousin, who was soon to turn twelve, and on whom I had a mutual crush had walked away from a church picnic and into a woods beyond the churchyard. While we did nothing but hold hands and gaze into each other's eyes and talk about school we were caught by her older sister who had been sent looking for us. This was farm country and our fathers had gone fishing after their meal so it was up to our mothers to determine our fate. My mother reached into her purse and pulled out her hairbrush and I knew there was no use in protesting. I just followed her to the bench and let her unfasten my belt and take down my pants even though my cousins and friends were watching. My mother pulled me across her knees, but before she started spanking she started scolding. She told me how embarassed she was that I was doing "things like that" with my cousin, and that "everyone could see". She also told me that she was going to spank me harder than she had ever spanked me before so I would never want to "embarass her like that again." Then she said it was time for me to be embarassed as much as she was and she pulled down my underpants and waved to my aunt.

Mother still didn't start spanking me but held me over her knees with my bottom bare and my face red while my aunt brought my cousin over to the bench, pulled her into a similar position, lifted her skirt, lowered her panties and scolded her. There we were, face to face, helpless, embarassed, bared and not wanting at all to be there. My aunt got out her hairbrush and the spankings started. We both got somewhere between thirty and fifty hard spanks and we both howled like babies. We were redressed and sent to separate cars to sit on our sore bottoms until we were done crying then we were required to stay close by our mother's sides for the rest of the afternoon. I was terribly worried that I would get a dose of my father's belt when got home and heard the story but he came to my room told me that since my cousin wasn't getting spanked again, neither would I.

I didn't talk with my cousin about this incident until we were both adults and could both laugh about it without being too embaressed. For her it was just a spanking along the way of life. She got many of them and some that were more severe but none that she remembered as more embaressing. For me this church spanking was somthing else. Although it hurt like fire at the time, and was way beyond embarassing to a thirteen year old ego, it was probably the sealing event in my live long love of spanking and being spanked. Well, may your bottoms be warm and red.

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Author:
John
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Date Posted: 10:34:58 12/14/09 Mon

Hi Tommy, Did you ever get paddled at school?


>When I was a young boy, growing up in what I thought
>was a very normal farm family in Kansas in the 1950's
>almost every child, sooner or later was spanked at
>church. Our rural church was an important center of
>our family life both for our nuclear family and our
>extended family. When my sister, one of my cousins,
>one of our friends, or when I misbehaved at church we
>weren't warned and taken home. A parent simply took
>us outside; most often around to a bench in the
>churchyard, bared our bottom and spanked as necessary.
> This was not seen as an event to be remarked upon but
>simply a common occurance of everyday family life in
>the greater church family. The misbehaving child was
>quietly, or not so quietly escorted or carried from
>the church building or event. The spanking was
>administered as the parent saw fit. When the child
>was quiet and ready to behave, albeit frequently
>rubbing an assaulted bottom, the parent and the child
>quietly came back into the event. The same was true
>for older children and young teens, and occasionally
>for older teen girls who particularly angered their
>mothers with their flirting or gossiping. That did
>happen once to my younger sister when she was sixteen,
>I was told, even though I was away at university and
>did not witness the event. Mother said she made my
>sister kick and cry with her hairbrush just as when my
>sister had been five.
>
> The spanking at church that I particularly remember
>happened the spring that I had turned thirteen and my
>cousin, who was soon to turn twelve, and on whom I had
>a mutual crush had walked away from a church picnic
>and into a woods beyond the churchyard. While we did
>nothing but hold hands and gaze into each other's eyes
>and talk about school we were caught by her older
>sister who had been sent looking for us. This was
>farm country and our fathers had gone fishing after
>their meal so it was up to our mothers to determine
>our fate. My mother reached into her purse and pulled
>out her hairbrush and I knew there was no use in
>protesting. I just followed her to the bench and let
>her unfasten my belt and take down my pants even
>though my cousins and friends were watching. My
>mother pulled me across her knees, but before she
>started spanking she started scolding. She told me
>how embarassed she was that I was doing "things like
>that" with my cousin, and that "everyone could see".
>She also told me that she was going to spank me harder
>than she had ever spanked me before so I would never
>want to "embarass her like that again." Then she said
>it was time for me to be embarassed as much as she was
>and she pulled down my underpants and waved to my aunt.
>
> Mother still didn't start spanking me but held me
>over her knees with my bottom bare and my face red
>while my aunt brought my cousin over to the bench,
>pulled her into a similar position, lifted her skirt,
>lowered her panties and scolded her. There we were,
>face to face, helpless, embarassed, bared and not
>wanting at all to be there. My aunt got out her
>hairbrush and the spankings started. We both got
>somewhere between thirty and fifty hard spanks and we
>both howled like babies. We were redressed and sent
>to separate cars to sit on our sore bottoms until we
>were done crying then we were required to stay close
>by our mother's sides for the rest of the afternoon.
>I was terribly worried that I would get a dose of my
>father's belt when got home and heard the story but he
>came to my room told me that since my cousin wasn't
>getting spanked again, neither would I.
>
> I didn't talk with my cousin about this incident
>until we were both adults and could both laugh about
>it without being too embaressed. For her it was just
>a spanking along the way of life. She got many of
>them and some that were more severe but none that she
>remembered as more embaressing. For me this church
>spanking was somthing else. Although it hurt like
>fire at the time, and was way beyond embarassing to a
>thirteen year old ego, it was probably the sealing
>event in my live long love of spanking and being
>spanked. Well, may your bottoms be warm and red.

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Author:
Tommy
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Date Posted: 01:06:57 12/15/09 Tue

>Hi Tommy, Did you ever get paddled at school?
>

Oh yes, and then usually at home afterwards.

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Author:
John
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Date Posted: 17:17:03 12/15/09 Tue

Hi Tommy,

Who was it that paddled you at school, could only the principal and vice principal give paddlings or could any teacher paddle you?


>>Hi Tommy, Did you ever get paddled at school?
>>
>
>Oh yes, and then usually at home afterwards.

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Author:
Dave
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Date Posted: 11:03:22 01/19/10 Tue

>>Hi Tommy, Did you ever get paddled at school?
>>
>
>Oh yes, and then usually at home afterwards.

John/Tommy,

I can't say teachers weren't allowed because coach paddled some guys in the locker room but a school paddling usually meant a walk to the office.

In high school, it was a paddle with holes given square across your butt after you emptied back pockets & bent over. Got 5 in 9th for a water-spit fight with a friend at drinking fountain; got the max of 10 as junior for a hallway scuffle that the principal called a fight. The other guy the swats too. My dad whipped my butt when I got home that evening w/o benefit of levis & boxers.

What earned you dudes the school paddle?
Your dad use the belt at home? bare butt?

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked at Church?


Author:
Danny
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Date Posted: 08:31:12 01/20/10 Wed

>When I was a young boy, growing up in what I thought
>was a very normal farm family in Kansas in the 1950's
>almost every child, sooner or later was spanked at
>church. Our rural church was an important center of
>our family life both for our nuclear family and our
>extended family. When my sister, one of my cousins,
>one of our friends, or when I misbehaved at church we
>weren't warned and taken home. A parent simply took
>us outside; most often around to a bench in the
>churchyard, bared our bottom and spanked as necessary.
> This was not seen as an event to be remarked upon but
>simply a common occurance of everyday family life in
>the greater church family. The misbehaving child was
>quietly, or not so quietly escorted or carried from
>the church building or event. The spanking was
>administered as the parent saw fit. When the child
>was quiet and ready to behave, albeit frequently
>rubbing an assaulted bottom, the parent and the child
>quietly came back into the event. The same was true
>for older children and young teens, and occasionally
>for older teen girls who particularly angered their
>mothers with their flirting or gossiping. That did
>happen once to my younger sister when she was sixteen,
>I was told, even though I was away at university and
>did not witness the event. Mother said she made my
>sister kick and cry with her hairbrush just as when my
>sister had been five.
>
> The spanking at church that I particularly remember
>happened the spring that I had turned thirteen and my
>cousin, who was soon to turn twelve, and on whom I had
>a mutual crush had walked away from a church picnic
>and into a woods beyond the churchyard. While we did
>nothing but hold hands and gaze into each other's eyes
>and talk about school we were caught by her older
>sister who had been sent looking for us. This was
>farm country and our fathers had gone fishing after
>their meal so it was up to our mothers to determine
>our fate. My mother reached into her purse and pulled
>out her hairbrush and I knew there was no use in
>protesting. I just followed her to the bench and let
>her unfasten my belt and take down my pants even
>though my cousins and friends were watching. My
>mother pulled me across her knees, but before she
>started spanking she started scolding. She told me
>how embarassed she was that I was doing "things like
>that" with my cousin, and that "everyone could see".
>She also told me that she was going to spank me harder
>than she had ever spanked me before so I would never
>want to "embarass her like that again." Then she said
>it was time for me to be embarassed as much as she was
>and she pulled down my underpants and waved to my aunt.
>
> Mother still didn't start spanking me but held me
>over her knees with my bottom bare and my face red
>while my aunt brought my cousin over to the bench,
>pulled her into a similar position, lifted her skirt,
>lowered her panties and scolded her. There we were,
>face to face, helpless, embarassed, bared and not
>wanting at all to be there. My aunt got out her
>hairbrush and the spankings started. We both got
>somewhere between thirty and fifty hard spanks and we
>both howled like babies. We were redressed and sent
>to separate cars to sit on our sore bottoms until we
>were done crying then we were required to stay close
>by our mother's sides for the rest of the afternoon.
>I was terribly worried that I would get a dose of my
>father's belt when got home and heard the story but he
>came to my room told me that since my cousin wasn't
>getting spanked again, neither would I.
>
> I didn't talk with my cousin about this incident
>until we were both adults and could both laugh about
>it without being too embaressed. For her it was just
>a spanking along the way of life. She got many of
>them and some that were more severe but none that she
>remembered as more embaressing. For me this church
>spanking was somthing else. Although it hurt like
>fire at the time, and was way beyond embarassing to a
>thirteen year old ego, it was probably the sealing
>event in my live long love of spanking and being
>spanked. Well, may your bottoms be warm and red.
If I got paddled at school dad spanked me at home, the last time it happened was in 12 grade, I got paddled on my barebottom by the Nun for cheating on a test Igot it in front of the class, when I got homedad took me to the woodshed and whipped my ass good.

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Author:
Johan
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Date Posted: 07:54:08 08/14/10 Sat

>When I was a young boy, growing up in what I thought
>was a very normal farm family in Kansas in the 1950's
>almost every child, sooner or later was spanked at
>church...

Tommy, You dont have to go that far back in time! Maybe not very common, but still in the 80s children were spanked at some churches (well, in the back room or elswere more or less out of the sights) during the services. I witnessed it happen in the church my family attended for a year or two when I was in my early teens. I also learned from two friends of mine, that they were occasionally spanked during the service in their churches back rooms while groving up. We all belonged to different churches, they all were very conservative and discipline/ spanking promoting communities.

In our church the class room was downstairs, and the entrance there was in the front of the hall - so during the services everyne could see who went or came through the door, and especially smaller misbehaving kids were grabbed and escorted there by their moms or dads nearly every Sunday. Some times older too! I learned some where, that there was a rod (a paddle?) available for parental correction use, never saw it myself.

I was old enough to manage my behaviour during the services. I usually got a weekly spanking for the things I done earlier that week right after the church and before church lunch/ other events at home (dad travelled a lot for his job). Only once I visited the class room for a correction with dad: just for a few licks with my own belt over slacks. It did not hurt much but the embarrassement of going down there with dad and soon afterwards joining all the others for the rest of a service. I felt everyone was looking at me and some of my age peers with glee. I must have looked like a little brat just been spanked good in a semi-public place.

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Author:
Billy
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Date Posted: 22:26:15 10/02/10 Sat

When I was a kid we would go to Kingdom Hall on Saturdays. Once I had left the meeting to go to the restroom, and I heard the sounds of a spanking and a girl's screaming. It was coming from one of the classrooms. I peeked inside, and there was a girl about 8 years old getting spanked by her dad. He had taken her dress and her underwear off and was whipping her bare bottom with the buckle end of his belt. That was by far the worst I've ever seen anyone getting spanked. It went on forever; she must have gotten whipped 20-30 times.

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Author:
Very stern caner
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Date Posted: 09:27:48 03/02/11 Wed

It is not dangerous to whip girls on the genitals. Sue's punishments are not much of an abuse, but her brothers ones are. I think it is a good idea to whip girls on the genitals.

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Author:
Elizabeth (It is very humiliating)
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Date Posted: 06:56:58 01/01/12 Sun

>It is not dangerous to whip girls on the genitals.
>Sue's punishments are not much of an abuse, but her
>brothers ones are. I think it is a good idea to whip
>girls on the genitals.
I was often subjected to this type of discipline, it is very painful especially when you are not allowed to rub afterwards, whipping shouldn't be done, parents should choose the implement carefully, my parents used a flat piece of sturdy leather which although painful certainly didn't cause marks like a whip would.

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Author:
Tom
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Date Posted: 19:44:39 06/18/11 Sat

Genital whipping is/was pretty common, most folks don't talk about it though. But I would guess most parents still spank and large percentage spank the genitals. It is quite effective.

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Author:
Sue
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Date Posted: 00:18:36 10/10/10 Sun

When I was young both our school teachers and my sunday school teacher were allowed to spank the kids with a paddle. If we ever got spanked at school or church, we were sure to get a whipping at home. Something as serious as messing around in church would earn us the worst punishment my parents ever gave, which was a whipping with the belt on our bare genitals. That didn't happen very often but was very frightening and painful when it did happen.

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Author:
Billy
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Date Posted: 22:48:02 10/14/10 Thu

Sue, are you serious? Whipping with a belt on your bare genitals? This would be nothing short of abuse, and also dangerous.


>When I was young both our school teachers and my
>sunday school teacher were allowed to spank the kids
>with a paddle. If we ever got spanked at school or
>church, we were sure to get a whipping at home.
>Something as serious as messing around in church would
>earn us the worst punishment my parents ever gave,
>which was a whipping with the belt on our bare
>genitals. That didn't happen very often but was very
>frightening and painful when it did happen.

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Author:
Sue
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Date Posted: 22:12:37 10/16/10 Sat

Yes I agree, it was abuse. But it was a long time ago and things were different. It was very painful, and also dangerous as you say, especially for my brothers. Somehow the whippings avoided their testicles, or I'm sure there would have been serious injuries.

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Author:
Cameron (Strict)
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Date Posted: 11:29:33 12/11/10 Sat

Sue, I know what you mean. All of my grade school teachers had the option to spank as well as Sunday school. Every time I got spanked I got whipped bare bottom with the belt bare bottom when I got home with the note. Whipping the genitals seems strict but different parents discipline different ways. One size does not fit all.

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Author:
Sienna (:()
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Date Posted: 17:56:03 01/07/11 Fri

I remember one time when I was probably 6 or 7, at church and I was misbehaving. My mom told me several times to sit still and behave. I wasn't having any of this so she finally got upset and gave me a good crack on my butt and told me that I was going to get it after church. Well after this I was a little angel, hoping mom would forget about the incident. Well she didn't forget. After church there was a coffee/tea and cookie thing that everyone went to. Mom did not say much but as we were going to get in line she took me by my arm and said, none too quietly, that I had a good spanking coming to me. She took me out to the car, told me to get in and she followed me in. She pulled me across her lap and started scolding me. She probably talked for about a minute and then she pulled my dress up and panties down. The spanking began and at first I did not cry but she said to just wait. She started off just hand spanking me. Then about a minute into it she pulled out her trusty hair brush and started spanking me with that. As church was out, people had begun to leave and I saw quite a few people looking in and just smiling. I'm sure many people saw me getting my butt tanned that day.

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Author:
Charlie (not at Mass)
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Date Posted: 15:09:45 12/28/11 Wed

We were taught early that good behavior was a total MUST--In fact we were taught that good social behavior in any such situation was totally required---It was the only thing I recall my parents were very strict about---Looking back I approve of that strictness--as we did have good manners and behavior in such situations and that really helps in adulthood. We did get paddled into teen yrs on the bare butt my mom or dad if required at home--but a bare paddling was definitely a "in home' practice--for boys only!

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