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Subject: Embarassment as part of Punishment


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Willy
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Date Posted: 17:37:13 09/14/09 Mon

I've seen many posts on this type of forums where grown up kids, especially boys, are spanked in front of guests or friends from outside the family. Is this type of humiliation and embarassment, especially when spanked bare, fair or is it abuse?

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Polly Jean
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Date Posted: 18:09:26 09/14/09 Mon

>I've seen many posts on this type of forums where
>grown up kids, especially boys, are spanked in front
>of guests or friends from outside the family. Is this
>type of humiliation and embarassment, especially when
>spanked bare, fair or is it abuse?
I remember this one time in elementery school i got spanked by the princeable and she called my mom and when she got there to pick me up she lifted back up my dress and pulled down down my underwear and spanked me right there in the princeables office and kept on spanking me all the way out of her offive and down the stairs to the family station wagon and said think of that spanking as nothing for i get your little butt home little girl as she slamed my door and went around to her side and drove home and spanked my bare behind much much worse when we got upstairs to my room

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Fran
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Date Posted: 06:40:52 10/31/10 Sun

Regardless of what style of corporal punishment is sued, I believe it should be kept within the family. For example, it is bad enough spanking someone in the presence of his or her sisters or brothers, but inviting any outsiders is not acceptable.

The posts in this thread provide ample evidence that the person being punished is very embarrassed over being seen by friends of the family observers. The posts here were
mainly about males being apanked, but what I'm saying applies to the punishing of females, too.

Don't you agree that inviting outsiders is not fair?

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Author:
scott milliken (SCOTT THE SPANKER)
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Date Posted: 09:42:40 12/10/11 Sat

i think that boys and girls should be spank the same way. just because they are girls doesn't mean they should be punished different. now being spank in front of family and non-family mumbers is part of the punishment don't wont that to happen don't do what will cause that to happen. childern should be taught that their is nothing wrong with being nude. this is the only civilized country in the world to be so retarded when it comes to being nude.

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Author:
Sharon
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Date Posted: 03:18:23 12/18/11 Sun

I believe that spankings can be given in front of siblings, not generally an accepted practice. But there are times when a parent wants to make a statement about what was done wrong and should bring in the siblings to watch the spanking and with a warning that any repeat of the offense by any of the siblings will be met with the same result, also there are times when more than one sibling was involved and they need to be spanked. Spanking them together is acceptable also. It is not necessary that non family members be present at the spanking.

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Author:
Michelle
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Date Posted: 09:29:33 01/28/10 Thu

My parents found out early that embarrassment worked wonders when spanking my younger brothers. When I was younger I thought it was great being able to watch them get bare bottoms spanked, but when I got older and in high school ( they were still pre-teens yet ) I thought my mom should not really spank them in front me or my friends. My mom had this friend who had two daughters, one was the same age as my older brother and the other a few years younger. When he was about 9 my mom spanked him in front of both these girls, I had never seen him put up such a fuss when getting a spanking, but my mother prevailed and gave him a good one over her lap while the girls watched. Fortunately, both my brothers turned out normal with no hang-ups about getting those spankings, but other boys (now men) could have emotional scars from receiving spankings like that.

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Author:
MAY
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Date Posted: 05:43:04 02/08/10 Mon

Like your mother Michelle mine also in the 60s thought embarrassment was a good tool to use on boys, I sometimes thought she went out of her way to spank my brother when there were females around. While I was 4 years older than him I did get a certain pleasure out of watching her spank his naughty bare bottom. It was obvious that as he reached around 12 and beyond, when mother found an excuse to pull down his trousers and undies in front of girls his own age or a little younger he protested much more that when it was just me or an older women watching.
I remember when he was 14 and two girls 11/13 year old were present with their mother he put up such a defence as mom went to pull his pants down, while he would never strike or physically resist, but he dodged and protested the likes I had never seen him do. when mom finally got him stripped below the waist she kept him standing an inordinately length of time while she pulled up his shirt and vest and lectured him. Looking at the two girls faces I could see that they were fascinated at seeing an boy older than them being prepared for a spanking. And boy did she give him one, the spank dance he did afterwards was one of the longest he ever did, at this point my mother always smiled and made some remark to relax everybody watching but also to embarrass my brother, the two girls were now openly pointing and giggling

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Author:
Michelle
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Date Posted: 06:46:17 02/08/10 Mon

May if your story is true, 14 is way, way to old for a boy to be given a spanking, not only in front of anyone, but even in private. My mom stopped spanking my brothers at around 10 years old.

Any 14 year old boy can resist and stop his mom from spanking him, by that age he does have enough strength to do so.

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Author:
MAY
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Date Posted: 07:30:25 02/08/10 Mon


This was the 1960s my brother was born in 1948, in some homes the buckle end of the belt was still used on teens, birching was still administered by the courts in parts of the British Isles the cane was used in most schools. Mothers , teachers aunts parents ect who embarrassed teenagers were common.
No it probably would not happen today.
But the one thing you would not find then, was teenagers disobeying their elders.

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Author:
Suzie
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Date Posted: 12:50:04 12/28/11 Wed

Absolutely agree May - you wouldn't see the disrespect of elders (parents, teachers, police) or the disrespect of authority generally in those days that we see now every day.

Suzie


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>This was the 1960s my brother was born in 1948, in
>some homes the buckle end of the belt was still used
>on teens, birching was still administered by the
>courts in parts of the British Isles the cane was used
>in most schools. Mothers , teachers aunts parents
>ect who embarrassed teenagers were common.
>No it probably would not happen today.
>But the one thing you would not find then, was
>teenagers disobeying their elders.

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Author:
Janice
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Date Posted: 05:54:25 02/09/10 Tue

>Like your mother Michelle mine also in the 60s thought
>embarrassment was a good tool to use on boys, I
>sometimes thought she went out of her way to spank my
>brother when there were females around. While I was 4
>years older than him I did get a certain pleasure out
>of watching her spank his naughty bare bottom. It was
>obvious that as he reached around 12 and beyond, when
>mother found an excuse to pull down his trousers and
>undies in front of girls his own age or a little
>younger he protested much more that when it was just
>me or an older women watching.
>I remember when he was 14 and two girls 11/13 year old
> were present with their mother he put up such a
>defence as mom went to pull his pants down, while he
>would never strike or physically resist, but he dodged
>and protested the likes I had never seen him do. when
>mom finally got him stripped below the waist she kept
>him standing an inordinately length of time while she
>pulled up his shirt and vest and lectured him. Looking
>at the two girls faces I could see that they were
>fascinated at seeing an boy older than them being
>prepared for a spanking. And boy did she give him one,
>the spank dance he did afterwards was one of the
>longest he ever did, at this point my mother always
>smiled and made some remark to relax everybody
>watching but also to embarrass my brother, the two
>girls were now openly pointing and giggling
MAY,the last sentence of your post is rubbish,just think about it!

However i do agree with what you wrote.
In fact my brother at 13 in the early 70's was spanked with his pants down over my moms knee in front of our nan and 3 of our cousins.

Girls and boys!

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Author:
MAY
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Date Posted: 01:38:46 02/10/10 Wed

Yes maybe the tale was a little embellished, but it doesnt alter the facts, my brother did in his teenage years receive quite a few pants down spankings from our mother, and notably in front of myself and various other females including those younger than himself. It didnt happen every day ,week or month, but it did happen till he started work at fifteen and a half.
As a child I saw a few spankings dished out by mothers over the early years of my life down our street, and at junior school and had my own bottom warmed a few times the last being when I was eleven. Now at secondary school, thats from the age of 11 till leaving school boys were often caned in the class room over their trousers sometimes in the gym with shorts only on. We, the girls, used to watch if at all possible.
While I only ever saw my brother have is pants taken down, girls who I worked with over the years told me how some of their brothers were punished, and he was not the only teenage boy who had is bottom bared while the family watched on. Quite a few were disciplined by their fathers, but for me I liked to hear how mothers dished it out to their sons.

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Joey to Janice
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Date Posted: 12:46:05 02/11/10 Thu

Janice, did your brother get embarrassed by having been spanked in front of you? Had he stated pberty the last few tmes yo saw him spanked at age 13? How mch jmping arond after the spanking did he do and what room was he spanked in?

May, you said yor brother was spanked till he was 15 1/2, was that in the living room and how did he feel about you seeing him spanked, did he ever say? Did he try to cover up during or after the spanking?

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Author:
MAY
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Date Posted: 02:11:51 02/12/10 Fri

Well as I have written, our mother was a natural at embarrassing my brother, from when he was little up until he left school. Whether it was verbally, when out somewhere , or when his bottom was bared, or before and after a sound spanking , she could do it.
My brother years later told me he over the years had got used to me being around when our mother spanked him (I was four year older than him), in fact any older person watching even Mrs Busybody next door, who seemed to have a nose for a spanking, and appeared many times, he was ok with, but after he was ten he really did not like girls around his own age or younger being there when his trousers and underpants came down, and that is just what our mother worked on.
So as you can see embarrassing boys was used, just by having females watch a boys punishment. You, mothers of today, will know if that type of discipline would work today and should it be employed these days.
Me I am just a doting Grandma these days, ney a Great Grandma.

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Author:
Janice
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Date Posted: 21:00:38 02/14/10 Sun

>Janice, did your brother get embarrassed by having
>been spanked in front of you? Had he stated pberty the
>last few tmes yo saw him spanked at age 13? How mch
>jmping arond after the spanking did he do and what
>room was he spanked in?
>
>May, you said yor brother was spanked till he was 15
>1/2, was that in the living room and how did he feel
>about you seeing him spanked, did he ever say? Did he
>try to cover up during or after the spanking?

My brother was spanked in what we called the bungalow.

He was embarrassed to be spanked in front of me and had not reached puberty. After he was allowed up, he tripped over his pants and unders that were around his ankles and spent a minute or so sitting there sniffling.

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Author:
Barbara
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Date Posted: 18:22:49 08/24/10 Tue

I strongly believe that the worst aspect of corporal punishment especially for teens is the embarrassment. I am certainly in favour of public chastisement, such as in front of the class or assembly in school, or with the family present at home. The ultimate detterrent to my mind especially with public punishment is the bare bottom. No other nudity is necessary, just a bare bottom for all to see, and left on display for a good long time. The atmosphere must be deadly serious and austere and the culprit needs to know that what is happening is shameful. My grandmother used it, my mother also, and so did I. Done properly it made punishments few and far between I can tell you. When my brother at age 15 was told by our mother that he was to be punished with the belt in front of the whole family across his nude bottom, and that he was first going to be placed in front of the mantelpiece with his vest tucked up to show his bare bottom for half an hour, he burst into tears on the spot. It had not happened to him in 5 years and it came as a shock.

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Author:
Billy
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Date Posted: 01:45:51 08/26/10 Thu

Barbara, it is one thing to have it done in front of just the whole family and quite another to spank a boy bare and exposed in front of the whole class or school assembly.
Growing up we were spanked in front of the whole class as normal, but never bare. This would be a bit saucy especially if it is a mixed class. Baring a boys bottom would also bare his front. Though admittedly this was in fact done in many American schools during the 50's.
I understand your point that this would be a bigger deterrent for good behaviour both at school and at home and even more so for juvenile crime, but I don't knw how this could be possible in today's world.
Also do you agree that this should be done with both boys and girls or only with boys?

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Author:
Tom
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Date Posted: 13:24:28 09/05/10 Sun

Billy, Are you sure kids were paddled bare at US schools in the 1950's? I grew up during that time period, and nearly every boy I knew was spanked bare bottom at home, but I never knew of anyone who received it at school.

The public school I attended used the paddle from first grade through and including senior year. As a matter of fact, two senior boys were paddled while we were on the senior trip; fortunately I wasn't one of them. Principals swung the most paddles, but teachers did too. Even though a whipping in the principal's office was private, it could be heard up and down the hallway, and within fifteen minutes it seemed that everyone in the school knew who had been on the receiving end.

I suppose it is possible that someone may have been paddled bare in a locker room, but I never heard about it. It didn't make much difference there because gym shorts offered mighty little protection.

I know many will not agree with me today, but I for one appreciate the fact that my school years were spent in a school that made us behave. Everyone knew the rules, and everyone knew the likely consequences of their actions. I never once heard a recipient of a school spanking complain about unfairness.

In those days teachers and principals didn't have to contact parents for permission to discipline nor did they need another professional to witness in the event someone would question the severity of the paddling. Perhaps this would not have been true had we lived in a city, but we were in a small town where everyone knew everyone else, and teachers were respected, important members of the community, and our parents entrusted them to do what was best for us which sometimes included spanking.

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Author:
Robjo Sr
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Date Posted: 09:53:01 03/09/11 Wed

Tom:

I also grew up in the 50-60 and went to an all boys parochial HS! The brothers walked around our hallway with a leather short strap, and would give it to u in the hallway. If it was real serious, they'd make u drop trou right then and wallop your butt with just underpants. For real serious misdeeds, u got sent to the Head and whipped bare in the office. And, within minuets all knew who had gotten "it".

We also were paddled by coach in the locker room, usually with either our jockstrap on, or bare!








>schools in the 1950's? I grew up during that time
>period, and nearly every boy I knew was spanked bare
>bottom at home, but I never knew of anyone who
>received it at school.
>
>The public school I attended used the paddle from
>first grade through and including senior year. As a
>matter of fact, two senior boys were paddled while we
>were on the senior trip; fortunately I wasn't one of
>them. Principals swung the most paddles, but teachers
>did too. Even though a whipping in the principal's
>office was private, it could be heard up and down the
>hallway, and within fifteen minutes it seemed that
>everyone in the school knew who had been on the
>receiving end.
>
>I suppose it is possible that someone may have been
>paddled bare in a locker room, but I never heard about
>it. It didn't make much difference there because gym
>shorts offered mighty little protection.
>
>I know many will not agree with me today, but I for
>one appreciate the fact that my school years were
>spent in a school that made us behave. Everyone knew
>the rules, and everyone knew the likely consequences
>of their actions. I never once heard a recipient of a
>school spanking complain about unfairness.
>
>In those days teachers and principals didn't have to
>contact parents for permission to discipline nor did
>they need another professional to witness in the event
>someone would question the severity of the paddling.
>Perhaps this would not have been true had we lived in
>a city, but we were in a small town where everyone
>knew everyone else, and teachers were respected,
>important members of the community, and our parents
>entrusted them to do what was best for us which
>sometimes included spanking.

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Author:
Billy
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Date Posted: 03:13:45 09/07/10 Tue

Tom, it was the same at my school as yours, as I said in my previous post. It was either over pants or on hands with ruler, and always in class by teacher. But I am asking this because I have seen several posts on other forums where they say they were spanked with pants down in class during that time, so it is possible that it happened in some schools. Nearly all of the posters said it happened in junior classes, maybe up to 12 years at the most, and mostly during the fifties.
As you know it is difficult to tell what is fact and what is fantasy in forums like these, but I am still cutious to know if this type of spanking really happened in some schools in the past. Do you know of any official or historic sites where one can check this? Maybe the administration of this forum can help in this, and I would be very grateful if they do.

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Barbara to Billy
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Date Posted: 16:31:32 08/29/10 Sun

I was really referring to home punishments when using the bare method, but support public punishment in schools for both sexes.

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Billy to Barbara
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Date Posted: 13:20:55 08/31/10 Tue

>I was really referring to home punishments when using
>the bare method, but support public punishment in
>schools for both sexes.

Did you ever see bare punishments when you were at school?
I think this type of bare public punishment is more fit for juvenile crime as a deterrent for minors who see it and have criminal tendencies. At least if not entirely public it should be done in front of teenage schoolchildren and other witnesses to shame the boy for his crime and also show youngsters what will happen if they commit any serious crime.

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Author:
Sally
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Date Posted: 17:30:17 07/30/11 Sat

You can only spank a child so hard without leaving a mark and once a boy has reached age 12 or 13, he has learned to bear discomfort without protest.

However, at this age, you can reduce him to tears as I do my step-son. Drop his pants and underwear to the floor and make him place his hands on top of his head.

He may be able to bear the physical pain, but his "private" parts, now sprouting pubic hair and increasing in length and girth, will flop and jiggle like an airport wind sock.

After he had been suspended for fighting I once had him drop his pants and shorts, and proceeded to lecture him about fighting with other boys at school as he covered his penis and scrotum with his hands. I then had him remove his shirt, forcing his hands away from his modesty. I then had him place his hands on top of his head and when he asked, "Why?", I told him matter-of-factly that he never complained on pool outings that I was able to see his broad shoulders and well-defined chest and abdominals, so why should they be covered now?

He wept in humiliation as I walloped his backside and well he should have. For though he still didn't have to shave and his voice had a long way to go changing, he was a freak of nature and covering his mule-like genitals was out of the question.

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Author:
Ray
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Date Posted: 22:29:37 02/14/10 Sun

I can sympathize with your brother MAY. My mother would use embarassing threats of a bare bottom spanking when we were out visiting friends or family, or had the same at our house. She also followed through on her threat just often enough that the verbal threat never lost its potency. Starting at about age 9, I would have rather had 10 spankings in private than to get one in the livingroom in front of whoever was there.



>I've seen many posts on this type of forums where
>grown up kids, especially boys, are spanked in front
>of guests or friends from outside the family. Is this
>type of humiliation and embarassment, especially when
>spanked bare, fair or is it abuse?

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Author:
Mike
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Date Posted: 10:15:10 09/15/10 Wed

While growing up my younger brother was a victim of this sort of thing. I am the oldest, my sister 2 years younger than me and our little brother is 6 years younger than me and about 4 years younger than my sister. My sister and I were not spanked growing up, but my mom for whatever reason, used spanking to discipline my little brother. I think she got the idea from one her friends. I can remember from about when he was 6 and up to about 11 years old my mom would spank him when he misbehaved. When my sister turned about 11 she was allowed to have friends stay for the weekend and during the week in summer when school was out. I can remember many times my brother getting spanked bare butt with my sister and her friend watching, a few times she would have two friends over when he got it. It seemed though this did not affect him much until he turned about 9 and then he hated having those girls watch him get it. I was not present for all those spankings, but do remember some when the girls watched. When he was like 6 and 7, sometimes he would get a spanking before having to take his bath. Mom would take all his clothes off in front of the girls, he would get spanked and then go in the tub. I was about 13 then and could sense my sister's friend staring and enjoying every minute of what went on.

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Author:
Doris
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Date Posted: 13:57:35 01/11/11 Tue

Punishment surely should be embarrassing, and the worse the offence the more shameful the resulting penalty ought to be.

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Fran
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Date Posted: 06:20:47 03/12/11 Sat

Being spanked at all is an embarrasing experience in itself.
It is not necessary to expose anything. Some people expose the buttocks to be sure no injuries are inflicted, but that is more than enough, don't you agree?

Yet, from what I've seen here and on other boards. some
people use more exposure than that. Some go so far as to require full exposure. Some even require longer exposure after the punishment, and some even allow others to watch.

None of the extra enhancements seem justified. It is so humiliating and unnecessary. What purpose does it serve?
Have those who impose such humilation ever imagined how they would feel if they were punished that way?

Does anyone here agree or disagree?

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Author:
Joey
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Date Posted: 22:01:09 08/24/11 Wed

When I got punished at my very strict Christian elementary school, the embarassment was worse than the actual whipping. Having the class see you naked was agony. It felt like every eye was glued to my bare penis. Then the whipping started and all you could think about was the pain and when was it going to end. I think this was very abusive. They should have at least whipped us in private. Because they wanted everyone to see to keep everyone on their toes.

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Phil
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Date Posted: 08:55:21 11/10/11 Thu

I was frequently on the receiving end of a switch, which was wielded by my aunt, who thought embarrassment was as important as the actual switching. Whenever she decided I was to be punished, I was required to go into my room and take off all my clothes and put on my robe and slippers. Then, wearing only my robe and slippers, I was required to go out into the yard and pick a switch for her to use on me. This was always a very embarrassing task and I could always feel my face flushing, and ears burning as I was forced to venture out into the yard. It seemed to me that invariably the elderly neighbor lady would be working in her yard and witness me picking my switch, and she always flashed me a sort of knowing victory smile, which heightened my embarrassment even more. Once I had made the trip to the yard and fetched my switch I presented it to her and she gave it a quick examination to make sure it was stout enough for the job and then we proceeded into the bathroom where I was required to remove my robe and slippers and bend, totally naked, over the edge of the tub, with my head well down, bare bottom well up, and elbows resting on the inside of the tub. After a cursory lecture on my misdeeds, she would start in on my bottom with the switch, giving me a lick about every 5-10 seconds and working her way up and down my butt. She only struck me on the buttocks and never on the backs of my legs, but she sure did a job on my butt. I would always start to howl with the first few licks, but it didn't deter her one bit, and since our bathroom window faced the neighbor's yard, if there was any doubt on the part of the neighbor what the switch was for, that question was answered by the sounds coming from our bathroom.

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Phil (15,friends mom)
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Date Posted: 16:58:27 01/04/12 Wed


When I was 15 my parents went on a trip leaving me with my best friend and his family. I knew his mother was more strict---but was not ready for waht happened. My friend and went to a creek near our area--a shallow harmless creek. The ice was melting and so we got on ice flows and with sticks tried to upset the other guy---We were in no danger--So we got wet and came home.His mom went crazy! It would have caused he extra washing but the following was too much----She told Jim to get thge paddle and he did at once--as well as taking down his pants and underwear and hiking up his shirt and lay over his moms lap and she paddled his naked butt damn hard----I was next---I was totally humiliated she would see my naked butt (I was a big guy for 15) but I had to put my naked butt overe her lap and she paddled me as much as Jim--and it hurt like crazy. We then had stand in corners of his bedroom bare butt showing--til his dad came home to see if our butts were paddled enough. I was surprised his dad just laughed and said we had enough. The rest of the evening was fine---We playede cards and Jim and his mom were laughing and talking as if nothing happened---I was literally sick from embarrassment but had to play along until finally I asked to go to bed! It is 50 yrs ago and I still recall the humiliation of putting my naked butt over her lap and gewtting a paddling like a 5 yr old---for my friend Jim, it seemed nothing traumatic---We both ahd very red buuts!

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Author:
Ronnie
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Date Posted: 11:09:52 02/07/12 Tue

I am sure your freinds mom saw more than butt as you pulled down your underwear and had to get up and pull them up again? She also must have spanked real hard for you to cry and did you do the spanking dance?


>When I was 15 my parents went on a trip leaving me
>with my best friend and his family. I knew his mother
>was more strict---but was not ready for waht happened.
>My friend and went to a creek near our area--a shallow
>harmless creek. The ice was melting and so we got on
>ice flows and with sticks tried to upset the other
>guy---We were in no danger--So we got wet and came
>home.His mom went crazy! It would have caused he
>extra washing but the following was too much----She
>told Jim to get thge paddle and he did at once--as
>well as taking down his pants and underwear and hiking
>up his shirt and lay over his moms lap and she paddled
>his naked butt damn hard----I was next---I was totally
>humiliated she would see my naked butt (I was a big
>guy for 15) but I had to put my naked butt overe her
>lap and she paddled me as much as Jim--and it hurt
>like crazy. We then had stand in corners of his
>bedroom bare butt showing--til his dad came home to
>see if our butts were paddled enough. I was surprised
>his dad just laughed and said we had enough. The rest
>of the evening was fine---We playede cards and Jim and
>his mom were laughing and talking as if nothing
>happened---I was literally sick from embarrassment
>but had to play along until finally I asked to go to
>bed! It is 50 yrs ago and I still recall the
>humiliation of putting my naked butt over her lap and
>gewtting a paddling like a 5 yr old---for my friend
>Jim, it seemed nothing traumatic---We both ahd very
>red buuts!

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Author:
Mom of 3
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Date Posted: 08:17:27 02/01/12 Wed

I don't think it is necessary to spank in front of anyone outside of the family. Our spankings are usually in private unless the kids have gotten in trouble together, than the are spanked together.

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