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] Date Posted: 03:14:57 10/12/12 Fri In reply to: Anna 's message, "Re: Spanking a bare bottom in front of the family" on 16:40:36 10/10/12 Wed Anna, yes I am the one who usually gives the spanking. My husband also spanks. All spankings in or house are given with pants pulled down and with the hairbrush. Used the hand when the kids were younger and switched to the hairbrush as they got older. I've found myself spanking less as they get older, maybe once a month or so. Do you have to spank often? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 20:28:34 10/12/12 Fri Thanks for your answer. No I try and use spanking very sparingly so Daniel doesn't get too used to it. I also prefer to take down his underpants myself because I feel this is very symbolic of my authority over him, and I take them down slowly while I continue to lecture him. |
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Author: Sandy [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 03:48:17 10/13/12 Sat Anna, I guess my approach and yours are similar. I have always felt that spanking has a place in discipline and have tried not to use it to often for I guess the same reason as you. At times they have been spanked together but not recently and I try not to spank in front of others as I believe it should be done in private. I have the kids pull down their pants and undies, that way I feel they are taking part in their spankings. |
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Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 11:37:17 10/25/12 Thu Thanks Sandy. I would like to hear from other moms or stepmothers who punish their sons on the bare backside in front of the family. I think it is very useful method when the boy is in his teens as the embarrassment is worse than the spanking itself, and saves a lot of time with repeated (less effective) punishments in private. I have not punished my boy for quite a while now :) |
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Author: Alice [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 13:41:53 10/29/12 Mon Yes, we do discipline my stepson bare bottom -- I know he finds it embarassing to have his dangly bits exposed in front of the family, but I say that if he didn't want his butt spanked, then he shouldn't have broken the rules! >Thanks Sandy. I would like to hear from other moms or >stepmothers who punish their sons on the bare backside >in front of the family. I think it is very useful >method when the boy is in his teens as the >embarrassment is worse than the spanking itself, and >saves a lot of time with repeated (less effective) >punishments in private. I have not punished my boy for >quite a while now :) |
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Author: Mathew [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 22:35:40 11/10/12 Sat My mum has told me to write a message on this forum about my punishment and why I was punished. I was punished for disrespectful behaviour, for telling lies, and for bunking off school. I have bunked off school and lied to my mum before and been punished for it by my dad in my room, and then another time bent over the table in the living room. I used to be punished with my dad's slipper on my pyjama pants. My punishment last week was different and much worse than before. Mum punished me instead and she and my dad agreed on my punishment being with my pants off. I am still embarrassed because everyone saw my bare bottom. I have three sister and they all saw which really made this extra shameful. My mum used her hairbrush and that really didn't sting as bad as the slipper but it was a lot worse because I was bare. I managed not to cry and when mum had finished smacking me I was allowed to pull my pyjama pants on and then leave the room. I felt very ashamed. If I do not improve my behaviour and skip school again my mum tells me I will not only be punished bare again I will have to do corner time as well, and that means I will stand with my hands on head in front of the mantelpiece for one hour with no pants on in front of my dad and my sisters. My mum says that half of my corner time will be facing the wall, and half will be spent facing the room. That is to awful to think about, but mum says that is what will happen if I am punished for skipping school again. |
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Author: Mary [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 10:46:47 11/12/12 Mon >My mum has told me to write a message on this forum >about my punishment and why I was punished. I was >punished for disrespectful behaviour, for telling >lies, and for bunking off school. I have bunked off >school and lied to my mum before and been punished for >it by my dad in my room, and then another time bent >over the table in the living room. I used to be >punished with my dad's slipper on my pyjama pants. >My punishment last week was different and much worse >than before. Mum punished me instead and she and my >dad agreed on my punishment being with my pants off. I >am still embarrassed because everyone saw my bare >bottom. I have three sister and they all saw which >really made this extra shameful. My mum used her >hairbrush and that really didn't sting as bad as the >slipper but it was a lot worse because I was bare. >I managed not to cry and when mum had finished >smacking me I was allowed to pull my pyjama pants on >and then leave the room. I felt very ashamed. >If I do not improve my behaviour and skip school again >my mum tells me I will not only be punished bare again >I will have to do corner time as well, and that means >I will stand with my hands on head in front of the >mantelpiece for one hour with no pants on in front of >my dad and my sisters. My mum says that half of my >corner time will be facing the wall, and half will be >spent facing the room. That is to awful to think >about, but mum says that is what will happen if I am >punished for skipping school again. Matthew: Why are you missing school? Perhaps a councilor will be able to help you? Are you having problems with other students or teachers. If you are you should discuss this with your parents. |
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Author: Anna to Mathew [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 14:52:24 11/12/12 Mon Well then young man, you had better mend your ways hadn't you? Your mother is clearly very wise and knows what punishments are effective. I should point out that a half hour will seem like an eternity if you have to stand facing the room with your hands on top of your head without any underpants on. Just think young Mathew, what your three sisters will be able to see. and your mother of course. You will wish you had listened to her warnings. Think about that. |
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Author: Anna to Mathew [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 18:11:30 11/23/12 Fri Well Mathew, what a pity you didn't heed your mother's words. She is a very good mom to have followed through with the punishment that she warned you about. It's not easy for moms either you know. I'm sure you're feeling very embarrassed but that is worth it if it makes you sit up and take notice of what your mom is trying to tell you. |
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Author: Anna to Mathew [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 14:56:09 11/12/12 Mon May I also direct your attention to the thread on this forum entitled 'Boys Punished With Their Willies Showing'. Food for thought Mathew! |
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Author: Mathew [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 16:54:34 11/21/12 Wed I am writing this under my mum's instructions to explain why I had to be punished yesterday evening. My mum was disappointed that I did not learn my lesson last time and that I chose to defy her again. I did not go to school on Monday and my mum found out because she is not stupid like I seem to think. I am lazy and foolish to think school is not important. It is extremely important and I will do better in the future. People often don't feel like going to work especially on a Monday but they do because they know it is the right thing and they are responsible not just for themselves but for their families as well. My mum punished me just like she promised she would if I missed school again. In the living room I had to take off my pyjama pants and underneath I was wearing nothing. My mum made me stand in front of the mantelpiece just like she had warned me. For the first half hour I had to face the wall with my t-shirt raised half way up my back and my whole bare bottom was showing. Then after half an hour my mum made me turn around and face the room. This was the worst part of my punishment and I feel extremely embarrassed as my dad and my sisters were all present as well. I spent half an hour facing the room with my willy exposed. I now wish I had listened to my mum as I will in future. My mum punished me with the slipper like my dad uses because she knows that the hairbrush didn't hurt as much last time I was punished. I will do as my mum says in future because my punishment was so embarrassing I never want to have the same ordeal again. |
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Author: Allen [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 12:32:48 11/23/12 Fri > >I am writing this under my mum's instructions to >explain why I had to be punished yesterday evening. >My mum was disappointed that I did not learn my lesson >last time and that I chose to defy her again. >I did not go to school on Monday and my mum found out >because she is not stupid like I seem to think. >I am lazy and foolish to think school is not >important. It is extremely important and I will do >better in the future. >People often don't feel like going to work especially >on a Monday but they do because they know it is the >right thing and they are responsible not just for >themselves but for their families as well. >My mum punished me just like she promised she would if >I missed school again. In the living room I had to >take off my pyjama pants and underneath I was wearing >nothing. My mum made me stand in front of the >mantelpiece just like she had warned me. For the first >half hour I had to face the wall with my t-shirt >raised half way up my back and my whole bare bottom >was showing. Then after half an hour my mum made me >turn around and face the room. This was the worst part >of my punishment and I feel extremely embarrassed as >my dad and my sisters were all present as well. I >spent half an hour facing the room with my willy >exposed. I now wish I had listened to my mum as I will >in future. >My mum punished me with the slipper like my dad uses >because she knows that the hairbrush didn't hurt as >much last time I was punished. >I will do as my mum says in future because my >punishment was so embarrassing I never want to have >the same ordeal again. Of course you will do as your mum says, ummmm .... until the next time. I always said the same thing myself but always found myself standing there all exposed with mom lecturing and my sisters giggling. |
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Author: Sandy [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 02:59:50 11/28/12 Wed I guess I don't understand all the fuss. If a spanking has to be given then it should be carried out. |
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Author: Donna (Embarrassed Still) [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 14:57:43 05/06/13 Mon My nanna always gave bare bottom spankings. I would fight, beg and plead everytime I messed up and knew I was gonna get one, but she never backed down. Once her and my uncle were watching tv in the family room. I came in and was being disruptive I guess during their program. She called me to her, unbuttoned my jeans and pulled them down along with my panties. I was so humiliated because my uncle didn't do a good job of pretending he wasn't watching the whole thing. Nanna pulled me across her lap with my bottom facing Uncle Roy. She gave me several hard smacks. I was squirming and kicking so I know Uncle Roy got a good view between my legs. This has been several yrs ago & I still can't look my Uncle in the eye. So embarrassing...; |
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Author: john pretzel [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 04:16:26 08/21/13 Wed I have on occassions spanked our daughter with her skirt up and knickers down in the family room in front of her mother and her brother. It is done after dinner and takes about half an hour. I then make her do corner time and when she goes to bed apologise to the family for spoiling the evening. Yeas it is humuliating for her but that is part of the punishment. My wife punishes our son in a similar manner. I think a good bare bottom spanking especially with humiliation is a good deterent. |
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Author: Brucie [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 12:03:21 12/26/12 Wed >Thanks for your answer. No I try and use spanking very >sparingly so Daniel doesn't get too used to it. I also >prefer to take down his underpants myself because I >feel this is very symbolic of my authority over him, >and I take them down slowly while I continue to >lecture him. I commend your excellence of execution, Anna. I couldn't possibly agree more with your handling of your son's underpants and the reasoning behind it. For the moment, at least, his naughty bottom has become the centre of the universe, and your authority over its immediate fate is supreme. I'm also very impressed by your wish to keep the spanking experience from becoming too familiar to your son. But when his bottom does need warming, there's no question you assume complete control and make it a uniquely memorable event, just as a good old-fashioned, bare bottom spanking was intended to be. |
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Author: Leeroy (mad) [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 10:08:18 08/15/13 Thu Thats not right. Seeing someone privates is not necessary because its thier business. And also why is everyone talking mostly about boys? I feel bad for anyone that has experienced it as I did myself. I can kinda see where some people are coming from but taking down your son underpants is kinda too much. All is shows to them is that you dont care about respect. When you experience pain it is very personal and in front of people is embarassing enough with being exposed. emBARE-ASSing is a NO. |
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