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Subject: Punishment for disobedient daughter


Author:
Lisa Vant
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Date Posted: 17:24:48 07/17/12 Tue

My daughter, Sky, is dating a good friend's son. My friend and I approve of the relationship (neither father is in the picture); however, we asked the teens (they're both 17) to wait before sleeping with each other. We learned recently that they have disobeyed and slept together several times. My daughter is familiar with corporal punishment, as is my friend's son. My friend and I don't feel that a spanking will cut it for disciplinary action in this case. Does anyone have any idea how we can really make an impression on these two teens?

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Author:
Suzie
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Date Posted: 09:08:58 07/22/12 Sun

Dear Lisa, so sorry to hear this, you must be so disappointed, and of course angry.
How about the cane Lisa? Have you considered that? It certainly would be capable of giving them both the needed punishment.
At 17, they both need some severe punishment I think. This sexual behavior absolutely must be stopped.

Suzie

>My daughter, Sky, is dating a good friend's son. My
>friend and I approve of the relationship (neither
>father is in the picture); however, we asked the teens
>(they're both 17) to wait before sleeping with each
>other. We learned recently that they have disobeyed
>and slept together several times. My daughter is
>familiar with corporal punishment, as is my friend's
>son. My friend and I don't feel that a spanking will
>cut it for disciplinary action in this case. Does
>anyone have any idea how we can really make an
>impression on these two teens?

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Author:
Lisa
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Date Posted: 13:43:55 07/29/12 Sun

Dear Suzie, thank you for your sympathy. I am quite disappointed. Sorry for the delay in responding. My daughter and I had to be out of town, so my friend and I agreed to postpone punishment until we were back in town and I had heard from some of you folks. We lectured both teens enough before they started dating and enough after the discovery that further talking will do nothing. Consequences are need. The cane is a good idea. While I have used corporal punishment before, I have never used the cane. What are your suggestions for a caning that will do the situation justice? What should the cane be made of, and how big should it be? I want to make sure this never happens again. My friend will punish her son according to the advice I receive. They will be punished together and naked. If you have any other advice for the punishment for either teen, it would be appreciated. Thank you very much!
Lisa
>Dear Lisa, so sorry to hear this, you must be so
>disappointed, and of course angry.
>How about the cane Lisa? Have you considered that? It
>certainly would be capable of giving them both the
>needed punishment.
>At 17, they both need some severe punishment I think.
>This sexual behavior absolutely must be stopped.
>
>Suzie
>
>>My daughter, Sky, is dating a good friend's son. My
>>friend and I approve of the relationship (neither
>>father is in the picture); however, we asked the teens
>>(they're both 17) to wait before sleeping with each
>>other. We learned recently that they have disobeyed
>>and slept together several times. My daughter is
>>familiar with corporal punishment, as is my friend's
>>son. My friend and I don't feel that a spanking will
>>cut it for disciplinary action in this case. Does
>>anyone have any idea how we can really make an
>>impression on these two teens?

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Author:
Lisa
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Date Posted: 22:23:56 08/01/12 Wed

Dear Suzie, I should also mention that we have told our children that punishment will not take place until we have decided on something suitable. For now, they may not see each other or communicate with each other. After the punishment, they will not be allowed to be alone together anywhere until we have decided that we can trust them again (and they were never supposed to be alone in a house together - that rule will remain unchanged). To their credit, the teens do understand that they deserve to be punished, even though they are not looking forward to it. I hope that the dread and the fear of the unkown will be a further lesson. However, they do seem truly repentant, so as long as they receive serious punishment, I do not think there will be a repeat of this event. I think we will use at least the cane. I have been doing some research. How do you feel about spanking - shall we say non-traditional - areas? Thanks again for your advice.
Lisa
>Dear Lisa, so sorry to hear this, you must be so
>disappointed, and of course angry.
>How about the cane Lisa? Have you considered that? It
>certainly would be capable of giving them both the
>needed punishment.
>At 17, they both need some severe punishment I think.
>This sexual behavior absolutely must be stopped.
>
>Suzie
>
>>My daughter, Sky, is dating a good friend's son. My
>>friend and I approve of the relationship (neither
>>father is in the picture); however, we asked the teens
>>(they're both 17) to wait before sleeping with each
>>other. We learned recently that they have disobeyed
>>and slept together several times. My daughter is
>>familiar with corporal punishment, as is my friend's
>>son. My friend and I don't feel that a spanking will
>>cut it for disciplinary action in this case. Does
>>anyone have any idea how we can really make an
>>impression on these two teens?

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Author:
Beth
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Date Posted: 10:13:42 08/02/12 Thu

Lisa
I know your message was addressing Suzie. But I hope you won't mind my jumping in. First let me congratulate you, I can't tell you how pleased I am to see there are still parents out there who are prepared to stand firm on matters of inappropriate sexual behavior. And your daughter has obviously been brought up well, since she accepts that she needs to be punished.
I was interested by your query:
>How do you feel about spanking - shall we say
>non-traditional - areas?
I am guessing your use of the euphemism "spanking non-traditional areas" means you are considering giving your daughter Sky a spanking on her vulva (and I presume your friend is also considering similar type of spanking for her son).
Spanking on the genitals seems perfectly suited to this type of misbehavior - (ie let the punishment fit the crime?)
Growing up in the 1950s, I can tell you it was not uncommon for mothers to spank girls there, as well as on the bottom. There seems a resurgance in the popularity of this in recent times!
Given that your daughter is 17 and admits she needs to be spanked I think it appropriate that she be told of your intentions to spank her vulva and require her to submit willingly to punishment on the offending part.

Keep us posted on how you decide to proceed.

Beth

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Author:
Alex
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Date Posted: 00:02:10 08/05/12 Sun

Lisa,

I am not one to judge the severity of the infraction. But for serious infractions, especially of a sexual nature, strong punishment of a girl's genitals can be a serious and productive attitude corrector. (It is much more dangerous with males, however.) Getting a teenage girl, even an obedient one, to hold herself in position to have such a punishment can be a bit of a challenge, but if it is a two person operation, or if you put her in certain positions, it can be fairly easy.

>Dear Suzie, I should also mention that we have told
>our children that punishment will not take place until
>we have decided on something suitable. For now, they
>may not see each other or communicate with each other.
>After the punishment, they will not be allowed to be
>alone together anywhere until we have decided that we
>can trust them again (and they were never supposed to
>be alone in a house together - that rule will remain
>unchanged). To their credit, the teens do understand
>that they deserve to be punished, even though they are
>not looking forward to it. I hope that the dread and
>the fear of the unkown will be a further lesson.
>However, they do seem truly repentant, so as long as
>they receive serious punishment, I do not think there
>will be a repeat of this event. I think we will use at
>least the cane. I have been doing some research. How
>do you feel about spanking - shall we say
>non-traditional - areas? Thanks again for your advice.
>Lisa
>>Dear Lisa, so sorry to hear this, you must be so
>>disappointed, and of course angry.
>>How about the cane Lisa? Have you considered that? It
>>certainly would be capable of giving them both the
>>needed punishment.
>>At 17, they both need some severe punishment I think.
>>This sexual behavior absolutely must be stopped.
>>
>>Suzie
>>
>>>My daughter, Sky, is dating a good friend's son. My
>>>friend and I approve of the relationship (neither
>>>father is in the picture); however, we asked the
>teens
>>>(they're both 17) to wait before sleeping with each
>>>other. We learned recently that they have disobeyed
>>>and slept together several times. My daughter is
>>>familiar with corporal punishment, as is my friend's
>>>son. My friend and I don't feel that a spanking will
>>>cut it for disciplinary action in this case. Does
>>>anyone have any idea how we can really make an
>>>impression on these two teens?

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Author:
Gina
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Date Posted: 18:39:55 07/24/12 Tue

My advice is do not seek to punish them. Say instead that although you would prefer they abstained, you realise that the decision is ultimately hers.

Make sure she is safe, but remind her that even with precautions pregnancy can still occur and she must accept this is possible. Tell her that if she does become pregnant you will support her but that it is best she tells you if that occurs.

However remind her that it is best for a child if both parents commit to marriage and form a secure family unit together. Would she be prepared to marry this young man? Would he be prepared to marry her if pregnancy occurred? If the answer to either question is in doubt then she should truly think again about having sexual relations with him.

They can still date, and be friends even without sex, but new rules would need to apply on her terms. In other words a cooling down of the relationship. If he is serious about her, he will wait until they are married.

Write this all down first and discuss each point calmly with her. You must not make yourself her opponent, or her boyfriend's opponent, as that will only close down communication between you - the exact opposite of what is needed.

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Author:
Mrs A F
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Date Posted: 12:21:46 07/25/12 Wed

That is one root, but clearly they already disobeyed their parents and shown no regard for their authority or their rules. I would advocate a harsh dose of reality for them both. I suggest have both families get together and have the boy and girl stand before you all in the nude. The boy should be brought forward and all attention drawn to his penis. You should lecture then that this is what teenage boys think with, not their brains. Then you must stimulate his penis and make him erect. Point out that this is what boys care about, it is not love, and is responsible for much of the trouble in the world. If you posses a massager wand or similar use this to stimulate him until he cums. Show her his ejaculant on a tissue and state how this will be resonsible for much misery in her life unless she learns to say no. Then I advocate a hard paddling for both of their bare bottoms until they cry.
Sorry but that is how I would handle this. My own boy was sexually irresponsible at a young age, but I stopped it alright when I discovered what he was doing.

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Author:
Daniels
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Date Posted: 03:50:39 08/21/12 Tue

I have a rule I use for punishment of my teenage daughter. Besides a sound spanking with both hand and belt, whenever she puts something objectionable in her body, like pot, drugs or a penis (sperm) I flush her out completely with a series of punishment enemas. These are not of the normal medical type, but instead follow the rule of the three HHH's. High, hot an hell of a lot. I suggest you try this on both teens at the same time, of course with each mother administering the disciple to their own child, although swithching kids might even be more humilitating and efective.

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Author:
alex
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Date Posted: 20:13:46 09/21/12 Fri

Lisa,

Any update?

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Author:
2old4that
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Date Posted: 13:09:56 09/22/12 Sat

They should both be given two cuts of the cane on their bare bottoms. After the sting dies down. make them spank each other. It should be a serious spanking with a paddle or hairbrush resulting in tears and crying.
After the spankings, the on who in your opinion received the lightest punishment should receive 6 of the best. (Administered by one of you)

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Author:
Suzie
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Date Posted: 13:19:10 09/25/12 Tue

I think we need to listen to Mrs A F - she stopped her boy, and this boy needs to be stopped - all sexual activity stopped, and now.

Suzie



>My daughter, Sky, is dating a good friend's son. My
>friend and I approve of the relationship (neither
>father is in the picture); however, we asked the teens
>(they're both 17) to wait before sleeping with each
>other. We learned recently that they have disobeyed
>and slept together several times. My daughter is
>familiar with corporal punishment, as is my friend's
>son. My friend and I don't feel that a spanking will
>cut it for disciplinary action in this case. Does
>anyone have any idea how we can really make an
>impression on these two teens?

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Author:
Missy76
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Date Posted: 11:58:32 11/22/12 Thu

Our mom was maybe not the strictest, but being whipped with a belt, a hairbrush or both on our genitals was the norm - not the exception. We were not allowed to date until we were 18 and even then were boys only allowed when mom was home with us. And only in common areas, not our bedrooms. I was caught one night giving my boyfriend an all-nude lap-dance in our bedroom. Mom surprised us and it was "spanking time with mommy". I was not allowed to put my clothes back on and we had to go into the kitchen. I had to bend over the table and mother started to punish me on my behind with a bath-brush. Then she stopped, but not because I was pleading for her to stop. She took a wooden stick out of a wall calender and kept on using that on my behind. Then I had to lay on the kitchen table and spread my legs. I received at least twenty strokes on my genitals, before she stopped and asked if I wanted to show her how to do it and give him another lap-dance. After he had left, she made me put some arthritis cream or something like that put on it. Then I had to put on very tight jeans, and had to wear them throughout the night and the next day. My sex was sore and burning for days.

>My daughter, Sky, is dating a good friend's son. My
>friend and I approve of the relationship (neither
>father is in the picture); however, we asked the teens
>(they're both 17) to wait before sleeping with each
>other. We learned recently that they have disobeyed
>and slept together several times. My daughter is
>familiar with corporal punishment, as is my friend's
>son. My friend and I don't feel that a spanking will
>cut it for disciplinary action in this case. Does
>anyone have any idea how we can really make an
>impression on these two teens?

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Author:
SF
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Date Posted: 06:12:52 11/26/12 Mon

That is just terrible - you're 18, fully grown, by any argument your mother has lost any entitlement to any say over your sex life.

>Our mom was maybe not the strictest, but being whipped
>with a belt, a hairbrush or both on our genitals was
>the norm - not the exception. We were not allowed to
>date until we were 18 and even then were boys only
>allowed when mom was home with us. And only in common
>areas, not our bedrooms. I was caught one night giving
>my boyfriend an all-nude lap-dance in our bedroom. Mom
>surprised us and it was "spanking time with mommy". I
>was not allowed to put my clothes back on and we had
>to go into the kitchen. I had to bend over the table
>and mother started to punish me on my behind with a
>bath-brush. Then she stopped, but not because I was
>pleading for her to stop. She took a wooden stick out
>of a wall calender and kept on using that on my
>behind. Then I had to lay on the kitchen table and
>spread my legs. I received at least twenty strokes on
>my genitals, before she stopped and asked if I wanted
>to show her how to do it and give him another
>lap-dance. After he had left, she made me put some
>arthritis cream or something like that put on it. Then
>I had to put on very tight jeans, and had to wear them
>throughout the night and the next day. My sex was sore
>and burning for days.
>
>>My daughter, Sky, is dating a good friend's son. My
>>friend and I approve of the relationship (neither
>>father is in the picture); however, we asked the teens
>>(they're both 17) to wait before sleeping with each
>>other. We learned recently that they have disobeyed
>>and slept together several times. My daughter is
>>familiar with corporal punishment, as is my friend's
>>son. My friend and I don't feel that a spanking will
>>cut it for disciplinary action in this case. Does
>>anyone have any idea how we can really make an
>>impression on these two teens?

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Author:
Marzi
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Date Posted: 19:47:57 11/26/12 Mon

OUCH and YUCK......sorta know the feeling.....I HATE HATE HATE being spanked with the evil plastic bath brush more than anything!

Marzi






>Our mom was maybe not the strictest, but being whipped
>with a belt, a hairbrush or both on our genitals was
>the norm - not the exception. We were not allowed to
>date until we were 18 and even then were boys only
>allowed when mom was home with us. And only in common
>areas, not our bedrooms. I was caught one night giving
>my boyfriend an all-nude lap-dance in our bedroom. Mom
>surprised us and it was "spanking time with mommy". I
>was not allowed to put my clothes back on and we had
>to go into the kitchen. I had to bend over the table
>and mother started to punish me on my behind with a
>bath-brush. Then she stopped, but not because I was
>pleading for her to stop. She took a wooden stick out
>of a wall calender and kept on using that on my
>behind. Then I had to lay on the kitchen table and
>spread my legs. I received at least twenty strokes on
>my genitals, before she stopped and asked if I wanted
>to show her how to do it and give him another
>lap-dance. After he had left, she made me put some
>arthritis cream or something like that put on it. Then
>I had to put on very tight jeans, and had to wear them
>throughout the night and the next day. My sex was sore
>and burning for days.
>
>>My daughter, Sky, is dating a good friend's son. My
>>friend and I approve of the relationship (neither
>>father is in the picture); however, we asked the teens
>>(they're both 17) to wait before sleeping with each
>>other. We learned recently that they have disobeyed
>>and slept together several times. My daughter is
>>familiar with corporal punishment, as is my friend's
>>son. My friend and I don't feel that a spanking will
>>cut it for disciplinary action in this case. Does
>>anyone have any idea how we can really make an
>>impression on these two teens?

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Author:
Missy76
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Date Posted: 11:53:08 12/02/12 Sun

My bad - When I did the lap dance I was 16 not 18. I should have included that.
I should note also, that mom never punished us like that for trivial stuff. I have heard from other women, who were punished on their genitals because they were caught masturbating or something like that. Both my sister and I became sexually very active around 13 or 14. It was mom's way to put a stop to this. Today that I am older, I have become to appreciate why I was punished and where she punished me.


>Our mom was maybe not the strictest, but being whipped
>with a belt, a hairbrush or both on our genitals was
>the norm - not the exception. We were not allowed to
>date until we were 18 and even then were boys only
>allowed when mom was home with us. And only in common
>areas, not our bedrooms. I was caught one night giving
>my boyfriend an all-nude lap-dance in our bedroom. Mom
>surprised us and it was "spanking time with mommy". I
>was not allowed to put my clothes back on and we had
>to go into the kitchen. I had to bend over the table
>and mother started to punish me on my behind with a
>bath-brush. Then she stopped, but not because I was
>pleading for her to stop. She took a wooden stick out
>of a wall calender and kept on using that on my
>behind. Then I had to lay on the kitchen table and
>spread my legs. I received at least twenty strokes on
>my genitals, before she stopped and asked if I wanted
>to show her how to do it and give him another
>lap-dance. After he had left, she made me put some
>arthritis cream or something like that put on it. Then
>I had to put on very tight jeans, and had to wear them
>throughout the night and the next day. My sex was sore
>and burning for days.
>
>>My daughter, Sky, is dating a good friend's son. My
>>friend and I approve of the relationship (neither
>>father is in the picture); however, we asked the teens
>>(they're both 17) to wait before sleeping with each
>>other. We learned recently that they have disobeyed
>>and slept together several times. My daughter is
>>familiar with corporal punishment, as is my friend's
>>son. My friend and I don't feel that a spanking will
>>cut it for disciplinary action in this case. Does
>>anyone have any idea how we can really make an
>>impression on these two teens?

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Author:
John
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Date Posted: 23:32:20 11/30/12 Fri

These kids need to get the worst spanking of their lives, and the typical paddle or belt won't cut it, especially if that's what you're already using. When I was young my Dad had a horse whip that he would use for severe spankings. I only got it once (on the bare) but it was definitely the worst pain I've ever felt. See if you can't find or borrow a leather whip to use for the spanking. Just the thought if it being available might stop future misbehavior before it happens.

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