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Subject: What makes a spanking memorable to you?


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Dan
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Date Posted: 17:29:47 10/20/17 Fri

What makes a spanking memorable for you? I have been recounting a lot of my memorable spankings on this forum and I was thinking about why they were memorable to me. I mean I got a lot of spankings so there are lot that I don’t remember the details and they don’t really stand out. There are others that I can remember like they happened yesterday.

For me I think the things that make them stand out are:
1. When they were the first with someone who hadn’t spanked me before, especially if they did a good job at 😊. In general, many spankings from people other than my parents tended to be memorable (unless they were just a few swats).
2. When I was spanked with others.
3. When I got spanked multiple times to drill the lesson home. I think those were intended to memorable and apparently the mission was accomplished.
4. When they were much more severe than what I normally received.

The ones I gave my son that trigger recollections of my spankings that were memorable also stand out to me.

I am sure there are other factors but those stand out to me. What about you?

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Jimmy J
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Date Posted: 16:28:37 10/29/17 Sun

Dan, the things that make certain spankings stand out in my memory more than others is very similar to what you’ve just laid out. #1, anytime I was spanked by someone other than my parents. This was not very common and certainly was embarrassing. #2 I would have to say, would be times where I felt I really deserved it, or times where I felt I didn’t deserve it at all. #3 would be unusual severity, and #4 would be the times I got multiple spankings for one misdeed.

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[> Subject: Re: What makes a spanking memorable to you?


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Jay
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Date Posted: 21:38:16 10/29/17 Sun

For me, I'd say:

1.First time with a new implement. Remember my first paddle and belt spankings really well.

2. Tend to remember the details of spankings when I was older better than when I was younger. Probably because, they were somewhat less frequent and stood out more, and probably because, well, you just remember better when you get older.

3.) Spankings from folks other than my parents . . . school spankings, etc.

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Jer
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Date Posted: 22:20:59 10/30/17 Mon

The one that stands out the most vividly in my memory was my last one, when I was 10. And actually I really don't remember that spanking itself so much as what lead up to it and what followed it.

My mother spanked me, pretty severely, unjustly and, out of spite, I refused to cry or show any sign of contrition. After she was finished I simply glared at her. I think she found that disturbing; that I refused to cry or show any indication that it hurt and was obviously quite angry when she had finished. My older sister was present at the time and I could tell she knew something dark had just happened and she didn't know how to deal with it either.

For days I didn't speak to her except when it was required.
She made no attempt to repair the rift she had caused...and I never hugged my mother again.

So that was pretty memorable.

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[> Subject: Re: What makes a spanking memorable to you?


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Cassandra
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Date Posted: 18:24:58 10/31/17 Tue

For me, it would be when it's somewhat different from other ones.

The first time I got paddled by my aunt was pretty memorable especially since I got more swats than my two cousins.

Same with the first time I was spanked bare bottom. I still remember the feeling of having my panties pulled down.

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Jimmy J
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Date Posted: 14:13:08 11/01/17 Wed

Cassandra, did you get more swats than your cousins because you were more culpable? Also, you mentioned that it was the first time you were paddled by your aunt. How many times did it happen, and how was it administered? Did you get in trouble with your parents later? And what were the circumstances of your first bare bottom spanking? (Mine were almost always bare!)

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Cassandra
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Date Posted: 20:25:46 11/01/17 Wed

"did you get more swats than your cousins because you were more culpable?"

Yes. It was for going to a place we weren't supposed to go, and it was my idea. I confessed to this. She thought that since I had been the ringleader in breaking her rule, I should get punished more, and my cousins should get it for following along knowing they weren't allowed to go.

"How many times did it happen, and how was it administered?"

Only a couple more times. As for how she did it, I had to take down my pants and bend over standing up. Got five licks. The other two times were the same, but bent over a chair.

"Did you get in trouble with your parents later?"

Other than the "what were you thinking?" look, no. They figured I had already been punished.

"what were the circumstances of your first bare bottom spanking?"

It was for sneaking out past curfew and going to a party. My mom did the usual ritual of making me take off my pants and lay over her lap, but then told me I would get this one bare and lowered my panties off my bottom. Spanked me with a hairbrush.

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Gary Steven
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Date Posted: 11:26:07 11/02/17 Thu

Cassandra, if you don't mind my asking. You said you got your first bare bottom spanking for breaking curfew. How old were you at the time? I got my last spanking from my mother at fifteen (which as always was done on the bare bottom) for coming in two hours late. My sister who was ten at the time and I came in together and she spanked us both bare with a flyswatter in the kitchen bent over a chair. My sister got spanked first and then I got mine.

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Cassandra
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Date Posted: 14:54:49 11/02/17 Thu

I don't mine, Gary.

I was 12 at the time.

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Gary Steven
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Date Posted: 06:47:34 02/15/20 Sat

We had curfews growing up with bare bottom spankings and sometimes grounding as the punishment.

We had to be in at dinnertime for sure unless there was a good excuse. My dad got home from work about 6:30 and we were expected to be in and ready for dinner when he got home otherwise, mom spanked our bare butts right there at the dinner table. When the weather allowed, we were allowed to go back out after dinner, and had to be home when it was getting dark. In the summer when it was daylight savings time, that allowed us at least two or three hours. In the winter, not so much.

In our teens, when we were old enough to go running around or dating. The curfew was extended to 11 pm on weeknights unless it was a school function or a chaperoned event. Midnight on Friday and Saturday nights. We could come in later without consequence, if we either said the event would run late and gave an approximate time or if we stopped and called to let them know we would be late. My sister was a chronic offender for coming in late even at sixteen or seventeen and on several occasions found herself across mom's lap getting a good dose of the hairbrush on her bare bottom in the living room. She also had an unfortunate habit of back talking which not only led to getting extra swats, but grounded as well.

As for me, the last time I got spanked for coming in late was at fifteen when my sister and I came in after dinnertime and hadn't told Mom where we were going. We were nearly two hours late and Mom was NOT happy. She already had the flyswatter in her hand when we walked in the door. After a royal chewing out, my ten year old sister had to bare her bottom and lay across a chair mom had pulled away from the table. Mom really wore her out good while she kicked and cried. Then it was my turn. I only pulled down my pants when she told me to, leaving my underwear up (I knew better). She literally forced me over the chair and wore my underwear covered butt out. Then dragged me back up on my feet, chewed me out again about not baring my butt when I was supposed to, made me pull my underwear down, then pushed me back across the chair and spanked my now bare butt even longer and harder than the first spanking. After she finished, we pulled our pants back up and sat down to dinner. It was a very unpleasant experience, sitting on those hard wood chairs eating a now cold dinner. With sore, burning bottoms. She also told us, the next time we would get it with the belt.

I got threat of a spanking for coming in past curfew a couple of times at sixteen and seventeen and ALMOST, got it with the belt when I was nineteen for coming in drunk at 2am. When I woke up later that morning, I was literally standing in my room pulling down my pants and underwear while while mom stood with my belt in her hand. I managed to say something which made her laugh and she didn't spank me. Sometimes when I think back on that incident, coming home at 2 am and drunk driving, I should have just gone ahead and taken the spanking even though it would have been really embarrassing (not to mention painful) to get my bare butt spanked at nineteen in front of my then fourteen year old sister.

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Zach
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Date Posted: 07:49:33 03/10/18 Sat

The circumstances that made certain spanking memorable to me include an excruciating long waiting period. I got the 'wait until your father gets home' often, but usually not in the morning. This gave me an entire day to think and worry. The first time I was ordered to drop trou for the belt also stands out. And finally, there was one spanking when I was young where my father tried to spread the belt swats out. This only happened once. I got a swat a lecture a swat a lecture, etc. In all it was maybe 4 swats of the belt but the duration sticks in your head. After that it was always lecture first and then belt.

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JimmyD
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Date Posted: 06:53:46 05/19/18 Sat

For me a others when I was spanked by someone new. Which meant I got two. These stand out. The severity of the spanking stand out. My first visit to the principals office for discipline stands out. The whole thi.g of being sent and having to wait to go in to his office. Then the whacking he gave me with big paddle. Those ones are quit memorable.

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Gary Steven
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Date Posted: 10:45:15 02/02/20 Sun

In my case, I guess the most memorable spankings I got depended on who was giving them, where I was at the time, what implement was used, if there were witnesses and reason.

If I had to rate the three most memorable spankings I received they would be...

1. Getting my bare bottom spanked at school by the teacher I had a crush on in Fifth Grade. I got in trouble for fighting and she gave me a choice of taking a spanking from her or going to the office to get paddled. I chose to let her do it. It was just her and me in the classroom. She had me bend over with my hands on a piano bench. Once I was in position, without saying a word she stood beside me, pulled my pants and underwear down in back, far enough to leave my bottom completely exposed. I had no idea she was going to bare my butt for the spanking. But she had seen me get spanked that way at home as she and her husband were friends with my parents and often came over for cookouts and volleyball and mom spanked me once when they were there. After baring my bottom, she put an arm around my waist and gave me twelve hard smacks on the butt with her hand instead of using her paddle. It hurt enough to make me cry. After it was over, she pulled my pants back up and hugged me. She apologized for spanking me but also told me I needed to stay out of trouble. The incident was pretty embarrassing but it also left me with kind of a strange feeling I didn't understand. I guess because I had such a strong crush on her.

2. Getting spanked for stealing a candy bar from Kroger in my grandmother's car in the Kroger parking lot at five years old. After having to apologize, Mom took me to the car, sat on the passenger side of the front seat. Then she pulled my pants and underwear down to my ankles, put me across her lap and gave me the longest and probably one of the hardest spankings I had received up to that point. During the spanking, even over all my crying, I heard my grandmother offer mom the hairbrush she had in her purse. We were close to the entrance and it was busy at the time, so I know a lot of people saw me getting my bare butt spanked. Which just knowing that, made it even more embarrassing. After she let me up and I was bawling, struggling to pull my pants up and climb into the back seat of the car which was two door. Mom told me if I ever stole anything again, she would pull my pants down and spank my bare a.. in the store in front of God and everybody with a belt. That just made me cry even more. I never even thought about stealing anything again after that.

3. Being at my best friend's house at eight for a scout meeting. His mother was our Den Leader (they were called Den Mother's at that time). We were misbehaving at the meeting and were kept inside sitting on the couch in the family room, while the other boys were allowed to go outside and play. She called my mother and then promised us both a good spanking when the other boys left. After the others were gone, she came in the family room made us both stand up and she sat down. She scolded us both then pulled my friend over first, pulling his pants and underwear down to his knees and turned him over her lap giving him a hard hand spanking on the bare butt while he kicked and cried. She let him up and he rubbed his butt bawling and then pulled his pants up quickly while she turned her attention to me. She unfastened my pants and pulled them and my underwear down to my knees, turned me across her lap and started spanking me by hand as well. I immediately knew why he was crying so hard because that was the hardest hand spanking I ever received. What made it even more embarrassing was being bare from waist to knees across her bare lap since she was wearing shorts. Like my friend, I was also bawling and rubbing my sore bottom and struggling to pull up my pants. She told us to wait she'd be right back and she went outside. When she came back in, she was carrying a switch from the Weeping Willow in their back yard. My friend started to cry even louder. She made pulled his pants and underwear back down then bend over with his hands on the couch. She gave him ten good licks with that switch raising welts on his bare legs and already red butt and he bawled even louder than he did from the hand spanking. I was terrified expecting her to do the same to me. She sent him to his room then told me I need to go home, my mother will be giving me another spanking when I get there. As I walked into the driveway, mom was standing in the front door with flyswatter in hand waiting. I started crying all over again. I had to pull my pants back down and she wore my bare sore butt out with that flyswatter. I have no idea how many licks I got. All I know is that flyswatter really hurt more than usual on an already sore butt.

I had a lot of memorable spankings, but those three top the list.

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Allen B
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Date Posted: 07:26:57 02/06/20 Thu

What stands out for me is when it was someone other than mom, dad, or even school.
Neighbors were always memorable. Seeing a friend was memorable.

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Jack
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Date Posted: 15:56:59 02/06/20 Thu

One of my most memorable ones was the first real spanking I got at age ten after mom married the guy who later became my dad.

Up till then I was an only child and pretty much spoiled by mom with no real consistent discipline and not exactly the best behaved kid around. As far as spanking goes the most I'd ever got was one or two swats across my pants a few times when I was younger, and had never gotten an actual proper spanking

Everything changed when mom married, my dad had pretty traditional ideas when it came to how kids should behave and how they should be disciplined when they didn't.

I was warned ahead of time what would happen when I misbehaved now and found out what that actually meant pretty soon after when my behavior was found wanting. Dad marched me to my room, bared my bottom, put me over his lap and spanked me with his hand till I was hollering up a storm and promising to be good for evermore. I ate dinner that evening squirming in my seat.

That spanking is definitely memorable for me both because it was the first genuine one I ever got and also because I got it at a later age than most kids probably get their first real spanking.

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HowardKM
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Date Posted: 06:58:32 02/16/20 Sun

Jack.
Do you remember what you did to earn that spanking?
Whendid you get your last one?

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Jack
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Date Posted: 08:43:18 02/17/20 Mon

Hey Howard,
Yeah I do.
I was watching TV and mom had told me probably a couple times to switch it off and go and do something and then when she told me again I smarted off to her probably with something like "I'll do it when I want to ok?" This isn't how a ten-year old should talk to their mom. I was used to getting my own way and being disrespectful like that and getting away with it. But not this time, dad was there and just grabbed hold of me, marched me to my room, bared my bottom and tanned my hide over his lap with his hand. It all happened very quickly, there was no explanation before but there was plenty afterwards. Dad was right to spank me and it was no doubt long overdue. I got a few more spankings like that before things settled down and my overall behavior and attitude improved.

My last spanking was when I was 16. I got a belt spanking from dad for going somewhere I wasn't supposed to.

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Adam
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Date Posted: 10:36:50 02/12/20 Wed

For me it was things that happened that was not normal for me. When my sister and I both were spanked at the same time and outside non the less. I will always have the memory of her and I leaning over the car hood as our dad switched us all awhile being along side a road. The times I was sent to get my own switch because the belt was the normal thing used and if a switch was used my dad normally would get it himself. Finally spankings that were particularly worse stand out in my memory.

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Date Posted: 10:06:48 10/24/20 Sat

These are the same here for me and also my girls .I will add first time with a new thing used to spank with like the belt in both my and my daughters . And the first time in school in the office getting in our school case the strap other cases the paddle

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James Daniel
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Date Posted: 12:42:51 12/25/20 Fri

I would say most spankings were memorable. But those that stood out for me where getting spanked by moms friend who babysat me. Ateast one of her daughters were a witness and she spanked hard. School paddlings stand out as all the other kids either saw you( infornt of room) or heard you get it in the hall. In 8th grade I had a bad crush on a girl in my math class and had clowned around trying to .ake her laugh. The teacher saw my antics and took me in the hall and gave me 5 hard smacks which had me in tears.i went in embarrassed to no end and had to sit near her.

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Alex
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Date Posted: 12:43:57 12/28/20 Mon

Being bared. The majority of mine were pants down, but over my underwear, which as a kid were white briefs.

The bare bottom spankings were reserved for only the biggest punishments. Very rarely did I get one for a single thing unless it was very serious and I did something dangerous. It was usually as a follow up if I kept misbehaving repeatedly.

Whenever my mom was pulling my pants down I was always utterly terrified in the moment of not knowing if the next step was to pull me over her knee, or to reach back up and pull my briefs down.

It was firstly the humiliation of being exposed that I dreaded, but it seemed like it made the spanking 100 times worse somehow, I doubt the thin cotton provided any real protection so it was probably just in my head.

It also was used as a threat. It was one thing to hear, “if you don’t behave, I’m going to give you a spanking. It’s entirely more scary to hear, “if you don’t behave, I’m going to bare your hind end.”

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