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Subject: spanking survey


Author:
james t
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Date Posted: 19:54:28 07/31/14 Thu

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
3. What were common spanking offenses?
4. were you spanked bare?
5. what was your most common spanking position?
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
10. were you paddled or caned in school?

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David
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Date Posted: 07:51:51 08/01/14 Fri

You should answer your own survey if you want others to.

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Jay frantz
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Date Posted: 14:07:36 11/11/14 Tue

I got spanked between age of about 5 to 13

Hand spankings except my last one with a hair brush

Mosty about fightning and disobeying

never spanked bare

Over the knee

about 3 to five hard swats, after some discussion and ritual

when I was little I got spanked twice as I did not cry after the first spanking by my father so my mother then spanked me harder

I was spanked in front of the siblings and other times they new I was going to get spanked upstairs in the parenetal bed room. One time all three of us got spanked in front of the entire family, one after the other,

Other just as above one spanking did it.

I got the strap in school once

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Stephen C
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Date Posted: 10:18:26 01/22/15 Thu

1. what was the age range for your spankings? -
Age 7 to almost 15

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand - always the hand to start off with and then move on to the belt if I'd been very naughty

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Not doing what I had been told to do. Problems at school. Using bad language.

4. were you spanked bare?
Yes. Pants and underwear were down or off. On a very rare occasion, I might get a smack on the seat of my pants, but each time that happened, it was re-done on the bare bum just as soon as privacy permitted.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over-the-knee was by far the most common. For the belt, the position changed over the years to accommodate my growing taller.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Only an estimate - probably about 70 to 80

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Not always but that was the usual result.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Rarely. The only way to witness a spanking was to either have already gotten yours or you were next in line.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
There were times when I absolutely knew for certain that I was getting spanked for something that I had already been spanked for before. It wasn't all that fair, but nothing I could do to prevent it.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
School discipline was the strap across your hands. A teacher might spank your bum over the seat of your pants. Either way, if that news got home then my bare bum would have a session OtK.

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Red
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Date Posted: 11:45:50 08/21/15 Fri

1. From 5-15.
2. Hand.
3. Swearing, cheek, throwing tantrums, etc.
4. I usually got smacked over my trousers, I recall getting smacked in my underpants on one occasion.
5. Standing up - my mam or dad usually grabbed hold of me and whacked my bum.
6. Usually 2 or 3 depending on how bad the behaviour was.
7. It was not the aim to make me cry but I usually did cry.
8. If I misbehaved in front of my brother or other relatives I got smacked in front of them.
9. Never.
10.The cane was in use when I was at school however the only physical punishment at school I got was a teacher smacking me with her hand over my trousers.

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Meg (Thoughtful)
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Date Posted: 09:01:11 01/21/17 Sat

1 Spanked from the age of 4 until 11.

2.Normally my parents hand, but mum sometimes used her slipper.

3. Telling lies, fighting with my brother being disobedient or cheeky.
4.I was always spanked on my bare bottom. Panties were pulled down to my knees once l was in position
5.I was put over either parents knee, with my hand held in the small of my back.
6. I was always spanked to beyond tears. I once wet myself a little when my dad was spanking me because he always spanked very hard in a very calm controlled slower way than mum but his hand was much bigger and stronger. He ignored that l wet his lap a little a just kept spanking! I saw the wet patch when he stood me up and was mortified but he never mentioned it. He sat me on his lap and cuddled me after as if nothing had happened.
7. I lost count. I was spanked until l stopped struggling and was bawling and exhausted with my bottom on fire. Tears started before, got worse during and were hiccups and sobs after.
8 Normally in private in my bedroom, over my parents knee whilst they sat on the bed. Once in the dining room in front of the whole family, a few times in the lounge in front of siblings.
9. Never spanked twice..except once when l checked mum after the first spanking.
10 l was spanked in school, but only once or twice.

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MaxV
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Date Posted: 01:42:34 02/11/18 Sun

1. what was the age range for your spankings?

I think I was 6 years old when I got my first spanking, and my last one was at 16

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?

Hand when younger, and after the age of 11 the hairbrush (used by both my father and my mother)

3. What were common spanking offenses?

Lying, not doing my best in school, willingful disobedience etc.

4. were you spanked bare?

Yes, always

5. what was your most common spanking position?

Over the knee, I can't remember any other position being used

6. what was the average number of licks you received?

Never counted them, but especially during my teenage spankings, I would be spanked for a good couple of minutes

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?

Yes, although I tried to toughen up when I got older, even my last spankings ended with tears.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?

No, all my spankings were carried out in my room, or in the living room when I was the only one home

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?

No

10. were you paddled or caned in school?

No, this is not allowed where I live

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Jonathan
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Date Posted: 09:32:28 08/01/14 Fri

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
Youngest I can recall, I was 4. Last was at 15 though for second to last I had just turned 13

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Probably Mom's hand though as I got older she mostly used a heavy ruler.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Disobedience -- doing something I had been told not to (usually in general terms not specific terms)

4. were you spanked bare?
underpants down, yes almost always, never completely bare except coincidentally like right out of the tub.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
in Mom's lap

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Really hard to say. 20-30 maybe for the ones I recall. I assume fewer when I was younger, but perhaps just lighter.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Mom spanked until she thought I'd had enough. I was usually crying before she stopped when I was younger, not necessarily when I was older. I suspect that had more to do with my state of mind than the force of the spanking.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Friends never except on the few occasions two or more of us were to be spanked. In front of cousins sometimes. In front of my younger sister many times until I was 10.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yes. I was once sentenced to a spanking every day after school for a week, but I actually only got three of those.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Never caned. Paddle a couple of times and spanked by hand OTK in grades K-3.

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JoeR
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Date Posted: 09:51:43 08/01/14 Fri

1...age 17 and younger
2...hand as a young kid; paddle & belt when older
3...disobeying & mouthing off; the only time at school was for cheating
4...most times; were a few on undies; school on my jeans
5...bent over an object
6...depended on what I did
7...crying didn't stop a spanking; I cried when dad tanned me
8...a few times; the one at school was with buddies
9...no; I would've had dad found out about school paddling
10..once as a HS freshman for cheating

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Rainman
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Date Posted: 15:09:06 08/01/14 Fri

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Date Posted: 19:54:28 07/31/14 Thu
Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?
5 was the earliest I remember but I was spanked up to 14.
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
The belt was what I remember the most.
3. What were common spanking offenses?
Defiance, disobediance, impulsive dumb decisions
4. were you spanked bare?
Yes.
5. what was your most common spanking position?
Bent over the bed
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Not sure but probably 10-20 on average
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Always
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Not usually. My brother and I got it together twice but it was usually private
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yes. I was impulsive and took risks
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No. Fortunately I avoided tyat
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Author:
charles (reflective)
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Date Posted: 12:15:09 08/02/14 Sat

history-before 5- swats on butt or on hand, 5 to 9 over the knee, bare bottom with the hand, about once a month. 10 to 13, lying over the bed with a paddle, about every 3 months. bare bottom 14 to 16 about 4 whippings with the belt. pants down but underwear on. tried to not cry sometimes but never succeeded. got the most licks with the paddle, belt hurt the most.

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Max
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Date Posted: 01:28:48 08/02/14 Sat

1, From about 4 or 5 through till 15.

2, Slipper and hairbrush were most common. Hand when I was younger and then belt only used for serious punishments when I was older.

3, Disobedience, breaking house rules, breaching curfew, being disrespectful.

4, Yes but not for all punishments. Sometimes it would be on underpants and occasionally fully clothed.

5, Over the knee for all hairbrush, slipper and hand spankings. Bent over my bed to get the belt.

6, Not sure. It varied a lot depending on what I'd done.

7, I was spanked till Mum or Dad were finished with me. I was mostly crying before the end.

8, Only a couple of times with my brother when we were both getting. Other than that it was always in private.

9, Yes there were times when I was punished in school and received a further spanking at home. Also a few times when I was spanked by my Grandparents or Aunts I got a further spanking at home.

10, Got spanked a several times in primary school. In senior school I got the slipper a couple of times and was caned twice.

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Billy
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Date Posted: 11:38:56 08/03/14 Sun

1, 4 till 16
2, Slipper till 10 then the cane after that
3, Disobedience
4, Always on the bare at home
5, Over the knee for the slipper, bent over Dad's desk for the cane
6, Not sure with the slipper, between 6 and 12 with the cane was normal but I did sometimes get more as I got older
7, Punishment off my Dad always left me in tears
8, Never friends but I did get a couple of canings with my brothers and sister witnessing.
9, Yes whenever I was caned at school I was also caned at home.
10, Hand spanked and slippered in primary school, caned in senior school.

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Joel
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Date Posted: 19:07:05 08/04/14 Mon

1. 4 or 5 through 17
2. belt/strap, hairbrush and plastic spoon when I was younger
3. lying, talking back, grades
4. always bare
5. bent over object, i.e. bed or arm of couch
6. 30
7. always
8. friends and cousins
9. yes
10. only in Sunday school.

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Cynthia
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Date Posted: 08:16:50 08/05/14 Tue

Here goes...

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?

Short spankings with hands from very early years. Regular discipline with implements from about 6 to about 14. I had one when I was 17, but that was a special circumstance.
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
At home, my dad's belt. At my grandma's, the brush.
3. What were common spanking offenses?
Being lazy and not doing what I was supposed to. Attitude and talking back. Disobedience.
4. were you spanked bare?
Almost always except when very little. Spanked once at the lake in my swimsuit.
5. what was your most common spanking position?
Bent over a piece of furniture.
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
10 to 20. A few times many more.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Whether I cried depended on how sorry I was. I don't think the spanking depended on it. I cried about half the time from my dad. I cried every time for my grandma.
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Usually it was private. If my brother was going to be spanked with me, we saw each other get spanked. I got spanked with my cousin too. The only time I remember being watched by someone not getting spanked was my cousin's older sister got to watch us both get it from our grandma.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
I don't think so. I used to really worry that I would get spanked at home if I got spanked my my grandma's, but I don't think it ever happened.
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Paddled once in high school. The school called for parental permission several other times, but my mom always said no. The last time, when I was in high school, she said that I was old enough to decide for myself.

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Doug
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Date Posted: 22:13:50 08/05/14 Tue

Hi Cynthia - if you are willing to share, I have some questions about your paddling in high school.

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Cynthia
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Date Posted: 07:36:07 08/06/14 Wed

Sure. It's not the most exciting experience, but I'll answer questions. To get the basics out of the way I was 15 and I got caught skipping. I also would have bet my last dollar I wouldn't have gotten paddled because my mom always said no. This was far from the first time a principal thought I should get paddled. I was shocked when the principal handed me the phone and my mom told me that I could make the decision of swats or detention.

Anything else you'd like to know?

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Doug
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Date Posted: 11:19:46 08/06/14 Wed

Hi Cynthia, yes! And thank you for sharing the experience. I went to a school with paddling in the office but never ended up there, and I am always interested in the details.

So, to keep it simple, another questionnaire :-)

1. After you choose to get swats, were you paddled immediately or did you have to return for the punishment?

2. Was there a witness?

3. What position did you assume for the paddling?

4. Did you know how many swats you would get?

5. Was the paddling more or less painful than you thought it would be? And how painful would you rate it on a scale of 1 to 10? How long did serious pain last (if it was serious to begin with)?

6. Were you crying when you left the office? Did other students know you had been paddled?

7. Once you finally had a chance to inspect the effects of the paddling on your bottom, how did it look?

8. And finally, overall do you think the experience was effective at discouraging you from skipping school? Does it seem like a good or bad idea to offer that option today?

Again Cynthia, thank you for letting me know about your experience. It's one I definitely deserved but managed to avoid somehow.

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Cynthia (for Doug)
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Date Posted: 08:48:09 08/07/14 Thu

I don't mind answering a questionnaire if you don't mind wordy responses. I like details, and I remember this day very well. :) Keep in mind I was shocked that I was actually going to get paddled. I would have thought it more likely that my south Texas high school would be covered in snow.

This also happened the day after I skipped. Someone saw us coming back to catch our bus.

1. After you choose to get swats, were you paddled immediately or did you have to return for the punishment?

Immediately. I got called out of PE (they always tried to do discipline during PE because you either missed less instruction or the paddle hurt more during workout clothes....the reason depended on who you ask). From the time I left class until I walked out sore from the office was probably less than 15 minutes. It all happened really fast.

2. Was there a witness?
Yes. This was the worst part. I had to have a female witness. If the one female coach was busy (as she usually was during PE), they called in one of the secretaries. This was bad for me because the one they called in was this little elderly Mexican lady who I had seen at church every weekend for as long as I could remember. I knew that she knew my grandma really well, and I think we might have been very distantly related. I wish they had brought in ANYONE else.

3. What position did you assume for the paddling?
The principal told me to go to the side of his desk. There were two pieces of duct tape on the floor he told me to put my feet on. Then he said to put my elbows on his desk. The tape didn't really spread my legs very far apart, and it wasn't inappropriate by any means. But it helped make sure your butt was up and made an easy target.

4. Did you know how many swats you would get?
I was told 5 swats or 5 days detention. I never wanted to stay in school a second longer than I had to, and I knew that with my family situation detention would probably have meant walking a long way home. So it was a no brainer.

5. Was the paddling more or less painful than you thought it would be? And how painful would you rate it on a scale of 1 to 10? How long did serious pain last (if it was serious to begin with)?
I would give it an 8. The swats definitely hurt, and my butt hurt really badly the rest of the day. But I don't think I hurt as bad as I would from a normal spanking at home. I would have definitely gotten more than five at home, and I wouldn't have shorts or panties on.

6. Were you crying when you left the office? Did other students know you had been paddled?
I did not cry. I was a child of MANY spankings. By the time I was in high school, it would have taken alot to make me cry. I did not have to face any students immediately after. The principal's office had a second door that went directly into the hall, so I did not face anyone who might be in the waiting area. When I got back to PE, the coach just told me to go into the locker room, so I had about 5 to 10 minutes before I saw any other students. I don't think anyone knew without me telling them (other than the other girls I skipped with who got the same thing during their PE periods).

I did cry later on when my mom and grandma talked to me about it. I thought for sure I was going to get another spanking. But they talked to me about how my dad was working out of town for a while, my brother was trying to get into college, my mom was working two jobs to help him pay for it, my sister was in kindergarten, and my grandma was getting older and had two of my cousins living with her during the week. I got a long "time to grow up" speech that brought me to giant tears. I think I'd have gladly taken another spanking.

7. Once you finally had a chance to inspect the effects of the paddling on your bottom, how did it look?

I looked at it in the locker room. I had a pretty big butt, but the effects were pretty confined to left side and the middle. The area where the paddle landed most directly had a bullseye spot and a big bruise forming. It was still there when my mom and grandma made me show them later.

8. And finally, overall do you think the experience was effective at discouraging you from skipping school? Does it seem like a good or bad idea to offer that option today?

I don't think so. If it was just about the paddling, I'd have skipped school even more. I spent a day hanging out at my friend's pool instead of school and I all got was 5 swats. I'd have made that trade again. But the talk afterwards really got me, and I didn't want to cause more headaches for my family.

As for today, I think it's a pretty dumb idea. I don't think spanking is a best practice, though I would never say I've never done it with my kids. When my daughter was about the age I was when this happened to me, the school called me for permission to paddle her for tardies. I didn't want to say yes, but I didn't want her to go to in school suspension where she would miss a lot of class. So I said it was ok with me to let her make the choice. I have always regretted saying yes. I don't think I would have let them paddle her again, and I don't think I would ever say yes if they call about one of my sons.

Hope this satisfied some of your questions. Feel free to ask me more about any part except the part about my daughter. I have said all I will about that one.

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Date Posted: 00:00:27 08/08/14 Fri

Thank you! I appreciate you going into such detail. I do have two more questions. Did you and your friends who were also paddled discuss your what happened? Do you know if they handled the punishment as well as you did? And also, what size was the paddle?

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Cynthia (for Doug)
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Date Posted: 16:24:07 08/21/14 Thu

Doug, sorry I haven't gotten back to you for a couple of weeks.

The paddle was a pretty normal school size. It was probably 1/4 inch thick. It didn't have alot of width, but it was pretty long. It did not have holes.

I would have liked to discuss it with my friends. I was very curious about their paddlings. But I have a cousin who was in my grade who was friends with all of us. She had called me out for asking alot of nosy questions from when she got spanked by our grandmother. I could tell she thought it was weird how much I was asking. With that in the back of my mind, I didn't ask very many questions, other than seeing if they got the same as me, which they did. I did not want to push it and be thought of as weird. I already thought I was the only person on earth who thought spankings were interesting and wanted to know details about them.

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Shaun
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Date Posted: 14:06:02 12/16/15 Wed

Hi Cynthia. I just read your experience. I am new here and if you don't mind sharing, what is your special circumstance at age 17? What caused it, your reaction, ect...

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Valerie
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Date Posted: 07:02:51 01/28/17 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings? 4-14.
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? most of the time - hand, but after a bad school grade - hairbrush.
3. What were common spanking offenses? not doing chores, disobedience, and bad grades.
4. were you spanked bare? after age 12 I was, yes - before then I was spanked on my panties.
5. what was your most common spanking position? over daddy's knee.
6. what was the average number of licks you received? I don't know - it lasted a long time though, usually.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? yes.
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? no, daddy usually spanked me up in my bedroom with the door closed.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? yes, 2 spankings, for 2 D's on my school report.
10. were you paddled or caned in school? no.

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Zach
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Date Posted: 16:38:21 08/06/14 Wed

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
From 5 until 17

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
The belt

3. What were common spanking offenses?
not listening, lying, arguing, backtalk

4. were you spanked bare?
I had to drop pants and got the belt on the underwear

5. what was your most common spanking position?
bent over a couch end

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
anywhere from 6-12 or a few more on some sessions

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
no. I was spanked until my father was done. sometimes I cried sometimes I did not.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
in front of brother on occassion

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
no

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
no

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Gary Steven
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Date Posted: 18:03:18 08/06/14 Wed

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
2 until 15

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
hand, hairbrush, flyswatter,

3. What were common spanking offenses?
breaking rules lying failure to go what I was told

4. were you spanked bare?
yes!

5. what was your most common spanking position?
otk until 8 then bent over arm of couch or a chair

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
no set number

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
I was usually crying long before it was over

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
yes

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
yes

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
yes paddled

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Nick
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Date Posted: 09:08:41 08/07/14 Thu

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
Ages 4 through 14.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Paddle.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Disobedience, back-talk, fighting with my brother.

4. were you spanked bare?
No.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Face-down and bending over the side of my bed.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Not set number, but always a lot.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Spanking continued while I was crying.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Sometimes.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yes.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No.

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James
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Date Posted: 14:37:19 08/08/14 Fri

1, 4 till 15
2, Slipper
3, Breaking rules and disobedience
4, Yes, spanking were always bare.
5, Over the knee
6, It varied a lot and it was never a set amount so I couldn't say.
7, I was mostly crying during spankings
8, No
9, If I lied to try and get out of trouble I'd be spanked for the actual offence then get a separate spanking given before bed
10, No

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Date Posted: 15:02:27 08/10/14 Sun

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?
From the time I was a toddler up to 17.
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Depended on how old I was. When I was little a hand spanking was most common. From about eleven to fourteen probably the paddle. Past that age, the belt.
3. What were common spanking offenses?
Being disrespectful, smart mouthing, lying, getting in trouble at school.
4. were you spanked bare?
Most always.
5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over the knee.
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Depended on age. Don't think I ever got more than about fifteen or so though.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Yes. But in truth, most of the time I started crying before the spanking ever started.
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Yes, both.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
If I got paddled at school I would get another at home. Other than those situations, no.
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Yes, I was paddled.

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JJ
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Date Posted: 22:07:57 08/11/14 Mon

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
From 6 to about 17

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand and wooden hairbrush mostly, belt sometimes.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Laziness and disobedience in general mostly. Backtalk to Mom and fighting with my siblings was a common reason too.

4. were you spanked bare?
Almost always.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over the knee mostly, bent over or lying on my bed sometimes.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
No set average. Depended on offence committed.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
I'd usually cry especially when younger but it wasn't used to decide whether I had or hadn't been spanked enough.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Siblings yes definitely. Friends on a couple of occasions.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yes but only a couple of times.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No

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John
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Date Posted: 19:31:05 08/15/14 Fri

1. 4 yrs until about 16 yrs
2. Until age 10, mostly by hand. After age hand, mostly by belt.
3. Lying, disobeying, bad attitude, getting in trouble at school
4. Almost always spanked bare.
5. When spanked by hand, it was over the knee. When spanked by belt, I laid flat on my bed.
6. Hand = 30-50. Belt = 15-25.
7. Not sure if it was intentional, but I was always crying before the end of every spanking that I remember.
8. I was spanked in front of my sister once or twice. Never in front of friends.
9. A few times I'd get punished for breaking a rule and lying about it. On those occasions I'd get a spanking for breaking the rule and then another spanking for lying. For instance, I'd get 25 licks with the belt and then stay in "time out" in my room for an a few hours before getting another 25 licks with the belt.
10. Never spanked in school.

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Date Posted: 06:16:28 08/16/14 Sat

1. 4 years old to 20 years old. 2. Sometimes by hand. Most of the time with the strap. 3. Disobedience, disrespect, bad attitude at home or in school. 4. Bare from the waist down. 5. Over the knee for the hand, lying face down on bed for the strap. 6. Not sure. No set amount. If I had to guess, about 50 hand spanks, 20-25 with the strap. 7. Always cried during a spanking. 8. In front of my brother, also got it in front of friends a few times. 9. No 10. No.

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Perk
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Date Posted: 15:22:32 08/16/14 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings? 5-16
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? bare hand
3. What were common spanking offenses? bad attitude, talking back, sometimes something more specific like smoking or caught in a lie
4. were you spanked bare? almost always
5. what was your most common spanking position? as a boy, OTK; later standing, hands behind head
6. what was the average number of licks you received? varied, but could be 10-20
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? up to about 14, always
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? as a boy, sometimes in front of mom's friends. After puberty, always alone by grandfather.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? many times
10. were you paddled or caned in school? no, but was spanked a few times

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Date Posted: 12:09:15 08/24/14 Sun

1. what was the age range for your spankings? 13-16

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? Bathbrush

3. What were common spanking offenses? Misbehaving at school

4. were you spanked bare? Yes

5. what was your most common spanking position? Over my mum's knee

6. what was the average number of licks you received? Too many to count. Probably around 50.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried? Yes every time.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? I have no siblings and never spanked in front of friends.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? No

10. were you paddled or caned in school? No. It is not legal in the UK.

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David
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Date Posted: 09:25:03 08/26/14 Tue

1. what was the age range for your spankings?

Not sure how young for my earliest spanking but probably as a toddler. I was 17 for my last spanking at home.


2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?

Hand when very young, hairbrush until age 10 or 11, and then either a paddle or belt at home and a paddle at school


3. What were common spanking offenses?

Not obeying, fighting, lying, getting in trouble at school, talking back.

4. were you spanked bare?

At home, yes, almost always as far as I know. Might have got a swat over my pants or underpants at home to tell me to pay attention or in preparation for my pants coming down.

5. what was your most common spanking position?

Before age 10 or 11, it was usually over a parent's knee. After that age, Dad spanked us and we were usually bent over a bed. At school, it was common to be bent over and grabbing our ankles for a paddling in the hallway or bent over a chair or a desk in the principal's office. PE coaches might have us bend over a metal bench in the locker room or just have us bend over and grab our ankles.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?

Not really sure most of the time. An over the knee spanking would usually be as many swats as our parents thought that that we needed and how hard we were crying, although if we were crying from the beginning, then they just spanked us until we were well-spanked. Swats from Dad would be less with the paddle, maybe 4 or 5 unless we were in really big trouble, and with his belt, maybe between 6 and 10 most of the time. At school, three swats was the most common, but got a few more than that sometimes.


7. were you usually spanked until you cried?

If we weren't crying already, then yes. But as we got older and tried hard not to cry, that didn't seem to be our parents' goal.


8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?

Yep. Mostly in front of my brothers at home. At school, we got paddled in front of other boys who were getting paddled too or in PE or sports, it wasn't usually to get paddled where others in PE or on the team could watch.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?

Definitely got spanked at home for getting paddled at school if our parents found out that we had gotten in trouble at school. Not sure that this was the same offense exactly since it was the getting in trouble at school that justified a spanking at home and not necessarily what we did at school. About the only way to get two paddlings at school for the same offense was to get paddled and also get detention for one offense which if we missed sports practice for being in detention could result in the coach paddling us at the next practice but not really the same offense. A coach paddling was for missing practice by being in detention. It wasn't because we had gotten in trouble enough at school to get paddled the first time.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?

Yep. I would say lots of times but I also attended schools where a paddling was the first level of discipline for almost everything and it was used on someone everyday through high school. So it was not hard to get paddled a few times each year, although my last was probably at age 16 when I was a high school junior and there might have been some years when I got it only once or twice and other years where I might have gotten paddled six to eight times. I spent plenty of time in school hallways bent over and getting my butt tanned.

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Date Posted: 16:35:54 08/26/14 Tue

1. Age 4 is the earliest I can remember and the last was at age 17. There were probably some hand smacks to my butt before age 4. (I remember younger siblings getting smacks on their bare butts as early as age 3.)

2. I was spanked with a switch and a belt.

3 Spankings were given for deliberate disobedience, lying, smarting off to parents, and bad grades and conduct reports from school.

4. I wore dresses so the early spankings were on bare legs or dress pulled up and panties left on. Later, when I had to bend over the bed, panties were pulled down.

5. The earliest spankings were over the knee and smacks given by hand. Ages 5 to about 8, my mother usually held my hands above my head while she used the switch on bare legs. After I got older, I would have to bend over the side of the bed. A few times I was spanking lying across the bed.

6. Usually 6 to 10 licks, never more than 15.

7. I was usually crying before I received the first lick!

8. Sometimes we were spanked with other siblings or in a common living area. After about age 8, spankings were done privately in the bedroom. Sometimes a sibling, who was also being punished, would be in the room.

9. It was not unusual to receive more than one spanking for an offense, especially if I "fought" the punishment. If the offense was really serious, sometimes we would be spanked immediately by our mother and then get another from our father when he got home.

10. No, I was never spanked at school. I was spanked many times because of notes teachers would send home or calls to my mother regarding misbehavior or poor performance.

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Date Posted: 05:57:33 10/10/14 Fri

1.I was spanked from the age of 4 til 14

2.Mum used her slipper sometimes a hairbrush but for very serious misbehaviour she used a cane,Dad just used his hand

3.Disobedience, answering back,giving cheek,smoking

4.Every spanking started on my pants but ended up on my bare bottom after being removed during the spanking.

5.Mum mostly put me across her knee but for more serious offenses it was a caning over my the desk in my room.Dad bent me over the dining room table.

6.Mum gave me at least 20 strokes on each layer of clothing and finished with even more on my bare bottom.Dad just continued the spanking until his hand hurt.

7.I think I probably cried at each session as both parents could spank very hard.

8.Apart from one occasion when a neighbour was invited to witness me being spanked after annoying her,they were always given in the privacy of our home.

9.After being spanked by Mum during the day she would tell Dad why I had been spanked when he returned from work and sometimes he would then take me into the dining room for another bottom warming session.

10.I was only spanked once at school when the sports master found me in his gym with my shoes on which was strictly forbidden.He walloped me with a gym shoe over his desk.

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Date Posted: 10:30:55 08/28/14 Thu

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
4 till 19 was the last one

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
When I was little hand or wooden spoon when I turned 8 the paddle.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
I was always doing something wrong.

4. were you spanked bare?
Yes every spanking was on the bare bottom.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over Mom or Dad's lap.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
My parents spanked till my butt was the right color and that was dark red.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
I was always crying by the time it was over but when my Dad started using the paddle sometimes I would start to cry before the paddling started.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Yes I was spanked in front of who ever was around.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?

Yes all the time.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No but if I did something wrong at school they would call home and I would get paddle when I got home.

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Date Posted: 09:46:15 08/30/14 Sat


1. what was the age range for your spankings?
I remember spankings starting very young and got my last one in 8th grade and was 13 or maybe 14.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
I was almost always hand spanked. I did get a few with a ping pong paddle. The paddle was not used real hard and was only slightly worse than a hand spanking. The paddle was more for effect than anything.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Fighting with my brothers or causing some other kind of trouble in the neighborhood. Got a real serious one in front of my family for saying the F word when I was in 2nd or 3rd grade.

4. were you spanked bare?
I was always spanked bare. I don't remember any spankings in my family that were not administered to a bare bottom.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Mostly over the lap as mom or dad would sit on the edge of a chair, sofa or the bed. There were a few standing up ones too.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
I have no idea how many smacks I got. They varried a lot from being just a few to some spankings that I thought might not ever end.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Many times I would start crying before the spanking started. Just hearing I was getting a spanking could start me crying.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
I was the middle of 3 boys and most spankings were given right then and there. We saw each other spanked and were spanked together many times. I got a few solo spankings in front of the whole family.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
I don't remember any double spankings but had heard about them. Mom spanking during the day and dad giving another at night. That might have been better than getting an extra long one.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
The Jr and Sr high schools I attended used paddles and I got a few swats. They were serious business and would leave a 4 inch wide welt clear across my butt. Jeans didn't offer real ptotection from those paddles.

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JoeR to Derek
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Date Posted: 18:57:07 08/30/14 Sat

Must have been difficult to get a hardy paddling at school in junior and senior high if your parents had already stopped spanking you at home by age 13 and you say most of them were with a hand.

I had only 1 school paddling my freshman year of HS & because my dad believed in jeans down (shorts sometimes too), the school paddling shocked me because the jeans as you said offered no real protection.

How many swats did it take across the seat of jeans to leave that 4 inch welt across your butt?

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Derek
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Date Posted: 07:39:26 08/31/14 Sun

The school could give up to 3 swats. But most times it was just oen swat. The most I ever had was one swat. But tey were still very serious business. Guys I knew had no interest in other guy's butts but it was hard not to check out the damage in the shower after someone got a swat. The school swats started about the time my home spankings ended. I somehow thought my butt was safe, but no.

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Scott
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Date Posted: 12:42:45 08/30/14 Sat

Answers:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?
Age 4 (most likely) to age 17 (one time, previous was 15)
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand until about age 10, then paddle.
3. What were common spanking offenses?
Lying, disobeying, school offenses, back talking.
4. were you spanked bare?
Yes, unless it was a couple of warning swats.
5. what was your most common spanking position?
Hand spankings and early paddlings were OTK, the rest were over the bed.
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
My parents were always very generous, but I'd guess around 20, mom more, dad fewer.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Crying usually started beforehand.
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Yes, especially when younger, then only family.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Of course.
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Paddled in elementary and middle school, repeated at home. Never caned.

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Date Posted: 13:01:40 08/31/14 Sun

1...that I recall 4/5 until 16
2...mom & dad's hand as a kid; paddle & belt when older
3...too many to name all but my mouth probably most oftejn
4...if not bare ass at least wearing only my briefs/boxers
5...across a leg or bent over chair or my bed
6...never counted but assure you my ass was sore when done
7...sure I cried at home, my rear was red and sore
8...both brothers & friends saw my ass get busted
9...mom & then dad when he got home sometimes; if at school & they found out, got my rear busted again when I got home
10...several times with that 'board of education' that delivered a lesson to the seat of my jeans

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Roy
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Date Posted: 09:00:13 09/05/14 Fri

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
At home probably first time at around age 4 and last time 16.
At school age 7 and last time 17.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
At home parental hand or a slipper, later on a cane
At school plimsoll or cane

3. What were common spanking offenses?
The typical misbehaviors children are disciplined for.

4. were you spanked bare?
At home mostly over either underpants or bare bottom.
At school over my trousers or PE shorts.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
At home over the parental lap or bending over something or just bending over.
At school bending over a chair or desk or just bending over

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
For a spanking or slippering difficult to say but however many were thought to be deserved I imagine, certainly anough to produce a red bottom and tears. For a caning my father never gave more than the traditional "six of the best" and it was usually less than that.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
At home yes always when younger and a caning usually at least brought forth some vocal reaction even when I was older.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Sometimes with my brothers, mostly when we were punished for some collective mischief.
At school I was punished with friends.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yes.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Recieved corporal punishment at school, plimsoll and cane.

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Date Posted: 23:59:37 09/05/14 Fri

1)3,until 8, 2)by hand, 3)safety issues-playing with matches,going out in to street,not calling,when I'd be late,ect. 4)bare 5)over the knee/lap 6)0ne swat per year of age 7)started crying as I was going over spanker's lap 8)Sisters sometimes. Never in front of friends. 9)No;once I was spanked for an indivdual misbehavior,I never did it again 10),no I was never physical piunished in school.

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Date Posted: 10:23:33 09/06/14 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
From 3 to 14

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Paddle

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Attitude, disobedience

4. were you spanked bare?
Always

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over knee when little, bent over a chair from 12-14

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Never counted but less than 20

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Yes

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
My brother and I were spanked in front of each other

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yes, if I sassed mom she would spank me and so would daddy

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No was too afraid of what would happen when I got home

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Brian
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Date Posted: 16:45:04 09/11/14 Thu

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
From 3 to 14

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Paddle or paddle and belt.

3. What were common spanking offenses
disobedience, sassing, arguing with sister, being late

4. were you spanked bare?
Yes in the living room

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Bent over a chair.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
up to 30

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
most of the time.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Yes in front of my sister.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
No

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Once when I was 16.

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Date Posted: 10:44:04 09/12/14 Fri

Hey Brian,

In response to Question 1 you say...age 3-14. In last question you reveal getting it at school at age 16. Is it assumed then age 14 was last at home only?

To Question 10 and the school paddle/cane at 16, you say ONCE. Was that then your first & only school paddling/caning?

What had you done at school to earn that paddling/caning & recall your initial reaction when you realized your butt was in for licks?

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Tyler
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Date Posted: 10:48:21 09/13/14 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings

7-15

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?

Hairbrush

3. What were common spanking offenses?

Disrespectful
4. were you spanked bare?

Yes

5. what was your most common spanking position?

Over knees
6. what was the average number of licks you received?

Around 30 with the hand, half that with the hairbrush

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?

Not necessarily. As I got older, fought tears

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?

Yes
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?

No

10. were you paddled or caned in school?

yes

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Ellen
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Date Posted: 07:00:17 09/20/14 Sat

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings? 6 to 17
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? A belt from age six to 12 and then a strap.
3. What were common spanking offenses? Not doing chores, being late getting home, once for being disrespectful, twice for lying.
4. were you spanked bare? Yes, in fact everything had to come off.
5. what was your most common spanking position? Bending over my father's desk in his study at home.
6. what was the average number of licks you received? One per year of age.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? I often cried before it started.
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? Never, but mom was always present.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? I was paddled at school three times and received a spanking at home later for it.
10. were you paddled or caned in school? Yes. I went to a private Baptist school from grades six to eight. I was paddled once in the sixth grade for repeatedly talking in class and twice in eigth grade for repeated tardiniess.

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Date Posted: 16:35:31 09/21/14 Sun

1. Age range: 3-10.

2. Implement: Paddle.

3. Offenses: Disobedience, disrespect.

4. Bare: Not always. Sometimes over pants or briefs.

5. Position: OTK or face down on bed.

6. Licks: 10 +/-.

7. Crying: Yes. Typically started crying after 2nd or 3rd whack of small paddle on juvenile butt.

8. In front of siblings or friends: No.

9. Two or more spankings for same offense: No. Similar offenses sometimes but not quite the same.

10. Paddled or caned in school: Yes -- not sure this counts -- once in freshman HS PE class. Coach said: "Bend over. Grab ankles." Then he gave me one whack on the bare butt with a Styrofoam board. No injury -- just a short-term sting.

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Date Posted: 17:17:26 10/05/14 Sun

1. 5 thru 18

2. hairbrush when I was younger, paddle when I was older

3. When I was older, not keeping my parents informed where I was, coming in late, arguing about what I did wrong (talking myself into a spanking)

4. only once by my aunt

5. over lap or laying in bed with the brush, bent over a kitchen chair with the paddle

6. 2 to 6 with the hair brush, always 5 with the paddle

7. mom told us how many we were getting and we got it, crying or not

8. yes, often spanked with my sister as well as seeing each other getting spanked alone. in front of friends, with friends at times

9. yes, by the aunt who switched us bare

10. no

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Mike
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Date Posted: 20:47:41 10/06/14 Mon

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
Don't really remember the earliest, probably around age 3-4. Last one was at 17.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand until age 10 or so, then usually a belt.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Disobedience, mouthing off, later on breaking curfew.

4. were you spanked bare?
Most of the time, especially as a teen when my dad wanted to "make a point."

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Hand spankings were usually over mom or dad's lap. When I got the belt I was often told to bend over a bed or desk and rest my elbows on it.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Usually 10-15.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Crying didn't have any effect on when it stopped, but I usually cried. Less often once I hit my teens.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
No. Always in private.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Never.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
School didn't allow it, but if I did something that resulted in a write-up or detention, my parents were notified and I got a dose of the belt at home.

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Date Posted: 12:45:53 10/11/14 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
from 4 to 16
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
till 11 wooden spoon, after 11 cane
3. What were common spanking offenses?
preteen rude to sister, lying, laziness as my parents would call it, comming home late
4. were you spanked bare?
about 25% of the spankings were bare bottom
5. what was your most common spanking position?
bend over knee, stool. For caneing bend over arm-chair
6. what was the averag number of licks you received?
about 20
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
no. when pre-teen mostly cried already before
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
sibilings, cousins, other relatives could watch.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
one time first by Mum and than in the evening by Dad
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
no

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Date Posted: 13:40:27 10/11/14 Sat


1. what was the age range for your spankings?

I was spanked between the ages of 5-11 but a one-off spanking was recieved at 14.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?

I was usually spanked with a hand unles it was serious then it was a piece of garden hose.

3. What were common spanking offenses?

Spanking offences were direct disobedience or dishonesty

4. were you spanked bare?

Never but occassionally over underwear

5. what was your most common spanking position?

When I was younger I was usually turned over my father's knee otherwise it was bent over the end of the bed.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?

With a hand spanking, I don't know. Enough to leave my behind red and sore. With the garden hose it was my age.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?

No, I usually cried before it started when I was little. Even when i got older I would often end up shedding a tear before the end.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?

Never. My father insisted on privacy and made sure no one else was in the house when I was to be spanked.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?

Frequently. I was a stubborn child and was punished the most out of my siblings. Breaking curfew or not abiding by a grounding was usually what got me spanked as well as dishonesty (denying or twisting the truth, not so much direct lies).

10. were you paddled or caned in school?

No, it wasn't legal were I grew up for schools to use physicsl punishments.

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Date Posted: 06:47:24 10/06/15 Tue

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
About 4 until i was about 12 at home. Got caned 2 separate times as a teen at school.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Usually hand, yard stick for more serious things as an older kid from about age 9.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Fighting, being rude, usual things kids do

4. were you spanked bare?
No

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Standing up, but had to bend over when getting the yard stick. I was only smacked on the bum.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Varied, between 1 and 4 if hand was used. Yard stick was for more serious punishments and usually involved 5 or 6 hard whacks. The most I got was 10.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
I'll admit that I usually cried after the first one

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
yes

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
no

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Caned on 2 occassions by the Principal, as a 13 and 15 year old

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Date Posted: 14:44:24 12/17/17 Sun

1.) What was the age range for your spankings? 4 and still get spanked age 16.

2.)With what implement were you spanked with the majority of time? Always a paddle with three holes in the middle

3.)What were the common spanking offenses? Lying, fighting, direct disobedience, and curfew

4.)Were you spanked bare? yes every time

5.What was the most common spanking position? OTK

6.What was the average number of licks you received? Between 20 to 25

7.Were you usually spanked until you cried? Yes, sobbing

8.)Were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? yes sibling

9.Did you ever received two or more spankings for the same offense? Yes

10.)Were you paddled or caned in school? Was not allowed in school

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Date Posted: 10:11:25 11/11/14 Tue

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
about age 4 to 14
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
switch or belt
3. What were common spanking offenses?
telling lies, not obeying, general misbehavior
4. were you spanked bare?
a few times, mostly when I was young, but once when I was about 13
5. what was your most common spanking position?
over knee when young, later over bed
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
not sure. it varied but i would say normally around 20
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
no, but many times that was the result of the spanking
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
yes, friends and cousins
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
if i got it at school i would get it again at home
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Yes, in every "odd grade" - 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 and 11 - never in an even grade. Just the way it worked out

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Date Posted: 12:05:15 11/15/14 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
I can remember pre-school years being spanked. Last one was when I was 16
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
hand or paddle
3. What were common spanking offenses?
telling lies, curfew, being in trouble at school
4. were you spanked bare?
yes
5. what was your most common spanking position?
over the bed or over dad's lap
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
hand = 20 to 25. paddle = 5
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
not sure that was the intent, but I almost always was before it was over
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
yes
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
if i got in trouble at school I knew I was in for it at home
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Three times - once in 7th grade and twice in high school. My dad was a teacher at the high school so anytime I got in trouble he was going to find out about it. That made it hard to get away with anything really.
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Lucia
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Date Posted: 08:29:37 11/17/14 Mon

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
Till 15
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Wooden spoon
3. What were common spanking offenses?
Bad behavior notes from school, disobedience, back talk, stealing
4. were you spanked bare?
If serious offence, yes
5. what was your most common spanking position?
Bent over one leg
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
10 to 30 (not very hard)
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
I was crying already before (drama queen)
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Before siblings, yes. Once before a victim.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
No
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Didn't happen in my countru

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Lori
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Date Posted: 15:13:16 11/23/14 Sun

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
can remember getting spanked by my mother at 4 and last one was when I was 13
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
usually just my parents hand but got the spoon a few times
3. What were common spanking offenses?
fighting with my brother, lying, being disobediant
4. were you spanked bare?
always
5. what was your most common spanking position?
over the lap
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
no idea...lol usually was crying to hard to count
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
I was crying already before and begging not to be spanked
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
yes received many spankings before my brother
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
No
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
no schools did not spank

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Date Posted: 18:44:13 12/06/14 Sat

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings? Two or so to I think 14.
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? Hand.
3. What were common spanking offenses? Defiance, not settling down at bed time, fighting with siblings.
4. were you spanked bare? Usually not, though it did happen once in a while for particularly bad behavior.
5. what was your most common spanking position? Standing, across a parent's lap, or laying on a bed.
6. what was the average number of licks you received? 5-10
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? yes
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? not usually but sometimes in front of siblings, once in front of cousins, and once in front of friends
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? yes
10. were you paddled or caned in school? no. My first school paddled but I never got in that kind of trouble.

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Date Posted: 09:37:59 12/07/14 Sun


1. what was the age range for your spankings?
From mom age 3 to 13, after that grandpa til 16
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
wooden spoon
3. What were common spanking offenses?
backtalk or deliberate disobedience
4. were you spanked bare?
always
5. what was your most common spanking position?
hand on the table bending over a little
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
10
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
no
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
cousin and one friend
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
yes
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
no

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JoeR to Evan
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Date Posted: 11:18:04 12/07/14 Sun

Hi Evan,

Was the entry at age 13 of grandpa spanking you, because mom could no longer handle you or it was thought you needed a man to deal with you if it was to be bare butt?

Did your grandpa prefer the wood spoon too?

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Evan to JoeR
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Date Posted: 02:59:59 12/10/14 Wed

I guess I should say that grandpa had spanked (and belted) my butt before I was 13. He watched me after school when I was young so if there was trouble at school or I gave him trouble he took care of business. After puberty started I think mom just decided a man should be the one punishing a boy. Grandpa used his hand when I was little and belt from about age 10.

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JoeR
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Date Posted: 16:32:57 12/10/14 Wed

Thanks Evan for the reply.

Was it just age that provoke grandpa to move from hand to belt when you were 10 or had you done something more serious that he felt deserved a whipping rather than spanking? How far into teen years did he give the whippings?

You mentioned 'trouble in school' as cause for grandpa to spank you. Was school authorized to paddle you & other students or was discipline dealt with my a note/call home so parents could do the punishing?

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Evan to JoeR
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Date Posted: 05:37:32 12/12/14 Fri

Hi Joe I will answer your questions in order:

1. I got my first belting from grandpa for taking my dirt bike out without supervision. He said that earned me the belt over a spanking.

2. Last one was when I was 15.

3. My school did not paddle. They called home.

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Paddy P
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Date Posted: 06:12:46 12/15/14 Mon

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?
As a child until I was 10 there wasne at 15 for drinking
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand
3. What were common spanking offenses?
As a child for giving cheeck but the last one was for drinking
4. were you spanked bare?
No
5. what was your most common spanking position?
Always OTk
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Varied though the last one was 12
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
No
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
no
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
yes
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
no

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JoeR to Paddy
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Date Posted: 17:47:54 12/19/14 Fri

Hey Paddy,

Were you somewhat surprised with that 5 year lull between age 10-15 and then earn a spanking at 15 for drinking?

Did your dad really still use a hand on your butt at 15 and not even required your pants pulled down at 15? I got a belt licking at 17 for drinking & driving home & dad not only had my Levis down but shorts too.

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Deb
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Date Posted: 03:07:12 12/18/14 Thu


Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?
5-15
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hairbrush
3. What were common spanking offenses?
Sassing back, bad attitude, lying and curfew(later)
4. were you spanked bare?
Yes always
5. what was your most common spanking position?
Parents great believers in panties pulled down and over the knee
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
15
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Yes
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Lying in our house got you spanked in front of sibs.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Not sure but probably
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No was not allowed

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Mike
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Date Posted: 13:17:25 12/20/14 Sat

Hi Deb,

"Lying in our house got you spanked in front of sibs"

Were you spanked for lying bare bottom with the hairbrush, while sibs were made to watch?
Was it like a family event, where all kids in the house were expected to be present, so watching a sib getting spanked for lying teaches a lesson to everyone?

What happened if you were caught lying during let us say the daytime when your sibs were out playing or at friends etc.?
Did your parents spank you on the spot not waiting for the sibs get back or did they postpone a spanking until later in the day when all sibs would be in the house?

Was there an offender's age limit for spankings in front of the sibs?

Was your household girls only or mixed boys-girls, and if the latter, how was this situation handled?

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Deb
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Date Posted: 04:31:50 12/22/14 Mon

In our house lying got you spanked and there were 2 girls and a boy and who saw what so what.

My brother was 12 or 13 I was 14 and sister was 15 when we got it last

If sibs were not home you still got spanked but had to tell the sibs later that "I lied and got a spanking."

Yes lying earned you a spanking with your sibs there to watch so everyone learned the lesson of what happened when you were caught lying. Mom usually told us what the lie was and how it was caught and told us what we were going to see was a spanking for telling a lie. With that the liars pants and underpants were pulled down and over the knee they went to get spanked with moms hairbrush.

How were/are spankings handled in your house?

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ginger
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Date Posted: 04:11:59 12/26/14 Fri

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?
I got spanked regularly from 5 through 17, and I got one two weeks before my 20th birthday
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Cane or switch - I'm from Malaysia originally and caning was common there
3. What were common spanking offenses?
Mom is a big believer we could do even better in school if we worked harder, so she used it to push us. And she didn't believe in spanking as the last resort for all behavior. Telling the truth was important to her, and showing disrespect.
4. were you spanked bare?
A couple times I remember when I was younger, not that clothes make much of a difference
5. what was your most common spanking position?
standing, mom holding my left hand in hers. When I was older it was more over the back of a kitchen chair
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
1 or 2
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
no
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Yes, in front of my little brothers.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
On a few occasions
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Yes

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KC
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Date Posted: 07:14:01 12/28/14 Sun

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?
6 till now.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
My parents hand or a cane.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Disrespect, disobediance, not following my parents rules.

4. were you spanked bare?
Yes or over my underwear

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Bending over a chair or my desk.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
3 to 6 strokes.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Yes I cry.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Yes

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yes

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Caned.

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JoeR
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Date Posted: 10:13:49 01/03/15 Sat

Was the school cane ever on your underpants or bare? What was the usual number of strokes with the school cane? Were these mainly for you as a younger boy or when you were older?

Was home spankings the cane too, or dad use his hand, strap or something else to spank you?

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KC
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Date Posted: 08:24:37 01/06/15 Tue

No, canings at school are given over your uniform trousers. How many strokes you get depends what you are being caned for, for three demerits you get three strokes but for breaking serious rules you get more. I've been caned several times since its difficult to avoid getting demerits.

At home my parents use a cane now.

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JoeR
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Date Posted: 12:00:48 01/09/15 Fri

So KC...what earns you demerits? Is there a provision for rewards that could offset a demerit? Is there a time frame to incur demerits before the slate is wiped clean and you start over to avoid 3 and a caning?

I can imagine 3 even over uniform trousers could leave a bottom hurting for awhile. Were any of yours serious where it was more than 3 strokes?

Has dad ever taken his cane to your backside when bottom is still fresh from getting a school caning because you got the cane at school? Dad leave your trousers up for the cane at home? Ever feel a belt/strap rather than cane?

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KC
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Date Posted: 07:13:38 01/12/15 Mon

There are a lot of things you can get demerits for things like misbehaving in class, uniform appearance, being late, bad language, disrespect to a teacher. No there are no rewards that can cancel a demerit but if you have less than three demerits at the end of a term then you start the next term with no demerits.
Yes I've had more than three strokes, the most was 6.

My parents have never caned me for getting caned at school but I have been caned for getting a poor school report in some subjects. My trousers are down for canings at home.
No my parents have never punished me with a belt or strap.

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JoeR
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Date Posted: 11:10:35 01/16/15 Fri

Hi KC,

Bet six really tore up your butt cheeks. Was 6 due to having too many extra (more than 3) demerits in a term?

At home was it just trousers pulled down or made to strip to bare butt?

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KC
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Date Posted: 17:16:37 01/19/15 Mon

That caning was for getting into trouble at school with three others. We all got 6 strokes.

At home canings are over my underwear or bare bottom.

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JoeR
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Date Posted: 11:00:01 01/21/15 Wed

Were you 4 caned in front of each other?

Six strokes even on seat of school shorts or trousers must have been painful. Would tear-stained eyes have been real embarrassing after 6 strokes? I would think a guy would find sitting very uncomfortable when caned on underwear/bare.

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KC
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Date Posted: 07:02:46 01/25/15 Sun

The Deputy Headmaster caned us in his office. We didnt get caned together we had to wait outside his office to get called in but you could hear the canings being given. We were all crying.

The cane stings a lot and it is uncomfortable sitting down after especially right after.

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Pete for KC
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Date Posted: 07:21:53 01/31/15 Sat

Hi KC, Were you nervous waiting to get called in to be caned? Where were you in line to be called in, were you first?
What were you wearing when you were caned, your school uniform?

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Pete for KC
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Date Posted: 10:51:59 01/17/15 Sat

Hi KC,
How are canings usually given at your school?

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KC
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Date Posted: 17:23:39 01/19/15 Mon

Canings for demerits are usually given by your form master or your dorm master if you're a boarder. You are told to bend over a desk or chair and then caned.
For more serious things the Headmaster or Deputy Headmaster usually canes you.

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Date Posted: 07:27:05 01/31/15 Sat

Hi KC,
If you get below a certain grade in your school reports does that mean a caning at home?

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Steve D
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Date Posted: 02:48:50 01/05/15 Mon

1. what was the age range for your spankings? 5 to 11
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? Hand from Mom, Dad the belt
3. What were common spanking offenses? not obeying, general misbehavior
4. were you spanked bare? Pants and underwear down
5. what was your most common spanking position? Over the knee
6. what was the average number of licks you received? 10
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? No
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? No
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? No
10. were you paddled or caned in school? No

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Harri
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Date Posted: 08:10:05 01/10/15 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings? 4 to 13
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? Hairbrush
3. What were common spanking offenses? Misbehaving, fighting,
4. were you spanked bare? Yes
5. what was your most common spanking position? Over knee
6. what was the average number of licks you received? Dont remember, 20-30 ?
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? Yes
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? Siblings saw soetimes
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? No
10. were you paddled or caned in school? Not in our country

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Quinn
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Date Posted: 13:28:43 01/15/15 Thu

1. what was the age range for your spankings?

First spanking was at 5 or 6, last was 13

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?

Paddle

3. What were common spanking offenses?

Lying, being disrespectful, being lazy at school, arguing with my brother

4. were you spanked bare?

Every single time.

5. what was your most common spanking position?

Over my dad's knee.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?

A lot! I never counted but always at least 20+

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?

Oh yes, every time.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?

Yes. Spankings happened in my room but dad never closed the door. Once in school got paddled with 4 other boys in front of the entire locker room.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?

Only once. Got paddled in school and when I got home dad gave me a spanking for getting paddled in school.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?

Only once. I was 12 and got paddled in the locker room by the gym coach.

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Date Posted: 01:17:09 01/30/15 Fri

1. About 2 to 11
2. I've only been spanked with the hand
3. Not listening or trouble in school
4. My parents always spanked bare butts
5. Lying over the knee
6. Probably about 30.
7. I always cried.
8. My sisters might have seen me spanked a few times. My parents didn't care. I was spanked in front of my whole family for being rude to my aunt.
9. I don't think so.
10. No one was paddled or caned in my schools.

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Nathan
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Date Posted: 10:30:53 01/31/15 Sat

About 5 to now (still spanked, I'm 15)
Brush, switch, hand
Disobeying, lying, disrespect
Most often bare butt
Over knee, sometimes on bed
Usually about 30, more or less
Always cry
Not usually
Yes, offense the same, details different. When I was younger I got spanked again a few minutes after one spanking if they thought I hasn't learned. That was the worst.
Yes in 3rd grade. We moved and now my state doesn't allow school spanking. I'm glad about that.

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Donald
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Date Posted: 15:24:20 12/16/16 Fri

Hey Nathan: I can sympathize with you on getting a switch as I did too, always bare. Who cut your switch - you or your dad? Switches really stung.

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Allen
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Date Posted: 09:23:56 02/07/15 Sat

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?
From early childhood until about 16.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
A hairbrush at home and paddle at school.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
General disrespect, not doing something I should, poor behavior at school or public

4. were you spanked bare?
Yes, at home.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over a lap and then over the bed bending over. At school overa desk or hands on the wall.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
At home many, many. At school between 3 and 6 swats.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Yrs.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Yes.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Not often, but sometimes.

10. were you paddled or caned in school
Yes, paddled at school

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JoeR to Allen
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Date Posted: 09:30:08 02/13/15 Fri

Were you still school paddled into HS years?

Would dad deliver another once home if you got school paddled?

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Allen
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Date Posted: 18:58:38 03/03/15 Tue

Sometimes I would get a spanking at home. It really depended on what it was for. I often got spanked at home when I had school work or grade related problems even though that didn't get me paddled at school. In 5th grade I goofed off a lot and had mediocre parent teacher meetings. My dad whooped me and let my teacher know. For the rest of the year she knew that she could get me spanked at home.

My mom cared more for the other behavior at school which got me paddled more often at school. My dad thought "boys will be boys" whereas my mom didn't quite have the same idea for *her* son. So I would more often go over her lap for a round with her hairbrush or a ping pong like paddle.
In high school they didn't always notify parents when a student was paddled.

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JoeR
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Date Posted: 07:12:12 03/06/15 Fri

Hi Allen,

Did that notice to your 5th grade teacher and dad's whuppin at home improve your school behavior in 5th?

Were you HS paddled?
Would dad still whoop your butt as a HS boy or then too old?

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Allen Brown
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Date Posted: 11:55:31 04/19/15 Sun

I was sure to get my homework done and in time after the spankings started, yes. But as I got older and definitely in high school I was almost never paddled by my dad, although he was OK with the school to do it.
Mrs Johnson was kind about that though. She used a lot of positive reinforcement and I was a "good" kid that didn't test limits other than unfinished homework.

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JoeR to Allen
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Date Posted: 16:41:55 04/24/15 Fri

Throughout elementary and middle school years, I never imagined the day would come finding me taken to the hall or sent to the office and paddled. I was generally well behaved and cooperative at school.

Part of the middle school and HS handbook distributed at the beginning of each year was a tear-out consent for parents to sign & return if they consented to a paddling. Mine signed.

It was freshman year of HS that I earned my first & only school paddling. It was report after school & to bend over the desk. Mr D gave me a whuppin on the seat of my jeans I had coming. Fortunately my dad never found out.

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Date Posted: 11:17:01 11/13/15 Fri

Although it's been years since, I still get that butterfly and sinking feeling in my stomach when I recall having to get paddled in school. The extreme dread made time feel like it had stopped. It was usually over with pretty quickly. For most offenses it was typically 3 swats. But there could be arbitrarily extra ones added.

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sahdie
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Date Posted: 10:31:31 02/13/15 Fri

1. When living with my first foster parents, age 7-12.

2. Mostly brush and belt.

3. Disobeying, talking back, lying, not doing my chores, throwing tantrums, getting into trouble, whatever.

4. Sure thing.

5. Most often over the knee when younger and held down bending over an armrest later.

6. I was too busy screaming my lungs to count, anything between 5 mins to over 1 hour, depending on how bad I had been.

7. I was already crying when it started.

8. Siblings and neighbors but not my friends.

9. Just once.

10. No.

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James
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Date Posted: 06:58:42 02/16/15 Mon

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?

5 to present ()

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?

Hand and hairbrush (Hairbrush mostly now)

3. What were common spanking offenses?

Lying, detention, smoking, attitude

4. were you spanked bare?

Oh yes.

5. what was your most common spanking position?

Always over the knees

6. what was the average number of licks you received?

Not sure. (too many)

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?

Always cried

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?

No siblings, but have been spanked in front of friends and cousins.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?

Yes, sometimes a second spanking at bedtime.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?

No, not allowed.

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Susan
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Date Posted: 22:07:25 02/22/15 Sun

1. what was the age range for your spankings?

2 to 17.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?

Leather belt, doubled over.

3. What were common spanking offenses?

Attitude, disrespectful tone of voice, not doing something as told the first time.

4. were you spanked bare?

Yes, every time.

5. what was your most common spanking position?

All fours on the bed, although in my younger years mom occasionally spanked across her lap

6. what was the average number of licks you received?

Probably about 25.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?

Yes.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?

Yes, and aunts, uncles and cousins.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?

A few times mom spanked me and dad followed it up when he got home from work, but that wasn't too common

10. were you paddled or caned in school?

A few times, but they outlawed it in my state's public schools when I was in fifth grade.

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Janet
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Date Posted: 06:20:56 01/26/17 Thu

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?
unknown up until 17
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
A belt or the strap after age 13
3. What were common spanking offenses?
Disrespect, not doing chores, being late, lying.
4. were you spanked bare?
Always. I almost always had to undress completely.
5. what was your most common spanking position?
Bending over my father's desk in his office he had at home.
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
One per year of age.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
I was usually crying before it started.
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Never
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yes, if I was paddled at school I was grounded for a week at home and then spanked at the end of the week.
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Yes, I did get paddled at school. Three times.

I went to a private Baptist middle school from grades six to eight. The first time I got paddled was about a month after I started school there. I had a habit of talking in class and the teacher had warned me several times to stop doing it. One afternoon she told me to be quiet and asked me if I knew what happened to students that talked repeatedly in class. I just looked down but she said that they might have to go to the principal's office. Later that afternoon, at afternoon announcements, the school secretary called my name along with some other boy to report to the office after classes.

When I got there, there was another boy waiting and I was told to have a seat. The secretary took the boy into the principal's office and after a short time, I heard the sounds of the paddle being given. That's when I realized how much trouble I was in.

After she showed him out and gave him a note to take home to his parents to be signed, she took me in. The principal talked to me about paying attention in class and not talking out of turn. Finally he said that he was going to have to paddle my bottom. I started to cry but he told me to step over to a table across the office and remove my skirt and panties. I hesitated but the secretary told me not to keep him waiting. I went over to the table where I noticed two different paddles. I took off my skirt and panties and then he got up from his desk and came over and told me to bend over the table shoulder width apart and stick my bottom out.

I got three very painful swats with the smaller paddle that I later learned was from a paddle ball game called Jokari. I was bawling like crazy.

I had to take a note home to be signed which earned me a grounding for a week followed by another spanking from my father. Needless to say I kept my mouth shut in class after that.

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Gary Steven
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Date Posted: 09:50:45 10/27/18 Sat

Hello Janet, When I was going to school spankings and paddling were both common and there were some teachers who would spank or paddle on the underwear or bare bottom. I got a couple of spankings on my underwear with a paddle in first grade from my teacher in front of the class and fifth grade I got a bare bottom spanking after class from my teacher.

I saw in your survey you said you got paddled at school three times and then related the story of a bare bottom paddling you got soon after you started school. I was just curious about the other two times you were paddled, were they bare bottom as well or were they given over your clothes?

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Jennifer
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Date Posted: 13:13:15 02/23/15 Mon

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Date Posted: 19:54:28 07/31/14 Thu
Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings? 1 till 18
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?paddle
3. What were common spanking offenses?lying, horseplay, not doing what told
4. were you spanked bare?yes always
5. what was your most common spanking position?bent over couch
6. what was the average number of licks you received?one for each year of age
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?i always cried
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?not usually just a couple times with my sister
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?no
10. were you paddled or caned in school?yes

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Tony
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Date Posted: 13:04:51 03/01/15 Sun

1, 4 till 16

2, Slipper, hand and the cane when I'd been really bad.

3, Disobedience, breaching my curfew, trouble in school, answering back, not doing chores

4, Yes

5, Over the knee for spanking and bending over for the cane

6, Not sure for a spanking, it always felt like a lot. For the cane it would go up in threes so it'd mostly be 3,6,9 or 12.

7,Yes

8, Not friends but sometimes in front of my brother

9, Yes

10, Slipper/Plimsoll in junior school. Cane in senior school.

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Paul (Happy)
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Date Posted: 14:37:31 04/11/15 Sat

1. 2-18
2. Hand 2-5, hairbrush/ruler 6-8, shingle 9-18
3. Disobedience, sassing
4. Rarely
5. Over mom's knee/lap
6. Could not count past 3-5 as I was crying too loud, possibly a couple dozen, seemed to never end
7. Always
8. Rarely
9. No
10. Spanked by some teachers until 7th grade much like my mom.

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Connor
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Date Posted: 20:56:35 04/15/15 Wed

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?
From pretty little until now, I'm 15
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Usually it is with the hand or dad's belt
3. What were common spanking offenses?
bad grades, laziness, talking back, fighting with brothers, not doing chores
4. were you spanked bare?
Yup with pants pulled down to ankles or off
5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over dad's knee or in the diaper position (so embarrassing)
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
10-15
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Yup pretty much always
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Yeah whenever I misbehaved while friends were over
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yup for a few bigger things
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No but I was spanked by a coach

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Lee
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Date Posted: 01:46:56 04/16/15 Thu

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings? 5-12
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? ping pong paddle
3. What were common spanking offenses? talking back, trouble at school
4. were you spanked bare? sometimes
5. what was your most common spanking position? over the lap or bent over bed
6. what was the average number of licks you received? 10-15
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? yup
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? not in front of them, but they probably heard from another room
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? no
10. were you paddled or caned in school? no

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Meredith
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Date Posted: 13:22:21 04/17/15 Fri

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?
2.5 to 19, but my second to last one was around my 16th birthday so saying "19" is a bit misleading
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Belt. Well spatula when little. Otherwise belt.
3. What were common spanking offenses?
Danger, Disrespect, or repeated offenses.
4. were you spanked bare?
Yes
5. what was your most common spanking position?
When little, over my mom's knee facing backwards (with spatula). After that, bent over back of chair with belt.
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Anywhere from 1/2 my age to a few more than my age.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Not intentionally, but I was usually crying really quickly (total wimp about pain)
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
No, but in earshot sometimes.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
No
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Once, paddled in 10th grade

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Date Posted: 20:10:06 04/17/15 Fri

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1. what was the age range for your spankings?
3-11
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand
3. What were common spanking offenses?
Deliberate defiance, back talk, fighting/being mean to sis
4. were you spanked bare?
always
5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over the knee
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
8?
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Yep
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
No
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
I don't think so.
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No.
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Date Posted: 14:03:51 04/25/15 Sat

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings? 4-17
2. with what implement were you spanked the maj
ority of the time? hairbrush (belt a close 2nd)
3. What were common spanking offenses? bad grades, coming home late, breaking things (always accidentally)
4. were you spanked bare? almost always
5. what was your most common spanking position? OTK
6. what was the average number of licks you received? 50
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? yes
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? yes
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? yes
10. were you paddled or caned in school? no

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Johnh
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Date Posted: 13:00:48 05/19/15 Tue

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings? 6 to 16
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? hand, iron cord, switch by mom until 10 then heavy leather strap by dad until 16.
3. What were common spanking offenses? disobedience, notes from school, coming home late, talking back.
4. were you spanked bare? before 10 sometimes after 10 always. My dad always made me totally remove pants, shorts, shoes and socks.
5. what was your most common spanking position? Bent over the end of a work bench in the basement or on my stomach on the bed over pillows.
6. what was the average number of licks you received? Anywhere from 10 to over 50. Depended on the offense.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? When I was young but as a teen I howled and begged a lot but no tears.
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? In front of cousins, aunts and uncles a few times.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? Once or twice if mom spanked me and then dad did when he got home.
10. were you paddled or caned in school? No, they would send notes home and I would get it from dad.

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pielx
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Date Posted: 19:54:26 05/20/15 Wed

1. what was the age range for your spankings?

from 4 - 11, I was 6 the first time I remeber getting a formal, pull my own trousers and undies down spanking from my dad, but I definitely remember getting bare bottom slaps from mum, grandma, and my auntie between 4 & 6, I have a very clear memory of my grandma pulling down my pjs and smacking my bare bottom 5 times when I was 4 because I wouldnt go to sleep and was intent on being a pain in the backside instead, turned out she ended up being a pain in mine, surprised the hell out of me and after a bit of loud crying I elected to settle down and quietly cry myself to sleep rather than risk getting another spanking.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?

mostly mum or dads hand, ,except once I got one from mum, undies down over my bed with her hairbrush (small round plastic type, I was 8 and it stung like a bitch!!), and my last spanking at 11 was with my dads belt when I nearly burnt the house down but thats another story for another time!

3. What were common spanking offenses?

lying, misbehaving in public, disobedience, back talk, all the usual I guess!

4. were you spanked bare?

yep, had to pull my trousers and undies down almost every time

5. what was your most common spanking position?

when i was little (up to 8 or so) Id be most likey over a parental lap and after that i usually had to bend over my bed

6. what was the average number of licks you received?

I dont think my dad ever counted, he just kept on spanking till he figured id learned my lesson, I dont remember ever getting less than 20 from him, and id always be a loudly sobbing mess of tears and snot afterwards

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?

yeah, my dads spankings hurt, he was an engineer his whole life and had large hard hands like leather paddles and even for my last few spankings between 10-11 I still cried like a naughty toddler

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?

dont have any siblings but I remember once getting spanked with one of my cousins who was about the same age as me, we were both 7 and had gone outside to play on a rainy day when we had been expressly forbidden to do so, when my auntie saw us she called us both into the kitchen, made us take off our muddy jeans and stand against the wall, then she called my cousin over, told him to pull down his pants, and gave him a hard hand spanking and then sent him crying back to the corner, then to my surprise she called me over (i thought she wouldnt spank me as she hadnt since i was a toddler, i figured she would just tell my dad and then id probably get a spanking later) but no, she told me that because i had disobeyed her directly, that she was going to give me a spanking, i didnt argue, not wanting the possibility of getting one from dad as well as her, i pulled my undies down as ordered and she spanked me hard, it hurt a lot but not as much as one from my dad, afterwards both me and cousin had to stay in his room until dad came to pick me up later, even though I still had a sore bottom i was glad i had been spanked by my aunt rather than him

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?

once that i recall, i was 6 and had pooed my undies and tried to hide the evidence under the sofa till i could clean up and get rid of it, I i got caught by my dad, he made me take a bath, then afterward he made me lay naked and wet on a towel over my bed for a wet bottom hard spanking before being made to get into pjs and get into bed, about an hour later he came into my room, made me get out of bed and pull down my pjs to go over his lap for a much harder 'proper' spanking, I certainly learned that honesty and a bit of embarrasment is infinitely better than 2 spankings in the space of an hour

10. were you paddled or caned in school?

no, lucky it had been banned in uk schools just before i starting, damn, giving away my age now!

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Don_W
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Date Posted: 17:48:12 05/27/15 Wed

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
From age 6 to 15.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand or hairbrush from mother; hand or belt from father and uncle.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Talking back, neglecting chores even after reminders, occasionally lying.

4. were you spanked bare?
Usually but not always.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over the lap for hand or hairbrush; bent over a workbench for the belt.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Widely varying. The first time I got the belt it was only two. The most I remember is 20.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Almost always, though there were a few times I did not cry when spanked by my mother.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
No siblings but was spanked in front of cousins and friends a few times. Not often.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Only twice that I recall; I was taken back out to the barn for a second session later in the same day.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No.

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Craig
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Date Posted: 12:12:39 06/03/15 Wed

1. what was the age range for your spankings?

4 till 16

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?

My dad's hand till I was 8 then the paddle.

3. What were common spanking offenses?

Disobedience, backtalk, breaching curfew, fighting with brothers, notes from school, lying.

4. were you spanked bare?

Yes, always.

5. what was your most common spanking position?

Over the knee

6. what was the average number of licks you received?

It varied but an average paddling was about 15 spanks.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?

Yes, I didn't make it through many of dad's paddlings without crying.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?

In front of my brothers but never friends.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?

Very rarely but I remember once getting paddled by my aunt then again later on by my dad.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?

No

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Kevin
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Date Posted: 18:50:18 06/16/15 Tue

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?

5-17

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?

Hand or belt (home)
Wood paddle (school)

3. What were common spanking offenses?

Talking back, being disrespectful, not doing chores or what I was told.

4. were you spanked bare?

Sometimes.

5. what was your most common spanking position?

Over the bed (home)
Over the back of the chair (school)

6. what was the average number of licks you received?

15-20 at home, 5 at school

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?

yes

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?

Siblings, yes, friends, no

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?

Unfortunately, yes. Definitely worse the second time.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?

Got some good paddlings. All well deserved.

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Lizzy
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Date Posted: 21:30:30 08/01/15 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
The earliest was probably 3. My last one was 17.
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
hairbrush
3. What were common spanking offenses?
Backtalk
4. were you spanked bare?
Sometimes
5. what was your most common spanking position?
over the knee
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
20-30
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Yes
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
My older sisters, a few cousins, but never freinds
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
No
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No

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Bob A
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Date Posted: 16:55:58 08/02/15 Sun

I was spanked from age four until I left the house for college at eighteen.
My parents always spanked me with a leather belt.
Common spanking offended were talking back, disobeying their orders, breaking curfew , bad grades.
I was always spanked bare.
The average spanking was 12 swats.
They made me cry every time.
Yes, I was spanked in front of my brothers and cousins.
Rarely for the same offense except bad grades.
Yes, I was paddled in school.

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Date Posted: 15:47:17 09/01/15 Tue


Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?
3-15 years old
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand, belt, paddle, wooden spoon
3. What were common spanking offenses?
talking back, breaking things, being late, stealing,
4. were you spanked bare?
Once with the belt, a couple times by hand in the bathtub, most of my spankings were in underwear, shorts or swimsuit, occasionally in jeans
5. what was your most common spanking position?
otk or bent over
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
varied from one to a couple hundred, otk hand or spoon spankings were fast and furious that lasted for a long time, probably average was fifty
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Sometimes
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Yes, spanked in front of class in grade school, with friends or siblings while growing up
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
yes, many times, and once because I said that the first spanking wasn't very hard
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Yes, many hand spankings in grade school and one paddling in middle school (called from PE so it was in gym shorts)

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Date Posted: 04:51:59 09/23/15 Wed

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Date Posted: 19:54:28 07/31/14 Thu
Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings? From very young to now (14)
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? Hand
3. What were common spanking offences? Repeatedly not doing as told and talking back/shouting at my mum, she calls it disrespect, but she doesn't listen to me!
4. were you spanked bare? Only if it's for something pretty bad
5. what was your most common spanking position? Over her lap
6. what was the average number of licks you received? Not sure, never counted and it depends on what it's for.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? Often, but not always, I try to show her I am grown up, but it doesn't work very well
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? No
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offence? Depends what you mean, I often get t for the same type of thing, but not really twice for the same exact thing that happened.
10. were you paddled or caned in school? No

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Date Posted: 21:26:54 09/28/15 Mon

1) 5 to 16
2) up until the age of 12 dad's hand, after that it was dad's belt
3) lying, talking back, general disobedience, skipping school, and hiding bad reports from school.
4) always bare
5) always over dad's knee
6) hand spankings varied, the belt was usually 1 lick per year of age, sometimes more if I gave attitude about getting the belt.
7) was usually crying before spanking began
8) only girl always spanked in my room
9) one time when I got in trouble at school, had to stay after school, my dad had to leave work to pick me up. He gave me a spanking in the school parking lot over my panties, and when we got home he gave me a bare bottom spanking, he said that the first one was just a preview of what I was getting when I got home
10) got my knuckles hit with a ruler by a nun at Sunday school for fooling around. They didn't use corpral punishment at my regular schools

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billjacko
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Date Posted: 10:55:26 10/06/15 Tue

what was the age range for your spankings? 12 to 14 at school, 13 to 17 at home
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? Gymshoe
3. What were common spanking offenses? Talking back, causing trouble with friends, being late home
4. were you spanked bare? At school over trousers and underpants, at home bare
5. what was your most common spanking position? bent over back of chair
6. what was the average number of licks you received? 6 - 15 at home with gymshoe
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? Yes
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? No
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? No, but would have been spanked at home if they had ever found out that I had been caned at school (I was, once), or got a detention (I didnt own up when I had)
10. were you paddled or caned in school? Caned, once, 4 strokes on bottom

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Date Posted: 10:09:24 11/01/15 Sun

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
4 till 17

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
In age order - hand, slipper, hairbrush and strap at home. Ruler and cane in school

3. What were common spanking offenses?
House rule breaches, being late, disrespect, trouble at school, disobedience, general naughtiness.

4. were you spanked bare?
I always got it bare at home and over trousers or just undies at school.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over mum or dad's knee when younger then bending over bed or sofa arm when older.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
I couldn't say, it varied a lot on what I had done, how old I was and what implement was being used.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
At home I would cry during spankings. At school I would fight back the tears.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Siblings plenty of times, other relatives a few times but never friends.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yes, if spanked at school or by anyone other than my parents I'd bet a follow up spanking at home. Also on a couple of occasion when I'd done something really bad I got spanked by mum and then another one off dad when he got home.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Yes, spanked with a ruler when younger and caned when older.

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Date Posted: 02:31:26 11/13/15 Fri

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
From before I can remember until leaving home. I remember being spanked during a diaper change and frequently observed this happening to my little brothers. Based on later discussions with my parents I think I was about 5 months old for my first spanking (a couple of swats with a wooden spoon for rolling over). I got spanked multiple times as a 17 year old and twice after I turned 18. My last spanking was for getting drunk while home on break as a 20 year old.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?

After age 5 it was the paddle. Before that dad's hand (OTK) or a spoon (usually diaper position).

3. What were common spanking offenses?

Disobedience, back talk, fighting with my brothers, not cleaning room/other choices, tantrums, failing to finish homework satisfactory, trouble at school, etc. Clearly depends on age: when I was three I might get spanked multiple times a day for potty accidents but its not like that was an issue when I was 11.

4. were you spanked bare?

Almost always. Other than the occasional quick warning smack, a clothed spanking always meant a bare bottom one later. Like, in public I might get a smack or two on my pants but then I was sure I would get a tanning in private. The only situation where I would get a real spanking on pants or underpants and not get it bare later was if it was for a minor offense at an extra curricular activity like choir or sports practice (but if it was school or church I was out of luck).

5. what was your most common spanking position?

Over dad's knee.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?

Unsure. Maybe 30?

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?

Always.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?

Sometimes. Most spankings were at least semi private to remove distractions, but there was no guarantee of that. Certainly, if I had got in trouble together with my brother or a friend we were likely to be spanked together. Also, if I was being spanked for hurting someone else the victim might get invited to watch.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?

Yes.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?

Paddled at (christian) school, always clothed and normally just a few swats. Sunday school (different church) spanked bare/underpants with little privacy. Always got a second spanking when I got home.

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Date Posted: 05:32:35 11/15/15 Sun

Bit of an unusual survey but anyhow.
1. Spankings started probably somewhere between 3-6 (should probably ask my parents sometime to clarify) and I do clearly remember the last one got at 15.
2. The paddle was what I was always spanked with at home. However I may have been hit with a hand when really little but I don't remember exactly. I did have a taste of the belt though on a few rare occasions.
3. Common offenses which landed me a sore bottom included lying, cussing, poor behavior at school, violence with friends/sibling, late curfew etc
4. Yes I was spanked on the bare bottom at home.
5. The most common position would definitely be over the knee. Got a few just bending over an object but all home ones were bent over the knee.
6. I don't think my parents counted licks, they just spanked until they were happy with the end result.
7. Yes all spankings I remember ended with tears.
8. Yes I was spanked in front of my older brother before and yes I also got a few in front of friends. Some even by their parents.
9. School spankings were on most occasions followed up at home. If I had gotten one at a relative's or family friend's house then sometimes a second one awaited when I got home.
10. Yes I was paddled in school. All were during elementary except the one I got in freshman year.

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Date Posted: 07:14:50 11/22/15 Sun

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
From 4 until about 11.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand until 7, then slipper and hairbrush. Nursery cane rarely.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Playing up, being cheeky.

4. were you spanked bare?
Yes, vast majority of my spankings were on my bare bottom.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over the knee. But have had to touch my toes whilst being whacked.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Varied widely. No set number of smacks with hand. Slipper and hairbrush, normally 20/30. Cane, normally 4/6.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Spanked until crying, kicking and pleading.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Only occasionally.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
No.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No, only smacked legs and bottom and slippered with school plimsoll.

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Date Posted: 10:35:54 12/10/15 Thu

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?

I was spanked regularly from 5 through 15. I was spanked less, mostly for getting in trouble in school. She last spanked me 2 weeks before my 20th birthday.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?

I'm from Malaysia, a rattan cane.

3. What were common spanking offenses?

I think if I'd have kept my mouth shut ...

4. were you spanked bare?

Only whem my father told her to.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
End of the sofa.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?

2

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?

No

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?

yes

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yes ... mostly if I got spanked away from the house.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?

yes, when we moved to Louisiana I was

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Date Posted: 21:52:04 12/23/15 Wed

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
from about 5 until I was 14 or 15

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Open hand, wooden spoon or a yardstick (which was the worst)

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Fighting, lying, swearing etc

4. were you spanked bare?
No

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Either standing up or bend over. I was only ever hit across the butt

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
varied, as a youngster only ever 1 or 2 slaps. As an older kid and young teen spankings became harder and more serious to remain effecctive. Either a few with the open hand or for more serious stuff dad gave me big whacks with a yardstick, usually between 4 to 6, they really hurt even as a young teen

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
yep, dad could make

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
yes, other brothers

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
No

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Not in school

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Date Posted: 15:17:04 12/28/15 Mon

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings? ages 4 to 19
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? shoe and hairbrush
3. What were common spanking offenses? when I was in my teens it was for sneaking out
4. were you spanked bare? almost always
5. what was your most common spanking position? otk and standing
6. what was the average number of licks you received? I was spanked until my mom decided I had enough.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? always
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? in front of my sister many times
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? yes a couple of times
10. were you paddled or caned in school? nope

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indy
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Date Posted: 13:55:52 04/22/16 Fri

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
From 5 to 12.
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
A hand.
3. What were common spanking offenses?
Being naughty at home and school.
4. were you spanked bare?
All the time.
5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over the knee.
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Depended who was spanking me.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Yes.
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Sometimes.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yes.
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Caned a few times.

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Date Posted: 10:27:02 05/14/16 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
8-17yrs
2.with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? Belt
What were common spanking offenses?
Sassing, curfew, not doing chores,
4.were you spanked bare? Yes
5. what was your most common spanking position?
over the bed, chair
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
10+
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
I was crying before the first lick
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Rarely. usually private
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
all the time. more smacks each time
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No. they didn't paddle

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Michael
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Date Posted: 08:56:45 05/14/16 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
Around 4/5 to 16

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Parent's hand, slipper, belt

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Disobediance, breaking family rules, talking back, being disrespectful, lying

4. were you spanked bare?
Yes, bare bottom at home sometimes.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over the parental lap or bending over something.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Cant really remember, just depended on the reason I was being punished, enough to make me sorry but not that many.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Yes I usually cried, not so much when I got older though.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Yes, occasionally.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yes for getting corporal punishment at school.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Yes, got the plimsoll and cane at school

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Jimmy J.
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Date Posted: 10:36:29 05/14/16 Sat

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?
Of the ones I remember, about 5-17

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Mostly hand until 11 years old, then the belt.

3. What were common spanking offenses? Stupid mistakes, accidents, and bad grades.

4. were you spanked bare?
Almost always

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over the knee up until 11 years old, then face down on the bed.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
With the hand, too many to really count, likely over 100. With the belt, about 20-40 depending on the infraction.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
My spankings continued long past when I started to cry!

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? Not that I can remember. Not that it coudn'thave, it just never worked out that way.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Many times! If I got punished away from home, I'd get spanked again at home, sometimes both parents (or my aunt & uncle)would spank me.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Not officially, There were a couple of unoffical spankings. It was a small school.

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Date Posted: 11:52:57 07/16/16 Sat

>1. what was the age range for your spankings?
3 - 11 roughly

>2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand

>3. What were common spanking offenses?
Disrespect, lying

>4. were you spanked bare?
Almost always. It was beyond rare that I wouldn't be spanked bare.

>5. what was your most common spanking position?
OTK almost all the time

>6. what was the average number of licks you received?
I couldn't keep count but probably 40-50

>7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Always. A spanking wouldn't stop until I was in tears

>8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
A few very memorable times in front of friends or my sister.

>9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
No, I just got spanked longer/harder depending

>10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Never

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Date Posted: 06:53:32 08/08/16 Mon

1. What was the age range for your spankings?
Around 6-16

2. With what implement were you spanked with the majority of the time?
Hand. Once with the belt.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Lying. Talking back.

4. Were you spanked bare?
Yes, for about half of them.

5. What was your most common spanking position?
OTK for almost all of them.

6. What was the average number of links you received?
Depended on the ocassion. Sometimes just a few swats other times a long drawn out situation with probably 20 or 30+.

7. Were you usually spanked until you cried?
Yes. Unless it was one or two swats.

8. We're you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
I was not spanked in front of siblings. I did get a few swats in front of my younger cousins. Also, I was spanked in front of my one really close friend. My mom reasoned that because she and I were such close friends it didn't matter if she saw me get it.

9. Did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yes. For the spanking in front of my cousins. I was spanked over my clothes for a few swats in front of them. Then, after they left I got it bare over my mom's knee.

10. Were you paddled or caned in school?
No.

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Date Posted: 13:26:20 08/27/16 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
2-13.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Disobedience in one form or another. Annoying my parents.

4. were you spanked bare?
Yes.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over the knee.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
I never thought to count, but it was in the range of 1-3x your age.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Always, except for the last time at age 13.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Sister, yes. Friends, no.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Not that I recall. My parents thought one was enough. I agreed.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No, although the Principal of our school was permitted to spank us.

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Date Posted: 11:45:48 08/30/16 Tue


1. what was the age range for your spankings?
4-19

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
started with a hand, usually ended with a paddle

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Sass/disrespect

4. were you spanked bare?
Always

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over a knee/lap

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
20-30

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Yes

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Yes

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yes, occasionally from a sitter/friend's parent and then my parent, occasionally spanked at school and then at home

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Yes, paddled

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Date Posted: 17:03:49 10/10/16 Mon

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
Earliest I can remember was probably around 4 or 5 years old. My last spanking came at 14 after a long stretch of non-spanking punishments.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Usually the belt. Growing up in an Asian household it was either a rattan cane or the belt. As I got older the belt became the dominant implement.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Disobedience was the capital offence to my parents. Most of my spankings I got for either bad report cards, disrespect or disobedience.

4. were you spanked bare?
Always. There were a few times that I was spanked over my briefs/boxers but those were few and far between

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Lying over the bed or piano bench.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
I don't actually remember. To me it felt like an infinite amount. In retrospect probably about 10 when I was younger and 20 when I was older.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Yes. As I got older I would always try to "refuse" to cry, especially when I thought I didn't deserve the spanking! This was almost never successful. By the third or fourth stroke of the belt tears were flowing down my cheeks and I would be fully bawling by spank #8 or so.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
No, my parents were always strict about privacy. I was spanked with my sister a few time for co-conspirating on some trouble making

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
I can only remember one incident where my mom found out I had lied about stealing, a doubly whammy, and she immediately ordered me to pull down my pants while she got the belt. After being reduced to tears and endless promises to never do it again. My dad gave me a spanking later that night to 'reinforce' the lesson.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No. The public school system here (Vancouver, Canada) doesn't use corporal punishment.

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Date Posted: 13:25:54 12/10/16 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings? I was 4 yrs old the first time i remember being spanked, 16 the last time
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? My father had a paddle
3. What were common spanking offenses? Disobedience, not listening, swearing, talking back, getting in trouble in school, fighting
4. were you spanked bare? Yes, most of the time
5. what was your most common spanking position? OTK when younger, bent over holding onto the seat of a chair when older
6. what was the average number of licks you received? mourned 12-15
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? spanking usually continued after I was crying. Sometimes would be crying before the spanking started
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? Yes, my brothers and I were paddled in front of each other several times
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? Yes
10. were you paddled or caned in school?I was paddled in school several times

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Date Posted: 11:46:59 12/25/16 Sun

1. what was the age range for your spankings? from age 4 until end of HS
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? Hand and sometimes a paddle
3. What were common spanking offenses? talking back, lying, not coming home from school on time, not cleaning my room, arguing with mom or dad
4. were you spanked bare? about 1/2 time over panties and the half bare
5. what was your most common spanking position? OTK
6. what was the average number of licks you received? about 20 I think
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? No because I was usually crying by about the 4 or 5th spank
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? Only in front of my sister when she was in trouble at the same time. We saw us both be spanked when that happened
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? Yes, many times
10. were you paddled or caned in school? No, but hand spanked by my third grade teacher once.

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Date Posted: 04:17:59 12/27/16 Tue

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings? - I was spanked between as young as i can remember, so maybe 3 or 4 to 16
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? - hand, wooden spoon, hairbrush or belt
3. What were common spanking offenses? being disrespectful, lying, breaking rule, bad grade, lying, fighting with my sisters.
4. were you spanked bare? yes, often.
5. what was your most common spanking position? over the knee or leaning over the side of my bed.
6. what was the average number of licks you received? - not sure. A lot.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? - I don't remember ever being spanked without crying...
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? yes, sisters.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? Yes, a few times. Mainly when mom would spank and dad would spank again when he got home from work.
10. were you paddled or caned in school? yes, paddled. A few times

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Rebecca UK
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Date Posted: 07:32:09 08/09/17 Wed

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings? - 3 to 17
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? - hand, slipper and cane for serious offences
3. What were common spanking offences? lying, truancy, forgetting homework.
4. were you spanked bare? not often - at school it was always over clothes.
5. what was your most common spanking position? bending over and grabbing knees or touching toes.
6. what was the average number of licks you received? - 3 to 6.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? - I usually cried after getting caned but not after the slipper.
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? yes, we were slippered in front of the class.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? No.
10. were you paddled or caned in school? yes, I was caned on my hands and bottom and slippered

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Date Posted: 11:54:37 12/27/16 Tue

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
I think 6 to 13. I don't actually have any memory of the first.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand. Like 90% were hand, with paddle-like implement reserved only for when I was in "big trouble."

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Backtalk, bad attitude, surly sarcastic behavior.

4. were you spanked bare?
Sometimes, but it was reserved for a more-severe spanking. The most common was pants down but underwear on.


5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over the knee


6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Double my age with the general rule. Not counting single-swat incidents but only formal spankings. A note though, a smack to each cheek counted as "one," a fact that childhood me thought to be so unfair.


7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
I always cried. Hand spankings on the underwear I'd cry maybe halfway through, hand on the bare after the first 4 or 5 smacks, paddle on the bare pretty much immediately.


8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
No, never.


9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Sort of. As mentioned in #3, I'd get spanked for bad attitude. Several times I'd get that, then behave only for a few hours and backtalk again, and get another spanking. So technically the second spanking was for a different specific offense, but both were for a general day's worth of bad attitude.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No. The school did paddle and a few classmates got it, but not me. Usually just 1 kid per semester, sometimes a semester would go by with none. You had to *really* get in big trouble for that to happen.

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Date Posted: 10:21:45 01/16/17 Mon

1. what was the age range for your spankings? 0-13


2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? hand

3. What were common spanking offenses? basically anything and everything; usually got spanked every day, sometimes 5 or 6 times a day.

4. were you spanked bare? sometimes.

5. what was your most common spanking position? over the knee, or over the bed, sometimes standing up

6. what was the average number of licks you received? sometimes just 10 or 20 for minor offenses, sometimes over 200.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried? yes

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? yes

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? yes, sometimes my mom would spank first, and then tell my dad that she didn't know if it was hard enough, then he'd make sure it was hard enough.

10. were you paddled or caned in school? just once, paddled in the first grade.

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Date Posted: 14:07:02 06/27/17 Tue

1. what was the age range for your spankings? 1-17


2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? Paddle, belt

3. What were common spanking offenses? Disobedience and not telling the truth.

4. were you spanked bare? Always

5. what was your most common spanking position? Over the knee, bending over bed or furniture.

6. what was the average number of licks you received? Many. Parents spanked until they thought I had learned my lesson.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried? I was usually screaming before it started.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? yes

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? No. If I received a second spanking, it was for not complying with the first spanking.

10. were you paddled or caned in school? I was paddled once in grammar school and twice in middle school.

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Allison
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Date Posted: 15:00:02 07/27/17 Thu

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings? 8-14
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? Hairbrush
3. What were common spanking offenses? talking back, not listening, lying
4. were you spanked bare? never
5. what was your most common spanking position? Over the lap, a couple of times standing
6. what was the average number of licks you received? 5, except for my worst spanking which was 7 or 8
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? Always cried
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? Yes, my brothers a couple of times
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? Once, on my worst spanking where I was spanked in a department store and then got the wooden spoon at home
10. were you paddled or caned in school? No

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Date Posted: 18:55:56 08/17/17 Thu

1. what was the age range for your spankings? From 6 to 16
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? Hand, spoon and belt.
3. What were common spanking offenses? Bad grades, bad attitude and being disrespectful
4. were you spanked bare? Always was bare
5. what was your most common spanking position? Over the knee, lying on the bed when I grew up
6. what was the average number of licks you received? Depending of the offense
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? No but I cried most of the times
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? Yes several times, specially in front of my brothers.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? Yes a couple of times if my parents decided that I didn't learned my lesson.
10. were you paddled or caned in school?never but my teachers would tell my parents my offense and they knew that I would have a "disciplinary talk" at home.

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Date Posted: 12:22:09 10/28/17 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
Probably 3 - 17. My parents strongly believed in spanking.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Mostly hand. Occasionally, hairbrush. A couple times, a paddle.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Usually serious things like lying and sneaking out to things my parents told me I couldn't go to, but something general attitude issues as well.

4. were you spanked bare?
Only for the most serious times. Usually after I had been spanked for the same thing previously. I usually got it on my panties. Panties weren't much protection. I think it was mostly a psychological things to have my butt bared knowing what is about to happen.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over my mom's lap. She'd sit on a bed and I had to lay across it with the rest of the bed supporting the rest of my body. The couple times I was paddled by my aunt, it was standing and bending over.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
No idea for my mom's, but with the paddle, 5.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
At first, yes, but later, I started making myself cry to end it quickly. However, my mom I guess realized this and she just spanked me until she thought it was enough.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Never. Parents believed all spankings should be in private and only between me and them.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Like repeat violations of rules? Yep. Those were usually the times I got it bare.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No. Parents believed that only they should be spanking me. However, getting in trouble at school may have meant a spanking at home.

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Date Posted: 02:27:48 12/15/17 Fri

1. what was the age range for your spankings? I remember getting them at 4 or 5 up to 16. I think I got some when I was younger but dont really recall them.
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? Early on it was with the hand but sometimes with other readily available items if it was serious, later the occasional switching and many paddlings after 6th grade.
3. What were common spanking offenses? What I didnt get spanked for might be a shorter list 😊. Often it was disobedience, backtalk, lying, fighting and horseplay and anything else I should have known better than to do!
4. were you spanked bare? Yes
5. what was your most common spanking position? Over the knee
6. what was the average number of licks you received? No set number, just until they thought the job was done.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? Always
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? Yes, both.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? Many times.
10. were you paddled or caned in school? Yes, paddled.

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Date Posted: 13:32:51 12/17/17 Sun

1. I was spanked from 4 through 15 at home. I received one at school prior to graduating at 18.

2. The hand at first, later a homemade brush size and shaped paddle and occasionally the switch or belt.

3. Lying, disobedience, smoking (when older) disrespect, etc.

4. I was almost always spanked bare at home. The rare public spankings were over clothing.

5. I was usually across my mother's or father's knee. If the switch or belt was used I would be bent over the end of the bed, sofa or table.

6. I don't think anyone counted. They lasted until I learned my lesson, usually a very red and sore behind.

7. Yes, Though as I got older I tried to be a tough guy which was not overly smart on my part as the severity level increased accordingly.

8. I was an only child so normally my spankings were private, however, in public areas of the house often the kitchen or living room. A few times relatives, cousins, aunts, uncles walked in while I was being spanked. The first time the spanking stopped immediately and my bare bottom was covered, but after that my spankings continued in front of whoever walked in until finished.

9. Yes a few times. If a babysitter or teacher had to spank me, I usually got another from mom or dad.

10. A few light spankings in grade school from the teachers. Not officially in junior high or high school, but 3 of my high school teachers, shop, history and coach/science teachers, carried me into the locker room, just 3 days before graduation when I was 18. They blocked the door and held me up over the shower turret and told me to look at all the cigarette butts in it and that they knew most were mine. "You thought you got away with it, didn't you?", they said. They were right, I had thought so. They de-panted me and spanked and belted me for that an a dozen or so other misdeeds I thought I had gotten away with. It was not a great experience, very embarrassing and painful, too humiliating to report it or tell anyone.

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Date Posted: 03:08:11 12/21/17 Thu

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings? From 6
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? Hand or slipper
3. What were common spanking offenses? Late home, disobedience, misbehave
4. were you spanked bare? No
5. what was your most common spanking position? Over knees or chair
6. what was the average number of licks you received? 6 maybe
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? No
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? No
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? Yes
10. were you paddled or caned in school? No
Peter

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Date Posted: 22:00:52 01/01/18 Mon

1. 7 -10. At first my mother didn't believe in spanking but since I was so noticeably less well behaved that my sisters -- duh, I was a boy -- she decided that it wasn't fair, as she was a bit of a feminist, to let me get away with more.

2. Hairbrush, solid and wooden and, as it seemed to me at the time, large.

3. Arguing with my mother when she was too tired from work and evening classes to put up with it.

4. Serious spankings were at bedtime, having been told earlier "you just wait", across the lap with my pajamas around my ankles. My friends talked about getting serious spankings with at least the pants down, sometimes on underwear, so this was common in the neighborhood.

5. Across the lap, told to hold on to the legs of the chair and not to dare let go.

6. Sometimes I'd get a couple smacks and be told "that was a warning." If I were told "you've been warned, these pajamas are coming down" that meant somewhere in the double digits.

7. I've always teared up easily though I alway tried to be quiet since I knew my sisters were listening and I didn't want to sound like a sissy.

8. My first spanking was at a neighbors house (on a sleep over with a friend) after a fracas with a babysitter. When our mothers got home from a late church service, the babysitter complained about us and we both got spanked in front of his younger sister. She was sharing the bedroom with us and insisted, after our mothers left the room, on comparing who had the reddest bottom. At home, if my mother didn't close the door to the bedroom all the way my sisters were sure to try to watch through the crack.

9. I didn't, but my best friend at the Catholic parochial school I went to got sent to the Monseigneur for a paddling after he got caught taking a shortcut home through the railyards (we all did, but he was the only one caught). He got it pretty good since he was still sore after school when we were walking home. When we got to his house, his mother was waiting on the porch with a switch. We got out of there fast because we didn't even want to think about what was going to happen.

10. yes and no to this. When I started at the parochial school the principal was a notoriously cranky septigenarian who could cause an entire playground full of kids to freeze just by stepping out the door of the school. In my third year she was replaced by a younger nun who wanted to lessen the corporal punishment reputation of the school, but that didn't make it easier on the kids since you were given a note to take home that basically said 'spank this kid." I remember goofing around with a kid on the playground and he scrapped his knee on the asphalt. (The 'playground' was just a church parking lot -- no money for the real thing.) The nun in charge of that recess came over and accused us of fighting. I tried to explain that we were just playing, but the nun just fixed me with a stare and said "do you take me for an idiot?" I shut up since you didn't argue with a nun, but I guess she was waiting for an answer and thought I was thinking it over. I came home with a note that said I was fighting and disrespectful toward a nun. From the way I got punished you would have thought that the nun accused me of punching her.

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Kim
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Date Posted: 08:14:57 01/04/18 Thu

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
4 to 15 at home. Got paddled at school at 16 and 17.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand, hairbrush, belt, switch.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Trying to get out of chores, going places I shouldnt, general disobedience.

4. were you spanked bare?
Most of the time.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over the knee, bent over a chair, laying on my bed.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Probably 14 to 40.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Yes. Sometimes I was crying before it started.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Not very often.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Occasionally, mostly for school misbehavior.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Paddled several times.

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Anne (happy)
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Date Posted: 06:35:44 01/16/18 Tue

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
from age 3 to age 14 mom and dad spanked me
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
they always used hand
3. What were common spanking offenses?
misbehaveing tantrum disobaying
4. were you spanked bare?
always bare bottom spanking
5. what was your most common spanking position?
over the lap
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
age or double age
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
yes I always cried when I was spanked
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
no always spanked in private
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? yes many times
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
never been spanked in school

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Luke
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Date Posted: 20:28:57 02/28/18 Wed

1. what was the age range for your spankings?

I was slapped or smacked from a very early age by parents and teachers, but formal spankings began aged six.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?

Hand only at home. Once received the cane at school.

3. What were common spanking offenses?

Disobedience, rudeness, lying and being overly boisterous.

4. were you spanked bare?

Not always, but from the age of six I received bare bottomed spankings.

5. what was your most common spanking position?

Over the knee.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?

Honestly don't know. A formal spanking seemed to last a few minutes, so I would imagine a lot. However time might have been distorted like anything unpleasant it probably didn't last as long as it seemed.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?

For formal spankings tears were guaranteed.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?

Not when spanked bare bottom.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?

Yes, once for breaking something and then lying about it. I was spanked for both the damage and the lies.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?

Once.

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Robert
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Date Posted: 12:24:56 03/15/18 Thu

I was spanked from 4 till 15
I was spanked most often with a belt
The usual offenses were disobedience and talking back.
At home I was always sosnked bare.
The average soanking was about ten licks
Yes I was spanked till I cried
I was spanked in front of family
My mouth got me trouble most often
I was paddled at school

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Date Posted: 09:40:59 05/13/18 Sun

I was spanked from about 4 till 12ish.

I was spanked with the hand, moving on to mum's slipper when older.

General bad behaviour, fighting with brother, back chat etc.

I was normally spanked over underpants, but did get a few bare bottomed ones for more serious episodes,which I tried to avoid after my first one!

When younger I would be in tears before the first smack.

Mostly I'd be spanked in the bedroom/ back lounge on my own, occasionally my brother was there and a couple of times we got red backsides together!

No,only got hand spanked/ruler at school.I did witness a few lads get the pump/ slipper at primary school.

Cheers Ian.

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Sam
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Date Posted: 08:08:40 10/27/18 Sat

1. First spanking at 5 or 6, last was when I was 11.
2. A hand smacking, then occasionally a slipper or wooden hairbrush.
3. Answering back, not doing as I was told.
4. Yes.
5. Mum & childminders preferred putting me over their lap.
6. Varied widely according to who was punishing me.
7. Apart from occasional play smacking, I was always crying after being lifted of a lap.
8. When quite young at family gatherings, or when at friends houses.
9. Just occasionally I got a second, harder spanking, because I got away with a soft smacking!
10. Was only smacked & slippered at school.

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Date Posted: 07:49:58 10/28/18 Sun

1. Formal spankings started at 5. My last was 16 1/2.
2. Wooden spoon til around 10, then ping pong paddle or wooden hairbrush. Also got the strap if lying was involved.
3. Lying, direct disobedience, disrespect
4. Always bare. I would have to pull doen pants and underwear.
5. Over the knee unless it was the strap, then it was bent over hands in the seat of a chair.
6. Spanked in groups of 12 swats...12 or 24 when younger....typically got 36 or 48 in my teens with paddle or brush...usually 12 with the strap
7. Beyind 7 or 8, I did not cry. Did not want to give mom the satisfaction!
8. Not usually, but a few times I was spanked in front of siblings, including my last one.
9. No
10. No, it was outlawed where I grew up

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Date Posted: 14:32:34 11/22/18 Thu

Lauren, have you posted about that last spanking you got at 16 1/2? What did you get that one for?

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Stephen UK
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Date Posted: 03:32:26 11/17/18 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings? When spanking were for real... 7ish till 15y 7 months -- ie when I started work.
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? Hand slipper then a short leather strap.
3. What were common spanking offenses? Talking back mainly,,, could not keep my mouth shut.
4. were you spanked bare? bare from my chest to my knees.
5. what was your most common spanking position? Over mums knee..
6. what was the average number of licks you received? It varied a lot ...
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? When I was young (10ish) I was....
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? Oh yes in front of all who was around when I got it,,,, and for a few years between 12 and 14 depending on mums reasoning sometime she would spank me by the window...
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? Never..
10. were you paddled or caned in school? Caned on my bottom in front of the class over my trousers a few times.

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Guy
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Date Posted: 17:17:55 11/18/18 Sun

1. what was the age range for your spankings?

I had smacked bottoms and spankings from age 4-15

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?

Hand at home. Hand and slipper and primary school

3. What were common spanking offenses?

Disobedience, rudeness, lying

4. were you spanked bare?

Smacked bottoms were clothed. Spankings started with trousers down with pants following about midway through..

5. what was your most common spanking position?

Over the knee until about 10/11, then sometimes bending over furniture.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?

My age, or for severe spankings, double my age. Very severe was double my age all on the bare bottom.

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?

Always but I was usually crying before it started.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?

Only child but got it in front of friends at their house and in front of others being punished at school.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?

Sometimes. Spankings at school were on underwear. Dad sometimes felt I deserved it bare too. Also a smacked bottom when out May sometimes be followed by a proper spanking when I got home.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?

Several times - spanked or slippered

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Theo
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Date Posted: 05:02:15 11/20/18 Tue

1. what was the age range for your spankings? -- 5 to 18 with the most being from 8 to 16 years old

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? -- Hand to start, then slipper, paddle, hairbrush and leather strap

3. What were common spanking offenses? -- Bad behavior, poor or bad attitude, laziness in school and doing chores, lying, talking back, etc.

4. were you spanked bare? -- Yes all of the time

5. what was your most common spanking position? -- Bent across my parents knees, mostly my dad's

6. what was the average number of licks you received? -- No set number, but until I cried or showed real remorse

7. were you usually spanked until you cried? -- Yes

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? -- Occasionally, but only if that sibling or friend was also getting spanked

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? -- Yes, a couple times, from both parents or another adult who was present

10. were you paddled or caned in school? -- No, it was not legal where I went to school

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Date Posted: 17:09:12 12/31/18 Mon

1. what was the age range for your spankings? 6-14
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? Palm when younger, belt when older
3. What were common spanking offenses? Series offences got an immediate spanking, less serious only after a warning.
4. were you spanked bare? Yes, but underwear pulled down just enough to access backside
5. what was your most common spanking position? With the palm over-the-knee, with the belt over an armchair
6. what was the average number of licks you received? Normally 30.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? Tended not to cry.
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? Always in private, although sister could hear.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? No.
10. were you paddled or caned in school? No, not allowed.

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Julie
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Date Posted: 12:54:04 02/18/19 Mon

1. 3-18
2. Hand, wooden spoon and belt
3. Attitude, backtalk, curfew
4. Every time
5. Elbows in bed
6. With belt 2x my age
7. Yes
8. No
9. Yes, two
10.No

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Caroline
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Date Posted: 06:08:12 03/21/19 Thu

1. what was the age range for your spankings? 3-18

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? wooden spoon, switch, belt

3. What were common spanking offenses? disobedience, lying, not doing chores, rolling eyes

4. were you spanked bare? always

5. what was your most common spanking position? otk until 14 or so, over a chair after that

6. what was the average number of licks you received? anywhere from several for a minor offense to a 10 minute long spanking

7. were you usually spanked until you cried? I always cried as soon as my spanking started

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? quite often, my parents didn't care who saw you. I was spanked in front of my siblings (2 sisters and 2 brothers) the last time when I was 15 or 16.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? several times my dad spanked me after my mom had earlier. When I was 9, my uncle spanked me at his house and told my parents; my mom spanked me as soon as I got home, then a couple hours later my dad came home and I got a third spanking!

10. were you paddled or caned in school? paddled twice

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Adam
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Date Posted: 13:04:44 04/20/19 Sat

1.what was the age range for your spankings?
4 till 14.

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand, belt, switch

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Disobeying, breaking rules, talking back.

4. were you spanked bare?
Yes
5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over the lap or leaning over a table/bed

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
10-20 maybe?

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
I cried I'm sure after each one.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Yes, my sibling at times.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Yes but the offense happened at different times.
10. were you paddled or caned in school.
No

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Rebecca
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Date Posted: 14:42:33 06/08/19 Sat

1 13 months till 17 year's. 2 hand till 3 small round paddle with holes in it and belt for major things. 3 Disobeying not doing chores back talking. 4 yes 5 over the knee or bent over a chair for the belt. 5 10 to 25 less when I was little I always got sentenced to a amount. 6 No I got my licks I was sentenced to I cried from the first lick. 7 Yes I had sisters . 9 Yes when I got the strap in school I got the belt at home . 10 I got strapped at my Christian school.

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Chris
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Date Posted: 11:09:38 07/19/19 Fri

1.3-6 yrs 2. Mostly hand, a couple times with a willow switch. 3. Lying, fighting with sister 4. Always spanked bare bottom. 5. Standing up. Also OTK when little 6. Probably 50-60 or more. 7. Always cried. That never stopped the spanking. 8. Yes, my sister. 9. Yes, once got spanked every night for a week. 10. Yes. Once OTK spanking from 1st grade teacher. Many times paddled by jr. high gym teachers.

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Denny
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Date Posted: 07:14:20 07/20/19 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
Dont really remember the first one. 4-5 maybe. Most recent was yesterday. Im almost 14

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand until I was about 10, then I started getting the belt or hairbrush

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Disobedience, fighting with my brother, not doing chores, mouthing off, curfew

4. were you spanked bare?
Yes, almost every spanking is bare butt

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Over the lap when I was younger, now I usually bend over the end of my bed or the sofa

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
Usually 10

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
Spankings last until my dad is finished. Im usually crying before hes done.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
Sometimes in front of my brother or cousins if were all getting spanked. Otherwise in private.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
No

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
School doesnt allow it, but a detention or something means a call to my parents and that guarantees a spanking at home.

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Derek
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Date Posted: 14:50:32 05/20/20 Wed

1. what was the age range for your spankings? 5 - 16
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time? At home it was hand smacks from mum when I was younger and slipper off dad when I was older. At school it was mostly slipper and cane.
3. What were common spanking offenses? At home things like lying, disobedience and fighting with my brother. At school talking in class and innattention were probably most common.
4. were you spanked bare? At home yes, not at school.
5. what was your most common spanking position? Over mum's knees or lying on bed.
6. what was the average number of licks you received? Normal limit of 6 at school, no set number at home.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried? No.
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends? Yes, that happened both at home and school.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense? No.
10. were you paddled or caned in school? Yes, I got the cane a few times but slipper more often.

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Mott
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Date Posted: 18:42:11 08/15/20 Sat

1. 6 13
2. A wooden spanking paddle
3. Breaking rules, not doing homework, disobeying
4. No, on pajamas or pants
5. Turned around facing my bed
6. 3 6
7. Yes, each time.
8. No
9. No
10. No

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Peter
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Date Posted: 15:37:04 10/06/20 Tue

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
-4/5-16
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
-Hand, wooden brush, Belt, Cane
3. What were common spanking offenses?
-lying, disobedience, back talking, bad school results, being disrespectfull
4. were you spanked bare?
-Yes, always
5. what was your most common spanking position?
-Ovwr my dad's knee or bent over a desk
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
- No exact number but I was usually spanked until I learned my lesson
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
-Yes, always
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
-Mostly in private but sometimes in front of others
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
- Yes, first at school and when I came home again from my dad
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Yers, I was Caned in school

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Paul UK
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Date Posted: 17:56:18 10/03/20 Sat

1. I was spanked between around ages 3 or 4 to about 12, probably would have been at risk of it for a few years older than that, but was mostly very good at covering my tracks by then and otherwise fairly well behaved.

2.spanked by hands if I co-operated at least when younger and sometimes when older, or if I ran away from my mum, which I usually did, then she'd often grab a wooden or rubber soled shoe on her way to my room to beat with. If she grabbed me on the spot I think she would only use an implement if she happened to have a suitable shoe to hand, mostly just used her hand then, but I only realise that looking back, and it still hurt anyway. I usually ran to my room passing the shoe cupboard, which was perhaps a bit dumb really as she would grab one on the way to find me.

3. Perhaps sometimes for badly disobeying or lying. Most commonly for either hitting my older sister (who generally provoked me without being seen) or most typically for just winding up my mum and pretty much challenging her to hit me by ignoring all warnings that she was going to spank me if I kept doing that etc. and I would just keep being rude or generally winding her up.

4. Sometimes not spanked bare, maybe just over underpants or pyjamas if I was lucky. But most often on the bare. Though I never complied if asked to pull pants or underwear down and always fought as hard as I could to prevent it when I realised quickly enough what was about to happen.

5. If I ran to my room then face down on bed if she could turn me over. I used to lie on my back and try to push her away, fight her off, she'd sometimes over power me completely and turn me over, pull shorts, trouser,underwear down to spank, or just fight to turn me over a bit to place a whack or two, and then a couple more. Sometimes used to just half roll me over a bit and just beat one side of my backside, albeit very thoroughly leaving bruises. I can remember going over to my mum a couple of times in the lounge after hitting my sister twice in one evening and she pulled me facing her sort of slightly to one side of her with my face over her shoulder and bum somewhere around her lap but with my front facing her lap, and she pulled down my pyjamas and spanked me. Once or twice OTK bottom of the stairs, but only because that's where she caught me.

6. I'd be surprised if there were any set number. My mum would just keep spanking me well beyond me crying until she was satisfied that I had been very well spanked with whatever she was hitting me with. It seemed to go on forever but was quite probably only 3-5 mins if that. The longer ones would probably be as much because of me trying to fight back than anything else and she'd then keep going for what seemed like ages once I'd given up.

7. I guess occasionally my mum would just give me like a warning slap to the face or leg, or arm but I don't think that really counts, occasionally might have made me cry be it usually didnt. If it was a proper spanking then it would always be until I'd been crying for what seemed to me at the time to have been quite a while.

8. Don't remember being spanked in front of any friends or visitors, except for the odd single warning smack. But was sometimes spanked in front of sister, particularly if I had just hit her in view of my mother whilst we were all in the same room. But if I realised what might be about to happen I would always run away to my room, never co-operated and probably often got it all the worse for that.

9. Not punished more than once for the same instance of the same offense but can remember being spanked hard with pyjamas pulled down on two separate occasions on the same evening for 2 separate incidents of hitting my older sister, guess I didnt learn the first time, or didn't think she'd spank me again. Probably would have hit her a third time if she had provoked me again, but I was probably warned to go to bed and stay there after the second time. Or maybe I got the message that time.

10. Never hit in school though I believe at my first school when I was 4 years old I was sent to the head master for throwing an older boys shirt over the wall into the road at lunchtime after he had taken it off in the sunshine at play time. When in the headmasters office I was very worried whether he would spank me as he was talking to me. I asked him if he was going to smack me. After he said no (it wasn't an option for teachers to spank in any way when I was at school) I was then totally unconcerned about the situation and thought it was funny again. Fortunately I don't think he could have told my parents what happened or I would certainly not have thought it funny anymore once they got involved.

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Jrme
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Date Posted: 04:26:13 10/04/20 Sun

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
5-10

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
Hand. Once my father threatened to spanking me with his belt, but didn't do it.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Once or twice a year

4. were you spanked bare?
Usually I was spanked over my clothes, sometimes over my underwear. I was spanked bare bottom 2 or 3 times, the first time when I was 6, the last time when I was 8 or 9.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Lying on the bed, or standing.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
10-12

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
I cried the first time I got a bare bottom spanking.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
My younger sister was always watching. Never in front of friends.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
No

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No

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Author:
EggHead
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Date Posted: 05:01:34 10/10/20 Sat

1. what was the age range for your spankings?
Roughly 5-15

2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
My mother's right hand.

3. What were common spanking offenses?
Sometimes my mother pretty much manufactured reasons to spank me. But legitimate offenses would include things like back-talk, wilful disobedience, sneaking food or drink without permission, and getting up after bed time. I also went through a little bedwetting phase and got spanked for that (don't think that was fair, seeing as I really couldn't help it, but it happened).

4. were you spanked bare?
Yes, my mother would take my pants and underpants down and smack my bare bottom.

5. what was your most common spanking position?
Bent over. I only got put over my mother's lap when I was very small.

6. what was the average number of licks you received?
15-20

7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
I was often crying even before I was spanked (because the spanking would be preceded by some yelling and screaming, usually accompanied by random slaps to the face). However, if I somehow wasn't crying before the spanking started, it didn't take much to get me going. Sometimes though I cried as much out of anger (if I felt the spanking was unjust) as pain.

8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
I don't have any siblings, otherwise who knows? Never in front of friends.

9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
Not that I can recall. As "spank-happy" as she was, I don't think my mother was into giving follow-up spankings.

10. were you paddled or caned in school?
Never paddled or caned. I did come perilously close to getting the strap once, and the cane twice, but somehow managed to beg my way out of those punishments. The most corporal punishment I ever got at school was being smacked on the back of the hand by a couple of my primary school teachers (who were both female). Had I got the strap or cane, that would have been from males.

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Author:
Marie
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Date Posted: 13:08:50 01/28/21 Thu

#1) from about 5 till 15
#2) hand most of the time remember getting hit with a double up belt a couple of times.
#3) lying, talking back, breaking house rules, smoking, trouble at school, disrespecting my elders and anything else my parents felt that I deserved to be punished for.
#4) always bare unless in public as a "warning of what was to happen if I didn't stop my current bad behaviour"
#5) always over dad's knee mom never spanked me.
#6) no set number but until dad figured that I had learned my lesson.
#7) was usually crying before spanking started but crying never ended a spanking
#8) spankings were always in private
#9) only if I was paddled in school I would receive a spanking at home as well
#10) yes twice once in fifth grade for acting up in class and once in seventh grade for skipping class both times earned me a spanking at home

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Melanie
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Date Posted: 00:52:52 01/31/21 Sun

1) from 3 to 15
2) spatula ping pong paddle
3) Mouthing off and backtalk, disobience, trouble in school, bad pranks
4) Yes
5) over the knee
6) a lot i do not count
7)I start to cry before tzhe spanking start
8) siblings yes.
9) yes mostly for trouble in school
10) No

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Author:
Jason
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Date Posted: 19:22:07 03/07/21 Sun

1. 3-11
2. Hand or belt
3. Disobedience, lying, getting in trouble at school/in public
4. Almost always
5. Over the knee or bent over
6. Unsure, probably no more than 10-12
7. Yes
8. In front of a friend once
9. Yes, on quite a few occasions
10. No, illegal where I was

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Author:
Bob
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Date Posted: 19:33:23 03/10/21 Wed

Questions:
1. what was the age range for your spankings?
6 to 17
2. with what implement were you spanked the majority of the time?
hand and wooden spoon
3. What were common spanking offenses?
being disrespectful to my parents,
not keeping my room neat
getting in trouble at school
poor grades
4. were you spanked bare?
most of the time, sometimes on the underwear,
sometimes fully clothed
5. what was your most common spanking position?
All the spankings I got were over the knee.
6. what was the average number of licks you received?
At least 10.
7. were you usually spanked until you cried?
no
8. were you spanked in front of siblings or friends?
All my spankings were done in private.
9. did you ever receive two or more spankings for the same offense?
No
10. were you paddled or caned in school?
No

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