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Subject: Re: Did you ever compare spankings with other kids?

Gary Steven
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Date Posted: 06:18:00 01/20/16 Wed
In reply to: Jason 's message, "Did you ever compare spankings with other kids?" on 19:21:50 12/08/14 Mon

Yes, most of the kids I knew got spankings and like me it was usually on the bare bottom. Some of us talked in detail (maybe to the point of exaggeration) about how we got it, who gave it to us, what implement was used and how painful it was. Sometimes if one of us got a recent spanking (girl or boy) they would even show their still red bottom. Sometimes with some of my friends we would even reenact the spanking or demonstrate to each other what they were like. My best friend and I often talked about our spankings and as I mentioned we often reenacted or demonstrated what the spankings were like. I got my first "taste" of what a willow switch felt like when he described a spanking his mother had given. We were in his tree house in the same willow the switch came from. He showed me his butt which still had the markings from the switching he got earlier that day. I had only one switching prior to that and it was with a stick, so I was curious as to what a willow switch felt like. He reached out of the window of the tree house, broke off a switch and told me to pull my pants down. I pulled my pants and underwear down to my knees and bent over the stool in the tree house. He really lit me up with the switch. Giving me at least two dozen swats. I didn't cry but I was almost to the point of tears when he finished. Later at home I saw I still had the welts on my butt and backs of my legs. It was a good thing I didn't get in trouble that night, because it would have been a lot of "fun" explaining to my mother why I had switch marks on my butt. It was enough to make me glad that my mom never used a switch on us.

My sister and I also sometimes after spankings would talk about it and on occasions when we got spanked together, we would compare to see who's bottom was the reddest. Mine usually was at least a little, because when we got spanked together, she always got hers first. Plus mine always seemed to get red faster than hers or my brother's either one. My mom even made a comment about that once when talking to my grandmother after giving us a spanking. My cousins and I also shared spanking stories and would show our "war wounds" after getting spanked. They often had much worse marks than we did because my aunt was much more harsh when spanking than my mom.

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Date Posted: 00:33:06 08/07/16 Sun

I always enjoy reading your recollections, Gary Steven. When you were a kid, was the voluntary baring of one's own bottom, for the purpose of showing "war wounds" to siblings, cousins or friends something that parents knew about and didn't mind, or something that they would discourage or even deem punishable? I'm guessing it wouldn't be given much thought if all kids involved were the same sex, but perhaps some parents wouldn't want their daughter showing her recently reddened bum to a male peer, or vice-versa? From what you have described about your family culture, parents didn't hesitate to bare their children's bottoms in front of other kids -- but would the attitude be different if the exposure were the child's own choice, and not under a parent's control?

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Date Posted: 12:02:23 08/09/16 Tue

The question wasn't addressed to me, but I'll answer, too. We sometimes showed each other our bottoms after a spanking. This was particularly true after a switching which were less common (I only ever got one) because the striping from a switching was unusual. The display might be deliberate as in show and tell or incidental if we were skinny dipping or you were wearing short shorts.

I really don't think parents minded at all if young boys showed each other their spankings like this. After all we sometimes saw the actual spankings, and they knew we skinny dipped and swam naked at the Y.

I don't think it was much of an issue between boys and girls when quite young. We ran through sprinklers together naked when quite young (say up to 5 or 6).

I do know that sometime around when I turned 10 and my sister turned 7, Mom stopped spanking us in front of each other. As she continued to spank my younger brother in front of either of us at least until I went off to college (he'd have been 11 then) I think this was more I shouldn't see Maggie than she shouldn't see a boy. I suspect the age 7 "cutoff" would have been lower for a girl who wasn't my sister.

So yes I think there'd have been some trouble if say mixed gender 9 year olds were showing their spankings to each other. And I think it would have been boys gettign in trouble for looking and girls getting in trouble for showing much more than vice versa.

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Gary Steven
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Date Posted: 12:19:22 09/09/19 Mon

Sorry for the delay in answering.

Comparing our "war wounds" was pretty much done in private whether it was the same gender or mixed gender. I guess we were afraid our curiosity would result in another bare bottom spanking. As far as my sister and I were concerned, there was very little modesty between us. Even on the occasions where we weren't both spanked together, we often witnessed each other's spankings since they were almost done bare in the living room or kitchen. We sometimes would play spanking games which did involve bare bottom spankings and my sister was not the least bit bashful about her body. Even in her teens, after I was no longer getting spanked she would still with tears in her eyes come to my room and bare her bottom and ask me how red it was.

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