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Subject: Expectations while getting a spanking.

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Date Posted: 05:29:22 08/10/20 Mon

Did your parents have certain expectations or rules about how you were to accept your spanking or your behavior during it. It wasn't like my sister and I had a set of rules, but ober the years growing up we learned what our dad expected and what earned us additional spanks or at worse a second spanking.

1. No screaming or yelling out. We could cry all we wanted.

2. No saying we had enough or we didn't need anymore spanks. It wasn't up to us to decide when our spanking was done. We could say things like please stop.

3. Hands on the table or away from your butt. We were allowed a quick rub between belt or switch spanks, but it really was just for a second and then you better be ready for the next one.

4. Hold your butt still. When he was ready to give the next one you needed to be still. This wasn't a problem because we hated accidentally spanks to our legs and such.

5. When it's over, it's pants up and go to your room. We were not allowed to jump around, stand there and rub or anything else. We could get ourselves collected and calmed down but we needed to get our clothes back up and go lay down in bed.

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Date Posted: 09:09:30 08/13/20 Thu

Our parents expected us to get and stay in position not move the target we could cry and go owww when the bottom was hit .After the spanking no rubbing or jumping around. If corner time or a early bedtime was giving go right to the corner or bed without arguing .We have the same expectations with our girls .

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Date Posted: 09:32:44 08/13/20 Thu

Generally I took my spankings quite well. When sentenced to a spanking I would bare my bottom and go over the knee without putting up any struggle. Of course I cried and wiggled around during the spanking but this was tolerated by my parents. However sometimes when the pain started to become really intense, I would instinctively clench my butt cheeks together. My parents didn't like this and would stop the spanking and ask me to unclench my bottom, after which the spanking continued with some extra spanks.

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Date Posted: 19:04:16 08/13/20 Thu

The main rules about spankings that applied in my family were:

1.) When you were told you were getting a spanking and why, and that it was time to pull your pants down and bend over for it, you did just that. No continued begging. No bargaining. No stalling. If I did that, it just earned me more swats.

2.) I could cry all I needed to cry. But like you Adam, no screaming or yelling.

3.) I was never allowed to rub my butt during a spanking or even put my hands back and cover. It was party a rule for my own safety so my parents did not hit my hands and so that the swats landed where God meant for them to land. But it also so made if more efficient for everyone involved.

4.) While some squirming was allowed when the tempo picked up and the swats were hard, I was to be as still as possible. My parents understood it hurt, and it was supposed to, but they didn't want me acting like a drama queen about it.

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Date Posted: 07:12:36 09/23/20 Wed

!. We were expected to bare our bottoms when mom told to. Even in public or in front of others

2. Whether it was over her knee or bent over an object, we were expected to bend over when told, right then. Arguing or trying to resist just made the spanking worse and as we got older could result in grounding in addition to the spanking.

3. Once in position, we were expected to stay in position, no rubbing wiggling around or trying to block the spankings. Mom would often say "hold still" or "move that hand" and it would result in a longer harder spanking.

4. Crying was allowed but crying before the spanking usually resulted in mom saying, "I'm gonna give you something to cry about."

5. Unless she told us otherwise, there was usually no after spanking rituals. Although, there were a few times after the spanking mom would tell us to pull up our pants and go to our rooms, most of the time we were allowed to pull up our pants after the spanking and go on our way. If there was an after spanking grounding, we were told to go to our rooms.

There were also occasions where mom would send us to our room prior to calling us into the living room or kitchen to get our spankings. I later learned it was to allow her to cool down to make sure she was spanking us because we deserved it and not because she was angry. That is something I also did with my kids.

I practiced many of the same things when spanking my own children.

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