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Subject: Re: Summer Camps


Author:
Margaret to jean the frenchie
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Date Posted: 15:26:39 11/08/20 Sun
In reply to: jean the frenchie 's message, "Re: Summer Camps" on 10:10:37 11/08/20 Sun

jean, with all respect to you opinion -

it ssems that you are acting like a drill sergeant with your sons : no privacy, no modesty.. - jean, mom of 3 teenagers boys ought to be kind of sergeant but with love

I presume that if you have inspected them from early age, they are now used to that kind of inspection but for the oldest sons it must be nevertheless embarrassing since they are no more small kids and you are inspecting all their bodies including cracks and sides of butt hole while they must bent over and spread their cheeks, nothing is more humiuliating for a male teenager ! - they are boys in family, they are brothers, I'm their mother and regular inspection for boys (even teenagers) is part of motherly care and part of family discipline.

And in front of each other to increase the embarrassment. -
- again, they are boys, they are brothers, nobody ought to be embarrassed to show even his "butt hole" - it's family

The nudidy in front of a mother is not a big deal for sons who have been used to it but the inspection even if it does not last a very long time and is quick is not common. -
- each family has own rules and laws, but I know that almost all mothers from our "Church mothers' club" have the same methods care with their children.

I guess that they never talk about it to their classmates at school - some their friends know about it ans were on sleepovers in our home. For them it's usual motherly care

If you are married,and not a wive, does your husband agree with that kind of inspection, was he inspected like that by his mother at the same age? do you dicuss sometimes with him about privacy and modesty of your sons. - My husband is sailor and absence in home months. However, he agrees with me completely and in his childhood he and his siblings had strict discipline in home too.

you said that it was the same if a friend of one of your sons slept at your home, but I presume that he is not submitted by you to the same corporal inspection of cleanliness than your sons ? - some of boys' friends are sons of my fronds from our Church congregation and we all have opinion that boy on sleepover ought to have the same rules that children in "host-family". If I inspecting one of my older boys in this day (youngest is checked daily), his friend on sleepover is checked by me too. Boys on sleepover are on my responsibility, they usually share beds with my boys and have to have the same hygiene rules

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Author:
Manuel
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Date Posted: 16:20:29 11/08/20 Sun

i have to agree with Margaret.

and i never had a problem with being inspected by Mom or Dad at any given moment or for any reason. they were most welcome to inspect. any part of me. including my crack.

this they also did in front of my sisters. and sometimes, my aunts would ask Mom because they were concerned over their sons. so Mom would let my aunts examine me much to compare me to my cousins. and i never felt forced. and i never hesitated, and i felt no reason to say no. there was a concern there. a concern parents have for their children.

i agree with Margaret.
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Author:
Margaret to Manuel
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Date Posted: 20:09:45 11/08/20 Sun

"...and i never had a problem with being inspected by Mom or Dad at any given moment or for any reason. they were most welcome to inspect. any part of me. including my crack..."

Manuel, until which age did your parents inspection for you?
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Author:
Paula to Manuel
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Date Posted: 23:26:23 11/08/20 Sun

Hi, Manuel,
were your sister inspected by Dad or Mom too or it was boys' privilege only? How often did your parents inspect your butt crack when you were teen - on average - daily, weekly...?
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Author:
Manuel
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Date Posted: 00:10:10 11/13/20 Fri

to Paula

i don't remember Dad ever inspecting my sisters. he was very respectful and usually gave that job to my Mom. Mom had no problem checking the boys and we had no problem with Mom checking us either. my brother and i had no preferences as to which parent. and if a sister wanted to see, she could. and they were never told no. i think Mom may have said something like my sisters one day will have sons. she was right. they do.
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Author:
Manuel
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Date Posted: 22:51:27 11/08/20 Sun

we grew up with family nudity. it was somewhat common for either Mom or Dad to inspect us especially if they thought they saw something or for just about any reason.

for me, i was nude most every day. even the cold days, but when too cold then i would get dressed.

and all this up till i went on to college. 18.

although i would come home on weekends or summers or holidays and i would go nude then, too. we were never discouraged, we were never told no.

both Mom and Dad would get really close looks, and my sisters always joined in to see.
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Author:
Manuel
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Date Posted: 06:03:19 11/09/20 Mon

to Paula

i don't remember how often. it wasn't everyday. it wasn't weekly. it wasn't on any timed schedule. just whenever a parent saw something that concerned them. and usually if one of us was checked out, we were all checked out.
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Paula to Manuel
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Date Posted: 21:13:09 11/09/20 Mon

I see your parents were very smart. Indeed, if all children have inspection together it cancelled any embarrassment and children, despite their age, can show their bottom crack to parents and siblings without any shame. Am I right?
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Author:
Manuel
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Date Posted: 00:06:35 11/13/20 Fri

to Paula

not sure if that was their reasoning. I think its more like "might as well just check everybody while we're at it" type of thing.



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